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hi my name is Gabe I am puerto rican and very proud of it and i like to help people with there problems and i have also been knowen to give good adivce so u best listen up! lol but anyways i will talk to most anyone so if u got a problem and want someone to talk to im me on aim "Marrero12"

and yes i really and 15
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E-mail: alderworth1@hotmail.com
Gender: Male
Location: st. louis Missouri
Occupation: student
Age: 16
AIM: Marrero12
Member Since: June 2, 2004
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Last Update: January 14, 2006
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hey my mom said whenever i want to become sexually active she would give be birth control pills does that mean she cares or not? (link)
if my parent told me that i would prolly thing that they don't trust me not to and they know i would prolly do it without it anyways so they just want u to be on it and safe when u do it

good luck
Gabe


hey. what will happen if u jack off before your voice changes? is it ok? i really need to know!! (link)
well if u actually can nothing will happen but becarefull cause jacking off to much can cause u to not be able to hold it as well when u gotta take a piss and it can cause ur sperm to become less and less fertal so when u want to have kids down the road u wont be able to so i would suggest only doing it when u can't take it no more

good luck
Gabe


hey i need help, i dont know what to do. i found out that my boyfriend doesn't like something about me and i dont know if i should confront him or just pretend i never found out. (link)
well what is it that he found out cause that is the deciding factor cause if it's somethin small and it took him that long to notice it's prolly nothin and nothing to worry about and who cares if he don't like that part about

good luck
Gabe


Ok, i have a lot of guy freinds, and i dont have a crush on them or anything but every once in a while i kinda "feel more" for them then just freinds, so sometimes i flirt n stuff. i dont really think i like them. i just want them to think of me as more then a freind like i think about them.or do they? that probably didnt make sence but if anyone could help me a little. i will rate, thanks.
by the way im 13. (link)
well i think u are kidna in a jam cause u can't really make them like u well let me rephrase that u can't make them all like u cause they would all just get pissed at u for flirtin with the other guys so i would suggest just picking one or just find u a b/f

good luck
Gabe


ok moderators im very serious about this question its not a joke so please please please dont delete it, ok i had sex once, and i dont really get any feeling, supposedly its supposed to feel good but i dont really feel anything, and when we were done my stomach hurt alot and my back did too, so yeah umm whats going on? please dont delete this i want to know. (link)
i would say u were hurtin cause he pounded u really hard but i am thinkin u didn't really feel it was cause either u wern't in the mood or if it was like ur first time some people zone out and that happens or beleave it or maybe the dude u were with wasn't big enough

good luck
Gabe


my girlfriend is amazing. i am truely honestly blessed to be with her, she is so perfect. the problem is sometimes we get in arguements over really stupid stupid shit, and when we do i feel so extremely guilty and torn up because she is so nice and sweet, she never deserves to be hurt. i know all relationships have things that need to be overcome, but i just cant take it when i hurt this girl. she is so sweet and great to be with, and she would never hurt anyone. how do i make myself feel less guilty about it? (link)
well u can't help feeling guilty but ur prolly right if she is that great then u prolly shouldn't hurt her but it sounds to me like u guys are those type of poeple that start fights with eachother just for the make up cause i am sure u guys are alot closer and really like each other after u make up and if thats the case then u will jsut have to live with it or learn to keep ur mouth shut when she is startin shit or when ur about to

good luck
Gabe


Today i gave my boyfriend head for the 1st time ...and then I did it a second time and that time i like almost gagged! what should i do should i say anything...???


signed confused one (link)
ok well i have gotten head before and beleave it or not it feels pretty good when u choke or gagg so don't worry about that

but about the sex thing if u wanna do it figure out if he is like one of those people who wants to wait till marriage and as long as he ain't don't plan nothin i would whole lot rather of a girl just got on top instead of like asking her u wanna have sex!? cause that would be werid

good luck
Gabe

if u got any more ?'s don't be affraid to ask


my mom won't let me get a thong...she's says im too young but she won't by one for me and i dun wanna get one behind her back...how do i convince her to let me have one? (link)
u could just be like what does it matter it's not like ur wearing it!


Hey im 13 and i think that is a good age to make out but my mopm dosnt ! what do i do! im ready she isnt!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
u now all these other people are talkin like tell u mom that u think it's time and stuff but if u mom is like mine she wouldn't care so just when u do it don't let her find out about it! i mean i am sure after u have done it it would be all good to tell her jsut when u do it be nice about it not like when ur fighting or somthin cause then she will take it like if the only reason u did it was cause she told u not to but anyways

good luck
Gabe


hey i wanna know which screen name u like better! xOMeLiSsA26Ox or MeLiSsA 1613 ??? THANKS !!! (link)
i like the second one (MeLiSsA 1613) the first one is to confuseing!

sry it took me so long to get backt o u i have been out of town


ok im almost 15 and i only have a 34A... i hate it. I heard that if you sleep with no bra on at night your boobs will grow faster because the bra isnt there... but i dont know... and i also herad that moving your arms in circular motion everyday will also increase the size... my mom has big boobs.. why cant i!!!!? (link)
if ur mom does u prolly will eventualy get them but i would beleave the part about the sleeping with no bra but the moveing ur arms in a circular motion that wont make ur boobs grow it will make the muscles under them go bigger to give them the apperance of being bigger which is all good for lucks but if anyone trys to touch them it would be kinda odd and plus it wouldn't help u that much of very fast for sure if u wern't even useing weights

Good Luck
Gabe


ok , can you die from drinking soda a lot of times!!!??? omg im so scared . please help me!! (link)
no u can't die from drinking soda but if u drink regular soda with alot of surger like mt. dew and coca cola it can cause u to have problems with ur throat

Good luck
Gabe


Is there anyway that you can make...down there...taste better? (link)
no there is no way to make it taste better but most of the time people just deal with it for a lil while to please there partner


okay, this might seem really nasty, but i don't know how to have sex. i just don't. and i need someone to tell me... soon.
what are some things we should do?? i'm sooo clueless... i don't know what to do!! (link)
well what do u need to know like how to physicaly do it? cause thats simple when the guy gets a erection he puts a condom on and inserts his dick into ur pussy and moves it in and out and thats pretty well the basics of how to do it and as far as things to do that is pretty much up to u assumeing u are a girl cause u have say over what to do and what not to do if u are a guy then u just fallow the girls lead

Good luck
Gabe


is it normal for girls 2 masturbate becuz its normal for guys?? (link)
yea i guess so i ain't a girl but i do know alot of girls who do it


Is 9th grade a good grade and does it go by quickly? (link)
i didn't like it and it was slow as hell for me but good luck hope it's better for u


i need to no how u find a boyfriend...help me asap.


thxx (link)
don't sit at home go out and do stuff


my brest are a 34a and im 16 do u think that i should get inplants if so y or if not y?? (link)
no i don't think so because in this day in age implants aren't that sexy anymore cause anyone can get them so it's way more sexy to have a girl who is all natural even if they are a lil less then average

good luck
Gabe


Okay.. well Ive been with my boyfriend for 16 months (on wednesday) Anyways.. he got drunk last night and cheated on me with his ex.. and he said that he didnt even mean to, he was just drunk.. and that he loved me he just wanted to take a break.. and he came back online, and we were talking.. and it was like.. we were still together.. i mean he still called me "babygirl" and said I love you when he had to leave.. what should i do? :/ Thanks!~ (link)
i think u should let him off easly cause he obviosly still likes u alot because he told u and didn't try to hide it from u but i have been drunk before thats no excuse cause if u are so drunk that u wont remember what happened the next day then there is a good chance he wouldn't be able to get it up so don't beleave that shit 9 times outta 10 he prolly just feel into the moment and did somethings he regrets now but i still wouldn't let him forget what he did but anyways

good luck
Gabe


Ok so theres a guy I met like last year and I was actually 14 then. I met him when he was down on vacaion. We tried to make it work but it didn't because he never moved down because his dad found a job up there. I still know his AIM/Email. Should I try to contact him? What should I say? This sounds crazy but I think about him all the time and love him sooo much. I'm sure the love is strong enough the distance now wouldn't be a issue. What should I do?

Signed,
Sad and confused!

15/Female (link)
the distance will always be a problem but i think u should contact him cause u never know some day it might work so just keep in touch and never know maybe u can like drive to his house one day or somthin once u get ur license

good luck
Gabe




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