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Long story semi-short. I like 2 guys, one asked me out before the other so I agreed. Now I have a boyfriend but the other guy is mad and isn't talking to me. I atleast want him as a friend, but I don't want to ruin the relationship I have now. What should I do?
it may be stupid i know, but explain to the other guy you like him and that you didnt mean to hurt him, tell him that if he did like you, hed at least want to be your friend, wich is true, you shouldnt go out with someone if they dont wanna be your friend at least! and your new relationship shouldnt care, you had friends before him, just dont get 'to friendly' with the guy your not going out with
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This kid likes me but I don't like him because he's NOT a good kid. I like my ex boyfriend and my ex likes me but if i go out with my ex the other boy will hate me along with my friend who's my ex's ex. (sorry if this is confusing by the way.) BUt the kid that likes me that I dont like keeps accusing me of liking my ex and if i tell him i do he'll tell EVERYONE and then if everyone finds out they'd hate me. What am i gonna do??????HELP ASAP!
sweetie when you get old youll realise that LOTS of friends come and go along wit boys specialy, if you know your x is special or just like him that much go for it, maybe talk to your friend first thats his ex. the kid that likes you, well if you dont like him at all dont pretend you do, just tell him the truth, you dont like him and true friends wont be mad if you go out wit someone
A guy at work and I became friends and things were going ok and when he did not get the position he wanted at work, I supported him and we started flirting. Well he found another job. Well, before he left he gave me a picture of him and email address. We seemed to be closer. We both agreed to keep in contact via email. I kept my part and he didn't his. He acted like he wanted to be friends and more and even called me babe. Why, after being "friends" he won't email, hasn't called nothing. Why is he treating me now like I don't exsist?
well how long has it been? i mean men are men. but give him the benifit, less its been a long time forget him, men just like ass sometimes, but he might being playing hard to get blah blah you know that BS lol
Coming up is my boyfriend and I's one year anniversary. I have no idea what I should get him! He's 18 and he likes football, clothes, etc... I want it to be a nice gift... Suggestions PLEASE! WILL RATE 5'S!
well my bf and i just had ours SO if hes anything like my bf, hell love hats, i got mine a giftcirtificate to a hat store |hes like a kid in a candy store|, that or give him something that smells like you, it may sound stupid but even a bear or sumthin that has your perfume on it, my bf even tells me he smells it lol
the other day, my boyfriend came over and we were sitting on the couch. then we started kissing. he slipped his tounge into my mouth and i did the same. (we were kissing for like 10-15 seconds) is that considered just french kissing or making out?
making out is usally something that you do for alot longer or more then once, usally you think makeing out is the type of couples that sit on the couch for half an hour and suck face lol but if you just do it for a few minutes youd prolly consider it makeing out
there is this guy i like that says i am to young for him but i am bout be 16 and he just turned 17. i think this might be an excuse but he acts like he likes me.am i "too young"? i don't have a clue what should i do is there any way to show him i am not to immature and how do i talk to him about it? he also told me his last g/f was B**** and she was immature and she was my age. could this be why? i really think it might be an excuse. plz help i really do need it!
it is an exscuse because, we all have different ages that we think are "to young" but one year difference isnt to young, if he was 18 youd be iilegal and thats understandable but hes 17... plus women mature mentally and usally phyiscally faster then men, and just because his last gf was like that, has nothing to do with you, he kind of sounds like the immature one
So I'm doing the South Beach Diet and I cant have carbs for a while. Well I've been on it for 5 days, but yesterday I decided to cheat. Well this morning I woke up and my stomach felt gross. I was about to eat lunch and I looked at the food and wanted to throw up. I really love food but today its grossing me out. Of course, I cant go out with food so I'm forcing myself to eat but I dont know whats wrong! My stomach just gets grossed out when I see/eat food. Is this because yesterday I decided to cheat and have carbs and my body was just getting used to the no-carb deal? I dont know..Its confusing me and yeah. Do you know what could be wrong?
your stomach couldnt have been getting used to not eating carbs that quick... if its only been a day i wouldnt even worry about it because we all have are weird days.. if tomarrow your sick of food too and feel the same way maybe you should tell your parents or explain it... i dont know how concious you are about your weight but it could be the begining of a eating dissorder so id be carefull
OK...telling this story is getting really annoying, and I'd appreciate it if I didn't get snide comments about it, I already feel like a whore.
Well, to start it out, I had just gotten this new account on vampirefreaks. My friend had some crazy-cool people posting on hers so I went to check it out. One of the guys was so awesome. His profile was freakin' long and crazy, and he seemed really sweet. I left a message on his site and toddled off. Then he left a message on mine and so on. Well, anyways, we started talking on IM. The first time, I thought I had thoroughly annoyed him, so when we spoke next I apologized. Well, during our second conversation, we started making out. We pretty far, but not quite THAT far. Before I'd really talked to him, I thought he was really great, and when I did talk to him, I began to develop a crush on him.
A few days passed, othing happened. But then, his birthday came around. We had talked a little bit...and then we started doing a few things. It was mostly me doing, well, everything, so it was sort of weird. but that time, we did everything... In the end, I thought it had meant othing to him, but it didn't really bother me. but then after we did all of that, I felt sort of guilty, dirty...
Later that same night, after talking to 2 of my very close friends (one online, one not), i still felt bad. Then I was IMed by another guy from vampirefreaks, that I had become friends with a few days earlier. (NOTE: i had been at school, trying to sign in to vampirefreaks, and I wandered aimlessly onto this one page and it said the name Eryk. I looked at the pics and thought he was pretty, decided to look later. I looked him up later, and it wasn't him, but this other guy. There weren't any pictures of him so I read his profile. I left a comment, then he looked at my profile and IMed me. Thats how I met him.)
I Started talking with him, and he seemed sweet and he was always really nice and funny. I did like him, yeah, but I didn't really know how much. So, on the same day as the incident with Dion, I also did stuff with the other guy (his name is Dan). After all of that Dani and I talked... and he said that he'd liked me. I did like him to, so we just talked. Then after a few days we're like in love... My mum finds out about the cyber because I had printed it *dolt* 'cause I needed to talk to my friends about it. Mum banned me from IM. I snuck on to talk to them both, last night. Turns out it did mean something to Dion, and now he won't tell me how he feels about me. Dan and I are currently split up because he needs to think about some things, but he says that once he's done, we can go back to that. So, everything with Dan is ok, I think. But what do I do about Dion? And what about mum?
no offence but that made almost no scence and made your self sound very slutty
im 16 and i have a small penis and im a worried
what my girlfriend will think does it matter to girls that much?
no it shouldnt matter that much to a girl...
ok me n my boyfriend broke up...n it hert me so0o0o bad cuz i really really love him...n i told him i wanted him back...n he wanted me back...well one nite (last nite) i was talking to him n he was like i've been thinking about us n i was like ok wat n his like hold on let me call you...n he jst keep stolen trying to piss me off(which was wrking) well he calls me n goes i want you back...but not right now...ill get you back soon..sooner then you think...n i'm not going to go out w/ anyone else...so we talked a lil bit n when we went to get off the phone he was like hey i really do love you...n i started crying cuz it really meant alot to me that he told me he loved me...but idk what i should do cuz i don't want to wait for ever...n i'm still kind of scared that it's going to be a long time....???i'm jst so confused about it all...srry that this is so long i ussallly(SP?) never type this much!!...
give him at least 4 days with out saying anything, one of my boyfriends just wanted to get his shit straight and his life too but i rushed him and he ended up cheating on me the 3rd day we were goin out cuz he wasnt ready and i rushed him... but weve been happy goin on 2 years so.. dont worry about it seriouly untill a few days have passed. some guys really just need time, dont even stress yourself over it.
Theres this girl at my church who also goes to my school. No one sits with her at lunch, and im absolutly sure she doesnt have any friends. She might have some problems, im not sure. (Mentally)
Thing is i know my friends would make fun of her because she looks different. Its eatting away at me everyday to think i could be making her life better. i rate. *Megz*
the joy of popularity haha, maybe you could mention to your friends at lunch one day what they feel about her, they might also feel bad for her and think maybe it was a good idea to invite her to sit with you one day, you could always talk to her in church too, just saying hi to someone can make them smile
my mom just recently said she thinks its time for me to see a gyno. so she made me an appointement. she tells me yesterday that she had a dream i was pregenant. do u think she is making me go to the gyno and had that dream b/c she thinks i have sex?
she doesnt have to think your having sex or you pregnant or anything, she probably just feels its time just to get everything checked, cuz theres other things they look at when you go to a gyno lol if your worried or anything about it, you can always ask your mom if thats why she got you the appointment, she might explain herself.
Hi i have liked this kid james and i went out with him 3 other times, but i am still in love with him.
he wants to hook up but i wanna be a couple do u think he likes me or just using me for hookin up. thing is he is one of my best friends so..yeah!
HELP
how can i tell if he likes me
and
is he using me or not?
female
if all he wants to do is hook up with you sweety, hes probably useing you or not thinking about it, if he likes you hell be really sweet, and mention going out, not just try and make out with you with out even mentioning more
my best friend's mom hates me! last night she listened into our convo on the phone then ally (bff) called back and told me that we weren't allowed to be friends anymore then her mom told me that she listened and didn't appreciate what i said about her(i don't like her) and she hung up. i started crying really hard for like five minutes, then ally called back again and said that her mom said that she crossed theline by listening in and that we could be friends as long as i don't go over to ally's house. it makes me feel better, but i still can't get it out of my head. i still want to be friends with her, but i don't want to deal with her mom. what should i do??!?!?!?!?!?!?
oh this happens, im sorry, mothers love to over do it sometimes, a few of my best freinds moms dont like me eithor, and i dont know why! ive never even talked bad about them! but if your friend ali still wants to be friends with you then you shouldnt try and worry about it, her mom probably wont hold a grude eithor, just give her sometimes and ali time to talk it out with your mom, everything will be fine
Hey guys....
I'm kind of really sad right now....Since my girl friend and I have been going out (8 months) she has promised me time after time that she doesn't pleasure/finger herself. In fact when I used to say Krysta I think you do she would get so mad and say shes not like that and she really doesn't.
Last night I was going through her email, and she had signed up for www.loveforum.net. The user name that was in that email was never activated so I didn't think about it again until I asked her why she signed up.
On first off she said she NEVER heard of the site and her brother probably did it, or maybe she did it awhile ago and forgot about it. I took that and accidently clicked on a link called 'Pleasure for girls' in the Sex Talk forum. The user name was PhillyChick847, which is what she goes by sometimes.
She was asking for advice on how to give herself pleasure, and hide it from me. She said she does it 3 times a week in the forum when she told me she NEVER has ever done it.
She denyed that she typed that and said there is more than one phillychick online, I took that! Then just for myself, I tried to login with my name as the password and it WORKED! After me telling her I would dump her on the spot if she didn't admitt it she admitted it.
She was so upset that she cut herself...I was really upset because I can't believe she would go behind my back and do this....its almost UNBELIEVEABLE. She told me she loved me sooo much and she was sorry...she said she just did it because it felt so good when I did it to her.
She still said she doesn't do it that often, but she can't explain why she typed that. Heres the link to the post: http://www.loveforum.net/showthread.php?t=3965
She made 3 posts and they ALL disturbed me ALOT.
I threw up like 4 times last night, I can't belive she would do this....I'm so upset...I mean maybe if she didn't lie to me it wouldn't be such a big deal. The thing that even disturbs me more is on the time stapms right after I walked her home from the bus stop she went in and did this...and shes really interested in finding more ways...I think the damage to my head is already done.
I still LOVE her so much but I don't know if I want to be with her....she can say shes not going to do it again but no one can stop once they do it, especially if she does it that much...I really do LOVE her but I don't know what to do...That really disturbed me ALOT! can everyone please help me?
Should I break up with her...please help guys...please....
Thanks in advance
Dave
ok if i wasnt trying to be nice id tell you, that you were an asshole. but maybe its just cuz i havent met you. Women pleasure themselves, men masterbate and women finger themselves or rub there clit, its a fact, that over 95 percent of mature people do it. you cant loose your virginity by fingering yourself eithor so whats the big deal about your gf doing it to herself?? it wasnt like she was asking another man to do it, she was taking care of herself. and the fact that she told you she never did it, its embarrising! i dont go around telling everyone that i do it, but fact is, i do. just last night i explained to my bf of over 3 months what i do to myself, and i felt really weird! its nothing you want to share. and you, have some trust issues you need to work the out, your going threw her e-mail. thats something you shouldnt do to begin with, then you read her mail. thats 5 times as bad, and then you even go to the site and look for a sn that she would use. if my bf ever read my emails and checked websites for the sn i usally use, wed need a serious talking. but back to the subject, you got mad at her cuz she fingers herself, are you saying that youve never masterbated? because men usally find out around when there 5 that touching it feels good sometimes, so im doubting that your that clean eithor. why do you have such a problem with her doing it? are you doing it for her? or are you against going that far with a women.
Okay, I'm gonna obviously make my own decision about this, but I'm curious as to what y'all think. I'm 16/f, if you wanna know.
My boyfriend and I have been...experimenting lately. In the beginning of the relationship, we'd both said that we weren't into oral, but all of a sudden he wants to...y'know, give it a try. I mean, he wants to try it on me. I originally refused because I thought it would kind of obligate me to give it to him, but he said that wasn't the case. (I'm really, honestly not into it, and I always feel like he does more for me than I do for him.)
Also, the thought of kissing him afterwards kind of...bothers me...
Should I let him or not? I mean, it's kind of an...interesting...idea, but nngh - I dunno. What d'you think?
do you have any idea why the whole thing turns you off anyway? it feel pretty good, withor its the guys first or 10th, its not the hardest thing to do lol but its your own heart, if your worried he does more for you then you do for him, thats not the case, if a guy is really into you he shouldnt really care all that much, plus ive heard guys get some good pleasure out of our faces we make while there doing it =p and dont worry about the kissing thing, a guy should definatly understand after something like that, dont feel weird if you dont wanna kiss him, my bf gets up and washes his mouth if he wants to kiss me afterwards lol
how can i get rid of my razorbumps? i have some down ..there n sometimes on my armpits help! thanks
once you already have razor burn you should use lotion on everywhere that you have it, but just to prevent it, you need a sharp razor, shave the direction your hair goes,use shaving lotion and always use skin lotion after your done, withor it hurts or not. but what really helps to get rid of it, is just not to shave for a few days, that way you give the hair time to grow in and its easier to cut, instead of shaving everyday
Ever since I was LiL I would masterbate. Im not addicted to it I just do It once in a while but I remember doing it when I was 5!!(of course I didnt know what I was doing at 5 but all I knew was that it felt good and that I was going to do it) I was caught a lot when I was little and I remember one time my mom asked me if it felt good and she was really dissapointed in me. And I hated myself for it because every 5 year old wants their parents to be proud of them. But now I know what I'm doing and I havent been caught in like 5 years(im 14) Is there something wrong with me? Is it not normal to start sooo early?
yeah its normal, im thinking that your a girl and girls always mature faster then boys, i must admitt i used to do it at a very early age but its normal, especially since your 14 now youve got stronger hormones, everyone does it, girls and guys, old or young, its a part of growing up
when you or a guy plays around w/your clit your cherry wont pop...right?
right, your cherry usally pops when youve had penetration deep enough to break it, altho alot of girls can easly loose it from rideing horses or bikes, anything physicall, but its not a bad thing so you shouldnt even really worry about it, since you dont even bleed that much when it does pop