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i jst love him!...
ok me n my boyfriend broke up...n it hert me so0o0o bad cuz i really really love him...n i told him i wanted him back...n he wanted me back...well one nite (last nite) i was talking to him n he was like i've been thinking about us n i was like ok wat n his like hold on let me call you...n he jst keep stolen trying to piss me off(which was wrking) well he calls me n goes i want you back...but not right now...ill get you back soon..sooner then you think...n i'm not going to go out w/ anyone else...so we talked a lil bit n when we went to get off the phone he was like hey i really do love you...n i started crying cuz it really meant alot to me that he told me he loved me...but idk what i should do cuz i don't want to wait for ever...n i'm still kind of scared that it's going to be a long time....???i'm jst so confused about it all...srry that this is so long i ussallly(SP?) never type this much!!...
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Ask him if it's really true love. Most times ppl say I love u without giving it real meaning. Cuz sometimes it could be puppy love, which is just greater than a friend, or there's real, true love. So just think inside urself, on a scale of 1 to 10 how much do i really love him?
If u really love him let him take a break, then he'll realize how great u really r.
xoxo QuestionCandace oxox
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Let him take his time! Maybe he just need space! Some people need space sometime when realationship is getting serious.Just chill, talk to him when you can!
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give him at least 4 days with out saying anything, one of my boyfriends just wanted to get his shit straight and his life too but i rushed him and he ended up cheating on me the 3rd day we were goin out cuz he wasnt ready and i rushed him... but weve been happy goin on 2 years so.. dont worry about it seriouly untill a few days have passed. some guys really just need time, dont even stress yourself over it.
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I can sorta understand where you are coming from. What I would do is wait just a lil while tho not so long. i mean if he told you he loved you then he really must meant it. wait maybe a couple of weeks and then ask him if he has made up his mind and if he hasnt then maybe yall should move on. but i would wait.. hoped i helped!!
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Honey, If I was in your situation, I would tell him to shove it.
No guy's gonna make me wait for him.
I understand that you love him and you miss him and you want him back, but he broke up with you. He HURT you! Do you really want to go back to that guy?
If you do, he might think he can just break it off and get you back whenever he wants.
In relationships, I don't give second chances. You break it off, it's done, and there's no chance of getting me back.
But that's just me. I'm on my last straw with most guys, except my boyfriend.
Not to diss guys, but really...never wait for a guy. It's never worth it.
But, if you do wait, you're going back into a relationship that ended badly. You've gotta take everything into account. Why did the relationship end in the first place? Is there a chance it could happen again? Is it worth the risk? If your answer to the last two questions is yes, I'd reconsider. If not, *shrug* it's totally up to you.
This is obviously just my opinion - what you do is your decision.
Hope this helped!
-Siren =)
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