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OK I know you get a lot of these questions but 1 more can't hurt! I cheated on my boyfriend of 5 months and I think he has a girlfriend. He gave me 3 chances and I messed them up. We're good friends. My question to you is should I forget about him? I'm always thinking of him and he moved on so quickly. I don't know if I want to move on so fast. HELP!! (link)
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He didnt move on fast enough. He should have been gone after the 1st time you messed up. Maybe if you would have been thinking about him while you were cheating on him, youd have a clear conscious, and you wouldnt be here asking what you should do!
1ce a cheater, always a cheater!
He was smart hun to move on, i think you should too.
Good luck! Theres always a price for cheating!!
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ok . i like a guy named evans ( he's in 9th grade and i'm in 10th grade .)anyways how can i tell if he likes me ? he smiles at me alot .
- i_love_seamus_finnigan_ (Anna) (link)
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Hun> people smile at people ALL the time. It doesnt mean anything.
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alright.. not to gross anyone out, but i have a question. so i'm 15 & sexually active & have been for about half a year. well, me and my boyfriend stopped using condoms but when we dont, i guess you could say i "spit it out", but im not talking about with my mouth. i'm wondering, does anyone know why i do that? (link)
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You stopped using condoms? Is there a reason for this?
It only takes a few good sperm to fertilize an egg, the rest isnt needed. It has to come out the same way it went in.
girl, your just asking for trouble by not using a condom!! Having sex at a young age means being responsible, not stupid!!
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I'll try to make this short...
Ok I have this friend..yea we use to talk. We talked for like 7 months then this other girl started to like him and then one day someone told me they were together so I asked him. He wouldn't answer me so I went and asked her and she said yea. So I was bein a bitch..and yea me and that guy stopped talkin...ok so nothing has changed between me and him..we stuill hung, kiss and talk, we jsut don't have that "title" anymore..yea NOW he is going out with her..but only to piss me off...he regrets going out with her and he tells me he loves me and wants to be with me. The thing is he doesn't break up with girls. yea but I have to do something to prove that I love him and I kno what he wants...1)for me to play with his dick..or 2)give him head...I am NOT doing #2 and i don't think i feel comfortable with #1...yea but he says that if I want to lose my virginity to him ((which I do)) then I would have no problem playin with his dick. BUT how does that prove I love him?? I just don't kno what to do...HELP ME!?!?!?! (link)
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That guy is a total loser. Dont do what hes asking. That is the lamest thing ever. He only wants pleasure, not to see if you love him. That is not a sign of love, sorry hun!!!
Move on, and find a guy that will respect you. Hes only using you, he doesnt like you.
Tell him to play with himself seriously, and that your not his little whore, and that you dont love him if thats all he wants from you.
Hun> find yourself a real man!!!Hes a user, and an abuser.
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backround info: my boyfriend dated this girl jessica, i dont know how long they dated but they did date for at least a few months! this was at least a year ago because we have been dating for a lil over a year and it was before us. he was her first kiss and stuff.
now out of the blue she is calling him and he told me that they always talk during jazz band (class) and my friend justin said they always go in this dark room to talk and sometimes this other kid goes in there with them but its usually just them. this girl told my boyfriend that she likes him and she thinks he likes her. he said that he just wants to be friends. (im going off of everything he told me). then for his bday a week ago, she made him cookies... he said he asked her to get him something for his bday and she had cookies left over so she gave them to him but there were a lot of cookies in there so idk. the girl is constantly at his locker and talking to him and HE sits by her at lunch ALONE TOGETHER and she calls him and they talk for hours at a time. everytime i come around she leaves. i dont know what the hell to do but its not going away. i tried talking to him and he said that he doesnt wanna feel like he cant be friends with her. how do i deal with this cuz im ready to just bitch her out and be really really mad at my boyfriend because hes going with it and allowing it to happen. thanks in advance! (link)
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wow, hes being a really good friend!! Seems to be giving her alot of his time too.
She obviously wants him back, and he knows this, which would indicate that hes cool with it.
I think i would keep on top of the situation, by having close friends you can trust watch them when youre not around, and let him know how you feel about her always being around him. If he loves you, he would back off of his 1st love.
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what is a way that you could be understanding if your boyfriend makes out with another girl while your going out. like how can you be a pacifist..saying like "well i trust him and i know he still loves me" or something idk (thats why im asking)
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Pacifist? how about NAIVE! thats what you are> A boyfriend who makes out with another girl is called a "Cheater". Theres no other way to define it!!!
Trust? how can you trust some1 like that?
Sorry hun> You need to dump this 1! He did it 1ce, hes gonna do it again, because hes getting away with it!
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I like my best friends X. They just broke up and it was only 2 months but i still cant like do that to my gurl. and the guy is still like in love with her how can i get him to see me?n not have my friend get hurt or mad? (link)
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how would you feel if your best friend wanted your ex after you and him were through? Of course shes gonna be hurt.
If he hasnt noticed you already....Im afraid hes not going to. For 1 thing, hes still in love with his ex!! Just because theyre not together doesnt mean he wants to jump into another relationship right away. He needs time to grieve and get over this 1 if its truly over!!
Give him time and space, and id suggest talking to your best friend about how your feeling about her ex.
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Ok im 14 and a girl and i really need help.
I dont have a boyfriend, because we just broke up but we will probably get back together.
I think about sex alot and get really horny. I know its normal, but it drives me nuts because I dont know what to do! My guy friends always talk about how the jack off and it makes them feel good, and i always wonder if i masturbate, will it feel good too?
I want to be able to do something about it because Im growing up and i want to be mature without having sex. What do i do? (link)
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Thats a good reason NOT to have sex.
Theres nothing wrong with masturbating. Itll cure the horniness!!
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okay so my boyfriend && i have been going out for 9 months now... he's a great boyfriend .. he has his days but i guess my dad doesnt think he respects me *thats just my dad trying to be protective* but anyways he wants me to give him head.. ive told him that im not ready bc i am only 14 but like he keeps on trying to get me to do it- i know that if he respects me he will understand but a part of me wants to && feels its the right time... number 1 i dont know how.. && number 2 i dont know if i should. am i too young and what would you do.. no smart ass comments either please keep them to yourself but i rate high (link)
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Any guy that respects a girl, doesnt keep pressuring her into doing something shes not comfortable doing, or doesnt want to do!
Just because he keeps asking, would be 1 good reason for you not to. Hes just thinking about himself!
The fact that youre not ready is a "no go" indication that you probably shouldnt. Dont feel like you have to just because you want to please him or not make him mad. Thats not a healthy relationship.
When your ready, its because YOU want to, not because some1 else wants you to!!
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i am seeingt his guy an for the first week it was goin great. we were mates before an decided to get to no each other better an to see if we would be good as more than just mates. but after the first week i stated seeing him less an less now i only see him like once or twice at the weekend and sumtimes not for two weekends. we haven't been seeing each other that long and we only text or talk online to sort out when were meeting but he dosnt always have cred and he isnt always online. my mates tell me to ring him but i dont want to cum on to strong or anythin as we are only seeing each other. and i keep thinking if he wanted to see me then how cum he dosnt get in touch with me. but when i see him he always says he has i good time an wish we could of been togher longer. i am also i little scared of calling am quite shy an i dont want him to say no to meetin up. he also is older than me and goes out with his mates alot i dont want him to get mad with me if i ring when he is with them. i just dont no what i should do. x ps sory that it is abit long
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ok, first of all learn your english! You kind of sound like a pirate from England!!
He probably did have a good time when you were together, but now it sounds like the fun has come to an end.
If he wanted to meet up with you, he could, and he would.
You could either call him, and see whats up.. or just let him be, and see if he calls you.
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I like this boy ALOT! and we were going out but now his going out with this girl i REALLY hate!! i mean shes a total WHORE!(so to speak) I just dont understand. is he trying to make me mad? or is he over me? (link)
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well he either went for her because you werent giving him any, or YOU dumped him, so she is his rebound!
Sorry, but you didnt give us too much to go on.
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I know a lot of people can relate to this. My first time was wit my "First Love". We broke up like 4-5 months after my first time. I mean now I regret it or whateva but can I actually get my mind back to thinking like he's not really my first because my cherry didn't bust. He didn't put it all the way in. I mean I really dislike him. Is that bad? Can someone help me to get my mind off of it. Please no DUMB, Smart answers, if you have a smart comment then keep it to yourself because I am already hurting in the inside and to come on here and get jugded by ppl I don't know is even more devastating. THank you (link)
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hey hun im in the same boat as you. My ex and i did it, and he was my first, but i didnt let him go in all the way either. I thought i was the only 1 that did that. My moms words were always in the back of my head! I still consider myself a virgin yet because my hymen is still intact.
It hurts, and its gonna for a long time. Its been year for me, and im still not over it. I went through, the "i hate him" phase, to "i still love him" phase. I dont think that there is a way. The only thing that helps me get through it, is knowing HE DIDNT TAKE MY VIRGINITY!!! i let him know that too!!
Hang in there hun! Someday you will find a guy whos truly worthy of you.
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Would you consider being fingered, given a head and gotten eaten out 'sexually active'? Or is that just sex? (link)
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Totally!!!!
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ok there is this guy. i talk to him on the phone every night. i really like him and i know he likes me too cause he said it to me on the phone yesterday. i had a secret i wanted to tell him which was that i liked him. he was trying to get the secret out of me for days. and everytime he would always say "you only have one life to live, so live it to the best," cause he didnt want me to be afraid of telling him the secret. so i told him and hes like, "well i like you too...where do we go from here?" and i said i dont know and there was silence for about 4 seconds lol. then he kinda chnaged the subject and after a while his mom was yelling at him to get off so we had to hang up. i can't help thinking about that "one life to live" thing though. should i ask him out? the only problem is that he isn't really allowd to talk to girls. he told me that if his mom answered then to pretend that he had the wrong number or just pretend to be a guy lol. but if his dad answered then it was ok. so i dont really know what to do. does this mean he won't ask me out? i really really really like him and i really want to go out on a date with him. what do you think, should i ask him out or wait until he asks me? (link)
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well hes being apprehensive because of how his mom feels. Doesnt sound like you would have much of a relationship though if his mom doesnt allow him to even talk to a girl, let alone have a gf!!
Has he ever had a gf? Just ask him how his mom would feel if he had 1. His mom sounds like some1 from the the dark ages. I mean she doesnt allow him to talk to girls? Thats the lamest thing ever.
By the way, how old are you and him?
I think in your case, i would wait on the asking out. I dont think hes going anywhere, so you have nothing to worry about there.
Just talk to him about his feelings on the subject. Thats all you can really do at this point.
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ok. so i made out with him.
and it was unthinkable amazing.
he usually calls 2x a day just to say he's thinking about me, leaves notes in my locket, sweet stupid stuff. it's like a long weekend and he didnt call so
i had 2 call him the night after. fine.
its been 3 days since then.
he hasn't called. ouch.
why?
am i that bad at making out?
or is it something to do with him?
plz just tell me the truth...even if it sucks.
id rather know.
thanx. (link)
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was that the first time you made out with him? If it was, chances are you didnt make a good impression. If he really liked you after that, hed still be calling you. maybe he just completely forgot about you.
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ok how do u make out seriously and is it all its cracked up to be or is it nasty plz be honset i dont want to go through with doing it if were both gunna think it was grosse and umm wat do i do with my hands and wat should he do with his
thnx sooooooo much (link)
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You sound pretty young if youre asking if making out is nasty, or gross! Hopefully when it does happen, youll be doing it with some1 you like! This kind of question isnt something people can tell you how to do. Its like when it happens, things just come naturally, (without thought) to what youre doing, as far as where do you or him put your hands. (where ever you want)!! Every1 has there own preference on how to do it!
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Hi. I'm 13/m and my sister is 14/f. Last night she was IMing a friend from another state who said he wanted to have sex with his girlfriend. Then they got into a discussion on why it's right or wrong to have sex before age 16. My sister believes that she should wait until she is 16. I belief any pre-marital sex is wrong, and I refuse to lose my virginity until I am married.
Later in their conversation (I was being a little brother and looking over her shoulder) he said that my sister's boyfriend wants sex too. My sister said no, but the other guy was just like "ooooooo yes he does". Then I remembered that theory that all a guy ever wants is sex. Hence, the song Punk Rock 101 by Bowling For Soup: "She thinks that it's love, but to him, it's sex!"
I don't trust her boyfriend. I've transferred a call to my sister, and he really didn't sound all that great. Also, my sister refuses to let me meet him in any way. He can't come over, because I just can't meet him. I tried to IM him. My sister told him to block me. What the hell?
I'm afraid of two things: number one, does he want sex? Saying no is probably harder than it sounds... and number two, will this change her image of him? Will she be consious of the fact that he may or may not want sex? I know if I were in her shoes, I would. I don't know... I'm just worried for her... (link)
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Are you sure youre only 13??
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hi, this is a common question i know...BUT...how do you make out. im soo nervous that i will mess it up and get a reputation as a bad kisser! that would suck...a flippin lot. so yea but do you do to make out..with your mouth..and yeah..
thanks
bye (link)
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We cant tell you HOW to make out, you just do it. Its called "learning". We all have to experience something once to know how to do it. Its like saying "hoe do you have sex?" (It cant be explained).
Youre not gonna be considered an expert, the first time. Things take practice. Not everyone kisses the same. Some will always be better at it, and some wont, even if theyve been doing it for years.
Just go with the flow hun, and youll be picking up on it in know time!!!
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Hey ok, I like this guy and when we hangout we act like we really like eachother but he is known to be a player and always asks me to do stuff with him and i dont, but yet he still hangs out with me.... do you think he is just going to keep trying to get some and doesnt really like me, or do you think he actually likes me because he sticks around? (link)
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Do you think guys like that jump on their victim right away? He hangs out with them, is nice to them, so the girl thinks he likes her, the moves in on the kill. If you keep saying no, hes gonna move on, i guarantee it.
Trust me. Keep saying NO!!
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There is this girl I like at work. She seems really cool and it seems like we have alot in common. But she says she has a boyfriend for 7 months. What are some ways that I can get her to leave him and date me? I know its bad, but I think there is a chemistry there. (link)
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yes it is bad>Dont go for a girl whos already involved with some1. It doesnt matter that u might have some chemistry with her. Theres hundreds of girls out there. I dont think youd like it if you had a gf and some guy wanted her, because he thinks they have chenistry!!
Back off and find a girl whos SINGLE!!!
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