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Question Posted Sunday October 30 2005, 1:07 am

ok. so i made out with him.
and it was unthinkable amazing.
he usually calls 2x a day just to say he's thinking about me, leaves notes in my locket, sweet stupid stuff. it's like a long weekend and he didnt call so
i had 2 call him the night after. fine.
its been 3 days since then.
he hasn't called. ouch.
why?
am i that bad at making out?
or is it something to do with him?
plz just tell me the truth...even if it sucks.
id rather know.
thanx.


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lulabelle answered Sunday October 30 2005, 9:28 am:
No, it is not you. It could be that he is out of town or something and is unable to contact you. If he didn't go out of town, then, it could be that it wasn't as good for him as it was for you. Which could mean he is one of those guys who loves the thrill of the chase and once he's caught you he's done. That doesn't mean you aren't any good. It means he is looking for specifics, which makes him very rigid in what he is looking for. You wouldn’t want to be involved w/someone like that anyway. They would always be telling you how they want you to be and you would always be falling short. I know it hurts, but it doesn't hurt as much as it would if you got involved deeply with someone like this. These people are usually charismatic and very sweet while they pursue you, but life with them is forever filled with ups and mostly downs. You may be very lucky. Or, it could be that something else has happened to make it impossible for him to call you. Whatever the answer, don’t worry. You are a wonderful person. He would not have gone after you in the first place if you were not. Don’t call him again. If you don’t hear from him again within a week move on. There is definitely something better out there for you. This could simply be an experience that will show you how lucky you are when you meet that exceptional person.

Good Luck!

LULABELLE

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angel0098 answered Sunday October 30 2005, 3:08 am:
he might be busy doing stuff and not had a chance too call you. if not he might be seeing someone else... if he is then he is afraid off telling you.

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angelfire2708 answered Sunday October 30 2005, 3:04 am:
was that the first time you made out with him? If it was, chances are you didnt make a good impression. If he really liked you after that, hed still be calling you. maybe he just completely forgot about you.

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honestymatters answered Sunday October 30 2005, 1:48 am:
Dear Ahhhhh,

Maybe he went out of town for the weekend. Maybe something came up suddenly that was out of his control. Do not immediately assume it is you. Give him a couple of weeks to contact you. DO NOT KEEP CALLING HIM. It is a turn off and shows that you are clingy and desperate. If he hasn't been in touch with you in 2 week, blow it off and go make out with someone else. Joking, on that last part, get on with your life if he has not called in 2 weeks.

Sincerely,

Honestymatters

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