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I am a good advice giver! Ask Me 4 advice anytime, i would like to be your friend! I have a good heart and i take things seriously! I have been through many things, things i could relate w/ sum people, maybe even you! If u have a question im always ready to try and help you!

I have a great personality and i am fun to talk to! Trust me, im here to help not laugh!

`~*Dani*~`

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i finally got rid of my acne problem but now its like i have small not even like touchable bumbs and it looks like i still have acne what can i do about this?

dont worry about everyone ges acne! just keep cleaning your face and you will do fine!

`~*Dani*~`

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I want to get a doggie this spring! I want a small doggie that I can spend time with. Easy to train, and it likes to play and spend time with me. any ideas?

i would say either beagles or chihuahuas or jack rssle terrior. good luck on the choice you make, hope it is a good one!

`~*Dani*~`

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I have this friend, And I seriously think that I am falling for him. We talk all the time and we claim eachother as best friends and all, But now, I dont know, I've seriously fallen for him. I tlak to him and I get this big smile on my face and I just start giggeling. All I ever want to do is be near him! ugh... oh yea, He's younger than me. What do I do?
((Confused))

does he know you like him? does he like you?
if you both have feeling for each other, go out!
become b/f and g/f that could help you get closer to him!

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How do you crack your back? Or neck?

jus turn your body parts to do it, i do it all the time!

i also go to the chiropractor he sorta cracks your body parts, he/she can help you feel better!

`~*Dani*~`

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Theres this guy i like ( im not going out wtih ) and were pretty good friends. He said he liked me last week but he doesnt talk to me anymore that much. I dont talk to him a lot at school cuz hes not in any of my classes but i see him between classes. I really want to hang out with him and stuff like that but i dont know what to do. What can i do to get him to notice me more??

you could find out if he has aim (if u didnt already), or you could tell him how you feel( if u didnt already)try talking to him more, that could help!

hope i helped!

`~*Dani*~`

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Hey yall i jus got bangs and boy i hate them they arnet like the ones that go all the way across your forehead. they are the ones where u have a part down themiddle and there are two on each side i then they look bad and i cant wait for them to grow out but until then i need cute lil hair styleing tips or ways to hide them! any advice

i had the same problem and im going to tell you exactly what i did!

i paid no attention to my bangs, i just sucked it up and made it a positive thing!

hope i helped a little!

`~*Dani*~`

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I have a long haired domestic black cat. I also have beige carpeting throuout my home. He leaves clipms of hair all over the house and not even vacuming seems to work in pickking it up. I am sick of spending hours on my hands and knees trying to get it off of the floor. Any suggestions?

it does sound kind of stupid on the answer i am going to give you, have you ever considered shaving your cat?

i don't really know cause the vacum gets my 4 cats clumps of fur, sometimes it is just worth cleaning up after your cat, it makes me feel responsoble!

hope i helped at least a little!

`~*Dani*~`

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ive been dating my boyfriend for 6 months.. considering valentines day is today, i got my boyfriend the video game that he wanted. he came over to my house after school and all he did was sit and talk about his game. and he left me on valentine's day to play his game.. would he be considered a shitty b/f?

i was was you and that happened to me i would be pretty pissed but guys are like that. they just care about what they get, trust me i know from experience. i just sucked it up!
hope i helped!!

`~*Dani*~`

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ok... my boyfriend and i really really like eachother... but online i don't no what to say to him... i want to make him laugh and he already knows my hobbies and i already no his... what are some FUNNY topics that will make him laugh... i'll rate 5's for everyone who answers i swear!

you could talk about convos you have with your friends, funny stories, things you have seen or heard, even a joke you find off hte internet!

if you need anymore ideas, tell me!

*Dani*

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ok.. i have some problems with the way i look. i have chubby cheeks and a small mouth so like u can barely tell when i smile.. my skin texture is terrible..ive tried everything but i just have really low confidence and self esteem and i always feel like everyone looks better than me.

maybe you should talk to someone about your problem, that can sometimes help. If you are old enough you could get plastic surgey, but i wouldn't go with that. Do what you thin kis best, a lot of people have given you answers take them wisely.

Good luck on your choice!

*Dani*

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why are people so rude and hurtful to overweight people?! i mean i am just a lil overweight but i cant help it i have a hip disease which disables me to run and participate in athletics or PE so you need to be more considerate at other people when you say if i saw you i would throw up and lose weight .... yes you Cardboard Tube Samurai

*me*

don't listen to those people, my best friend is overweight and when people make fun of her she doesn't care. she ignores them, she has a great personality and she lets people know that.

maybe you could go to gyms and stuff to get more fit, that is what she does also.
I wish you the best of luck!

*Dani*

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in two weeks im going to florida and we'll be gone for 17 days. I have a cat and i was thinking about asking a friend to come by and take care of him. (for money of course) I was wondering would the cat get too lonely being that we wont be around for so long and my friend will only be in the house for five minutes to feed him and change his litter box? Another option is the kennel..but i hear they are very expensive. Do you know about how expensive they are? Should i have my friend come by or take my cat to a kennel? Thanks and i'll rate you guys because i appreciate your time and advice..i too am a columnist. Thanks again..
-melissa-

i would definetley say to let your friend bc you know your friend and you can trust your friend. the kennel is expensive and what if they don't give your cat the love it needs?

let your friend watch your kitty, its the best option. personally i would sneak my cat with me lol.

*Dani*

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how can i motivate myself to workout more? i really need to get in shape for softball and basketball coming up. also, can anyone give me some exercises i should do to get in shape? like the name of them and a very brief, yet detailed explanation...i will rate those who answer honestly. and please dont delete this question!

you could go to a gym, do yoga, even simple exercises. i do them and i am in good fit, im skinny with muscles! :) good luck on your workouts, wish you the best of luck.

*Dani*

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On my bus the older kids are mean to my best friend. They always steal her stuff. Like yesterday she had a gameboy with her and was playing sims and this kid stole it and wouldn't give it back until she gave him gum. She had to jump some seats to get it back. Then today she wouldn't give him gum again so he started stabbing her with a needle. He treatened to stab me with it if I didn't move so he could get inm our seat. They my best friend threw the gum out the window and he and his friends started cursing her off and trying to cut her with it. I want to find a way to help but I don't know how. What should I do?

that is a really bad problem, you and your friend should tell an authority or a parent. you could even tell the parents of the kids that are doing these evil things to your friend!

I wish you the best of luck!

*Dani*

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A friend of mine needs a roommate, and I really want to move in with her because she's got a cool place and I'm sick of living on my own. The problem is that she's got a cat and I'm allergic to cats. The duplex has all hardwood floors and I'd have my own cat-free room, but I'm really nervous about moving in because cats really make me sick. Should I risk it?

my best friend has the same problem, she always took medicane every time she came over. I heard somewhere, im not exactly sure, that a pet can get a shot to help people not to be allergic to it. There could be a shot for you, who knows!

hope i helped a little

*Dani*

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I am 15 and have been going out with the same guy for 4 years. I lost my virginity 2 him when I was 14. He is starting to act way to controlling and we have gotten into several fist fights and he forces me to have sex with him sometimes. I met a guy on the internet that lives 1700 miles away. We have been talking for a while and I think I am in love with him. Is it possible to love someone that far away? He also says he loves me back, and wants to meet. Thanks

the guy you are starting to like could be someone bad, maybe you should get a picture of him if uyou didn't already to see how he looks, if he doesn't look like a bad person go for and and find the guy.

the guy you have been with for 4 years that is trying to control you, dump him. you don't deserve to be treated the way he is treating you.

Hope i helped!

*Dani*

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This is crazy cause I've been cool with this character for some time now. we started off as cool friends, then we realized that we had a lot in common and also thought the same and finished off eachother sentences. After a while, we realized that we both liked eachother alot but decided to stay friends because we both still talked to other people and wasn't really ready for a relationship. even though we agreed all that, he still kept giving me mixed signals, all the time! we went out a couple of times and when we did he would hold my hand and things like that. when we kissed, i felt butterflies in my stomach. i really began to like him because i thought that he was different from all the other guys i talked to. we talked every night on the phone for like 3 hours. everything seemed so right, so i decided to take it to the next level cause i was curious. something happened. everything seemed right. he told me he ain't never felt like how he do for me so fast. well, the next day he didn't call. the following day i called him, he didn't answer. he did return my call like 20 minutes later and it sounded like he was in his car. i was talking to my friend so i told him i'll call back later. i called back and he said he was busy so i said call me back. well, to make a long story short, it seems like he's very different in the past 2 days. my question is, do you think he's acting this was because he's confused, or was he a jerk all along and i was just blind and i should 4get him!? help me please cause i'm so confused!!! i also feel used and betrayed.

maybe when you decided to take it to the next level maybe he wasn't fully ready, if you think that is not that problem and he keeps acting like he is now, you should forget him and move on with your life.

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My lip is bleeding really bad from being chapped. Is there a way I can stop it? It's a reddish black and I'm about to go to school so it's going to look weird. Any tips?

my friend had that happen to her lips, she just used a lot of chapstick and didnt try to smile or stretch out the lips to hurt them.

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Hmm.... I wonder if everyone on here thinks columnist "shake" acutally has a life...

i dont mean to be mean to shake but i agree shake is really sruel to these people who really need help. Shake needs to take these questions seriously, these columns are to help people not to laugh and make fun of them!

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r there any other advice sites out there that are good... i love this one... but i was just wondering if any one knows of anyothers

i found this awesome place by my yahoo search bar, u could go and search by google or a search bar to find advice sites

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