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Hi, I'm Zoinatrobe and I give advice for most things- school, self harm, fashion, family, ect. I often notice on advicenators that when people give advice, they tend to say what kind of thing you should do to resolve your problem. I can't say I can do it all the time, but I'm going to try to say HOW you resolve a problem. I often give advice to my friends at school.
About meeeeeee-I love rock and funk (and funk rock!)- The Red Hot Chilli Peppers, Jimi Hendrix, Nirvana, ect, exercise 8 times a week each time an hour or more (rowing, running, kickboxing) and play guitar. (I have a Fender with a wah wah pedal and an acoustic.) And don't you just love my mouse warrior? ;-p

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ok ya*ll i love to sing and i hate singing in front of people and when itell people this they laugh and say get over it and i think i am a good singer but no1 will belive me if i cant sing out loud help me and please dont say gEt OvA It signed *RaIsE Ur VoIcE*

Try joining a group of people that sing, like the school choir or something. This way you won't feel shy about singing. Build up the confidence to sing to the people who say "Get over it" and blow thier minds and those smirks off thier faces. Kick ass, Gal!
Zoinatrobe

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Hey ... im a cutter and i have been every since the middle of 6th grade and i am just starting 7th .. its mostly cuz of boys and some cuzza my home life . it makes me feel good wen i hurt myself and i dont know why :( my mom dont know nd idk wut to do please help just I M me at YellowKissez207

Sometimes life can be hard but if you continue cutting you might kill yourself, by accident or on purpose. Remember that you are beauiful and there are so many people that love you. Love yourself. Look at the positive side of things. Next time you get the urge to cut yourself, cut an orange or punch a pillow or something. If you can't stop by yourself, email the self harm alliance for free on support@selfharmalliance.org. Tell your Mum or one of your friends so they will support you. Break free.
Zoinatrobe.

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I have a problem: I am a lonely introvert, and I try to get out and make friends. But my problems is that most people only want to talk about superficial things such as house, car, kids, job, and shopping. While I know those are what most people care about, these topics bore me to death. I like deeper conversations about philosophy or literature. I don't mean to be conceited, but it's hard to find smart people to talk to. Why can't I find anyone on my level? Should I dumb myself down to fit in? Any comments are appreiciated. Thank you!

I know how you feel. Don't act like an idiot if you arn't. You should try occasionaly bringing up interesting facts in conversations with potential friends- but without bragging. They may be interested. Don't talk about your intelligence unless you have to. Remember there are smarter people out there and there must be at least one in your year. Whilst keeping that in mind, also remember that you cannot be too particular about your friends otherwise you will end up without any.
I hope I have helped,
Zoinatrobe.

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Ok, this is a pretty basic question, but does anyone have any really good organizational tips for school and also study tips along with that...they kinda go hand in hand! I RATE VERY WELL:)

With study tips- try doing all homework ect on the day its set, and if you have time try doing a project not for school but just for fun- you learn ALOT and get top marks for that subject when you go back ti school. Don't do it on something boring like maths- try inventing something or reserching science. I'm currently doing a study of the human body. I got 100% in the test!
Hope I helped,
Zoinatrobe.

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Im 13 years old and I just started jr. high. I'm in the 7th grade. The problem is that I have no friends and I don't know how to make any. I've tried to be social, but no one seems to want to talk to me. I'm in all honors classes, and the girls in the honors classes are all rich and white and popular. I don't really like them anyway, but i have every class with them. Thankfully, i have 1 really good friend I met this year. She dosnt have friends, either. How can I make friends? I want to be the popular girl i was in elementary.

Don't worry- thins happedend to me when I started secondary school- I didn't make proper friends for about 5 months. Don't think of the other girls as horrible just because they are white, or rich or popular. Being of a dif. race or wealth shouldn't make a diference on how kind you are and what a good friend you are.
Why don't you and your friend try talking to some other people sometime. Also, see if there is anyone else without friends and try and befriend them. Hope I helped,
Zoinatrobe.

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I have been having this problem for quite sometime. I am a cutter. And i can't really stop. I have been going to counseling and I had been taken off antidepressants. My mood hasnt gotten any better, it feels alittle worse. Parents are no help, my dad thinks that I am doing this for attention and he yelled and screamed at me saying that I am faking everything and its just a waste of money to keep the counseling going. So now, I am not in that anymore. I feel terrible, worse possibly. And my freind who I have known since the second grade is going through problems, she is cutting herself and trying to kill herself. I have been trying to give her advice but, how do I give advice to someone who is doing the same things as me? I need some major help and someone to talk to.

Next time you get an urge to cut yourself, harm something else- like cut an orange or punch a pillow. It gets out some of your anger. You don't need to spend money to get help- try emailing the Self Harm Allience on support@selfharmalliance.org for free. Tell your friend about them too.
Remember, there are lots of people out there who care about you and you don't have to suffer in silence. Love yourself, think of the positive things and try to be happy.
Zoinatrobe

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