Hey!
I live in Canada and I'm teen. I've been through a lot of stuff with my friends over the last few years and I always try to give my insight into their problems (sometimes even when they don't really want it lol).
I've realized that over time I have accumulated a lot of questions about moving on, so if you have a question about that, lay it on me!!
I don't think that ratings matter, and that you should choose someone to trust your question with, that will answer it with care, but show you what the world really is and wont sugar coat it.
I hope you guys find my advice helps, hope to talk soon!! :D
Angie
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My ex boyfriend (I'll call him L)and I went out for a month last year, and broke up becuz we were just acting like friends (it was our first relationship). Anyway, we are a rare case, because we just got ridiculously closer and its exactly a year today that we were together; we talk everyday, and he is almost like my best friend, only more. Anyway, i never completely got over him. I honestly love him. Not in love, but i do love him so much. We connect in a way that I never have with anyone. And i know he loves me too, we make a cute couple and balance each other well, but two months ago, i told him that i still had feelings for him and he told that we should just be friends. Anyway, my guy best friend's good friend J likes me alot, and I am attracted to him,but I cant see myself with him, because I still like the other guy. So, last night, I asked L for advice on what to do: whether I should give J a chance or not (because he is the only one who could give me a true answer). And he gave the sweetest advice, that if I saw myself with him than I should give him a chance, but if I cant than maybe I shouldnt. I told him that he (L) would be fifth wheel if I went with J (becasue my guybest friend, his girlfriend, me and L...and now J hang out alot). And he told me not to worry about him, and be selfish for once. Then he quietly asked if I liked someone else, why i was so unsure about J...and I didnt want to answer(because of course I like him). There is nothing wrong with J,but I love L, and I want us to have another chance. We are perfect for each other. We are always flirting with each other, and i love the way he talks to me. He said I brighten his day. Should I give J a chance, or try to give it one try with L again (mind you, he might not even want to try it again.) I want L to know that I do love him. I just dont want to get rejected again. But I dont think I can be with J unless..
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Hey!
Well this is a pretty complicated matter you're dealing with. Its hard to get over people, and L seems to be really important to you, but what you have to realise is that if he told you that you should just be friends then thats what he wants. When you went to talk to him about J he gave you really good advice. he's trying to help you move on. It's been a year, maybe its time. but if you dont think it is, dont use J as a way out. You dont seem to be thinking like that but some people do.
The reason you are having trouble picturing yourself with J is because you are still holding on rather tightly to the image of you and L. The only problem is, L doesnt seem to be holding onto that image anymore, so maybe you need to let go too.
Sometimes a good way to move on is to find someone new, but if you think that your relationship with J would just be compared to your relationship with L, always wondering what it would be like with L, then thats unfair. Unfair to you, and to him.
You said that you wanted to see if you could try it again with L but you dont want to get hurt. I think that you need to do it. I think that you need to go and tell him the whole truth. tell him that you're not over him and the only way that you can totally move on is to know that there is no chance that you two can ever be together. By talking to him the first time that should have done that for you (when he said he didnt mind being the fifth wheel, telling you to be selfish, he wants you to be happy, to move on) but it didnt, and thats okay, but you need to know. you need to know that there is absolutely no chance. that he doesnt feel the same way. once you know the truth you can move on and see that J is a great guy and he may be even better than L. You havnt given him a fair chance yet, and maybe once you know forsure that you cant be with L you can give him that fair chance. I know you dont want to be hurt again, but sometimes you need to get hurt a little.
its kind of like you're stuck between a rock and a hard place, but you have to think positively about this. You have a great guy who is a great friend to you, who you've had some great times with, and who wants to see the best for you, and you have a guy who is new and exciting, but you just arent ready to see that yet.
Good luck, try and find your closure! I hope that you can figure this all out, and I hope that I helped. Let me know if you have any more questions. Lots of love!
Angie
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Well to start off i'm 17/M and my girlfriend is 16/F
About 6 months ago we met online and we liked each other from the start. Around four months later we figured out a way to meet..Which was really hard because I live in Virginia and she lives in Connecticut. So we met at a hockey game for her birthday..Well we really loved each other in person so we decided to go out and figure out a way to make this work for us. Around a month later, during Christmas break, my dad let me take a train to CT to spend a few days with her. Her family liked me and we had the best time ever. The problem is..I had hopes of going to college in CT so I could be closer to her and the distance would no longer be a problem. Well my dad says he wants me to go to a community college down here for a year or two then transfer to a 4-year college, and he said that is the only way he would help me pay for it. Well I would do anything to be closer to her and go to college in CT but my dad said i would have to pay for room-and-board, the out of state tuition, and food, and all the other expenses i would have. I'm not sure how i would be able to do all that on my own..but i would do anything for this girl because i love her so much. And she says she doesn't think she would be able to handle a long distance relationship for another year. Please help me..I don't know what to do and i can't lose her, we're so perfect together and I've never loved anyone like i love her. (link)
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Hey!
First of all, I'm canadian, so I dont know how far CT is from virginia, but I can imagine from what you're saying that its a long ways away. I think that you should listen to your dad though. I know thats not what you want to hear but hear me out. If this girl really loves you, she can handle it for a year. College is really expensive, and you dont want to start your life off with a debt. My parents arent paying for my tuition, and you dont know how worried I am about having to pay for it. If your dad is willing to pay for your community college tuition and you dont have to live in a dorm, then take him up on it!!! I know you're thinking kay, this chick is an idiot, I want her to tell me what to do about seeing my girlfriend!! well heres what you have to do. Get a job. Work your ass off as much as possible and start saving up. Either you'll make enough to eventually move out there, or at least have enough to visit, but college is a big deal. dont screw it up. I know you may think that you will be together for ever, but if you move out there and you break up, then you're screwed. and on the same boat, if you dont move out there and you're scared she'll break up with you because of it, if it was meant to be your love would last through it.
Some people dont believe in long distance relationships, but I do. I think that if you find the right people then you can make it work. But remember, you're still young, if it doesnt work out ( :( ) well you have the rest of your life to find a great girl who it will work out with. But try and think seriously. This is your life you're talking about. Dont screw it up. Listen to your dad okay, I'm sure he knows what you're going through, but I'm also sure that he knows whats best for you. I know this isnt what you wanted to hear, but hopefully you made it through this advice and take what I said into concideration. I hope you figure this all out, and I hope you dont hate me for my advice. Good luck with all of this, and I hope I helped. Love ya!
Angie91
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breakupp a month ago. he broke up with me. i liked him too much. lost any self confidence i had. HATE where i live. friends suck. some are moving next year. dont have an endless supply of friends so having friends leave is bad, even though they get really annoying. grades going down. family is annoying. cant think. help?!
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Hey!
Sometimes crappy stuff happens in life and we all have to try and find a way to get through it. Sometimes getting over the crappy stuff is harder than actually going through it. But I have some advice that I hope will help.
First of all, with the ex. Remember that relationships end. boys come and go, maybe you arent ready to move on yet, but you need to get over what ever happened. Try writing about how you feel. I keep a journal, not because it helps me to remember my life (its not THAT interesting) but more because I feel that by writing things down it helps to slowly figure everything out. That will help, I gauruntee. So give it a try some time.
As far as the self confidence thing, try and figure out why he broke up with you. If you have to, call him up and find out (Closure will help you move on) because theres a good chance that it had to do with like him liking someone else or something. Guys can be idiots. but what ever it is, remember that its not your fault. There s a like 99% chance that whatever it is, u couldnt have changed it.
Second, do this exercise. Go look in a mirror and write down as many amazing things about your self as you can possibly think of (Try and write down like 50) and then get artistic. Either write them on a peice of paper, or make seperate ones and put them around your room, but do something so that when you have a bad day you can sit down and think hey I have nice hair. or hey at least I have a great sense of humour. I can tell you that it works. Then every day try and pick a different one to tell yourself. As you're getting ready in the morning, think wow, I have th prettiest eyes. Complimenting yourself will really help.
Dont compare yourself to people. If someone else has the same top as you, dont think she looks better than i do. Think, hey that girl has the same sense of style as I do... meh.
And finally, join some kind of class. Acting or drama would be great. it will help you to get out there and put yourself on the line. You'll make friends (which you say you need) and your confidence level will soar! Trust me, I've done it!
Write a list of all of the things in your life that you can change and a list of all the things you cant change. Then devote your time to doing things to change the changeable ones (Ie study to bring up your grades) and try and accept the ones that cant be fixed. If you work on accepting them, then you can begin to see the okay things. Try and be positive. Like if you think your family is annoying, well at least you have a family that loves you. It wont fix your problems, but if they cant be fixed anyway...
I know that your life kind of sucks right now, but it will get better, I promise. I hope that some of this stuff helpped, but if it doesnt, let me know, I have a billion tips, and some of them have to work. Good luck, I hope I helped. Love ya,
Angie91
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13/f
I have two friends and they are really cool and everything but my friend (lets call her C) has been getting annoyed with (lets call her J) because C tells me that J always is talking about her problems and everything and thinks that the world evolves around her. So C told J about it but in a more nicer way than it seemed and obviously J got upset. J is mad at C now and J is talking about C also. So they both are my friends and they want me to take their sides. I just want them to be friends again and me and the rest of my friends won't have to deal with this anymore. (link)
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Hey!
The biggest thing is to remember here is not to get in the middle of it. If you get in there and try to reconcile their relationship, then problems will occur. I was in eighth grade a couple of years ago, so I remember what its like. I remember the drama, and the fights. it feels like they will never get over it, but they will, and fast. So dont worry about it. Tell both of them that you are both of their friends so it is not okay to diss the other one in any way. If they dont listen tell them again to stop and if they dont listen again, get up and leave. them talking about each other may make them feel better, but that is just going to make everything worse. Tell them taht you refuse to take sides, and when they say thats not fair, tell them that yes it is fair, its completely and totally fair, and that they should be happy that you are being a good friend and not taking sides. Tell them that sometimes you have to be the big person and forgive the other one, well maybe they wont listen, but thats the kind of advice to give. Dont set up senarios with them like what to say if she says this, I made that mistake. My friends would try and take my advice and screw it up and make everything worse. be very general when saying things. Just tell them to try and talk it out, or whatever.
I can tell you're a really good friend, and you're cvoncerned for your friends, but every friendship goes through trials and tribulations when youre in about 7-9th grade. I remember all of the stuff my friends and I went through. Let me know if you need more advice, because I've lived through it, so I know you can too. Good luck, hope I helped, love ya!
Angie91
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13/f
My brother is 10 years old and he bugs me so much! I know everybody has to deal with this but I want it at least a little easier. Well he only comes in and starts talking to me about something random when I'm on the phone. Then when my friends come over he wants to hang out with us. But when I'm not doing anything like that he just would leave me alone. Except for when I am on the computer and he tries to take it from me. I don't bother him or do anything when he is hanging out with his friends but I don't know how to deal with this. (link)
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Hey!
I dont have any younger siblings, but I have a lot of cousins I have to deal with all summer long, and one of my cousins is eleven now, and last summer he was soooo annoying. At the beginning of the summer I would go out of my way to like ignore him, but I learned over time that he just wanted attention. So I tried to give it to him, I would invite him to play videogames with me, or ask him to show me how to skip rocks etc. (we were at our cabin) by paying attention to him when he wasnt acting out, it encouraged him to give me my space when I was busy. I sat down with him one day too and told him how I felt about the things that he did that annoyed me. and I know that sometimes boys dont understand that and dont take it well, but if he continues doing that kind of stuff, ignore it. Pretend it completely doenst phase you. once he realizes that he cant get a rise out of you, he'll quit doing it. When you have friends over, tell them that he's annoying, and warn them. then when he comes just put up with him for a bit, and when he has had enough, he'll get out. but if you get into a huge fighting match or he sees that you are embarrassed by him infront of your friends, he'll continue.
Remember he's at that age where he sees you moving on, where as he is probably stuck with the same friends hes had since kindergarten doing the same things he's been doing for the longest time. Hes probably alittle kjealous, and if you treat him as if he's not your ten year old brother, maybe he'll treat you with respect.
Hopefully that helps you out, but if it doesnt, let me know I might have some other ideas. Good luck, love ya,
Angie91
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ok thanks Angie well some other stuff happened last night my boyfriend wanted to talk to my dad cause he tired of my dad not liking him and i told him dont waste his time cause my dad is the type of person who really doesn't care what you have to say its what ever he says it goes so he so my B/F got mad cause i told him don't do it so he stop talking to me so came to my house last night to give me my id for work n he had this teddy bear in his hands that i gave him a long time ago and he said he didn't want it anymore cause it reminds him of me n he gave it back i said if you don't want it throw it away so he gave me like two big teddy bears a while back n he asked for them back i said ok wen i was giving them to him he was like no i want you to keep them never mind i don't wanna take it i said no u asked for them i'm giving it to you then he left.... but then he keep calling me later that night but i ignored it what do i do???? this is getting to out of control n i really love this boy he just wont accept the fact my dad wont like him n i just wanna get pass this (link)
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Hey!
Well I think that you really need to sit down with him and talk to him. Ignoring him at first was probably the right thing to do, because that way you could kind of get past the anger and stuff. but now its time to get together and solve this. I think you need to tell him that you are not playing games. you are serious about your love for him, and that thats all that matters to you. tell him that talking to your dad isnt going to change anything, and that he just has to accept that. Tell him that if he doesnt think he can do that, then stop screwing with your head and leave for good. I know that thats not what you want to happen, but in order to move on, you cant have things like this hanging over your head and if hes going away for three months, then you cant spend three months wondering whats going to happen. tell him to be straight up with you, and tell you where his head is at. Tell him that you have confidence that you can get past this whole thing with your dad, but that thats not going to happen if he keeps stopping talking to you and getting mad. remind him that this is your dad you're talking about, you know him better and you know the best ways (if there are some) to get through to him. Remember that this isnt something that will get solved in a few days, its a long term thing. talk to him about that and let him know that you're in it for the long run, but you arent so sure that he is. Hopefully that will show him how you're feeling. I know that right now it kind of feels like things are out of control, but dont worry, time will heal things. I'm here for you if you need anything else, and let me know how it goes. I hope things start to work out a bit. Good luck!
Lots of love,
Angie91
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ok me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year a some months and we really love each other he loves me i love him. but the problem that we've been having for a while is the fact that my dad doesnt like him and hes mean to my boyfriend. my dad jus says its somethin about him he doesnt like but i think my dad is only like that cuz he doesnt like seeing me wit my boyfriend and this causes us to fight and argue all the time. it gets to the point where my B/F doesnt wanna talk to me for about 2-3 days he doesnt want to come around my house. but other then that my boyfriend and i pretty much kno wat we want to happen wen we get over the whole issue we keep having.. hes leaving to the navy next month and after 3 months of boot camp hes gonna b stationed in jacksonville and he wants me to come live with him n i want to SOOOO BAD. i hate living in my house and i wanna leave so bad but wat im scared of is wen my boyfirend gets back from bootcamp r we still gonna b together he says he wants to get married wen he gets baq n i come move with him but is it gonna still be that way wen he gets baq n how do i tell my parents im gonna live wit him i kno for a fact that there not gonna b ok with it. but its my life n i feel if i do it im gonna b happy about it but then i dnt kno?????? wat should i do i want my relationship to be good but its not :{
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Hey!
Well I sense a tiny bit of uncertainty in your writing. maybe its just because you're confused about the entire situation, but maybe its something more. my best advice would be not to decide for sure about moving out just yet. see where you are when he gets back, go visit him in jacksonville and then decide how you feel about moving in with him.
I think that the biggest reason that you are so unsure about what is going to happen in the future, is that you are picking up on your parents uncertainties. as humans, we tend to feel guilty when not doing exactly what we are told by our parents to do. I would talk to your parents about it. tell them that you arent sure yet, and you're going to see where things go, but you are contemplating moving to jacksonville. tell them that them liking him is really important to you, and there isnt anything they can do, you dont need their approval but you would love it if they could just find it in their hearts to accept him. Try and be as mature about the conversation and fight all urges to storm out of the room or yell. if this is a serious issue, treat it seriously, and hopefully they will too.
Talk to your boyfriend about the fact that all of this is bothering you. tell him that you hope that one day he and your father can get along and tell him that you're commited to him, and that you arent going to let what your parents think get in your way, but that they are important to you.
And lastly, make sure that everyone knows how you feel about this situation. hopefully if they know that you want this all to work out, they'll try to help you out. I hope this helps, let me know if you need anything else. good luck! hope everything works out, love ya,
angie91
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My son is dating a girl who, I feel, is very spoiled by all the material blessings that have been bestowed on her lately (a new BMW, a $l,700 ring from her Dad, A Birthday party with a limousine and dinner for l5). It's not so much the fact that she has received these things, but, that there have been big changes in her personalilty because of it.
I was doing her nails (I am a nail technician) and after l0 minutes of hearing all about this extravagant party and the limo and the ring her dad was about to buy her, I kind of "got all over her case" about how she would feel if her and my son ended up together someday and he could not provide all the material things that she so loves for her. My husband and I are people who live paycheck to paycheck and these things big presents are not something we can do. I guess that is why I started talking to her about this, because it bothers me that we cannot provide all this materialism for our sons. We also had just gone through a legal crisis involving my older son who got into a situation where he was accused of doing something he did not do and was arrested for. It cost us $l3,000 to get a lawyer. The case was dismissed, but the bill still stays the same. So, I guess this is why I came down sort of hard on her, because I basically said that she was spoiled to her. It seems to me that all she cares about are her designer bags or shoes or her horse, or her car or her jewelry. Maybe because it came all at once it seems to be so much. Like I said, it's not the stuff as much as it is her attitute since she got all of this. She got mad because my son couldn't get her a $200 handbag for Christmas.
My saying something to her was proably wrong, but I am concerned for my son. I also feel guilty in a lot of ways because I can't be as generous to my children. But, I don't want him to be in a situation that will make him unhappy where he has to cater to her material whims. She is really bossy and pushy with him. Everything has to be her way no way.
I know I should keep my opinions to myself, but it is too late, I already told him how I feel. Then the worst happend...my son did not hang up the phone when I was talking to him about her and she heard me say that the "last car accident she was in could have been avoided if she had more experience". She had two accidents last year 6 months apart and totalled both cars. Both technically not her fault. I could be wrong, but it was just an opinion.
I feel bad about saying things about her to him, but, I can't help feeling this way. I know I cannot fix this can I. They have been dating two years. I don't want them to break up. I just wish she would go back to the sweet person she was when we met her two years ago.
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Hey!
well I think that you should just think about all of this for a second. You can not change people, so no matter how much you talk about it, she isnt going to one day be less "spoiled" or less "Materialistic". No matter how often you tell her how you feel she isnt going to change, shes just going to hate you. No matter how much you voice your opinion to your son, he is not going to change the way he feels about her.
So were you wrong interfering? yes. its their life, and as much as you love your son and want the best for him, he thinks she is best for him so you either have to be happy for him or accept that this is his choice.
So how do you keep your opinions to your self? well first off, before you ever open your mouth to say something think of the classic saying: "if you dont have anything nice to say, dont say anything at all". It may be something you would tell your son, but sometimes we can benefit from our own advice. and second think of how she is going to take what ever you are going to say. sure there isnt always a lot of time to think about this kind of stuff, but think before you speak. think, is there any way she could take this the wrong way. and finally, think of how you would feel if she was saying this same thing about you. if it would hurt you, then dont say it. treat people the way you want to be treated.
remember, this is the girl your son loves, theres got to be something great about her.
I think that the best way to respond to this situation and move on, is to apologize for anything you have said. Even if you dont feel like its your fault, be the big person, you're a mother, you can bring yourself to be strong.
I hope that you can mend the relationship between her and you, before it gets unbareable. I also hope that I helped, but let me know if there is anything else I can help you with. Good luck, lots of love,
angie91
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so i have a shiny forehead and its a LITTLE oily and i have tried using blotting sheets and even face powder to cover up the shineness in my forehead and that still doesnt work. what should i use to get rid of the shinyness in my forehead? (link)
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Hey!
Okay, I'll tell you what I do to get pretty good skin.
First I use Oxy pads to clean out my pours. Then I use St. Ives cleansing products, the apricot scrud is really good. that not only cleans out your pours but it also replenishes the skin with the vitamins and other important things it needs to stay healthy, then I use clean and clear's night time moisturizer to finish up. It moisturizes your skin and makes you feel nice and cool before you go to bed. In the morning, I either use Clean and clear's Morning burst product, or use more st. ives in the shower. if its stil shiney, but not oily, try the powders again, or talk to your cosmetician in your local department store. They can point you towards something that will work for you. If nothing works, then make an appointment with a dermatologist. Usually the shiney forehead means that something is wrong, and if regular cleaning regimes dont work out, then maybe something is more serious.
Now you dont have to use all of the products I mentioned, but what ever you do, do not change up your plan more than once or twice a year. It takes up to four months for your skin to adjust to new products, so dont change it up every few weeks. if the bottle on the products you use say use every two days or something follow that, but stick to the plan! it should be worth it! :) Hope I helpped, and I hope your shiney skin goes away! Love ya,
angie91
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i have some more hair questions..
why does wet hair get damaged when you blow dry it?
also, does spraying chemicals (heat protecting spray nevertheless) damage hair in the long term? i think i'll just air dry hair for a little while then blow dry it when its only a little damp and so my hair wont have to spend a long time under the blowdryer?
some blowdryers blow out cold air. is that okay for you? because no heat and it gets the job done! i think it is another good solution except i get headaches from that. (link)
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Hey!
The reason your hair gets damaged when drying it is because hot air dries out your hair (which is good in teh short term but horrible in the long term). Your idea about letting it air dry first is awesome. Giving yourself a little extra drying time, and your hair will thank you. As far as I know spraying chemicals really doesnt do anything, and chemicals arent really all that great for you or the environment, so I would talk to your hairdresser before spraying anything on your hair, instead opt for a conditioner that moisturizes, or even a hair moisturizer.
As far as damaging your hair for the long term, its unlikely, just remember to go get your hair trimmed every 3-9 months depending on how fast it goes and how split the ends are.
as far as the cold air driers, I dont think its necessary, it will probably do about the same amount of damage, but talk to your hairdresser, they probably know best.
Hope that helps, let me know if you need anything else,
love ya,
angie91!
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Ok, I really like this boy, by the way were both 15. At first I felt nothing for him but now that I've been around him, he's very nice and smart, I really like him. But, ever since I began liking him I haven't really had a conversation with him. I just want to know if he likes me and how to get him to know I like him. Please do help I think I really like this guy. I've never had a boyfriend before and I think he might be my first. (link)
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Hey!!
Well this is something that most people have difficulties with. Basically, you have to find the happy medium between completely avoiding each other and overdoing it. You dont want to scare him away but you want him to know you exist. Am I right? The best way to do that is to make a point of going over there and talking to him. Its going to be difficult at first, but try and find little things to talk about, like gee that math test was tough, what'd you get for the last question? or Wow its cold outside do you know what the temperature is. Try and say something that is part of a two way conversation, not like its cold in here. Because there isnt much he can say to that.
As far as seeing if he likes you, there are a few different signs. First look at his body language when you're talking to him. are his arms crossed (a sign that hes closed off)? is he looking at your eyes or your chest or past you? Is he trying to make pleasant conversation too, or does he find a way to make every conversation one worded?
Work on talking to him and hopefully it will go on from there. If it doesnt, let me know, I'm always willing to help!
Thanks so much for choosing me, I love to help.
Oh and one last thing, it shouldnt matter your races are different, if it does, then he's not the right guy!
Hope I helpped,
Love ya,
Angie91
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13/F
Is it bad for a kid my age to watch porn? I mean, I just look at pictures of naked ANIME characters. I think it's funny. Me and my friends always make fun of it. is it bad? I mean, it's only ANIME porn! It doesn't sounds bad... But I justed wanted to know is it? Um, also, please don't anything rude. I don't like rude peeps cuz they're... well... rude, so yea. Jus ttell me if it's bad or not. I mean, the pictures don't really show much. They cover the guys bottom half.
I'm more comfertable by the way, watching anime porn then ACTUAL porn. And, I like GAY ANIME PORN too. Does that mean, I'm a lez or something? I hope not... PLEASE HELP!!!!! (link)
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Hey!
It's all about what you feel confortable with. If you think that its okay, then it probably is. It's not "wrong" unless it says rated 18 or whatever, but even then, ratings on stuff like that can be pretty standard and not really truthful.
I think that if thats what you like then thats what you like.
And no, watchng gay porn does not make you gay. You would know if you were a lesbien. Like the person below me says, you're just curious, and when you're a teenager thats what you go through.
This summer I watched 40 year old virgin with my younger cousins. They were just curious and I felt bad for letting them watch an R rated movie with me, but they just wanted to know what goes on in other places than in their relationships. Its basically your way of learning.
So basically, heres what I would say, if you see yourself watching it too much, then its a bad thing, you're addicted... but If you watch it casually once in a while with your friends its fine. If it bothers you, then its a bad thing. If you're doing it to be cool, then its wrong, but otherwise, its all good. Hope I helped, Love ya,
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what is camel toe? how do you get it?, if you can (link)
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camel toe is that buldge in your lower abdomin that you see a lot of elderly women or people with excess fat on their body have. It's not really a sexual thing lmao, but thats okay, how were you supposed to know. :P.
How do you get it? I guess by gaining wait. Just keep a good body mass in tact and you'll be fine, and even then, its not thaaaaat big of a deal, its just not really all that glamourous, lol. Hope you get what I mean, if you don't let me know lol. Hope I helped, Love ya,
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do you need help with how to use a computer?well i am here to help. write me if you need help. (link)
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um... is that a question? why didnt you just put that in your page?...
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what are the first 2 songs they play in the club in the movie Knocked Up?
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off the top of my head I can't think of them but IMDB has the soundtrack listings so you can look through that and see what songs sound familiar. Hope this helps, love ya,
Angie91
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so im 14/f im being hannah montana for halloween =]
haha i know that like every 6-12 year old girl is being her as well but whatever.
How can i look like her for halloween?
i have brown hair btw.
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well lmao, I never watch hannah montana, but I think that you pretty much know who she is even if you dont watch her show on tv lmao.
Wear alot of pink lip gloss, with prolly, pink eyeshadow, either a bright coloured jacket, or a jean jacket, and a pair of jeans with a coloured tank top underneath. Oh yeah, like everyone said a blonde wig, and some kind of boots. black or white I'd say. and like the tall ones that go to almost your knee.
Go to google and look at some pics of her that'll help. seeing several of her pics should give you some more ideas. Have fun girl, hope I helpped,
Love ya,
Ange
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Mk so i'm 15 and i'm not really that strong..i can prolly bench like 40 pounds if i really tried..and i was just wondering if its cute when girls are all weak or if its better if they're strong. Like how much should a girl be able to lift? (link)
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well it kinda depends what you're going for, if you are acting like the petite tiny little type, then bench pressing 40 is fine, but if you're going for the sporty atheletic type, then I'd say, keep at it.
But remember, its not important how much you can bench press, its important whats inside, and if you cant physically bench press anymore, and that bothers you, then keep practicing, but if you're cool with it, then make everyone else cool with it too. lol.
Hope I helped, love ya,
Angie91
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i am on the jv squad at my high school. next week, my coach will be choosing a captain and a co-captain. we have to write a one page essay on why we should be captain, get a teacher recommendation, and show good leadership skills. i think i would be great as captain, but i am really worried. two girls are planning to make/buy stuff for all the cheer coaches, sort or as a bribe. i am worried my coach wont realize its a bribe and let them be captain or something. also, there are some other good leaders on my team. anyways, what can i say in my paper to really convince her i would be good! i have experience and i am a motivated, good leader, but i feel like i need more. also, she said she will be watching for who is being a good leader throught this week until next week. what things can i do to show that?? i want this so bad! THANKS SO MUCH!! (link)
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I'm awesome at essay writing, first of all, you need to tell her that you have a real passion for cheerleading and that you know that the team will benefit from you being the captain. Tell her what you told us, that you're experierenced, motivated and a good leader. Tell her all of your good qualities: energy, devotion, independance, good work ethic. tell her that you love cheerleading and that you would make a really good captain because...
three main things to remember when writing a pursuasive essay are:
1. be pursuasive, dont say things like IF you ... say WHEN you, or I THINK, say I WILL.
2. Be poliet, but firm with your reasons for making a great captain a good example would be. If you make me the captain, I will work my hardest to be the best I can be
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If you choose me to be the captain then I can work hard and try to be the best I can be.
3. Have a great closing.
The closing can be the hardest part but it really is simple in theory, you need to leave them thinking. An example would be, I can't imagine a year without me as the captain, can you?
If you let her know how hard you want this, but putting that effort into the essay (which means dolling it up; putting it on pretty paper, making a cover, putting it in a duotang, having no gramatical/ spelling errors etc..) then she'll knwot aht you are serious about this and you really want it.
Heres what you need to remember, if you go into it worrying that the other girls will win her over with their bribes, then you had might as well not even try, but if you think positive and only imagine the teacher saying your name, then you'll acheive it. Think positively girl, I mean, you're a cheerleader right?
Good luck! I know you'll make an awesome cheer captian! let me know if you need anything else, love ya,
Ange
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me and my 3 friends really want to do that. we are considering making our own. does anyone know of any stores that sell CHEAP (less then $20) go go boots, like the white ones they wear? also, if you know any websites that have clothing on them, like purple tank tops and skirts, and the rest of the colors. i have looked on like target and walmart and forever 21, and they dont show any boots like that, or any colored skirts and tank tops. thank you so much any advice would be very appreciated! oh and also, we dont want very skanky ones like they sell. we would be wearing them to school..and possibly to parties, so they can show a little skin but not tons! 16/f if that helps at all :D (link)
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well I wants to be a cowgirl this year, and I couldnt find any cheap boots anywhere. So my friend dragged me to Value Village, I don't know what they call it in the states, lol, but you know thrift shops, and I found a perfectly good pair of boots for like five bucks. They were like practically brand new, and maybe you wont find exactly what you're looking for, but what if you spend a lot of money on your costume and can only wear the boots a couple of times.
As far as the skirts and tank tops I'm trying to think of stores that we have in cananda, that you also have in the states... like you can try Old navy for the skirts, I've never bought a skirt anywhere else. lmfao. and tanktops, I always buy mine at smart set.. but I dont think you have smart set in america... hmm. did you check walmart for the shirts and skirts? walmart is so random you could prolly find something there.
do you have a white belt? that will really add to the costume. A thick one with a large loop really looks cute.
And in the pics I've seen of fanta girls they often have either the like sixtys go go boots, or the lacy up heels, which may be alittle easier to find. I dunno. I'd say google it, and maybe you'll get some ideas. try costume stores for odds and ends, and if it doesnt work out, there are millions of other costume ideas out there and theres still three weeks till halloween. Good luck, and have fun, hope I helped, love ya,
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I have absolutely horrid allergies. Everytime the seasons change I'm out of commission for a few days, or else struggling to make it through the day.
I'm currently using Flonase, twice a day like you're supposed to. It works for mild things, like year-long triggers (cats, dogs, oak, etc) but doesn't do much when the pollen count is really high, like now.
Problem is, I can't go on anything else. I tried to take Zyrtec a few years back and had a not so fun allergic reaction in the form of puking my guts out constantly (Yeah, not fun) so I refuse to go on anything else of the sort.
So I was hoping someone can help me out! Any natural remedies, foods, or even herbal supplements? Any help is appreciated! Thanks in advance, and I will rate! =] (link)
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I have pretty bad seasonal allergies as well, but what I would recommend is seeking medical treatment. I went on nasocort, which I think is like flonase, and I got nosebleeds, so my doctor took me off of it, and put me on non prescription drugs such as aerius and reactine. and they work really well. But if its a sinus allergy I highly doubt there are non medical remedies. I would suggest getting allergy tested and talking to an allergy doctor, because I have a weird sinus thing and I have to get a CT scan, so it could be more than just an allergy and doctors have seen it all, they probably know what to do. Things I do when theres alot of pollen in the air are:
- Wear a doctor's mask when cutting the grass, or sitting outside
- close up the windows and doors
-put a wet cloth over my eyes.
those may work, but if you google it, you may get more answers. I hope that helps a bit, love ya,
Angie91
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