backround info: my boyfriend dated this girl jessica, i dont know how long they dated but they did date for at least a few months! this was at least a year ago because we have been dating for a lil over a year and it was before us. he was her first kiss and stuff.
now out of the blue she is calling him and he told me that they always talk during jazz band (class) and my friend justin said they always go in this dark room to talk and sometimes this other kid goes in there with them but its usually just them. this girl told my boyfriend that she likes him and she thinks he likes her. he said that he just wants to be friends. (im going off of everything he told me). then for his bday a week ago, she made him cookies... he said he asked her to get him something for his bday and she had cookies left over so she gave them to him but there were a lot of cookies in there so idk. the girl is constantly at his locker and talking to him and HE sits by her at lunch ALONE TOGETHER and she calls him and they talk for hours at a time. everytime i come around she leaves. i dont know what the hell to do but its not going away. i tried talking to him and he said that he doesnt wanna feel like he cant be friends with her. how do i deal with this cuz im ready to just bitch her out and be really really mad at my boyfriend because hes going with it and allowing it to happen. thanks in advance!
She obviously wants him back, and he knows this, which would indicate that hes cool with it.
I think i would keep on top of the situation, by having close friends you can trust watch them when youre not around, and let him know how you feel about her always being around him. If he loves you, he would back off of his 1st love. [ angelfire2708's advice column | Ask angelfire2708 A Question ]
starminder answered Tuesday November 1 2005, 4:18 pm: Show him that you are way much better than this peice of trash Jessica. Act like the world revoles around you when she is there. Remind her that he is your man. i know this sounds cruel but kiss him in frount of her . she cant say nothing because he is yours this will teach her. Flirt be sexy around him he'll love that.lol
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