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Does everyone find someone that they love and that loves them?

There's someone out there for everyone that makes them complete. There's a pefect match for you out there somewhere even though you may not find him/her as quickly as others... God says in the Bible in Genesis 2:18 "And the Lord God said, It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a help meet for him." If you have the desire to get married or have a boyfriend... God will not withold it from you. If you're not on good terms with him... (not saved) that might be another story.

God Bless
~Aeromonkey

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I'm 16, I have green eyes, and medium brown hair (long) with purple highlights. I really wanna start wearing make-up, something not heavy, and NO EYELINERS. Can you please give me some tips and colors (brands would be cool too) that would go well with my face?

Thank you sooo much!!

Almay has this thing where they match your eye color with eyeshadow. It's really expensive,though so i just matched the shades with cheaper brands. Then I use light black mascara and a clear lipgloss. Of if you don't want heavy mascara... use clear by cover girl.

God Bless
~aeromonkey :)

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how do i post an entery in xanga

When you log into your acount each time... your blog pops up and somewhere at the top it says new entry and you click that and type away

God Bless
~aeromonkey

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alright, im 13 and my mom put me on birth control pills...but im a vergin. she doesnt belive me so now im starting the pill on sunday. so i told my bf and he said that if his mom knew about it she would buy him condoms. so we both laughed....sigh...ok now my problem. does this mean that he wants to have sex? or wat? i mean i LOVE this kid...and i was thinking about having sex with him for awhile now. but im not sure if he wants to. i mean i know were like really young but i really do love him. so do you think i should have sex with him and do you think he wants to have it with me or is he just kidding around? and if we did have sex where would we have it? please help me im so freaking confused! I NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!! sorry if this is too long.

This isn't going to answer all of your question and i know i'm probably going to get some nasty feed back, but... I'm a Christian so I believe that you shouldn't have sex before marriage. If you love eachother so much... it will mean so much more to wait until your married, but that doesn't mean for you to go off and get married when you're 16 or so because those stories always end up taking a wrong turn... what i'm sayin is... you should wait.

God Bless
~aeromonkey

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Ummmmmm ok this is really weird. I have had these strange dreams for about a week about my friend Nick. The only problem is its like in my dream we are going out. I used to only see him as a friend but now I think I am starting to like him because of all these dreams. What should I do? What do these dreams mean?

I would first like to state that people's main theory on dreams is that it's only a group of thoughts you think of before you go to bed put together. If you think you might like this friend.. think for a minute.. do you want to risk your relationship for liking him? Then again it depends on if he feels the same way.. what i'm trying to say is... take it slow in finding out if you like him or not and don't go crazy trying to find out if he likes you back.

Good Luck
God Bless
~aeromonkey

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Hi my name is Bill. Im 15 and I currently attend a christian church. As a baby my parents werent married, my mom ran away, my dad couldnt afford a baby soo he left me with his parents. I grew up with my grandparents till right before my 15th b-day when my grandma died from carcinoid cancer. after that i weant to live with my dad. instead of being distanced from God I feel closer. my pastor said im the strongest person he's met. what does he mean by that? by the way i want to go to olivet collage and become a youth pastor myself.

What I get from what your pastor said is that considering all you've been through... you're still so strong in God. Most people tend to blame God for stuff that goes wrong and become depressed, but you haven't and that's a good thing. Keep strong with God and Good luck on the youth pastor thing

God Bless
~Aeromonkey

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I just got a new dog and it is about 2 and i wanted to train it cuz its kinda hard with its jumping and stuff to be on my family all the time can anybody give me some free dog training tips sites plz and thanx

I think wwww.petsmart.com might have some solutions... it's been a while, but i went there to get tips to train my dog. If that doesn't work... GOOGLE IT! or the never failing yahoo search.

GOOD LUCK
GOD BLESS
~AeRoMoNKeY

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I am just wondering if anyone has used the Jergens lotion that has a hint of self tanner, so that over time you get a natural looking tan? If so, does it really work? Any tips?

I'm gonna start out by saying... i'm the whitest white girl you'll ever see... but Jergens helped me a lot. Word to the wise though... follow the directions.

God Bless
~aeromonkey

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what are good types of hair gel/moose for when you scrunch up your hair and it makes it look curly/wavy
i rate HIGH!!!!!!! plz help!!

I'd try sprunch by Aussie. My friend uses it and her hair looks awesome.

God Bless
~Aeromonkey

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i need help in my spirtul life with god. im a christian an all that but i wan to grow mor with god!
how can i get closer to god?

Every body struggles with their relationship to God from time to time. My suggestion is that you set aside a time each day that's just for Him and have a devotion and prayer time with Him.

God Bless
~aeromonkey

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Why should people become Christains? Like what iss the purpose in it?

The purpose? The purpose, my friend, is to have everlasting life. Has no one ever told you that with out salvation you will spend eternity in hell. It is a real place and millions or more are going there that haven't believed in God. and how do you do this, you ask?...I'de be more than happy to tell you.

In John 3:7, jesus said that we must be born again.
"For all have sinned.." and we've come short of the glory of God.-Romans 3:23
Because we are sinners... we are condemned to death. Romans 6:23 "For the wages of sin is death" This is where the eternity in hell comes in. But God loves us so much, He sent His son to die for us. This payed for all of our sins, but only if we repent of them and call upon His name to save us. If you believe that He died for you on the cross for your sin. You are saved. But if you don't.... you will be sent to Hell forever. It's easy, but you have to trust Him. Pray to Him now for salvation.

God Bless
~aeromonkey

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I grew up in a christian home. I'm almost 18 and still everything in my life is God this God that. I believe in him but that doesn't make my problems go away. I'm always crying, have the blues, feel alone, feel anger, sad, somedays I just don't feel like doing anything but lay around. But everytime I try to show to my parents that I have a problem I get God shoved in my face. Sometimes I just want to run away from home...but I know that won't solve anything. What should I do? If I stick around home anylonger I'm afraid that I'll do something to myself again.

Maybe you need a fresh start or something. Seeing that you're eighteen and guessing you're a senior in highschool or close to it. Maybe you should apply to a christian college for atleast one year if not the entire 4. Being around fellow brothers and sisters in Christ can really help your relationship with God. I too sometimes have moments when I don't think He's listening, but it's that I'm not paying attention. Just try that and pray for the best

*the power of prayer is a wonderful thing. Ask people to pray for you.

Hope it works out
God Bless
~aeromonkey

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i want to make a shirt for my best friend, because her birthday is comin up... shes very religious and i want to put some sort of quote on it...so does anybody kno any short bible verses, or religious quotes?? thanks for your help!!

I know this isn't helping much because i don't know the exact verse, but my friend was telling me about it at school. It's in galations somewhere and it says.. "Now I bare the mark of Christ.." that's all i remember. Sorry I didn't help much :(

Hope it works out
God Bless
~aeromonkey

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Hi,this is CarterGirl, neways I just wanna know is this love. Me and my boyfriend Ken have known each other for like a year now. We started out as best friends, then it seemed like when we wanted to date it was wrong timing. Then we just was like what the heck let's jus do it. Then we started dating, I knew from the first day I met and talked to him It was going to be more than jus friends, well I think I love him (sorry so Long) I can't eat, sleep, Ish, without thinkin about him. He calls me like every hour of the day just to say he loves me, we talk late in the nights, he comes to see me, and always brings a lil token of his love. He is caring, lovin. In my town I am considered one of the Dimes and Descent. i kno he doesn't just like me for that, we have ups and downs, we have stuck out all the obvious, lies, the rumors, sometimes I compare us to my mom and dads relationship which is lovable. But I want to kno is it really love I mean I will do anything for him, He treats me not only like a gf, but a friend, lover, sister, cousin Please Help\

It's obvious that it's love. You both care for eachother very deeply and it's adorable. Don't even let yourself wonder. I wish you two good luck

Good Luck
God Bless
~aeromonkey

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Ok, my hair is very thick and naturally wavy/curly. It takes two to three hours for me to straighten it and I need some other ideas for some hair styles. I tried using one type of gel that said if i scrunch my hair while blow-drying (with this gel in), it would make my hair look curly. But it didn't work. Is there any porduct you recommend? and if you could give me a website or tell me some ideas for my hair that would be great!!! Please respond!! Thanks!

If scrunching is what you want... my friend uses sprunch by aussie. Another friend also puts Rave max hold in her hair once she scrunches it. If you want other options.. check out a bunch of clips to wear your hair up. Or something. If that doesn't work... GOOGLE or Yahoo search for hair styles. IT ALWAYS WORKS! ^_^

GOdBless
~aeromonkey

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i want to go to Wake Forest university but i don't have good enough grades to get or the gpa level yet, i am only a sopohomore but i still want to get in, i do have another choice of UNCW whitchis a good college. should i work harder to get into wake forest or just settle for uncw?

You should never have to "settle" for anything. If Wake Forest is something you really want... then go for it.. just don't push yourself over the limit to the stress point. You have a few years till then so don't stress too much.

Hope it works out
God Bless
~aeromonkey

*This question was hard to answer considering i'm a duke fan... lol still hope it works out ok.

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Ok... i see my boyfriend every day for at least 3 hours or so... well he works during the week...

is it weird that i miss him all day?

people tell me i'm too dependent on him but i just love him


and i miss him

It's not weird at all for you to miss your bf. You've grown close to him by dating and it's hard to want to talk to someone you love and not be able to. Some people may say you're too dependent because they haven't found that special someone yet. It's normalto miss someone you love.

aeromonkey

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ok im 13 years old and a girl and my sister just got me this baby-sitting job. Its for a 8 or 9 year old i dont know if its a boy or girl though she hasnt told me. But i was wondering what i could do to keep them entertained and busy for a the few hours that i'm with them. I mena i really need the money and i dont want to screw this up and end up gettin the job takin anyway. so please help me thanx everyone.

Ok... for starters.. it depends on what the parents want. Some parents want them to cut down on tv. If that's the case... bring crayons and coloring books... board games (if they don't have any.) play a few rounds of go fish. Play hide and go seek outside. If it's a girl.. let her do your hair or paint your toe nails... if it's a boy... play basketball with him or something... There are a lot of things you can do.. just think like it's a little sister or brother you wanna spend time with.

Hope it works out
God Bless
~aeromonkey

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how to get popular girls to ask me to hang out. AND dont say you shouldnt hang out with them bc they are popular or stuff liek that.. its what i want

Well.. not all popular girls are a pain in the butt. Just be your self and if they don't like you for you then just act like them. In some cases it can be shallow, but just... do what ever you think is right. Remember you don't have to be mean and snobby to be popular. Just be nice to people and be involved in school. LIke sports

Hope it works out
God Bless
~aeromonkey~

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does anyone know a website that you can put a picture of you on it and check out different haircuts on yourself??

oh yeah..but doesnt cost money to do lol and looks a little realistic

THANKS!

The only one I know of is www. makeoversolutions.com
If that doesn't work.... try yahoo search or google. ^_^

Hope it works out
God Bless
~aeromonkey~

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