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[[Sorry so lond]] Well I moved to californa last month and stared school like 4 weeks ago so im new and i go to school with my cosuin and i like this kid a lot i've kinda been talking to him on myspace sometime when i lived in New mexico so we kinda new each other becuse my cousin .but he likes another girl a lot but she dosent like him should i tell him i like him or wait, tell him face to face or tell my firend to tell him....??
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Well just wait a while. Get to know him, let him get to know you. Then if things go okay then tell him. And you could tell him to his face or even over text just in a flirty way so it sounds cute! Dont have your friend tell him guys like it when more when you come out and say it. Hope i helped =]
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Don't rush into things honey! If you have only known this guy online dont' rush yourself! You don't know this guy that well, give yourself sometime to become his friend and build a relationship with him. And DO NOT i repeat DO NOT tell him online or through a friend. It will just make you appear immature and unready for a relationship, which is a total turn off for (respectable) guys.
On the other hand, don't get to close to him, in case of rejection. I am 100% positive you are beautiful inside AND out, but some guys (not all) are too blinded by stupidity to see that. So don't get too close to him because of the off chance of rejection. If you and him build this relationship together and you tell him how you feel, your whole relationship will crush. (unless your sweetie is amazingly mature)
Just remember to get to know him better before you make your first move. Don't get too emmotionally attached to him, just incase.
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If I were you, I would wait a little while before telling him. Be his friend and be there for him when he gets rejected by the girl he likes. I'm assuming she will reject him since she doesn't like him. In the meantime, you can hit on him a little bit. The most important thing is to be dependable and be there for him to talk to when he gets upset. He'll start getting the hint that you like him.
Then, when he gets over the crush on this girl, you can go the rest of the way with telling him. That is, assuming he doesn't already pick on it by then.
Darby(:
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Wow... that's a really confusing story.
I think you should get to know this kid better before telling him your feelings for him. You know, it may just be the light crush.
Then, when you guys are friends, tell him how you feel. Who knows, maybe he'll like you back? What's the worst that could happen? Rejection? It's not that bad. At least you won't spend your days wondering what could have happened if you told him the truth, but as I said before, get to know him better.
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Don't get your friend to tell him. I think that if you're going to tell him you like him you should do it yourself & face-to-face if possible. I know how hard it can be because you don't know if he likes you back or anything, but, it's worth the chance if you like him enough. & you don't exactly have to tell him straight-up that you like him, there are things you can do that make it clearly obvious by the way you say things or act that he'll already think you like him. Either by flirting or just saying things like complimenting him, saying he looks nice and stuff. If it's too hard for you to tell him face-to-face because you're too shy or something, then tell him over Myspace or text messaging. Even though I don't recommend you do that, it's just important you let him know, it doesn't matter which way you tell him.
Even if he likes another girl, that doesn't mean he isn't attracted to you. I definitely say go for it! If you don't then you'll always wonder what would've happened if you would've told him.
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