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When I am embarrased or telling a slight fib, (or maybe a bigger fib hehe) I blush! My face turns all red! For example, if someone says "Do you like Josh" and I say "no" (When really I mean yes) I blush, and you can tell I'm lying because I blush! Or when I embarrass myself, like say I fall, but try to make it seem like it didn't bothe me. You can always tell it bothers me b/c I blush! Blushing is soooo embarrasing!! Any tips on how to stop the blushing? (Or is it not possible?)
Signed,
Bashful (link)
haha im like that 2..i can feel my face get all hot...haha, i dont think there is a cure for blushing, but just b honest or if you dont feel like answering cuz u no youll blush, then just say i dont have 2 answer anything you ask me or somethin...ull look bak at the embarassing moments and laugh..so thats wut u should do - laugh it off!
hope it helped!!
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Ok, lets say one of your best friends just broke up with his gf, who you have kind of liked for awhile? Should you ask her out right away or give her some time? It wasn't a very serious relationship, but I don't know how she would feel going out with me, after being with my friend? (link)
i say you go for it!! if she wasnt too upset w/the breakup, then she should be fine and might even be happy about it...make sure she knows how u feel first..good luck!! ;)
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if a girl that u like is mad at you what should you do (link)
you could get her somethin small maybe..or gee, heres a thought! apologize! haha im not tryin 2 b rude but that usually works hahahaha..so try that and then take it slow from there...hope this helped somewhat!
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Ok so there was this 3v3 thing and a lot of people on my soccer team made teams. I didnt know about this intill like 3 days ago and a ton of people made a teama and no one asked me to play with them! i know its not cuzz im bad..im better then most of the girls that r on 3v3 teams and i have been on my real soccer team for 4 years now...ever sence the team started well i just wanted to ask how comeone no one asked me to be on there team when im better then a lot of the other girls! (link)
well to begin with, were you there...? cuz the way it sounds u just found out 3 days ago so it sounds like you werent there when they picked...and you can ask them why they didnt pick you..and do you maybe brag about your talents or hurt other peoples feelings? i am not trying to sound rude, im just checking the possiblities cuz u sound like a nice person. otherwise i dont no y they didnt include you, but yea u should ask. good luck and i hope i helped!
me


I was at the beach last week walking around bearfoot. Now my feet are pealing like crazy and look just awful. Is there anything I can do for them? (link)
your feet were calloused cuz you were walkin around on rough surfaces...but vaseline or st. ives cream on them..or johnsons and johnsons baby lotion..basically any lotion w/a good reputation lol..hope i helped you sumwhat
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i always feel lonely even though my friends and family always say im preety i mean there nothing wrong with me its just thati feel lonely. (link)
well if you dont have any brothers or sisters that could be why...just try to hang out with your friends and stuff a lot more often..go to the movies, heck you could get a boyfriend!! your friends are always at your side to cheer you up and keep you company. after awhile those feelings will subside..sometimes i feel lonely too..but then i talk to a friend and it all goes away and i cheer up. hope this helped.
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ok well tonight me and a close friend got into a fight. well you see we were talking on the internet and he started saying all this shit. and it was really pissing me off. and he lied to me to about his friends not being at his house. and now i dont want to talk to him cuz of something he said that really made me bad. and now hes all like well im sry its just that i was caught up in the moment and everything. and that hes there if he wants to talk. but i dont want to talk to him. cuz he said somethings that really pissed me off....what should i do?!?!..i have always forgiven him and been friends with him...and now its like...hes always or just wants to piss me off....help....
P.S.i rate good (link)
ok..he was probably trying to act superior in front of his friends, you know? all guys are like that, they are show offs around their friends, dont worry its happened to me 2, and if he really got u that ticked off, let him know! be like, wut u said really got me mad and stuff, so if ur gonna continue with that crap idk if im gonna treat you the same. good luck and i hope i helped.
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A little less then two months ago I found out my cousin was raped and i've been having some trouble dealing with it.I'm really close to this cousin , she's liek my best friend.when i first found out i just started crying , i couldnt even look at anyone for a copuple days.That i had to cry myself to sleep.i used to live in a house with her in when i was younger,i lived on the bottom and she lived on the top.Whenever i think about her and her baby i cant help but cry and its so hard for me to look at her without crying.I cant help but think maybe if i hadnt moved away i would have been with her and i could have stopped the jerk who did this to her.I seem to be the only person in my family who thinks she can finish high school and still take care of her baby.i mean its her family thier supose to be supportive of her.She was raped when she was 14 and had her baby when she was 15.She was born about 3weeks ago.I still cant help but worry about her and feel like i could have done something and i should tell my parents to be more supportive of her and stop thinking so negative.I couldnt even talk to my best friend about this w/o feeling stupid so if anyone has any advice for me, please send it. (link)
wow..that is really tough i am so sorry..it is not your faut! ok, its not like you would have just let it happen. there was nothing that could be prevented in this case. and you are right, your family is supposed to support her, and they should not think negative. just try to offer help any way you or your family can - offer to babysit if she needs to study, anything. she should still be able to lead a normal life. its not fair to her that people treat her different if they even do, and if they do, thats their problem! dont let anything bother you, just ignore everything. and dont feel stupid! that guy made a big mistake!! if he has a record, and they test DNA and stuff then they can track him down and stuff, so just dont doubt yourself and keep your chin up. i hope i helped out and good luck. if you need anymore advice just check out my column..its got my AIM sn.
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Hey guys =) I was just wondering if any of you know any sites I can put pictures on, that's free.. anything besides, picturetrail and photobucket. Thanks so much! (link)
well if u get an xanga, u can put pics on there and u can write some stuff 2! its nice..classic xanga is FREE but the premium xanga is NOT FREE so good luck w/that and i hope i helped
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does any1 noe what is the best prodect to get rid of acene.thanks i will rite high. (link)
ive heard that proactive works really good...you can also see your doctor..thats what i did and i have really clear skin now...hope i helped. my sn for aim is on my column if u need anymore help
me


there is this kid that is always following me around. i dont know how to say stop with out hurting his feelings. like if i go to the library, he follows me. if i go to the sotre, he follows me, what should i say? (link)
first ask him y hes following u. then ask him politely to stop. if he continues to do it, tell ur parents. then if it gets worse...well i hate 2 say it, but u could have a stalker...then u mite have to go to court or somethin or get a restraining order idk but tlk 2 ur parents!
hope this helped
me


i need to practice 1 vs 1 on soccer as a defender...i alsways get nutmegged >:o/ please give me tips or a good site and dont tell me to search google...ONLY FOR EXPIRENCED SOCCER PLAYERS! (link)
i play soccer 2..well basicall just keep up ur defense act superior n stuff..my friend last year...she stared every1 down..she wuz sweeper/stopper ((idk wut u call it)) and i am goalie..she wuz absolutely amazing, u just have to b extremely aggressive, and try not to leave spaces open...try www.soccertips.com that might work..it says its a coachs site but w/e...hope i helped n good luck!!
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I am 16 years old weigh 115 lbs and im 5'4". Well I was trying on homecomming dresses at my friends house But every dress I tried on I felt soooo fat or shall I say I LOOKED so fat! I was about to cry but I couldnt cry infront of everyone. Homecomming is in about 1 month and a half away. Should I go on a diet or should I just tell my friends I cant go. My friends would be sooo mad at me if they find out im not going because I never been to a dance before. Its NOT as easy as you think it is. I been thinking about it day in and day out. I wish I could just accept that im fat! Do you know any good diets?!? Thank you sooo much (link)
girl u arent fat!! and the point is to have fun, just let go and dont let anyone bother u! everyone is just as self concious as u, so u gotta let go and just be urself!!!
i hope i helped and just have fun!!
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i am going to meet john cena and i want to know what i could give him .. i thought about giving him a jersey but im sure a lot of people will be doing that so i thought that maybe i would get him something else .. any ideas? pleasee respond (link)
AHHHHHHH!!! OMIGOODNESS UR GONNA MEET HIM?! AHHHH IM LIKE A HUGE FAN OF WRESTLING LET ALONE HIM!!! yea...u could get him a jersey..like a month ago he wuz in philly n he wore an eagles jersey...u could give him like a jersey from ur fave football team or somethin n a hat 2 match..then ask him 2 wear it in that town...hope i helped and have fun!! ur so lucky!
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i play soccer and want to try for extreme legue but like i dont know If I am Goood enough for It or not Plz help aBBz (link)
well...i think u should try it cuz if u dnt ull never no...the worst that can happen is u wont make it, so i say go for it and just give it ur all and be confident!
hope that helps n good luck!
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ok so im 15 and
this kid who is
like 17 or so
wants to hang out
wit me and im all
for it but im wondering
what we should talk about
or w/e..if neone has ne
ideas please help

(link)
just let the the kid who asked u to hang out start the convo..dnt worry, ull find plenty of things 2 talk about
hope i helped
me


My mom got engaged to this guy after 7 years of them being together. But, i HATE him and so do all my sisters. He's cheated on her MANY times and she even walked in on him and another girl about a week ago!! She hasn't cried more than she has the day she walked in on him and the other girl. He knows he can get her back though, so he walks all over her! And, she's soooo weak when it comes to guys. She's become soo depressed and right now, shes in Virginia for vacation with him! She's coming back today. And ive tried talking to her many times about this as well as all my 5 sisters. She just won't listen. I want her to leave him. He's causing her nothing but harm! Also, to top it all off, he has an STD, Hepatitis C. And, he got it from another girl while cheating on my mom!!! And, she STILL won't leave him!!

What do i do?? please help...i rate high.

Thanks so much.. (link)
girl u gotta talk some sense into ur mom!!!! omigoodness no one, and i mean NO ONE has the right to do that!! and if u cant talk sense into ur mom, talk 2 her parents ((obviously your grandparents)) or somethin cuz im sure they can help...and those diseases r deadly!! Hepatitis C has no cure!!!! it will slowly eat away at your body...its a liver condition...hes gonna die..so even if they do get married hes gonna pass eventually...but just talk to anyone u no that can talk sense into her...ANYBODY!! FAST!!! good luck and i hope i helped!
me
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I need help witht this riddle please try n figure it out fo me ok here it goes....... there is a ,man on trial and a man steps up to the stand and asks to speak, the judge says who are u the man says brother n sisters i have none but the father of this man is my fathers son, how is the man related to the criminal. $M$ (link)
hes related to the criminal cuz the criminal is his brother
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I keep my computer on pretty much 24 hours a day. It doesn't really seem to be a problem. But earlier today I went to check my computer and it had a blue tint over everything. It has done this before, but last time I just refreshed the desktop, and it went back to normal. This time, I've tried refreshing it and restarting it and it doesn't seem to want to go back to normal. I don't know what I did to make it go blue, and it's a very pretty blue, but I would like to have my normal screen back.

Does anyone have any idea what could be going on? (link)
haha...its a very pretty blue..haha sry i found that funny...im not sure EXACTLY wuts wrong w/it, but try to shut it down COMPLETELY!! DONT JUST RESTART IT!!! thats wut i had 2 do when my volume wouldnt work n then it wuz fine...hope i helped n it works out ok
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is it better to shave or bleach the hair on your arms? (link)
well i'd think its best to bleach the hair on ur arms cuz when u shave it i think it comes bak darker...but idk ive never done it b4 sry but i hope i helped
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