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WHAT DO I DO!?!?!?!
i am in love with a girl, she used to like me but she for some reason "stopped"...i found out recently that she snuck out with her friend and two guys and went somewhere and was making out with this guy for like 2 hours and i thought me and her had something, she said he was really nice and they just clicked and hes a sophomore at my school, although me and her "clicked" supposedly and i was nicer to her than any guy could ever imagine being to her...she told me not to be mad at her, hate her, or stop talking to her because that would be fucked up...please dont tell me to get over it and everything...ive tried and theres more to it but im sure youll get bored reading this long page...ill rate a 5 if you give me a helpful answer...WHAT DO I DO!?!?!?!
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This is a very old fashioned way to do this,but be persistant. Come to her house with flowers,post letters on her locker,even a picture.Always make it anonymous so she wont know.Also,tell her about you-something you know she would like that she never knew about you.Or be at least her friend,and see if you can work your way up.If this does'nt work,the pesimistic way to put this,(I am NOT going to say forget about her,) is get her jealous. I usually never get down and dirty,but this is love. Date her best friend if you have to.Yes it makes you look like scum,but if your sure you want to get her back this way.
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hey! well i think you should sit down and just talk to her about this..tell her how you feel about her and feel about this situation that is going on, and let her tell you how she feels as well. but i dont think u should hate her, just try to work things out with her :)
hope i helped!! much <3,
my sn is: RachBayb08
u can IM me ne time if u want to chat about this.
~*rachel*~
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i've been going through the same thing and everyone told me just what they told you about giving up. but if you really love her stick it out. shes just going through a weird phase trust me no girl wnats to send all her time hooking u. as her out and go do somthing fun because the second you gte a girl to laugh or smile her real smile...well thats the second you've catured her heart.
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It wouldn't be fucked up if you were mad at her, hated her, or stopped talking to her. It's fucked up for her to do all that to you! She shouldnt've told you all that and then went against what she said. Maybe she just wanted a little break and thought she needed to get away from everything and be single for a while. I hope maybe you can find another chick that you like and just see how it goes. For now you obviously can't talk to her about it, but you can try to hook up with other girls and find a new one. Hope I helped! -Kayla
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Sounds to me like shes the moron. The only advice that anyone could offer you without telling you to get over her is try taking her out to dinner just you and her. Treat her real good let her see the mistake that she is making. Allow her to compare. If she chooses the other guy over you at least you tryed. Her loss not yours.
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i kno how u feel and have been there! i also no its not easy to just "get over".. my only advise that i could give to u would be to tell her EXACTLY how u feel about her.. and if things dont change and she dont feel the same.. as hard as it will be.. u'll have to slowly move on.
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Gettin ovr a crush is nvr easy!You must realize that people change.I'm sure u've changed as compared 2 last year to.As the grl goes i think you should tell her how u feel and if that doesn't work then i'm sure u can find an even better grl 2 have a crush on!!!!!!!HOPE I HELPED!!
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