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ok thanks Angie well some other stuff happened last night my boyfriend wanted to talk to my dad cause he tired of my dad not liking him and i told him dont waste his time cause my dad is the type of person who really doesn't care what you have to say its what ever he says it goes so he so my B/F got mad cause i told him don't do it so he stop talking to me so came to my house last night to give me my id for work n he had this teddy bear in his hands that i gave him a long time ago and he said he didn't want it anymore cause it reminds him of me n he gave it back i said if you don't want it throw it away so he gave me like two big teddy bears a while back n he asked for them back i said ok wen i was giving them to him he was like no i want you to keep them never mind i don't wanna take it i said no u asked for them i'm giving it to you then he left.... but then he keep calling me later that night but i ignored it what do i do???? this is getting to out of control n i really love this boy he just wont accept the fact my dad wont like him n i just wanna get pass this
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Well I think that you really need to sit down with him and talk to him. Ignoring him at first was probably the right thing to do, because that way you could kind of get past the anger and stuff. but now its time to get together and solve this. I think you need to tell him that you are not playing games. you are serious about your love for him, and that thats all that matters to you. tell him that talking to your dad isnt going to change anything, and that he just has to accept that. Tell him that if he doesnt think he can do that, then stop screwing with your head and leave for good. I know that thats not what you want to happen, but in order to move on, you cant have things like this hanging over your head and if hes going away for three months, then you cant spend three months wondering whats going to happen. tell him to be straight up with you, and tell you where his head is at. Tell him that you have confidence that you can get past this whole thing with your dad, but that thats not going to happen if he keeps stopping talking to you and getting mad. remind him that this is your dad you're talking about, you know him better and you know the best ways (if there are some) to get through to him. Remember that this isnt something that will get solved in a few days, its a long term thing. talk to him about that and let him know that you're in it for the long run, but you arent so sure that he is. Hopefully that will show him how you're feeling. I know that right now it kind of feels like things are out of control, but dont worry, time will heal things. I'm here for you if you need anything else, and let me know how it goes. I hope things start to work out a bit. Good luck!
Lots of love,
Angie91
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