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situation turnabout
sorry, this is going to be a bit long :(
okay, so i asked this guy to turnabout (he doesn't go to my school and he's a sophmore) (im a freshman). i only aksed him becuase one of my friends wanted me to. this girl went to homecoming with the sophmore. (and the sophmore still likes this girl) since then, she has gotten a boyfriend,...our age, and our school. the only reason this girl wanted me to ask the sophmore is becuase she wants then both there for turnabout, so she can feel loved, and the most special. (it might sound like im makin this up...but im not...if u knew her, you'd understand.)
the only issue is....i don't even like this sophmore guy...not even as a friend really...he's kind of awkard and "geeky". my friend basically tricked me into asking him. she and her boyfriend came over to my house, and so did the sophmore. she made up a plan to have me ask him...but i was clueless until it happened. (we were playing ping pong and on the paddle, it said "homecoming?". he said yes, and now i'm stuck with him.)
i REALLY wanted to ask the guy i have a crush on (i think he might like me too--i hope!!), but now that i was tricked into the date...i can't, and that would've been the perfect oppertunaty to start a relationship. AHH!! what should i do?? break the date and risk hurting the sophmore's feelings and my friends??? or just stick to the original "tricky" date, and keep my crush, a secret??
(i'm really really really really shy, so what should i do??)
sorry again this is so long!!
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I think that your friend put you in a very awkward position..I know a person like your friend shes actually my girlfriends bestfriend and I don't like her at all but anyways...its unfair that she is sticking with her ex-boyfriend just so she feels loved..There's three ways you could go about it...tell the sophmore from the other school that u decided not to go...he wouldnt know if you went or not he doesnt go to your school or just tell him you dont want to go with him,that all you guys are, are friends and you believe when you go to a dance you go with someone whose more then friends...or you tell him the truth that you were tricked into it...
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tell the sophmore that you didnt want to go with him that your friend did that and not you so you just went along with it because you didnt want to hurt him but theres someone else you'd really like to go with and sit your friend down and have a talk with her about it so she knows that she cant just walk all over you.
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you need to tell your 'friend' that you really want to go with your crush and that because she got you into this mess, she can sort it out. i almost went to my formal (prom) with my best mate cause i didn't have a bf at the time - i got asked by a guy i liked and told my friend. he said to go for it and i'm so glad i did. i woulda had fun with my friend but a dance is a thing to go to with a guy you are really into. do what you gotta do to have fun - you wont have fun with this guy you dont even like. your friend should be more considerate.
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