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my "friend with benefits"


Question Posted Tuesday November 1 2005, 5:53 pm

I'll try to make this short...

Ok I have this friend..yea we use to talk. We talked for like 7 months then this other girl started to like him and then one day someone told me they were together so I asked him. He wouldn't answer me so I went and asked her and she said yea. So I was bein a bitch..and yea me and that guy stopped talkin...ok so nothing has changed between me and him..we stuill hung, kiss and talk, we jsut don't have that "title" anymore..yea NOW he is going out with her..but only to piss me off...he regrets going out with her and he tells me he loves me and wants to be with me. The thing is he doesn't break up with girls. yea but I have to do something to prove that I love him and I kno what he wants...1)for me to play with his dick..or 2)give him head...I am NOT doing #2 and i don't think i feel comfortable with #1...yea but he says that if I want to lose my virginity to him ((which I do)) then I would have no problem playin with his dick. BUT how does that prove I love him?? I just don't kno what to do...HELP ME!?!?!?!


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Additional info, added Tuesday November 1 2005, 5:58 pm:
I am 15/f and a sophmore and he is 16/m and a junior...if this helps...oh and he is a virgin too...but he has gotten head a lot....

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angelfire2708 answered Tuesday November 1 2005, 7:13 pm:
That guy is a total loser. Dont do what hes asking. That is the lamest thing ever. He only wants pleasure, not to see if you love him. That is not a sign of love, sorry hun!!!

Move on, and find a guy that will respect you. Hes only using you, he doesnt like you.

Tell him to play with himself seriously, and that your not his little whore, and that you dont love him if thats all he wants from you.

Hun> find yourself a real man!!!Hes a user, and an abuser.

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Razhie answered Tuesday November 1 2005, 7:05 pm:
This boy is scum.

He has said he will love you and be with you if you if you do sexual things for his pleasure that you are uncomfortable with.

Oh and he doesn't dump girls. He just plays with them, leads them and pressures them to do sexual things with him.

I repeat this boy is scum. Stupid, evil, horny scum who thinks he can get some from you if he just keeps leading you on.

Stop trying to prove you love him because he doesn't love you. Someone who loves you wouldn't date someone else, lead you on, try and make you jealous or pressure you into any sexual activity.

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