i hope i can help a lot of people with there problems cuz i have problems 2 and most of the time i understand the way other people feel. just about all of my friends turn to me for advice so i might as well help out other people also.
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i'm 14 almost 15 and im overweight. I use to weighh 180 pounds when i was in the 6th grade but i lost most of it..and now i weigh like 150. i wantt to loose weight. I just can't seem to stick to a diet but i am really going to try. Does anyone have any ways i can complete my goal of 120 andd in 6 months?
Thanks You (link)
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exercise everyday and stay away from junk food and really geasy foods and things like that. drink lots of water. dont drink soda.
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how can i convince a guy to break up with his girlfriend bcause he thinks its okay to have me and his girlfriend at the same time and i want to show him its not i know this sounds mean but he wont leave me alone and i dont want to do stuff with him untile hes single or going out with me (link)
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if he really loves her then he wont break up with her. most guys dont they just cheat on them then they tell their gurlfriend about and tell her how sorry they are and all this other crap then they keep going out so i doubt he will break up with her if he loves her.
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I met this guy alex a couple days ago. He flirted with me almost the whole night then 3 days ago i went to a party and we made out. He said he would call em afterwards but he never did. I dont know his number or sn . I dont know how to get him to liek me becasue im pretty interested. DO u think he just wanted ass? (link)
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i think he was just using you. he needed someone to make out with and hopefully give him head. dont take it personal but i doubt he will call you.
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As stated in my profile. I have been told that I give good advice but I cant take my own.
*Well I've been with my Boyfriend for awhile now, and we are completly happy. He calls me each and everyday and tells me he loves me. And its only every so often that we go a day without seeing each other. I love him to death, i really do.
So lately I've been telling him I want to be with him for a very long time, and he always grabs my hand and smiles and says we have a long time left together babe.
Well at a young age I was rapped by an older guy and then, I actually gave another guy a chance and slept with him and then he cheated on me and broke up with me because I was too insecure.
And this is the Second guy since the incident that I've slept with and he's been there and loved me and hasnt giving me a reason to doubt him. But it's like Im scared of losing the love of my life. I swear every man that I've every loved I've lost...My dad died when i was 13!
Well today I was quiet and he looked me in the eyes and asked me what was wrong and i got all teary eyed and said I dont want to lose you...and he was quiet and said dont think that way i love you and only you and dont want anyone else, dont think your going to lose me we've still got along time together...well you think that would make me feel better right? Well it didnt, im still iffy....
We are leaving to go to mexico tomorrow with my family for about 4 days and then December 18 we are leaving to New Hampshire to stay with his family for two weeks...so i know he is pretty serious about me but Im still scared...i dont know what it is i trust him to death but idk....
-I'm not looking for the answer of: Don't think of him as all the other relationships. Or dont freak out about him, dont be so insecure it'll be okay...i need some serious advice...-
please help* (link)
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well i know your not looking for an answer of dont look at him as all the other relationships but thats exactly what you need to do. if hes takin you to meet his family and hes takin the time to meet yours hes serious about your relationship. if hes slept with you and hasnt left you then hes serious about you. stop thinkin negatively. think about all the good times you've had together and all the times your gonna have together in the future. tell him what he means to you and he will do the same in return then you will know hes not like all the other guys. i hope i helped.
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I got some hatemail in my inbox today. What would you say to the jerk who sent it if it was sent to you? The jerk said I was gay and ugly. Can you help me?
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well im not gonna cuse because last time i did that i got my account suspended but just tell them to leave you alone and if they have a problem with you then they need to say it to your face and not through the mail. just be as mean as possible.
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Okays idk wut it is but i thnk mayb i have a yeast infection .. im not sure but how wuld i no if i did .. nd is there any way to get rid of it without telling any one ?? thanxx
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i think you should go see a doctor even if you dont know if you have it yet. it wont just go away by itself it needs to be treated. i dont know a lot about yeast infections but i know you need to see a doctor. hope i helped
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hey im 13 and a female and in grade 2 i had the biggest crush on this guy but then i transfurred schools. just about a month ago i got ahold of his msn and we have been talking and i still really like him! he knows i do and he likes me too!:D. we are best friends now and we dont know what to do cuz if we go out and it doesnt work out we dont want to ruin our friendship! if it helps hes liked me since grade 2 too! please help!!
**sleepiesheep** (link)
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i think you two should definately go out. if it doesnt work out you can still go back to being friends. trust me i've done it before.hope i helped
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ok i broke up w/ this girl and i really wish i hadnt and we still like each other-alot-but she made a vow not to go back out w/ me even though she still likes me or anyone until next year, but she may forget the feeling so should i ask her out or keep going on? i rate VERY HIGH!
thanks,
~fellow advicenator~ (link)
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explain to her that you really didnt want to break up with her and that you love her and you really wish you hadnt broke up with her and tell her you want to go back out with her. if she says something about the vow she made then tell her you will wait for her and you wont go out with anyone. just tell her how you feel. she should understand. hope i helped.
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Ok, I know this sounds lame, but I think boys don't like me. I haven't had a boyfriend for a bit longer than a year. I even tried asking some guys out and they said no. It just makes me feel like they don't like me. I'm nice, athletic, funny, cool, and all that stuff. I tried being patient, but it's not working. Even the guys I like treat me just like one of their friends. What am I supposed to do? I'll rate HIGH!!!!!!!!! (link)
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i know exactly how you feel but all you have to do is stop searchin for a boyfriend and everything u want will come to u. its like that saying never frown because you never know whos falling in love with your smile. that is so true. just stop looking for a boyfriend. be yourself and dont worry about any guys until they come to u. i hope i helped. =)
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I like my best friend more than a friend but don't wanna ruin our friendship. He likes me back tto. What should i do? Risk it or play it safe? (link)
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since you are best friends and you both like each other i think you should definately go for it. if it doesnt work out then im sure you to can go back to being friends. i hope i helped.
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Are there any suggestions on how I should tell my parents i'm bisexual? I've wanted to for a while but didn't know how to bring it up. I have a girlfriend named Madison too. 16/F (link)
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just tell them!! they are your parents they are supposed to love u no matter what you are but if your parents aren't like that then think of a way of hinting it to them at first then just come clean with them. if they dont accept you for what you are then that shows you that you how loving you parents are.i hope i helped.
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should i IM my ex-boyfriend? i've been wanting to talk/chat with him, but everytime i try to, i'm always whether scared or there's something to stop me. so, should i talk to him or not? (link)
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i think you should IM him. the worst thing he can do is block you butim sure he wouldnt do that. dont be scared about talking to and ex. you should always stay friends even after you break up. i try to but there are just some cases where u cant. i hope i helped
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Me: bye baby io lkove you
Her: later
Me: ...?
Her: bye?
Me: i said i love yiou
Her): you too
Me: :-\
Is this girl still into me? Is she giving up on me or what?
I need to know because my heart can't take it anymore (link)
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gurls sumtimes have mood swings when its our time of the month. if she continues to act like this then ask her about why she doesnt say she loves you.i hope i helped.
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what happens...when yu want a boyfrend but no one seems to like yu? i need help
what can i do? (link)
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hey. i know how you feel. the right person will come along soon. all you can do is get to know who ever it is that you like a little better until they come around to asking you out. its not that your ugly or anything its just that some guys take their time in asking gurls out because they want to make sure that they are really like you and arent just going out with you because they want a gurlfriend. your guy will come. i hope i helped.
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I'm going to be 17 soon..and I've never had a boyfriend..I've never been kissed...This is really embaressing for me to write..All my friends have had boyfriends..even the not-so-pretty ones..I'm sad..at dances, no one dances with me..I feel so sad because everyone has one now...What should I do?? I'm afraid one day someone is going to confront me about my prude-ness...gossshh this is so sad for a 17 year old..help :( (link)
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dont feel bad. you''ll get a boyfriend soon. I'm sure you aren't the only gurl out there who has never had a boyfriend. the right guy will come and when he does you'll be glad that you're single so he can ask you out. just be yourself around guys and dont be all shy and stuff. guys like to see that you are comfortable around them.i hope i helped.
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i'm a male, over 20, alone as hell.
i've never been able to get a girlfriend, i've tried and tried.
it seems like some crule cycle with me, meet a girl, ask her out a couple of times, start to like her and suspect she likes me too, try to be there for her and everything, try to move things up a notch, get the "you're such a good/nice/fabulous guy, i just wanna be friends" routine. Then i'll let go of how i feel as much as posible and try being "just friends", then she picks up the biggest jerk known to mankind and i get to sit across the table watching them make out (TORTURE, for those who care). then the arshole will proceed to cheat on her, she's crushed, i have to listen to all the bullshit and cheer her up, only to find her back with the butthead a week later, then a month later he'll cheat on her AGAIN...
by the third time this happens i simply fuck off, cause she's still won't go out with me and she keeps on going back to the total jerk and every month i have to be there for her.
WHAT THE FUCK, girls always tell me what a "NICE GUY" i am and the friendship crap, but why won't they go out with me.
I'm starting to accept that i'll die alone and bitter, and am starting to avoid woman totally.
I just don't know what to do, i'm really starting to lose it with woman.
I'm over 20 and i haven't even kissed a girl yet. WTF?!!!!!!!!!!!!
should i just kill myself now instead of becoming a full blown alcoholic?
should i try to like guy's more, and simply go gay?
at least i get alot of attention from gay guys trying to chat me up at bars, though im not gay. but women.......FUCK
i need advice please. (link)
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dont just go after one gurl. go after several at one time that way when one of them hooks up with some one u still got more you can go after. if you do go afer just one girl and shes goin out with someone else and they r cheatin on her then tell her she could do much better and that if she was with you, you wouldnt cheat on her. tell her you feel sorry for her and all but the guy shes goin out with is a jerk. i hope i helped.
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ok so my friend says how much i flirt and all and i really dont, she just thinks flirting is talking to the guy she likes, but any way so she tells guys that i flirt with everything that has a penis and that really hurts my feelings when she says it to me but when she says it to me, but to guys and all thats really embassesing(sp) and hurtfull. and today i was talking to a guy and he was like flirting with me and i kinda like him so i flirted back a little, and she pulled me by the hair and got me away from him and was like "stop flirting i just saved you from embasesment" and i wanted to scream "no you didnt you embarassed me even more" but i just kinda walked away from her and didnt say anything...what should say to her that wont piss her off cause she gets pissed off pretty eailsy..o by the way were both 13...thanks for any advice in advance!! (link)
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tell her you dont think you flirt a lot and if she thinks you do then thats just how you are. if you are a flirtaous gurl you cant help it. dont let her pull you away from guys. she might just be jealous that you talk to a lot of guys and then again u might be talkin to someone she likes. dont let her embarras u in front o f people.
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ok my best friend (hes a guy) was hangin out with 2 of his friends. he said to his friends "swear to god not to tell anyone but me and (my name) banged last night" and they believed him! and they were aaskin him a whole bunch of questions and he didnt even bother to say he was just kidding. Why would he tell them that when nothing would ever happen between us? he eventually told them that he was just kidding but rumors coulda started off of that! why would he tell them that though when it wasnt even true? (link)
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guys like to make people think they do stuff with gurls a lot. they think its kewl when they say that kind of stuff even when it aint true. dont worry about it. if anyone asks u if you 2 really did that just tell them the truth. and if rumors would have started then you could have told him what he was doin was bothering you because you dont want people thinkin the wrong things about you. i hope i helped =)
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Hi,
I have this friend that's a boy (i'm a grl) and i've liked him since the day i met him. We're now best friends and do everything together on the weekends and whenever we have spare time. He has a gf and talks about marrying her (even tho he's only 13), and i try to be a supportive friend, but really he's just ripping my heart out. I've tried to drop hints that i like him but i know how he gets when ppl tell him that they like him when he already has a gf...it's not a good site. I guess i just want a way where i don't have to listen to the full on details of his relationship w/ his gf cuz it really does kill me inside. thanx 4 the help
~broken heart (link)
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a good way of kinds hinting him that u like him is by tellin him your really happy that he found someone he really likes and tell him you wish you had someone like him that loved you as much as he loves his girlfriend.
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There is this one guy that me and him are pretty good friends. He's a year younger than me, so he just moved up to the jr/sr high school. I see him a lot now and talk to him a lot more than before. And I'm not sure why but it seems like he likes me. And the problem with that is he has a girlfriend. Earlier this week me and some other people were hanging out at a school basketball game and during his girlfriends game he came and sat in front of me to talk to me. And a lot of hims when he'd turn around he'd like put his arm or hand on my knee or leg. The other day his g.f got hurt in gym and had to leave school, he came and sat with my friends and I during lunch. And then last night at the football game (which his girlfriend was at...but they weren't hanging out that much.) it was like 50 or below degrees and I was freezing so he offered me his hoodie. And he walked to the near-by gas station with us to get coffee and stuff. So I'm just wondering do you think he likes me? Please no stupid anwsers I just want to know what other people think. Thanks (link)
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either he likes u or he just needs a good friend thats a gurl so he can get help with some of his problems.have one of your friends ask him if he likes you even though he has a gurlfriend. he might be gettin to know you better so when the time is right he can break up with his gurlfriend and ask you out. i hope i helped =)
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