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Q: ok i have a job interview on monday...its my first job (im 15)...does anyone have any advice?! im so nervous!

hey...you should look professionaly and personalable dont look overdone no lyk over hte top eyeliner or punked out clothes! be confident...make eye contact...dont do anythign distractin! um... thats alll and member you never have a seconnd chance to make a first impression!! hope i helped bye

Q: does anyone know what a really close lip gloss is to the one that like jlo wears..its like a really pale/nude pink

its a peachy pink a nude! you can find them at your local drug store! i have 2 that are great there loreal juicy tubes there great they last and look good they have a peach and a pink color and make your lips look good! pick one up! hope i helped rate me bye

Q: ok im a 14 year old boy and liked by alot of peeps. (girls 2) but everytime i try 2 get close to a girl i mess up and say stupid things and they think im a jerk wat should i do??????

i have two words BE YOURSELFF! then girls will see your not a jerk unless you are haha juss jokin hope i helped rate me bye

Q: My boyfriend is leaving for Tennesee tomorrow and im really depressed about it. He's moving in with his mom and I probably won't see him much anymore since I live in Illinois. I spent the night with him last night, and im doing the same tonight, but im wondering if there is any way to make his leaving easier on me. I really love him, and i dont want him to know how upset I really am.

Is there any way I can ease the pain of him leaving me?

**we're going to try a long distance relationship, but it still won't be the same as having him here!**

ofcourse it wont be the same but if your really inlove wit him you can make it work!
hope i helped rate me bye

Q: i'm 14 right now...but my dad keeps bringing up college. i don't think i want to go...i want to be in a band. My dad's gonna make me, i think. i know i've got about 4 years...but what do i do?

i thought about running away with my friends after graduation...is that wrong?

i kno how you feel mah dad brings up college everyday and i honestly dont wanna go if i dont have to go ...mah dream is to be a actress and i think i can make i think you should xplain to your dad that your gonna do what you wanna do becuase its your lyfE!! tell him you have dreams of your own and there not his dreams!!! follow your hearT! but dont run away!! hope i helped rate me bye

Q: so basically i lost about 45 pounds since april and ive worked really hard and stuff so i am proud of myself because i am FINALLY comfortable with myself and my body..... but ive always had a ton of guy friends and now that im in the 125 lbs catagory (im 5'8 btw) a lot of my girl friends have been making me borrow their clothes cuz nothing i have fits anymore and im waiting to go back to school shopping, so my friends are letting me borrow their clothes... Well about a week ago my friends decide to make me actually dress up.. so they have me wear all their little abercrombie stuff and i kinda knew i looked like a slut but i was sorta happy because atleast i looked like a pretty slut... We ended up meeting with all our guy friends and they were shocked because i hadn't seen them since late may. They were just like oh my god you look hott... and really i am not used to that kind of attention... like im always the person to crack the jokes or do the crazy stunts but not the one all the guys are like heyyyy... Everyones been telling me I should keep this look up and i do feel good in the clothes just the response isn't exactly what i want...

i think you should where the clothes that make you feel good not your friends and nobody is ever a pretty slut but im sure YOU"RE pretty! juss keep up the fact that you are comfortable wit your body! and where clothes that you feel good in!! hope i helped rate me bye

Q: hey im 12 and like 5'2 or 5'3.. :not sure: and im 107.. bvut i think i lost a lil weight.. wuts the normal weight for this hieght?
xox CraZyBBie

well im 13 bout 5 foot and only way 90 some lbs i think its all on your body type everybodys different! i may juss be small for mah age and all but im sure your normal you could be a little tall then most 12 year olds but dont worry cuz im smaller then the 13 year olds! dont worry hope i helped rate me bye

Q: Say there's someone I want to ask to the prom...how much time before it should I ask him? I don't want to wait too long because he might ask someone else, but I know that if I ask him too early it'll look a bit weird, or as though I'm desperate. I just want some advice on that, thanks!

1 or 2 monthes at the most you defintely dont wanna seem desperate! hope i helped rate me bye

Q: Ok, I'm sorry, I really don't need advice but...

Is it just me, or is every1 else sick of these kids in their early teens talking about having sex?

It is fully YOUR decision about whether or not u are ready 4 sex but if u r having any doubts about it that u prolly aren't ready. Even better, u should prolly wait until ur older (or even married) cuz then u know that u truely love the person cuz u shouldn't b doing anything that u might regret.

Ok... I think that about does it w/ my tyraid...

girl this is an advice column website thats what its for and if you dotn lyk it dont read it!!!!
thanx bye

Q: Does anyone know a site where I can ask a question on sex. I believe my question would be too graphic for this site because of how young most of the people here seem to be. :\ Or maybe a girl that would be old enough to answer my question (im 16)

i could defintely help you or find somewhere to get you the answers so IM me brunetebarbie@aim.com hope i helped rate me
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Q: Hey..I wanna call my ex bf and ask him to hang out..like go to a movie or something. Hes a nice guy and hes single..he flirted with me last year..when i call him what should i say? im pretty sure he wont turn me down..so im confident..just start me off? lol thanks

juss call him up and be lyk "hey... i was wonderin if we could get together hang out, go to the movies something lyk that anytime your free we could!" hope i helped rate me
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Q: ok.i got this new courdoroy tan/white skirt..what kind of shoes would be best to wear with it? Im not the best walker in heals lol. Would plain white sneakers be good? What kinda "fancier" shoes would be best?

Also..i have split ends...but i like my long hair..does layering it sound like a good idea?

for the shoes question.. i think a pair of white or tan colored short heels or flats and if your not the best walker in heels juss practice wit a pair! adn split ends all you need is a trim to get those split ends to go away! but you could layer they always look cute!! hope i helped rate me
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Q: Hey, its your advice columnist NicoleMarie. I had my first sonogram yesterday but its still 2 early to see if its a boy or girl. But now i'm excited. Can anyone give any ideas for baby names? But nothing too common. Thank you!

for girls i love the name Perri adn Brooklyn (its suppose to be together) for boys i think Brevon is really cute and... Cole i enjoy! hope i helped rate me
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Q: Well their is this guy that I have know since I was like 6 or older. we have always seen each other and I have always had a crush on him. he is like 20 turning 21 in feburary. I am only like 15 turning 16 in october. Is it bad for having a crush or like maybe a thing wit him even if he is a lil older then me? I like him so much but I don't know if my parents would like that he is older and I am so young for him. When we see each other too. we have so much stuff to talk about together and we are happy when we see each other and It hurts me when other girls hurt him. I don't want to do. well thank you Jenny,16,female

um.. girl thats lyk illegall so a crush is cool but you cnat do anything cuz if yous got caught he could lyk go to jail! hope i helped rate me
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Q: i didnt know what to put this under but whatever. i want to have a BIG 16th birthday ( im 15 ) my birthdays in july. What should i do? I dont want to have a pool party or anything. But can you give me some ideas..like where to go..if i should stay at home and invite people over or where to have it. ( if youve already had ur 16th birthday reply! ) but if you havent thats alright lol. thanks

i think at party at a hall or club would be good! it should be big wit all your fam adn friends! or if you have a house to put all these people do it at home! hope i helped~ rate me!
Taylor

Q: im not sure if this is the rite category but im a 14 year old male and i wanna run away. i dont like tthe way im being treated at home my parents r taking away my comps cuz they saw somethin on this site that they didnt like and they think i had somthin 2do w/ it. my mom is always yelling 4 no reason she thinx im always doin somthin rong my dad gives me no privacy and tries 2 read my messages. i hate having my life consumed by them. i want a life of my own.so should i stay or should i go?

hey... ive ran away before adn its not all its cracked up to be i had to come home i couldnt live at mah friends forever adn if your 14 you have no way to make money to live so its a waste!! but if you really think your parents are treatin you bad talk to them if you dont wanna do that write thme a letter! im sure if you tell them how you feel theyll understand and probably do something to help you! hope i helped rate me thanx bye

Q: Ok well i been wid mybf for over 9 months and i have been thinkin bout"IT" lol well i wanted to wait till i was like 16 but i dont think im gunna b able to wait that long cuz im 13 now turnin 14 next month but i feel im conforablen stuff n im almost definately positive my bf iz!! lol so my questions iz do u think i should or do u think im to young?!?!?!?! plz help!! thanx

~*~ Should I?!?!? ~*~

hey... oh my god ive been there realy dont do it wait until your positive hes the ONE!! your only 13 its way to young to be doin that or even thinkin bout that! if you need to talk IM me at brunetebarbie0x!
hope i helped

Q: hey ya'll ..i just turned 15 and i was just wonderin..when does your chest usually become fully developed?..like i'm a 34B & iduno i think that's small..but i'm already 15..is that guna b my chest size? or am i yound enough that i'm still developing?..=/..thanx xOx

girls usually dont stop growin till about 18 so you still have some tyme but you realy shouldnt be soo focused on your cup size its not everythign! but styll a B is not xtremly small for a 15 year old!
hope i helped

Q: i've been going out with a guy for over five months, and i think he wants to but he hasnt tried to kiss me... how do i let him noe im ready?

hey... i think you shouldnt wait for him to come to you and kiss you i defintely think you should take some action! if you want that kiss and you think he wants it do take some advice from a cheerleader be aggressive b.e. aggresive!! haha!
i hope i helped!!