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& hearts < hey!!!this is sharee and courtney and we decided to do this advicenators thing together because alot of our friends like to ask us advice...plus were best friends...so we decided to put that to your advantage and help you guys out with whatever you need!!!!ask us anything =]& hearts
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On Saturday night I went to my best friend, Sidonie's party. A guy that she broke up with a month or so ago was there and I really liked him. We ended up kissing and the next day he asked me out, I said yes. Now I'm not so sure if I made the right decision by saying yes to him. For a start, I just feel like his rebound girl. When my best friend broke up with him he was very upset and I don't think he's fully over her. He keeps saying things like "You're so much like Sidonie." Which is kind of irritating and off putting. Secondly, I hardly know him and I wont be able to see him much as he lives on the other side of my city. I do like him but I'm not so sure if I want to just be his rebound girl, should I break up with him or see how it goes?
I think you should talk to your friend Sidonie and see how she feels about the situation also. I meen what if she is still madly in love with this quy ! And if you not 100% happy with the situation then it`s not worth it. hope i helped. -courtney
how can i make my butt smaller? and the top of my thighs?
push ups,running,sum type of pilates or yoga...haha dn then they have this thing its called buttmaster..haha my bro usta do it becuz he found it in my moms room...hmm ill ask him if it works good!!!haha♥
♥sharee
ok. well im currently trying to re-do my playlist on my xanga. it seems that the songs that end in asx work. (the urls) the songs that end in like wma or asf dont work. is there a reason for this or some way i can make it work??
thanks a ton.
try these places:
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=ILLEST_MUSICX3
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=musicaxmusica
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=Tha_Muziq
or if you wanna put music videos:
http://www.videocodes4u.com/index.php?page=0-9
http://www.urbnmix.net/
I may be completely over-reacting, but I really need some advice on this;
I'm thirteen, and I started smoking a few months ago... at first it was only a fag or two when I was around friends, but now its almost like I need a few cigarettes to calm me down just so I can start studying... not just around my mates and stuff..
Problem is; I've started to get some pain in my chest, and I've let myself get into a panic by reading that section on a ciggie packet about health hazards over and over again...
and now I'm afraid I may be sick... like i said, I may be over reacting... but I'm panicky... I don't want to die, my parents are doctors!
I can't tell them, I'll get into so much trouble... and after they send me for a check up, and if the results turn up fine, then I'll want to smoke again- but they'll confiscate the pack from me... and I won't be able to... Honestly, I have so much going through my head right now, I CAN'T STOP SMOKING, BUT I CAN'T DIE EITHER??
What should I do?!
PS. Sorry for the lengthy question
Okay i know it`s hard but you HAVE to tell your parents. I meen if you go to them all teary and upset like "omg i think i might die becuase i smoke" the first thing they would do is help you ! they aren't gunna be like deal with it your in trouble. i know it`s hard and i don`t meen to sound dramatic.. but would you rather get grounded MAYBE.. or have lung cancer or die? i know thats extrem but it could really happen. hope i helped -courtney
okay me and my 2 friends..Miranda and Ashley are always known to be "best friends" and like no one can split us up..well that's what everyone tells me..anyways..oh yeah and they are neighbors and i live a little ways away from them and i always hang out with Miranda without Ashley sometimes and then Miranda and Ashley always hang out without me..but when me and Ashley try to hang out without Miranda she ALWAYS gets mad at us..like she's always telling us that she feels left out when it's just us 2 without her..but i don't get it because we're not leaving her out we just want to hang out alone or whatever but she doesn't get that..we don't know how else to explain it to her..how should we explain it to her that we aren't leaving her out because whenever Miranda and Ashley hang out i never feel left out or whenever me and Miranda hang out with out Ashley Ashley never feels left out but this happens every time and now we have to keep it on the down low whenever we hang out alone because Miranda gets pissed off..how can we tell her that we're not leaving her out?? help me please!!
ok. well just explain to her that sometimes you want to do things alone. like you don`t always have to be the 3 muskateers lol. you can do things with one friend without the other one feeling bad. explain to her "Miranda, we aren't leaving you out or trying to hurt you. But sometimes you need to let us be alone" and make sure she knows that she can do things with ONLY ashley or ONLY another friend. hope i helped ! - courtney
HOW DO YOU FUCKKK!!
thanks yallllllllllllllll
HAHAHA i think i know who sent this..ill let yoda answer:
his brilliant remark:
It's a very complicated answer. First, she lays her eggs. Then I release my spores. Actually, that's not so complicated.
^^^ummmm...he said thats how a fish does it..
anyways...BIANCA...he sticks his pee pee into your waa waaa...hahhaa...and then u fake moan....yeahhhhhh...=]
13/f
ok my friend and I are going to babysit together. What would be a good price to have parents pay for our babysitting? there is 2 of us and we both need money. but also we cant charge too too much cuz then we wont get any bizness. also, is there anything else about babysitting i should know?
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Okay well since ther`s 2 of your you should probablly ask for 2-5 dollers per hour for both of you. And like you could brinq over a KID movie and always feed them when the mom told you too and if they have a bedtime MAKE SURE they qo to bed ontime that`s very important. and makesure you have a baby monitar so u can hear if they are okay. Hope i helped ! - courtney
Me and my gf are having a fight over the republic and the empire(star wars) she says the empire has the brains and knowleadge 2 easly over throw the republic, but i say the rebublic has better things 2 do then 2 worry over the empire casue every1 knows in episode 4 luke blows up the death star using the x-wing.
WHAT DO U THINK COULD OVER POWER?
hahahaha..let me ask my brother...yodddaaaaaa...
his brilliant answer:
Get a life, man. And get a better chick.
^^^wow tahnksz for the good advice yoda...
anyways...yeah ask a guy that question..hahha
kk
Ok, my hair is very thick and naturally wavy/curly. It takes two to three hours for me to straighten it and I need some other ideas for some hair styles. I tried using one type of gel that said if i scrunch my hair while blow-drying (with this gel in), it would make my hair look curly. But it didn't work. Is there any porduct you recommend? and if you could give me a website or tell me some ideas for my hair that would be great!!! Please respond!! Thanks!
Okay well you can still straighten it but not with a straightener.. my friend has really curly thick hair like you and she iron's her hair. don`t do it eveyrday tho. And if you want to scrunch your hair dry your hair partway so it`s liek still damp then put gel in and scrunch it. and to make your hair straight use sleek cream. Hope i helped ! - courtney
me and my friends grind at partys and we sandwhich is this normal like grinding with girls and im a girl alike if a bot asked me to dance and we started grinding i would keep on doing it me and my friends also sanwhich im not sure if this is normal we dont do anything gross if thats what you think because we dont we just grind and sandwhich please helpp
yepp it is..me and court(one i do this with)do it all the time..and my friend ashlee and i do,and kayla and i are grinding buddiesz so it doesnt matter...everyone does it really...exept for the lil wierd people that stand around...sandwiching i usta do with sum of my old friends do..dont worry...NONE of us our lesbian or bi or anything...plus if people cared ...you shouldnt...who cares what people think ...
Do you know how to stop deoderant from getting stuck in clumps beetween the folds of your underarms? Im afraid to lift my hands above my head because of all the white clumps of this so called "invisible deoderant" next, when I shave its smooth and there is no hair, yet its all dark, because I have black hair. Do you know any way to stop all the darkness and clumpyness under my arms? And plz, no waxing, cuz im terrified. I rate high
Okay well then you don`t have the best deoderant... you should get dove it works really well.. but if it still happenes i don`t know try baby powder ! hope i helped - courtney
you see i have this delema. im really desperate and i want a boyfriend. i have the urges to make out with someone. the only thing i can find to make out with is my dog. it gives me pleasure, but not enough. what do i do? HELP!
Well no offence.. but don`t only qo out with a quy for sexual reasons because then people will think your easy and you will qet a bad reputation. Ummm.. i dunno try makinq out with a bestfriend that`s a guy if he`s up for it. If he`s really close to you i bet he will do it. And if he does sports or anything ask him to try and get you a date with someone on the team. Hope i helped ! - courtney
i want to go to Wake Forest university but i don't have good enough grades to get or the gpa level yet, i am only a sopohomore but i still want to get in, i do have another choice of UNCW whitchis a good college. should i work harder to get into wake forest or just settle for uncw?
If it`s your dream college.. DON`T SETTLE ! i meen seriouslly just work harder because it`s college.. it makes your life career you have to go to a good one and it has to be the one you want. there are 100000 of colleges so don`t settle untill you find the right one. hope i helped ! - courtney **
ok well my best friend lets call her jenny & i
got into this fight. and when she gets into a fight w/ someone she has to get everyone to hate
that person too. so we got in this fight and a while ago before the fight we were at the library and shes like ohh lets make an AIM sn & curse at people. so i was like w.e. so she d always curse at people nd say it was my friend chrissy wen actually it would be jenny cursing at the people. so everyone hated chrissy nd i never went on that sn unless i wanted to see if somebody blocked me on my sn or if jenny said go on it cause i need to send u something on it. so when we got in this fight the other day she decided to tell everyone that i made up the sn that she cursed ppl on nd now like everyone hates me! what should i do?
believe me,i know JUST what your going through...same thing happened to me..only she lied and told people i was saying stuff about them.becuz she was mad that i was mad that she was talking shit about my sister...so now every1s mad at5 her for sayign shit liek that...so i would say is just ignore what people say and confront them if they are friends with her..you should be like "hasent she done asomething like this to you too?"becuz chances are..she has..or just ignore the stupid rumors...those girls that start them have nothign better to do with their time..or life...oh and the people who believe her over you obv. arent good friends if they do that to you..i learned that the hard way,anyways,hope i helped...
My Boyfriend and I were involved in a car accident friday afternoon... We are alright though. The car is totalled he hurt his shoulder and I hit my head.. but anyway.. I am terrified to ride with him.. or for that fact even drive. Since his car is totalled we've been driving my car and I've been driving. and hes like I'll drive.. and I tell him no that I Am.. I really trust him. I mean we've been together almost 11 months. and this really hurt him when I told him I was scared to drive.. and now he feels like I dont trust him anymore. and I don't know what to do to fix this. I even told him that I trusted him that he's just got to give me sometime to get over the accident that it just happened... What Can I Do?? :( Sorry This Is Soooo Long.
It`s okay it`s not lonq ! That`s really hard but you need to learn to drive with him if your really in that deep of a reletionship. You sound like terrified of it and i would be too. Maybe try (i know this sounds stupid) havinq a really close friend in the car with you two for the first few times. And have him drive only very short distances so you get your trust in him driving back. Sorry that was a hard question hope i helped ! - courtney ***
im 13 and my friend was 17. we are both girls and we made out. would that juss be considered 'experimentin' or would it change to makin us bi or w.e? my other friend is 14. she wants to make otu with me and i would.... is this all normal? am i still straight
Well if you did it as a one time thinq as a dare or just to be crazy then nah your not bi. But if you do it like everyday i dunno. Makinq out with girls can`t all teh sudden tranform you from straight to bi just like that though. Hope i helped ! - courtney !!!
ok for the second half of my summer i want to keep summer going good..any ideas on what me and my friends can do to make this summer memorable?
thanks!
16/f
Well it`s summer so take advantanqe of the hot weather ! Go to beaches or waterparks or if you have the money you could rent a lake/beach house for like 1 week or something. Or if that`s not your thinq you could do sports. Like cheerleadinq, qymnastics, or join a swin team or play volleyball or somethinq ! if you want to know names of sports teams or beaches or anythinq invite me into a chat room please ! sorry my AIM is messed i can only talk in chats. BR0KiN x PR0MiSE ! hope i helped ! - courtney ** Oh and i just thoght ! Get together a BIG grounp of friends with guys and go to the beahc and have a bonfire ! That`s really popular for summer ! =)
Alright...well my hair is extremely thick and frizzy and poofy in the humidity. I straighten it and that seems to help. but i was wondering...is it true that if you get your hair thinned out it grows back thicker? thanks ill rate
no it wont,you would have to stop straightening it and wash it everyday for it to grow thicker...
Theres a girl named nikki and we broke up like 3 days ago and i cant get her out of my mind i really want her back but i dont know how to get her back i know she still loves me so what should i do
Wow that`s really hard i`m so sorry. But don`t OBSESS over her because girls find that a little strange. Don`t seem despret but if you really do want her back just walk up to her and say i love you. Like i know it sounds drastic but life`s too short to wait for the "perfect moment" because she could be going out with someone before you get the chance to ask. Hope i helped ! - courtney
okay well my friend doesn't really have that many friends nd ALOT of people hate her and like i like her but she can be REALLY annoying. and if i dont put her in my profile for AIM she gets pissed off but then im gunna lose alot of friends if im friends wit this girl so wat should i do?
You sound like a very sweet person, but i was in the same situation with my friend. We were really qood friends but she was sooo annoyinq like she could have 10000 freinds (even though no one liked her) but she has to be my only friend. Just don`t be mean about it but I think you should just start driftinq apart.. hanq out with other people. You don`t have to be BF4L's but be nice to her. Hope i helped ! - courtney