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Okay, So I'm 15 years old,a girl. Sophomore soon to be Junior this fall. I met this guy in theatre awhile ago. We'll call him A. He's 20 years old now. I have liked him for so long and I've had a feeling he liked me too. So one night he came over for dinner and my parents really like him. He also asked me to the movies before then, but my dad was not going for it. So we talk on the phone occasionally text alot. Then the other night we kind of told eachother how we felt. He actually likes me too. We just know this age thing isn't going to workout. Also, he's transferring to another college in the state in late August. So I was wondering what I should do. I mean the next day after we talked. We hung out. We kissed. Alot. So I'm just wondering how I should go about this. I've never fell for a guy this hard. This sweet and such. I just don't want to be more hurt when he leaves then I would have if nothing happened at all.[BTW he's not like a pedaphile or anything. I know he's old and all but nothing like that.]
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Hey there. I personally feel like age is just a number, it really just depends on how mature he is, or immature he is. Or if your more mature for a 15 year old. When I was 16 I dated a 24 year old, and everyone I knew disagreed with me dating him. He was VERY immature for his age while I was a little bit more mature, so we kinda met in the middle but my parents still thought he was a pedofile and stuff.
Anyways, even though he is going to another college I would still try and see him if you can. Maybe you could go to the movies with a bunch of friends and invite him as well. Your dad may feel a little bit more comfortable since you'll be with a large group rather with just him. Maybe if you invited him over for dinner again sometime soon, you can let your dad know that you are both interested in each other if you're not too embarassed or anything, and maybe he'll be all for yall going to the movies. Just let him know the movie theater you'll be going to, the movie, and set your own time for being home. Say that you'll be home at an early time for the first date, so you're not asking too much and he'll probably say yes.
Good luck and I hope that you both find what you want in this relationship. I'm sure your dad will come around, it's hard for a dad especially to let his daughter start dating, even if he's a few years older then you!!
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ok so i wasnt on my period before all this happen ive had multiple little periods this whole month of may because i was on birthcontrol so a couple days ago i was like i dont want to be on it any more im done i hate HATE having my period and im not having it anymore so i got off it after a while month of being on it so it was two days i havnt been on it and i had sex with my boyfriend with a condom!!!! so ya im good. but hey right before he comes we hear a snap ya and then he cumed oh ya right after the snap now we are the people who go people who say condoms break are a load of bull we use a certain kind all the time but he was out so we used his friends where he got at a local clinic and there crap becuase we always like stretch condoms and they NEVER break like so when it broke we were like oh my god no it didnt we laughed actually i cant beleive it broke and i just JUST got off the birthcontrol now we tried getting the abortion pilll but mind you its a friday like 5 and planed parenthood was free but by the time we got there it was closed and they are closed on weekends so great we are trying to get the pill on monday hopingly. but any way later that night i started bleeding and it just ended now he might have knicked something but it could be because i just got off the pill idont know but i was just wondering if theres a chance of me still getting prego. any thing will help just answer!!!!! (link)
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Hey. It's not the abortion pill, it's the morning after pill & if you can get that then you should definitely do so, tomorrow on Monday.
I'm sure that if you've previously had these little periods since you've been off the pill then, this one probably doesn't mean anything. I honestly would not worry too much if I were you. But, if you can I would go to a doctor or Planned Parenthood to see why this is happening to you. Obviously it may be because you just came off the pill, which happens to a lot of people - but it's better to be safe then sorry. Plus it'll help you not worry too much about being pregnant because I doubt you are!!
Anyways, yeah - go get that morning after pill tomorrow for sure & maybe see if you can talk to a doctor there, because they'll make you feel a bit better if you talk to them about it! They won't be able to test you, for pregnancy, since you just had sex on Friday it would take like two weeks until you'd test positive if you are pregnant.
I'll cross my fingers for you that you're not! & good job for being safe. Condoms break and everyone goes through a pregnancy scare at some point in their lives. Good luck :0)
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Do you get your period if you get pregnant the day before you are due to get your period? (link)
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Yes, it has happened. Usually though women are more fertile 14 days after their period and 14 days before their period starts. So the chances of someone getting pregnant the day before their period is very low, but still possible.
So, if you get a period you may think you're not pregnant, but your next period you may miss!
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Hello,my name is Salynda.I really like this boy named Conner.But I think he likes one of my friends Harly.So here is my qustion for you how do I get him to like me enough to go out with me? (link)
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You can't really make him like you. You can do things that can try and attract him to you. If you don't already talk to him on a regular basis then you need to try & do that. Grab his phone number, text him, do whatever you can to try & talk to him whenever you have a chance. And see if there's any attraction there whatsoever. Then, if there is yall can go out, like on a date or maybe not even that formal just hang out with a bunch of friends at once and concentrate on him.
After then if it seems as though he's interested in you tell him you like him and see if the feelings are mutual.
Make sure that when you're talking to him, you seem really interested in the stuff he's saying even if he's not. Like, I liked this one guy & all he ever talked about was his mom, so I would like listen to him talk talk talk and talk about his mom for hours and I would just ask questions about his mom and stuf haha - maybe I did it to myself. either way, the one thing that is important to a guy is if you're a good listener and you can carry on a good conversation.
Good luck!
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what are those exercises that make your boobs bigger??
im a 34 A
even though im only 13 i want them bigger!!
lol but seriously do they work??
have you tried them?
PLEEEEASE get back 2 me (link)
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There are absolutely no exercises to make your boobs bigger. It's sad but true. You can make your boobs tighter and more firm by exercising and stuff. But that doesn't sound like what you want. You're only 13 - wear a wonder bra or something and wait a few years, I'm sure you'll go up in size by then.
Been there done that.
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i smoke weed but im not depressed or anything like that (i think...)
but i do it SO much and i smoke alone
why do i do it??
and is it seriously that bad...
thanks,
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Honestly there's a million reasons why people smoke weed. It's not necessarily a bad thing that you smoke alone, I know plenty of people that do that - just because it makes them feel relaxed or better. Marijuana isn't addictive, but the psychological aspect of wanting to feel the way you do high, can make you addicted in the sense that you'll want it all the time and stuff. I wouldn't worry about it too much though, unless of course you're trying to get a job or something like that - then you should probably try and completely stop, but other then that keep smoking!
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The pill and the morning after pill
are they the same?
Because I swear both of them stop your period , so they must be the same?
And as for the pill, when does it wear off? (link)
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No they are far from the same.
The BC pill is used continuously over a period of time, to prevent you from getting pregnant. And, it doesn't stop your period. Sometimes there are those advertisements on the TV that explain that you only get 3 periods a year or something like that - but even then it doesn't completely stop. And it really depends in how long you've been taking the pill for how long it'll take to wear off. If you've been using it for a few years then it would take longer then it would if you were taking it for a few months. So, it can vary from person to person.
The morning after pill is used once, and should be used within 72 hours of unprotected sex. IT does not stop your period. If anything it would make your period come faster.
The reason people would use the morning after pill is in case you might assume you're pregnant or something, usually the pill would be used to prevent you from thinking so.
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I have been in this relationship around a year I do have a gem for a girl friend and there is no doubt that she wants to marry me . I just want to get more of my eggs in a row although I am thinking more along the lines of marriage and not so much ingagement.So my question is would this be to soon?Keep in mind we are not young 18 year olds we are both 45 years old she has been single for over 20 years while she made commitments to raising her children now they are grown and so are mine I am a widower my wife passed away in 1985 although I did date over the years I was single for 6 years prior to meeting her in church.And yes we dont sleep together.We choose to be patient. (link)
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Of course! That's such a nice story and I'm glad that you both were able to find someone after all of these years. I don't think a year is too soon, and as long as you know the feeling is mutual back then you should go for it! The worst she could say is no, but even if she did, that hopefully wouldn't ruin the commitment yall have with each other.
Go for it! and good luck :D
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I think i am pregnant and i have only been with this guy for 2 months. We havn't even said I love you to each other. He means the world to me and I can see us together for a long time and so can he but I think I am pregnant and I told him he said it was a good thing and that he would be there for me and the baby, but I am only 16 and he is 17. I dont want his life to go down the drains because of me he had a life planed out and now I screw it up like this. On top of all that I jsut made a huge mistake. I took off my birth controle 2 weeks ago just incase I was pregnant and we had sex again with out a condom. I dont know what to do I am head over heals for him but dont want to rune his life like this. (link)
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Well there's nothing you can do about it now, and hopefully you're not pregnant so that you can make smarter choices. Just wait until you miss the day of your period, which may be a little screwed up since you came off the pill - but if you miss it take a pregnancy test & see what is says. There are plenty of places that can help with you pregnancy if you are pregnant & there are also alternative decisions you can make besides keeping it. Keep those in mind too, also be smarter when you're having sex. This can happen to anyone, but you shouldn't be having sex without a condom when you're 16 - it's just childish. You should be old enough to be responsible.
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if ive been goin out with a girl for 2 months and we really like each other will she really care about the penis size if its like 5 and a halp inches
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Hey there. No, she shouldn't care. That size doesn't even sound small anyways, and if she really likes you - I wouldn't worry about being self conscious about it, she'll like you either way.
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oaky, So my teeth arent in the best shape. they are yellow. they are stained i brush my teeth all the time and nothing changes. But i want a prettier smile, and whiter teeth, but yet i have an overbite. i mean no dentist has ever noticed it, but i want braces.. How is a way i can get emm? (link)
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If you have an overbite and your teeth aren't in the best shape I don't know how your dentist hasn't noticed that. And brushing your teeth all the time is not going to help you get a prettier smile. You need to use crest whitestrips, or get your teeth professional whitened.
Go to the dentist & ask him if you're a candidate for braces. Seriously if you go to him and you actually need them like you're describing here, there's no way in hell he would let you leave without referring you to an orthodontist (a doctor that specializies in braces).
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I recently started running and today was my second day to do it. I never was a big runner, but I noticed that I can hardly run at all (actually, I spend most of the time fast-walking) because I get out of breath so quickly and my chest hurts so bad I can't inhale fully and there's really hard pressure on my lungs.
Am I just way out of shape or is there something else wrong? Will this get better the more I exercise?
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No there's nothing else wrong. It's clearly because you haven't been a runner in your life & you're body is not used to doing it. When I was 16 I was VERY overweight & could barely run, now I'm 19 - and I've lost 50 pounds since then and I run all the time and I'm so much better at it.
It's the same for everyone, honestly, you start off slow & you just progressively get better & better. Don't worry about it, and keep up exercising!! :)
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Heyy, this isnt a really serious question or anything. Lets start off by saying that im 15 and in my junior year I wanna become treasurer of student counsel so that senior year i could be president.
So here are my questions:
1. How could I meet more people?
2. Whats a catchy phrase? ( my name is jessica btw)
3.How could I get people to vote for me?
Thankssss in advance (: (link)
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I was the secretary of my student council all throughout high school & it was definitely a lot of fun. Especially campaigning and getting all my friends together to help me. One of the most important things is to ask a majority of your teachers if you could go in their classrooms while they have a class just so you can introduce yourself to people & let it be known that you want them to vote for you for treasurer. Talk about how important it is to you, and list reasons why you think you'd be a better treasurer over the other people who would be running.
Another important thing to do is to make signs, and make sure that you have a phrase, you want it to be catchy, short, memorable, and understandable to others. You have to make sure that the signs are very colorful and contain as little of words as possible, but you have to make sure that it makes a point.
A couple ideas for your catchy phrase & things to put on signs are:
-Got Jessica?
-Make your vote count. Vote for Jessica.
-Count on someone who can count, vote for Jessica!
-A vote for Jessica is a vote for the better.
-Make someone happy. Vote Jessica.
A good idea to get people to vote for you is to make cupcakes, cookies, provide drinks, etc. Make cupcakes that have J's on them, and/or make cookies & cut them out with a J cookie cutter. When you're in your teachers classrooms talking to the students, clarify that you will be providing snacks & drinks during lunch or before school or after school, make a day that is close to the election day so that they remember you and vote for you. Make sure you have some friends help you and have them shout out things like "Vote Jessica for treasurer" and things like that! If you don't go into classrooms then just put on your signs the day, time, and location where you'll be having the cookies & stuff.
Good luck and I hope you get it!!
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Pls don't listen to the person who answered this after me. You don't need to go get a tan or get your nails done to become a good treasurer or president. You need to be a good role model to others, but not in the sense of "blending in" with everyone else. So yeah - she's completely wrong. I'm pretty sure you already figured that though! :D
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female,16
ok me again :]
I have decided that I have wasted the last few years wasting my time drooling over this one guy. If something else was meant to happen by now it would have right. I have realised I HAVE to get over him cos it's stopping me from fully giving my 100% to any other guys. so,can anyone help ?
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Oh yeah, I would say that you should move on. Unless of course theres a chance he could like you back & maybe, yall could have something in the future. I liked the same guy all throughout high school & didn't tell him until we both graduated when he had a girlfriend. He said if he would've known we could've dated & I felt like such a moron because I never told him.
If theres any chance whatsoever that he could like you, like if yall are already friends & he doesn't have a girlfriend then I don't think you're wasting your time in the least. Both of you need to make some commitment if you want a relationship, it won't JUST happen - you have to make it happen.
If though, he has a girlfriend or you know he doesnt like you, or you both aren't already friends. You should either become friends with him or start giving your attention to other guys, because wasting your time is the last thing you need to be doing!
:0) Good luck!
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so i kept my dog at the vets for a day &_ they told me something was wrong with her neck.
butt that was about three days ago.
&_ now her backs completly arched to the left.
&_ she can barely holdl her self up. like her two back legs keep fallin into the splits &_ she juss drags them.
also shes like extremely jumpy. like if shes laying down then i go up to pet her she jumps.
any ideas whats wrong?
please juss be 1OO% truthful. (link)
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Did they just say there was something wrong with her neck? They should've given you way more info then that.
I would take your dog back to the vet & find out what's wrong with her. I'm assuming the only reason she is jumping back is because she's in a lot of pain & doesn't want anything/anyone touching her.
I wouldn't blame her either, she sounds from what you've told us that she's in so much pain! I don't know if this is something that can be fixed or can be helped in anyway with pain meds or anything.
So yeah, go back to the vet or call up the vet who you went to & let them know it's not getting any better. I can't tell you what's wrong with her.
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if i have some slight tummy fat, should i lose weight first before getting a naval piercing or does it not matter? (link)
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It doesn't matter. It won't affect the way your piercing will look at all. I know plenty of girls who have gotten their belly buttons pierced & have lost weight, and their piercings weren't affected at all.
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16/f.
In the middle of June I am going to Hawaii for 7 days. Then i'm coming home for like 3 days and then i'm going back for another 6 days. I am supposed to be getting my period at the end of June and I can't wear tampons and I really don't want to have my period during my vacation. My next period is supposed to come at the end of may. That means the period after that is coming at the end of June. So my questions is... How can I delay my period so that it comes at the beginning of June and not end of may, that way the period after that will come at the start of July and not end of June. Sorry if that was confusing. Please and thanks :)
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You can't delay your period.
Learn how to use tampons!
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just because you KNOW that you can't delay your period doesn't mean you should give me a 2 rating. You got the answer that everyone else would've given you if they would've answered this question. You do need to learn how to use tampons & stop being such a child. You'll eventually use tampons at some point in your life - so use them now!
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Is it possible for a girl to have more than one orgasm within a short period of time? (link)
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Yes, of course it's possible.
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Ok so for english we had to write a poem on loves and losses and i wrote this one. Please give me your honest answer on everything and if you have any ideas on how to make it better thanks!
I love you now,
I lost you yet,
I will always be here.
Don’t you fret
I know it hurts
But life goes on
I will try not to listen
To those sappy love songs,
Cause when I do,
I think of you
And what we used to be,
I just wish you would see
I gave you everything,
Yet you pushed me away,
I promise I will miss you,
Every single day
Me and you,
We can find a way,
And maybe…just maybe
We can be together someday.
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I genuinely like that poem a lot. It was really nice to listen to, and you did a great job on creating a job that describes 'loves & losses'. Good job! :D
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[[Sorry so lond]] Well I moved to californa last month and stared school like 4 weeks ago so im new and i go to school with my cosuin and i like this kid a lot i've kinda been talking to him on myspace sometime when i lived in New mexico so we kinda new each other becuse my cousin .but he likes another girl a lot but she dosent like him should i tell him i like him or wait, tell him face to face or tell my firend to tell him....?? (link)
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Don't get your friend to tell him. I think that if you're going to tell him you like him you should do it yourself & face-to-face if possible. I know how hard it can be because you don't know if he likes you back or anything, but, it's worth the chance if you like him enough. & you don't exactly have to tell him straight-up that you like him, there are things you can do that make it clearly obvious by the way you say things or act that he'll already think you like him. Either by flirting or just saying things like complimenting him, saying he looks nice and stuff. If it's too hard for you to tell him face-to-face because you're too shy or something, then tell him over Myspace or text messaging. Even though I don't recommend you do that, it's just important you let him know, it doesn't matter which way you tell him.
Even if he likes another girl, that doesn't mean he isn't attracted to you. I definitely say go for it! If you don't then you'll always wonder what would've happened if you would've told him.
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