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torn between friendships!!!
I feel torn between two groups of friends. One group (Group 1) doesnt like the my friends in the other group (Group 2). They are always fighting and I fel that if I stand up for my friends in Group 1 then my friends in Group 2 will hate me. Group 2 friends are always teasing and saying really rude things to Group 1 friends. I DO stand up for my friends....I just feel that I am hurting my other friends by standing up for them and telling them to back off and to stop saying those things. Group 2 doesnt ever seem to minds it when I tell them to back off but then they never talk to me unless Group 1 isnt around. How can I not feel so torn between my friends? I love them all and dont want to lose any of them!
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Well if i wuz u i would tell both groups of friends that even tho i like them i like the other group 2 and not 2 tlk shit bout them while i'm there cuz i stick up 4 my friends!HOPE I HELPED!!!!
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tell them that you would apprectiate it if they didn't talk about your other friends while your around. And if they are your friends they will respect your wishes and not talk about the other ones.
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I sounds like your freinds are a bit immature. But, I do know what it is like to be friends with people that dislike eachother. I don't think that you really have to deside between them. If they are really your friends, they should like you know matter who your other friends are. Tell them that. If a group doesn't agree with you, then you probably shouldn't hang out with them anyway.
Lots of Luck,
Ann
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