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okay so in advance im sorry if this is long but please read and help anyways.
okay me and my boyfriend went out for 10 months and we had a good relationship but last weeekend was my birthday and my party .. it was a campout and well pretty much the whole time he was with one of my best friends, theyre friends too but shes a girl and they were cuddling, and all this stuff, well i guess she kissed him on the cheek and i got mad cuz like it was my bday and he was with her so we fought about it and he said i was jealous .. well then since we were fighting he would barely talk, so i left a message on his AIM away and said that if he wouldnt help and talk with me to work it all out then i was gunna give up cuz i was sick of trying to fix it by myself, well he took it as a breakup .. but i didnt..and i want him back but hes comfused he says and he says that its hard and everything and hes not sure if he wants me back or to be friends but he really cares about me still and loves me alot he said but he said alot more but i cant really type everything it would take a long time but i guess im really wondering is what do you think i should do..?
sorry its long but i cant do it on my own and i really love him.
btw im 15/f (link)
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well it's up to him. tell him how you feel...and tell him that it was a misunderstanding...and admit that you were jealous because it was YOUR birthday..and he cuddled with another girl.
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My parents and my friend's parents are not getting along at this current moment. ..and well ever since 2 weeks ago, the phone calls have stopped...and I guess I miss talking to her..usually, i would call her constantly..like everyday..and like my mom told me to stop to give her some time to herself..well it's been 2 wks..what more time can she have?? I have too much pride to call over now because it's been too long and it'd be awkward..she only calls me if I call her first..so idk what to do because I wanna talk to her..should I give it up and get over myself or wait for her to call or put my pride down? Thanks (link)
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look...if you really like her (which it seems like you do...) then definitely put ur pride down. "look at me i'm way past pride..isn't there some way that we can try..to be 'us' again" --Lonestar.
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ok, i here from my friends its ok, but im confused, are girls allowed to masterbate? like how many girls do? does anyone here? please help! (link)
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of course girls are allowed to! like 2/3 of the girls i know do it!
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Basically this guy I know is ignoring me.
He used to like me, and I mean loads, and we got on really really well. He used to call me all the time and flirt with me like hell. It took me ages to find out he fancied me (even then with a little help from mutual friends). I started to like him too, then he called me up and asked me out. I said yeah, but then I didn't see him all week...which was both our faults, but then the first day that I saw him he ignored me and then sent one of his female friends to dump me.
He's been ignoring me now for about two months, and its getting really uncomfortable. I still like him, but I haven't got a clue whether he still likes me.
And I just found out one of my not-so-close friends likes him too...and apparently he likes her.
Why is this guy ignoring me? And what should I do?
Thanks!!! (link)
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he may be ignoring you because he is pissed off that you guys didn't see each other. just wait and see what happens. but if he likes her, then there is nothing you can do...sorry..but if he doesnt go out with her...then call him and leave him a message and tell him that you NEED to talk to him about shit...
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I am datin this guy but he checks out all these other girls and today he was like (name) has a nice butt.Then he was like man look at them titties and it makes me so mad what should I do?
sign,
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do the same thing back to him...if you see a guy be like "damn he has a nice butt" and stuff like that... and "oh man check out those biceps"...and if he says somethin to you...say somethin to him about how he does it...
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okay well i got a boyfriend a couple weeks ago and he broke up with me because he was moving, and he told me to go out with our friend. so i went to the dance with him and brought him camping and we went out for a couple days. then he broke up with my and said it was because our friend likes me. whats wrong with me that people are always breaking up with me because their friend likes me? (link)
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maybe the friend always REALLY likes you. at least someone likes you... i don't know what else to say...
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I would like to find out about thyroid disorders and the medications that are taken and in what doses. (link)
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Talk to a doctor...or you could look online on google or something...
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omg i was so surprised when my bf said it was okay that i wanna take it slow and we can go at my pace..but i dont have a pace..so wut exactly is to slow to go with a guy without them getting annoyed or thinking ur not ready for the relationship or ur too immature? (link)
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go at whatever pace you want. wait til you are completely ready for anything. you shouldn't feel rushed or anything. you'll know when you are ready and willing to do something...
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i was friends with this girl in 5th and 6th grade, when we got into 7th we grew apart. now we just graduated from 9th grade, and were talking again. we made plans for her to come over this coming wendsday, i need sum ideas for sumthing to do, this will be our first time hanging out since the 6th grade. i dont want it to be awkward.
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go to the pool or watch movies or get online and chat with friends. just do stuff other friends do...
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Ok I was talking to this boy that I like online, and tomorrows the last day of school and we have a half day so he asked me if I want to come over his house tomorrow. So I was like yea and I asked what he wants to do..and he was like I don't know we could watch a movie, makeout, have sex, or I will eat you out! and im like um ok..I really want to go but I don't really know if I want to have sex with him I mean I do want to but I don't...its really confusing. But he says its totally up to me up to me..so what should I do? Thanks iLL rate hiGH!!! (link)
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don't do anything you don't want to do...
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Somtimes in my private place i dont know witch but somtimes there a (bump or zit).I`ve never had sex.And i`ve never shave over there.When the doctor takes your urin sample isn`t that soupose to tell if you have any dises over there.Plese help me I am so confused. (link)
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don't worry about it. it's prolly not a disease. it's probably just a pimple. just see a doctor and tell them about it and then have them check it out...
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O.K. I'm not trying to be nasty or anything but my boob is like really sore and it has been sore for like 2 days now. What should I do? (link)
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doctor.
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I have 16 fat, ugly pimples on my face. I wash my face 3 times a day but nothing works. Anyone have suggestions? (link)
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go to a dermatologist...and don't be so stressed. stress causes so many zits.
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Ok, I just learned that my boyfriend has had sex with ohter girls before we started to date. I dont want to do anything with him, but I just feel so disgusted. Im 14, and He's 15 and I cant believe he would do that. Im afraid of what he might try to do to me. He's hasnt ever tried anything before but I cant help to feel disgusted, my friend thinks I can do better than him and give him up since he lied to me so much, but I stil love him. Should I break up with him? (link)
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No. "God put our eyes in the front of our heads so we could look ahead...and stop looking behind us" ...what's in the past is in the past. if he hasn't tried anything don't worry about it yet...
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My mind wonders during school. Mostly about my current bf and how I want to like talk to him or w/e. I used to be an A student now I'm a C student. It's not like I can avoid guys completley. What should I do about? (link)
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just try to focus on school...
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how do you know if your bi-sexual ?? because i think i might be but im not sure .. like whatsz a sign of it ?? cuz like .. id have no problem hookin up with a girl or like eatin her out or somethin like that .. idk why but i juss like think its not a big deal .. an could bi-sexual lead to like lesbian ? because seriously i dont have any problemsz with gaysz or lesbiansz but i jus dont wanna be one .. like bi-sexual ? eh aint that bad n i know i proly dont have control over it or not .. but can someone PLEASE HELP ME
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well i would say you are bi-sexual. and it could lead to being a lesbian. i had a friend that started out straight, then dated a guy who made her make out with another girl...and she had no problem with it after that. and she ended up being bi-sexual. and now she only hooks up with girls...and she hasnt hooked up with a guy since.
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my x-b/f tried to make me sneek out of the house to go over to his friends (to watch porn) w/ him and his hommie . he made the commentthat anything he say or he got his hommie would see and get. i alreaddy broke up w/ this boi but im scarred that he might try to rape me. what should i do?
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be careful. just stop talking to him. and avoid being around him and try not to be alone wherever you go.. and if it's at night...keep a phone in ur room and call the police...
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I have never had any guys that have really liked me except for one. And I don't mean to sound self cenetered or anything but I am pretty. I have so many friends that are guys too, and they always say I'm hot. But everytime I like a guy I always end up getting hurt. Like I like a person and they don't like me or someone likes me and then when I finally like them they don't like me anymore. Is there any way I can prevent myself from getting hurt so much? (link)
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don't fall too hard, too fast... take it slow...
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I know all guys are different, but do you think it's a turn off if they meet a girl who is almost 18 and isnt experienced (like hasnt even had her first kiss)? (link)
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like you said, all guys are different. but some guys find it a MAJOR turn on. 1/2 the guys i know would rather go out w/ a chick that has no experience....than go out w/ a slut...
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I'm 17/f. My boyfriend of 2 years and I are going to a concert this summer and I really want to lose my virginity to him soon, so I figured why not that night? After the concert, I was wondering how I could somehow initiate it or give him a sign that I want to have sex with him THEN? I dont want to kill the moment by discussing it beforehand because I know it'd make him AND me feel uncomfortable knowing. I want to let it happen on it's own without making it seem awkward. How do I initiate the moment? (link)
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flirt with him the whole night...and like rub on him a bit... kiss him and stuff. after the concert just start making out with him...and then start unzipping his pants and then let it go from there. if he backs off...then wait a little longer
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