~About me~
Name:: Alexandra
Gender:: 100% gurl
Age:: 15
Birthday:: November 20th
Grade:: Sophomore! (10th)
Hair color:: Dark brown
Eye Color:: Brown
Status:: Taken
Sign: Scorpio
~Additional Info~
Fav. color:: Piink
Fav. drink:: Water
Fav. Food:: anything filipino
Idol:: Adrianna Lima, Mya, Angelina Jolie
Fav Movie:: Sleepers, Murder in the first
Fav. song:: Wonderful Tonight, What you so mad at?, without you, goodies, and anything by the temptations
Yeah, so I will help anyone. i've been through alot in my life... alot having to do with: family, friends, relationship, school and alot more... i know alot about health issues. I love to help people. so if you have a question just leave one in my inbox and i will answer it as soon as i can and i will answer it the best i can.
Website: my pictures
Gender: Female
Location: New york
Occupation: student - sophomore year in high school
Age: 15
AIM: xtemptashunz
Member Since: August 19, 2004
Answers: 86
Last Update: March 1, 2005
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i just figured out that one of my really good friends drinks and stuff..and it really sucks because now my whole perception on him is totally changed. is it really that bad to be drinking as a freshman in high school, i mean i know everyone does it or whatever..but its just really sucks to find something like that out about someone you thought you knew..any suggestions on what to do? (link)
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basically all you can do is deal with it, sorry hon, but i doubt he'll stop. i suggest to you to not start either
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14/f my friend lately has kinda been ignoring me like not talkin to me online, not talkin to me on the bus or at lunch and things like that. We have been friends for like our whole lives basically and she tells me that it annoys her that when i stare at things or people that i stare with my mouth open and i cant help it its a rele bad habit. so why is she ignoring me and what should i do to get more attention from her? (link)
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maybe shes on her period, cuz if your mouth opening staring problem bothers her, thats a pretty stupid reason for her to ignore you.
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ok im 13 and have always been energic. Ever since this school school year started ive been exusted every day after school. Its so bad that i acually want to take naps (ive never done that). i don't do after school programs so those can't wear me out. plus for the last 3 days ive done nothing but want to eat (also never done this before). i have no idea wats wrong and i can't go on like this. plz help i'll rate.
p.s. i can't take naps after school i have no time! (link)
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Hon, dont worry yuor growing, your body will be more tired. but i suggest after you wake up and eat, go for a jog or sumin, dont let the food just sit there or else it will all turn into fat.
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Does anyone know if crest white strips work? (link)
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They worked for me, but I had a little problem with falling asleep, for some odd reason i kept thinking to myself that the strips would come off while I'm sleeping and I would choke on them in my sleep. But never did that happen.
Pro:
-Whitens the teeth
Con:
-Less sleep
lol, hope I helped!
Alexandra x3
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okay.... i have a crush... well more than a crush on this guy. He is so so nice and really good looking. he has the best abs and body. The only hook to this awsome guy is he's...well.. my brother. What should i do? Should i tell him my feelings or should i keep it hush, hush?
Please Help Me.
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wow thats sick, he's your frickin brother for heavens sake! i mean thats gross, and its called incest. keep it hush hush, and try to not like him cause thats just wrong hon.
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does anyone know some cool places to shop for jeans? i've been looking for some but everywhere i go they're either too expensive or not my taste. (link)
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jcpenny, Kaufmans, sometimes rave/g&g have some cute clothes... more shirts than pants tho. but yea those usually arn't too expensive and they have cute jeans
Alexandra x3
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I'm tired of my hair. I dye it all the time, and I usually wear it down and curl the ends, or wear it half way down, or curl it or just throw it up. Is there anything else you can do thats easy. (link)
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I'm not gunna tell you to stop, but I'm just gunna tell you dying your hair too much is not good for it. You can straighten it,maybe when you wear it down, dont do a straight part, but a zig-zag, thats always fun. I hope I helped.
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Alright .. so im 13 .. and i had sex for the first time with my boyfriend last night .. meaning i was a virgin until last night .. well i heard your supposed to bleed your first time .. and i didnt .. it hurt like SUPER SUPER bad .. but i didnt bleed .. and i was just wondering if thats normal or not . Thanks :) (link)
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yea its normal, not all girls bleed, and your pretty stupid for having sex at such a young age.. your be regreting it!....
never did i call you a slut, im just saying that you are too young for doing that, and yes your will regret it, maybe not now, but watch you'll see
also you put your age up in the question, most people would take that into consideration and mention something about it.
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I feel torn between two groups of friends. One group (Group 1) doesnt like the my friends in the other group (Group 2). They are always fighting and I fel that if I stand up for my friends in Group 1 then my friends in Group 2 will hate me. Group 2 friends are always teasing and saying really rude things to Group 1 friends. I DO stand up for my friends....I just feel that I am hurting my other friends by standing up for them and telling them to back off and to stop saying those things. Group 2 doesnt ever seem to minds it when I tell them to back off but then they never talk to me unless Group 1 isnt around. How can I not feel so torn between my friends? I love them all and dont want to lose any of them!
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tell them that you would apprectiate it if they didn't talk about your other friends while your around. And if they are your friends they will respect your wishes and not talk about the other ones.
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See, i'm gay, and thats why i have a gurly user name, i am really a man! my boyfriend just broke up with me, and i am really depressed, i look so straight in gay bars no one aproaches me, what should I do!? please help! (link)
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approach them! dont be scared, take a chance, whats there to lose!? im sorry to hear about you and your boyfriend, but try and be happy and have fun!
Alexandra x3
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Hi, I'm a 14 year old gurl, umm well theres this boy that has liked me for awhile but i always thought i was too old for him, hes a couple months younger, i didnt like him but he was always really nice to me and made me feel worth something, and i liked him a lot just not where i wanted to go any farther then friends with him, but now he does not like me anymore and i feel like i lost him and i realized i like him now that i dont have him, even though i thought he was too young and the whole grade difference, it doesnt matter now, i dont care about that i just want him back, what am i suppose to do??
pleazzzeee help me, its kind of hard to understand unless you have been in this situation thankx for the help,
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I kinda do understand where your coming from, but only to a certain degree. Maybe he just gave up cause he didn't feel as though he was gunna get anywhere. Talk to him, flirt with him, make it clear to him that you like him. then if he doesn't step up and say something, you tell him that you like him and you want to be more than friends. and then take it from there, if he just wants to stay friend dont force anything. hope i helped
Alexandra x3
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I have a 1982 monte carlo with an oldsmobile 350 rocket engine. what kind of oil would you reccomend using for this top of the line engine (link)
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Well.... i must say, i have absolutly no idea, and i tried looking for the answer, but i have no idea what to search for.... so, all i can say is, ask a car dude. hehe
Alexandra x3
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15/m alright, theres this girl that lives really far away, but she is like completely in love with me, and i like her, but i also like people that live around here. So i want to date people around here, but i dont wanna tell this girl that lives far away. what should i do? (link)
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Well, you should date around where you live because long distance relationships are hard. I think you should explain to her that you do like her, but it would just be too hard for you to handle a long distance relationship, and that you two should remain friends. if you need any more help, im here
Alexandra x3
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im 15 years old and i think that i have found my love but the problem is we just got started and he just got locked up in a detion places i dont know what to do i dont want to leave him but i dont want to hurt and im just losted and i dont know how long he will be in there what should i do ? (link)
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aww, well im sorry to hear that. you should try and find out how long he will be in there for, and depending on the timing see if you will be able to wait that long. if not then take a break, dont sit there waiting, you have your whole life ahead of you to fall in love. have fun, you shouldn't be strained down by someone you dont see. hope i helped. leave one in my inbox if you need anything else.
Alexandra x3
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okay well im 13 and i am sorta preppy and girly.. but i also love the color black and i have black dickies and everything and i love wearing it but like not exxagerated.. but i feel like if all of a sudden i walk into school with all this stuff on someone will be like ew what are you doing!???! so should i gradually wear it like black dickies pink shirt or something like that.. my best friend is like that so it would kinda make sense right? i am not easily influenced by peer pressure at all i really do my own thing at all times.. but i hate people sometimes.. if you can help.. thanks.. i`ll rate you (link)
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Hmm, well i have no idea wat dickies are, but i looked it up, and if its clothes like shirts and stuff, i think their stuff is really cute, and you should wear it. but if you are scared about people thinking 'what are you doing!?' then wear it gradually. but dont worry about what other people think about you, it doesn't matter as long as your happy with who you are.
if you need anything else im here
Alexandra x3
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I'm a fifteen year old male and I have this problem. My best friend is a girl and we've been good friends since before kindergarten. I'm starting to develope feelings for this girl. At first I thought maybe I could just forget about it and move on but my feelings are getting stronger and stronger.
What should I do? Should I tell her?
If I do tell her and she doesen't feel the same then what should i do, I don't want things to change in a bad way but I think we could have a very good relationship together! please help me (link)
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Hello. Well in my opinion I think you should tell her. You never know what another person is felling, she could like you too. If you do tell her, and she doesn't like you in that way, your relationhip shouldn't change if you guys are that close of friends. In fact the only way it should change is if you feel odd around her after....which you shouldn't. But you definatly should tell her because how will you ever know... you dont want to ask yourself "what if?" when time goes by and you didn't ask her. I hope i helped. Feel free to ask me any more questions. I'll be more than willing to help.
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Ok so here is the deal i wanna tell people about god. and i know that it is a good thing andi have planned to sing at this years talent show. like a gossple song i dunno what i am gunna sing but i do know i am gunna do it but what i don't know to do is
how to show people that i am a strong christian.
how do i approach people into asking god into there lives and stuff
thnx
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oooo sing 'Wade in the Water' its a great song and its very powerful
as to approaching people into asking to let god into their lives... i'll would leave that decision up to them and let them decide and not force it onto them.
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i am 14 male, i really like this girl that is 5 months older then me, shes in the next grade and thinks she too old for me, she jus broke up wit her boyfriend and she thinks im reallly sweet and i really like her, what am i supposta do to make her think she aint to old cuz i already went out wit her b4
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Hmmm, well if she just broke up with her boyfriend you should give her time. Sometimes people have different views on things, she might think shes to old for you for many different reason, people our age tend to think very different and our point of view on things are widely ranged, it also changes soo much. I think you should respect her opinions and cherish your guy's relationship as it is. my guess is that she likes you but not to the point where she wants to go out. and when shes says she thinks your sweet, believe her, cuz my guess is she really thinnks your are. good luck! much love
mahal kita
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I've got long ( mid back ) straight dark brown hair . It's cut so that all my hair is the same length , and all straight at the bottom .
It's really boring , and i would like to do something special to it . Does anyone have any ideas ? I don't want to dye my whole head , but i wouldn't mind a funky colour or just some highlights . Is it possible to only dye the ends of my hair so i can cut it off just in case my mum freaks . ( i'm going to do it before telling her , because if i ask her first she will refuse flat-out )
Also , i would like to cut my hair so that it is shorter in front , but longer at the back . Kind of like Jojo . What is this called ?
Btw . i'm kinda tanned as i do alot of sports . (link)
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get it layered in the front and angled in the back, thats what i have. i dont think dying the ends would look right on dark hair, but u should get redish highlights, like a dark red. or a natural looking color highlights. hope i helped
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Heres the story..i went out with this guy..we'll call him "bob"..in the begining of the summer. I wasnt really ready to go out with him, because we didnt know eachother all that much, but we really really liked eachother and all that so i said yes when he asked me out. We went out for about 3 weeks, until i dumped him. I didnt really have a straight reason why, i just did. And i regret it so much. Its been 2 months since we were going out, and i miss him alot, i have the strongest feelings for him and i want him to feel the same way but i dont think he does..and in this case..im clueless of what to do!! sorry if it sounds a little confusing..but i need some serious help cause i like him soo much!! (link)
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well i think you should talk to "bob", and find out his feelings, cause how else will you know what he's feeling. but if he doesn't feel the same way, then theres really nothing you can do...you cant control how other people feel. but you can flirt with him sand talk to him more and maybe he'll start likeing you again. if you talk to him and he does like you and you two end up going out again then congrats! but this this, dont break up with him unless your sure you want it and you have a reason. i hope i helped
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