I'm Suki. I love to see the first bloom of a wild rose, to smell the salt spray of an ocean breeze, to hear the laughter of little children at play. Oh no, wait - That's somebody else.
Gender: Female
Location: United States
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Member Since: September 5, 2005
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Last Update: August 29, 2006
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hi there, well there's this girl i like. she has a boyfriend and she usually comes to me for help. we have lots in common and she has said to me that she wishes she had a boyfriend like me.. well recently i told her how i felt about her.. i dont know if i should of said this because im not sure things will be the same. she says its ok and she still loves me. but it feels like im in an awkward kind of position. any advice would really be appreciated, thanks. (link)
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Continue being her friend.
If she breaks up with her boyfriend, she'll probably go to you for advice and shit. You can comfort her, and who knows what will happen next.
And even if she doesn't, at least you can become closer friends with her.
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it burns when i pee and it feels like i always have to pee. could it be a yeast infection? (link)
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It could be. It is more likely a Urinary Tract Infection though.
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alright so my boyfriend comes over here like everyday and i love it because i get to see him everyyyy dayy and thats just fine with me but sometimes when hes over here and im in the shower i get out come to my room and hes on myspace writing someone or reading someones message to him but once i really get in the room he closes out of it really quick and this has happen twice. idk what to do because if hes hiding something i need to know but im scared to ask him because i dont want us to start an arguement. what should i do????? (link)
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You should check your history first. If it doesn't let you log into it because he was looking at his messages, ask him.
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i met some girls a few months ago. i got to know them pretty good. i have much in common with both of them. i liked 1 of them so i told her how i felt, but she has a bf. after she said that i said it's kind of awkward talking to her. she said not to worry and she'll forget about it. i'm ok with that because i wasn't deeply inlove with her anyway. but now i think i'm starting to like her friend, she seems real nice and always calls me cute and i say the same to her. is it too sudden to say i like her? note: she doesnt have a boyfriend (link)
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It's not too sudden to like someone, but you should wait a while to make sure it isn't just a rebound thing.
Maybe you are just in love with the idea of being in love. Or maybe you just want a girlfriend.
Take the time to get to know the girl in question very well before deciding if you want to date her or not.
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Hey, I have a picture phone and I was wondering if I can upload pictures from the phone itself onto my computer. I have a plug for it and everything but I don't have software. Do I need a disk or something to get those pics on? I already tried but I'm no computer genius.
Thanks guys, I need this more than you think. (link)
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You should email the picture from yourself from your cell phone.
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Is it ok to mastrubaate when your 12 years old (link)
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Yes, it is okay to masturbate at twelve. Many people start around that age or even younger.
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ok so their is this one boy and i really like him. i finally got the courage to tell him and when i did he told me he like me lots too. i was so incredable happy! then a few weeks after that their was a party that we bolth went to and we hung out and ended up making out on the floor.
but little did i know his ex girlfriend walked in the room and spoiled it. he didnt care but i did it felt so wierd! so i told him and he had been calling me prude. every friday my friends and i go hang out at this place and he was their and we ended up making out their too. but then some how my mother found out and she said that she didnt want me to have any relationship with him. so i tried getting over him. i went to another party and he wasnt their and this one guy i had a crush on for 2 years was their and we ended making out! it was so much fun. but then it got around school. then i found out that the guy i had like for 2 years was going to ask out my friend. and he didnt really like me. i was devistated. then the boy i had made out with twice told me he still liked me and of coarce i still liked him. but then he started flirting with other girls ALL THE TIME! i have been dealing with this FOREVER and the other night i told him i couldnt take it anymore and i couldnt like him i also told him i just wanted to be friends. he sat down and looked like he was going to cry and i dont know if he did because he was wearing glasses. but then he still had enough happyness to be all over another girl. so i felt bad so i went to talk to him and he said that i was the player and the flirt and i told him all the girls he was flriting with that night. then he told me that they where all over him. i had upset him so much he didnt want anything to do with me. what do i do? do i say im sorry? do i stay mad at him for LIFE? what in the world do i do? i NEED advice badly!
if it makes a difference im only 14 and he is too.
thanks! :)
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From what you wrote, he sounds like an asshole that was looking for any excuse to have a fight with you so he can be all over other girls and you'd feel guilty about it. Maybe it was just a one time thing, but you never know. Were you friends with this guy first?
Leave him alone and stay away until he calms down. Then if he talks to you later on, ask him about it.
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okay so i ran in a track meet yesterday and i fell doing my hurdles. i had to be carried off the field and now my knee kills and i am in serious pain. i cant even walk.. the trainer said that i should just keep ice on it for 48 hours. that pretty much means i cant do ANYTHING this whole weekend. so does anyone have any ideas of what i can do at home sitting so i dont get so bored? thanks guys. (link)
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Try...
Watching movies.
Watching DVDs of your favorite TV shows.
Drawing/Painting.
Talking on the phone.
Going on the computer.
Writing.
Reading.
I usually do not have anything to do on weekends, and that keeps me occupied.
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I have been getting really sad/depressed lately, and for no reason or for small reasons. I overreact to everything or just have breakdowns. I have been getting more and more of them recently, and I don't know what I should do. Sometimes I'll be really happy and then sometimes I feel like I have no friends and want to die. Is there something wrong with me? Do I have manic depression? (link)
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There is a chance you have manic depression. However, it is normal for teenagers to have mood changes. It could just be a phase in your life. If it continues like this for a while, you should get it checked out.
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I'm wearing a lime green dress to prom and it has some silver at the bottom half. My date has a black tux and a white tux. Which do you think he should wear? (link)
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The black one. You can never go wrong with black.
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Hey, the past few days (about 3-4 days) whenever i eat i feel really sick and like thowing up. and the thought of eating makes me sick. but do eat, could this be a sing of early balemic or anorexia? or what could it be.
thanx alot to anyone that helps
-Me (link)
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Probably not. From the information you posted, at least.
Perhaps you are getting sick or are about to have your period.
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VERY LONG BUT I RATE HIGH!
my dad. i dont know how to explain him.. he divorced my mom when i was 3 and i guess my mom walked out on me. she came back so now i see her every other weekend. my dad and her still fight sometimes and he gets frustrated with her easily. everyone at my dads house always says bad stuff about my mom, including my brother, so i defend her as best i can and my dad gets really angry. i live with him & my grandparents & my brother. i cry at least one time a day but i dont cut or anything like that. i just cry alot. hes very agressive, smokes, drinks, and takes pills. i dont know what to do though because im not sure why hes like this and he always takes it out on ME. i cant go to a psychiatrist because he wont let me or anything and i dont wanna tell the police or anything because he doesnt physically hurt me, only emotionally. oh and please dont tell me to talk it out with him because he will not do that :(
well if you have ANY advice then please help. & i am a 15/f if it changes anything :/ (link)
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You should talk to your mom about it. If she is willing to have you live with her, that could be arranged.
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my hair is a medium brown color. i have been trying to dye it medium blonde with very blonde highlights, but it either turns out a brassy dark red or stays the same. how on earth do i get my hair the blonde i want without using bleach which will dry out my hair wayyy toooo mucchchhh? should i get it professionally done? (link)
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Yes, you should get it professionally done. You might want to make your eyebrows slightly lighter too, because otherwise they'll overpower your hair, and will be the first thing people see when they look at you.
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Okay, one of my friends are bypolar...but i have no clue what that means. I know when he gets really mad, his eyes turn like, blood red and he shakes, i don't know if that has anything to do with him being bypolar any;thing....
i'll rate 5 for good answers (link)
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"Bipolar disorder (also called manic-depressive disorder) is an illness that causes extreme mood changes that alternate between manic episodes of abnormally high energy and the extreme lows of depression.
Bipolar disorder may cause behavior so severe that you may not be able to function at work, in family or social situations, or in relationships with others. Some people with bipolar disorder become suicidal."
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ok- i'm organizing a secret santa thing for our orchestra... i can't think of anything else to put on the form you fill out about yourselves other then...
Name:
Age/Grade/Birthday:
Instrument:
Play any sports?:
Favorite:
Color?:
Animal?:
Candy?:
Sports team?:
Any additional information:
what else should i put on the form?? thanks
(easy 5's!) (link)
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Favorite movies.
Favorite bands.
Things you do in your free time.
Favorite stores.
Things you want.
How much you can spend.
Favorite TV shows.
Interests.
Things like that.
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i really like this guy. i like him more then any other guy. all my friends says he likes me and he kind of seems as if he does, but im not sure. me and him are very different. im more preppy and hes more punk. he smokes and all that, i dont mind it either. i reaslly like him and i want to go out, but im afaird that because were so different me and him wont ever end up goin out. hes a senior and im a freshman so this year is the only chance i would be able to go out with him. he comes over a lot, but he comes over to play my dads drums, i just dont want us being so different the reson why we might not go out, i really like him so much, he treats me great. i just dont no what to do. what do you guys think. (link)
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I think you should go for it. Some say that opposites attract. If you are too similar to the person you are dating, wouldn't that get boring? Stereotypical labels aren't a good reason not to date someone, in my opinion. It is worth a try.
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hey do u know any scary movies PG 13 i was gonna have a movie night at my house this saturday night
respond by thursday PLEASE thanks bunch latta
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Well, being a horror movie addict, I can tell you that most thrillers and horror movies are rated R, and even NC-17.
The only one I can really think of is The Ring, but that wasn't all that good.
If you are willing to watch any R rated once, I have a -lot- of recommendations.
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ok i like this kid and my friend asked him why he didnt like he and he said it was because i was too skinny. like i kno im skinny but not so much that you shouldnt like a person because of it and its really bothering me b.c a lot of people lately have been commenting about my weight.. i just dont gain any no matter what i eat.. its not my fault. but what should i do? (link)
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You should not listen to what he says. He seems like a shallow asshole. Relationships with people who are that superficial hardly ever work. Don't waste your time with him.
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ok, well my exboyfriend broke up with this girl that he went out with after we broke up... and they broke up... well then he asked her back out like a day after words... I REALLY LIKE THIS GUY and im sad that he likes her instead of me...
HELP (link)
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There is nothing you really can do. You just have to move on with your life. You can't dwell on something in the past, sooner or later you'll forget about him if you try hard enough. Some memories are best forgotten.
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My friend said that Orbit gum causes cancer is that true!? (link)
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No, it doesn't.
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