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i'm Ange, a 19 year old female aussie and i love helping people! I am willing to help with almost any issues you may have... so feel free to ask me. i wont judge you on what you ask so dont feel embarrased. :) but beware! if you ask a stupid question with a logical answer, i will be very blunt... and remember...
*~respect yourself~*

advice

Our first date was tonight---me and this girl...I think i'm in love...is that possible or irrational?

it is certainly possible. but a warning to you. take it slow. nothing like a guy saying i love you after the first date to scare a girl off! just keep it to yourself for now and see where the relationship leads.

angie

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I am a little anti-social and that is because I am used to getting left out and feeling not accepted. so I was talking to two of the few people i do feel somewhat close to a male and a female that i joke with and talk to often. And, they begin to discuss something that happened in one of the dorms and They said that someone was in lets say the dorm cyrna and i said who was in cyrna and the male said nobody. like I wasn't accpeted and trusted enough to know what they were talking about. Do i take things too personally are what? Because it made me feel like we weren't close at all.

maybe they had been talking for a while and didn't want to have to repeat it all. it's probably not personal. chill out a bit and let it slide. if it happens more often then it is personal. sorry i cant be more helpful

angie

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So i did stuff with my ex boyfriend who has a girlfriend then i told her cuz i felt bad about it but i still really like this guy but anyways she wont let him talk to me anymore now..how can i get him to talk..ive tried emailin he wont write back he doesnt see them cuz she deleted them first or he just doesnt write back he knows my voice on the fone so he hangs up wen he knows its me and hes always with her wen i see him ..i really need to get some answers from him, but i cant get him to talk..any idea?

honey, you should learn the most important dating rule, never go back. he is an ex for a reason. and if he cheatin on his girl with you, what makes you so sure he wouldn't do it to you if you did end up getting back together? your best bet is to leave it alone. let him have his life and find yourself a new guy.

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Im 15 year old female :) and im getting my eyebrow pierced any pointers for cleaning it and what should i expect as far as pain wise?

here are some pointers... personally i recomend you get a barbell as it doesn't stretch the skin as much. Clean the piercing in the shower every day. it's good to soak some salt water into a clean cotton wool ball and apply it to the piercing for 2-3 minutes or until any crusting is dissolved. It's important to remove all the crusting because it can concrete on the jewellery and tear the inside of the wound causing pain and inflammation. Rinse with fresh water and move the jewellery very gently to ensure that there is no crusting remaining. pat it dry so it doesn't pull it out or tear the skin. basically you just need to be careful. dont change your piercing for 6 months.

hope i was helpful!

angie

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there's this guy patrick and me and him got really close over winter break... too close, we even made out... so then i told him that i didn't like him "like that", he acted really cool about it but then the next time i saw him he called me a fatass a bunch of times, said that he hated me, and threw my cell phone in the snow.

the next day he texted me on my cell and said hey whats up, so how're you, exc.

then after him doing this for about a month he told my friend that he hated me and i was a stuck up b****, and i f*** with people until i get what i want.

but, he still texts me and says that i'm beautiful and stuff... what should i say to him?

Well for starters, i wont say your horrible for kissing him. these things happen, wether you liked him that way or not. sometimes you just get caught up in the moment and dont think. about the texts. he is obviously taking it badly. if i was in your position i would just say that i couldn't be friends with him anymore. it looks like the only thing you could do to make him be nice is date him and you said you didn't like him that way. unfortunately you cant be friends with a guy that likes you. i've tried many times and it doesn't work. even if he's nice about it you have to watch what you say! just tell him to leave you alone.

hope i helped!

angie

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i sooo wish i lived in australia! you lucky duck! i live in California im 13 and its almost 1:30 at night here how about for you? America gets a little boring id love to live outside the states! do you use words like "mates" and stuff like that?

Yeah i love australia! i live in Cairns which is a gorgeous place! we have the great barrier reef to one side and the rainforest to the other. it's great. and i do say mate, quite often! i dont say d'day much but my dad never stops! it's 7.40pm here. still early. i used to wish i lived in america cause you guys dont have to wear school uniforms! i hated them! if you are ever planning a holiday i would definately recomend australia! anything else you'd like to know?

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i'm a 16 year old paranoid female. a couple of days ago a tiny bump (the size of a zit) appeared on my right breast. i didn't think much of it, but now there are a five on my left breast as well. they definitely aren't zits. they're harder and are all on my areolas. they don't hurt to the touch, but i have no idea what they could be. i'm scared, but i don't want to blow it out of proportion if it's nothing big. somebody help, please. ): thank you.

Seriously, it could be anything, but any doctor will tell you 'better safe then sorry' book into to doctor and get it checked out.
even if it's nothing, at least you know.

angie

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ok i tried googling this but nothing came up. its a song and it starts out like "everywhere i go everything i see, i know you'll be right there smiling back at me."

does that seem familar to anyone? do you know what its called? thanks alott.

it's janet jackson's together again :)

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how do i allow others to find me on here??
my girlfriend cant find me and wants to see my advice column?

just tell her to search columnists and put in your name. it will come up straight away.

angie

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hi! im 16 turnin 17 soon and im going to be the maid of honor in my sisters wedding and she asked if i was going to write a speech and im not sure...i mean i really want to because then it would be special. her best friend is also in the wedding and she is going to be the matron of honor and its either one of us will write the speech or the both of us could write a speech. i thought she might want to write it more than me because she is more creative in writing then i would be. what kinds of things could i write? if anyone has written a speech for their friend or family member in the wedding then please help out! please and thanx

oh yeah im very shy and i have a hard time talkin in front of people.

the best thing to do is be sweet. i know people say to try be funny but down. it'll be a complete flop. just say how happy you are. my sisters 21st party was huge and i did a speech. i hate speeches too but i wrote a poem. it made it easier.although she started crying then i cried. we all cried. lol. but it was good. from the heart. just speak from the heart. if you REALLY cant do a speech, do a photo collage or something. when they ask you to stand up. say something like 'i wish you all the best and love you so much, we all do. and give her the collage. i dunno. up to you.

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sorry, this is going to be a bit long :(

okay, so i asked this guy to turnabout (he doesn't go to my school and he's a sophmore) (im a freshman). i only aksed him becuase one of my friends wanted me to. this girl went to homecoming with the sophmore. (and the sophmore still likes this girl) since then, she has gotten a boyfriend,...our age, and our school. the only reason this girl wanted me to ask the sophmore is becuase she wants then both there for turnabout, so she can feel loved, and the most special. (it might sound like im makin this up...but im not...if u knew her, you'd understand.)

the only issue is....i don't even like this sophmore guy...not even as a friend really...he's kind of awkard and "geeky". my friend basically tricked me into asking him. she and her boyfriend came over to my house, and so did the sophmore. she made up a plan to have me ask him...but i was clueless until it happened. (we were playing ping pong and on the paddle, it said "homecoming?". he said yes, and now i'm stuck with him.)

i REALLY wanted to ask the guy i have a crush on (i think he might like me too--i hope!!), but now that i was tricked into the date...i can't, and that would've been the perfect oppertunaty to start a relationship. AHH!! what should i do?? break the date and risk hurting the sophmore's feelings and my friends??? or just stick to the original "tricky" date, and keep my crush, a secret??

(i'm really really really really shy, so what should i do??)

sorry again this is so long!!

you need to tell your 'friend' that you really want to go with your crush and that because she got you into this mess, she can sort it out. i almost went to my formal (prom) with my best mate cause i didn't have a bf at the time - i got asked by a guy i liked and told my friend. he said to go for it and i'm so glad i did. i woulda had fun with my friend but a dance is a thing to go to with a guy you are really into. do what you gotta do to have fun - you wont have fun with this guy you dont even like. your friend should be more considerate.

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22/f

Ok I I love to do karaoke and I met this really cute guy *Kurt there a couple weeks ago. He is really nice and is good to have conversation with. when i met him I thought he was like 21-23 yrs old. He looks really young. Turns out he is 31.That didn’t really bother me like I think it should have. We have kissed a couple times but nothing more then that. Is this wrong of me? Am i too young to be doing this? I could really use some advice on this!!!! Please help!!!!!!!!!

Go for it honey! age doesn't matter! my friend is 19 and she's been with her 30 year old boyfriend for a year. they are totally in love and are engaged! age doesn't matter! also, it's a fact that males mature later then females so it actually works out better to date an older guy. good luck girl!

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he keeps staring at me! like in homeroom sometimes he'll be like "durene", or I just notice that someone is staring at me, and then I look and see him. He does it on purpose, and its kinda freaky because I dont even know how to respond! Im like.. "okay.. why do you keep doing that?" and then before I'd laugh or something but he'd still do it which is awkward. maybe hes making fun of me? or trying to be my friend? i dont like him like romantically, but maybe he things I might... but I dont really think he likes like that since hes more popular than I am. It doesnt seem like he's really like being mean to me because he's not like that to most people. but what do I do? and I've asked people, and they dont know why he does it too. I saw him do it to some other girl, too. what a weird guy, lol.

Try staring back at him. that way he might be the one feeling uncomfortable.

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alright

well my girlfriend's best friend told me last night that my girlfriend is grounded for 4 months and isn't allowed to see/talk to me for who knows how long. 1- i don't know why i got brought into this- she's grounded for using her neighbors wireless internet to talk on aim when she's not supposed to use aim, and 2- what should i do? i care for her WAAAYY too much to just say "hey, you fucked up, so now i'm dumping you"- i don't want to dump her. i absolutely love her, and she's amazing and beautiful and sweet, but if i can't see her or talk to her, how are we going to have a meaningful relationship? i'm very perplexed by the whole thing...

Best thing to do is to wait. you cant expect her to get into more trouble by seeing you. you sound like you really love her so hopefully waiting will not ruin the relationship. not much else to do. good luck

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Every time I turn on my computer it re-boots its self so EVERYTHING on it is deleted expect certain programs.
My iTunes is on it and it delted ALL my songs.
My AIM is on it and it delted my screen name.
Same thing with other programs..
Anyone know how I can fix this without paying a lot of money?
[It's not a REALLY old computer, four years]

sounds to me like a virus, get a virus program and scan the computer to see if it comes up with anything.

good luck

angie

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k, so i'm going to the mall this week, with a BUNCH of guys. & I know were gonna eat there, because they said we would. for like dinner, & i'm not entirely sure on what to get.. I usually go to that steak potato or whatever the heck its called, lol I know i'm off, but oh well. Anyways, & i just get a smallthing of fries. But, i heard that makes your stomach get bigger?! like.. how quick does that happen.. what else could I get at the mall?thats like small.. I don't want to look fat.. but I don't wanna look anerexic. [I used to get teased all the time that I was] I just actually, don't really like to eat alot. So, what should I do?!

eat what you usually would eat, guys like a girl who can eat a propper meal! it'll be fine, you dont bloat that quickly!!! have fun!

hope i helped

angie

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i told my crush i like him i think he likes me to but he has a girlfriend so i fell inside that i want to make his girlfriend suffer but i dont know if its a good idea or bad

Never do that! if he likes her, there is nothing you can do about it. he'll hate you if you break them up and it's not what he wants. just give it time. find out where you stand with him and then you know what to do

hope i helped

angie

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me and my boyfriend had sex on sunday. it was only like for 2mins long without a condom. when he got his penis out he cummed. did some of it stay in me? what should i do?

There is a possibility you are pregnant, for future reference, use protection! if you get too excited and 'forget' take the morning after pill. for now, wait until your period is due, if you get it woohoo! if not wait a week and get a pregnancy test. that is when it's most accurate.

hope i helped

angie

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What are some cute little things i can do for my boyfriend. We've only been dating about 3 months, so its nothing THAT serious..but i want us to last..

Any cute things i can do? like notes in his locker and stuff like that?

Thanks a bunch!

Notes are a good idea, you can also visit him unexpectedly and give him a little cupcake or something. or organize a picnic, just be sure not to do too much - dont wanna freak him out!

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When a guy says
" you were moaning like a bitch"
is that good or bad?

every guy i have known has said they love moaning. but he doesn't seem like a very nice guy! a bit blunt!

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