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I have decided that I have wasted the last few years wasting my time drooling over this one guy. If something else was meant to happen by now it would have right. I have realised I HAVE to get over him cos it's stopping me from fully giving my 100% to any other guys. so,can anyone help ?
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Oh yeah, I would say that you should move on. Unless of course theres a chance he could like you back & maybe, yall could have something in the future. I liked the same guy all throughout high school & didn't tell him until we both graduated when he had a girlfriend. He said if he would've known we could've dated & I felt like such a moron because I never told him.
If theres any chance whatsoever that he could like you, like if yall are already friends & he doesn't have a girlfriend then I don't think you're wasting your time in the least. Both of you need to make some commitment if you want a relationship, it won't JUST happen - you have to make it happen.
If though, he has a girlfriend or you know he doesnt like you, or you both aren't already friends. You should either become friends with him or start giving your attention to other guys, because wasting your time is the last thing you need to be doing!
:0) Good luck!
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If it's been a few years and nothing's happened, it definitely probably won't. You've made a good decision to try and move forward with your life. Now, you just have to commit to it. Take some time to spend with your girl friends. Go places like skating rinks, bowling alleys, the mall, laser tag, or miniature golfing where you can have fun with your friends AND potentially meet guys. You'll be so much happier when you're completely over this guy and can give all of your love to a guy that wants to give all of his love back.
Try to keep yourself occupied and if you still talk to this guy, distance yourself from him. The less you talk to or see him, the less you will think about him. Eventually, you'll notice that you've gone a week, a month, and more without even thinking about him. When you do think about the huge crush you had on him for so long, you'll wonder why you even liked him for so long in the first place.
Good luck (:
Darby
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