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okay...i'm very depressed. And a guy didnt even break up with me or sumthing. i just dont have a bf right now...and i really like this guy at school...we flirt ALOT..but i still have a feeling he doesnt like me...and ever since i've been really depressed...(plus, homecoming dance is coming up..that doesnt help)
is there anyway for me to get out of this funk?

depression is apart of adolescense..or whatever. =) ....mm...ask him to the homecoming dance. casually. "do you have anyone to go with....no?...we should go together."

Aw...I hope he says yes.


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How can you tell if a girl is interested in you? Is there any kind of physical movement or gestures?


A lot of girls act kind of more shy around the boys they like. Just...differently.

MM....I doubt I helped much.


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hey this is kinda embarassing but im 18 and im a virgin! most girls my age have lost there virginitys at age 14! i feel so lonley and left out! so i lie and say im not! its not that i cant find someone its just that im so picky! i want it to be special and want to be in love! wat should i do? should i lose it with some guy i dont know? or wait for the special one? and is this wiered? i really need some advice! i lie to so many ppl and i feel bad! i want to be honest with my friends but im to embarassed!
-HELP
babyll873

you should wait. i, personally, think you would regret just fucking some random guy so that you can say you lost your virginity. and also people would think you were a slut for doing so. so......my personal opinion is that you should wait. and your friends should be understanding. if they aren't well then....you can get better friends than that. good luck with this.


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ok well, i REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY like my bf and we have been going out for 4 months. i think he is going to break up with me because he hasnt called for 5 days now AND when we do talk he never really....talks. i seem to be the only one on the phone at times. im not sure what to think. do you guys think he is going to break up with me? should i break up with him first? im so confused so PLEASE help me!!!!!!!!! thanks a bunches!

if you are bothered that he hasn't called you than call him and ask him to go to a movie with you. don't break up with him because you think he is going to break up with you because what if he isn't?

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what are some good screamo bands.. for example slipnot otep etc. ... will rate 5's for anyone who answers.. thanks ;-)

Taking Back Sunday and Senses Fail and Finch and Story Of The Year and Hawthorne Heights and 3 Days Grace is not screamo.


Norma Jean and Sepultra are screamo.

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How do I use a tampon? Do I always have to wear a pad or can I wear a tampon?

Of course you can wear a tampon. That's why they were created. There should be directions inside the box the tampons come in. I, personally, recommend Tampax Pearl.

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This kid likes me but I don't like him because he's NOT a good kid. I like my ex boyfriend and my ex likes me but if i go out with my ex the other boy will hate me along with my friend who's my ex's ex. (sorry if this is confusing by the way.) BUt the kid that likes me that I dont like keeps accusing me of liking my ex and if i tell him i do he'll tell EVERYONE and then if everyone finds out they'd hate me. What am i gonna do??????HELP ASAP!

why do you care so much about everyone hating you? why should they? you can't help your feelings.

but if you don't want "everyone hating you" than i guess you must just deny you liking your ex still and tell the kid you don't like to simply.....fuck off.

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well my ex boyfriends birthday is coming up and we decided we were gonna spend the day together after school or the following day together! weve been broken up for almost 7 months now! ya i know a really long time! but through it all weve been like best of friends and we talk all the time! and weve hung out twice this summer! well he does tell me he knows we both want to be together but it wont work right now because he is dating another girl but they arent going out cause she cant have a boyfriend! and even after being broke up hes like i love u and i always will! and just last night he said he missed us! and i still really care about him! but anyways for his bday i wanna do something really cute! i was already thinking about making him a cake and decorating it all cute and getting him a card! but i was trying to think of something else special i could do to show him how much i care! any ideas? thanks so much!

goodness. that makes me wonder why yall broke up in the first place. aw he'll love you for making the cake yourself. you could make a shirt that is all like "I

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Money problems with the man that I love. He has steep child support that is deducted from his checks weekly. He works as a checker 40 hrs a week. I am supporting him and myself and my three boys. If he gets any money from his checks it is usually between 20 and 80 dollars depending on union dues and such. with what money he gets from his check, he fills up his truck with gas and gives me what is left. I make about 1200 a month, and we live in a small two bedroom duplex. My question is should I tuff it out, and stay with him? I know we will never live in a nice big house, drive nice vehicles, and have stuff. We will always have to scrimp and save. He treats me with respect, and loves me. Or should I move on and hope to find another man that will treat me as good that makes more money?

If you truely have to ask this question then I don't believe you really love him and that you should find another man.

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this guy i have been hanging out with said that he wanted us to be friends nothing more, but maybe in time we could be bf and gf. I was fine with that. i heard later (from a girl that i trust) that he had a girlfriend. I asked him and he denied it. i dont care that he has a gf...its just we have made out and done stuff together...now i feel like a slut. What should i do with this guy? forget about him or still be his "friend."

Ask your friend who told you that he had a girlfriend how she knows that he does and ask her to point his girlfriend out. Then ask the girl that is supposibly his gf if they are going out. If they aren't then.....continue being his friend. If they are then you could still be the guy's friend (unless your mad enough at him for lieing). Just don't do "sexual" things with him anymore. And don't feel like a slut....you didn't know.

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Me and my best friend kelli used to really like this kid named brian...after we both had our share of asking him out he turned both of us down on the account of wanting to be single....now he barely ever talks to us and we really miss him...we went to friendly's all 3 of us together...and a winter carnival but i miss him a lot and so does she...we used to be a three sum but he kind of left...i love him as a friend and i want to earn him back for the both of us...please help me hes a really good friend...i love him like a brother

Rachel

make sure he knows that yall don't "like" him in the romantic way anymore but that yall would still like to hang out with him sometime. then.....ask him to do something with you and Kelli.

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Fellow atheists: I have a friend who is a militant Christian, meaning, she thinks it's her job to convert everyone who isn't Christian into one, including me. She knows I'm atheist, but it really bothers me when she tells me that I'm going to hell for not believing in Christian ways. I've told her many times that I don't believe in a god, afterlife, or book of worship. Yet, she still has the nerve to constantly bring up "god" and how I NEED to be a Christian. Other than that, she's cool. Are there any ideas on how to get through to her that I really don't want her help when it comes to religion? I'm going to snap if she comments to me one more time.

Lie and tell her you converted so she'll leave you alone about it.

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does any one know some good classic rock songs?

don't fear the reaper by blue oyster cult & stairway to heaven by led zepellin & behind blue eyes by the who & horse with no name by america. like anything by the doors or the monkees or the beatles or black sabbath or the who or pink floyd, etc etc.

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my friend thinks i dress slutty, but i dont really think so because she's a slut and her clothes are a lot smaller and tighter than mine are. i like to wear tank tops and i have some miniskirts, but i havent worn miniskirts in months, and now i wear low rise jeans. do you think i'm slutty?

Your clothing doesn't seem very slutty. I would think your actions would make you more slutty than your clothing though.

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I have a lot of friends but there's one problem with a lot of them: they think I'm gay. I used to not know why they thought that, but once I looked at what I like and stuff, I would probably think I was gay, too. Even with people I just meet, they ask, "Are you gay?" and I say no but sometimes they don't believe me. Let's say my name is Mike. Well one of my friends calls me Queer Mike. Everyone knows that he's just having fun but it hurts a lot. I told him that I'm not gay but he didn't stop calling me that. Everyone thinks I'm gay but I'm not! What should I do?

Knock the sh*t out of that mother f*cker. Just kidding. Um.... there is no way you can just get him to stop. I suppose you must just live with it. Perhaps you should get a girlfriend so that less people will think you are gay?

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ok when ppl say i got my cherry popped .. does that mean they just had sex or ??

That means that they have lost their virginity. Or rather had their hymen broken, I do believe.

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I am almost 16 and I have never kissed a guy. I've had the chance many times,meen I want to but every time I get nervice and tell the guy no. What should I do?

When the right guy comes that you feel 100% right about kissing then it will happen. And the moment will be perfection.

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whats an appropriate age to get a thong.. im thirteen.. is that too young?? also.. are thongs more comfortable than regular underwear??

thirteen is most definitely not too young. i, personally, think they are more confortable than "regular underwear" when worn with pants. and they are wonderful to wear when you want to not have any panty lines.

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I'm really bored. A lot of my friends are at camp. What can I do besides watch TV. Anyone know any fun websites for quizzes, or games, or other fun stuff? Thanks!

you should most definitely write to your friends at camp. random things. like "today i turned into a fish....."

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what are some other cute places to shop besides abercrombie, hollister, american eagle......etc.

you may be able to find things at thrift stores. i got this really awesome lab coat at one for a dollar once.

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