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Putting your question out there for people like me to answer does not give you the right to bitch at me if you don't like what I have to say. And for God's sake, am I the only one who is sickened and disgusted by all the thirteen-year old sluts asking questions about sex? I think I'm going to have to give up those kind of questions, it's all just too painful. So many children in that generation are turning out RIDICULOUSLY IDIOTIC.
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Alright im a guy (16)
Homecoming dance is in two weeks, but this year the girls are suposed to ask the guys.. Soooo this girl who i like a lot hadn't asked me yet, so i said yes to a good friend of mine who didnt have a date. Then the next night on the phone the girl who I really liked asked me, and i had to say no because i didnt want to ditch my friend. What can i do???
Well, only an asshole would ditch their friend. If the girl likes you, then she'll dance with you. You don't have to dance exclusively with one person, you know.
If you don't mind me asking, what is so great about spa days? I don't mean to sound like a prick, I am just curious. Perhaps they can help me as well.
Spa days are good times, my friend. Basically it's an excuse to take a day off, relax, and be pampered for no reason other than to feel good about yourself. They're great for relieving stress. It doesn't matter if you go to an actual professional spa, or if you spend a day with your best friend relaxing and doing your nails- it's just time devoted to yourself.
I hate myself . And I can't stand it . I want myself dead . I used to cut myself , but I'm just an unloved rocker who just writes depressed,dark,killing,mental songs now for her rock band .
I just turned 14 and I started high school . I have only like a few new friends and all my old best friends . But , yet I still feel alone .
I hate myself . I think I'm ugly . All I want is a guy to like me and noone would ever . I guess people don't like me because I have crooked bones in my feet and I'm "gothic" because I dyed my hair black and bleached it blonde on top like the girl from my fave band The Start ( check out the pic I look exactly like the lead singer www.thisisthestart.com ) Anyways , someone help me . I sound depressed and I'm really , really , really depressed ...... so bad .... I cry to much .... nobody loves me ...... maybe suicide is sweet and swift better than here .......
Ally
Noooooooooo.... no, no, no. You said you have friends? ANY friends? Do you care about said friends? At ALL? Because it seems to me that you don't, if you are willing to put THEM through this shit. And what the hell is with the hair description? That, and the crooked bones, is unnecessary information. If people don't like you or think you're ugly, baby, that's THEIR problem. But seriously, your best friends care about you and you bloody well know it. If you had one iota of love for them you would either get help or talk to them, but you wouldn't even consider suicide.
I've liked this guy for over a year now. He's an awesome friend, but once you do one thing that makes him mad, he's really rude! I've been told COUNTLESS times to get over him, but I just can't!! He means the world to me... and I just want to show him that without scaring him off or anything. We went out like a year ago for a while, and he was great, but I made the mistake of breaking up with him. I want to go back out with him, and I don't want to get over him. I'm not looking for an answer to get over him!!! I just need help on what to say to him!
Oh my... well, I don't think you need to be tying yourself down, and I definitely don't think you should really date your ex. (You broke up with him once, there was definitely a reason for that, even if you don't think it's important now!) But since you're not asking that, I guess I would have an honest talk with him. Tell him how you feel, and if he is cool with it, well, bully for you. If he's a jackass about it, slap that sucka silly and move on in search of bigger and better things. I know you don't want to get over him, but in the event that he acts like an asswipe over this, go and have a Spa Day and date some insanely sexy, smart, rich, funny, snuggly man who owns, like, the moon. That'll show the snotty bastard who's who!
ok so today i was talking to the kid i like and it was great! we really connected. but i dont think he likes me. how can i approach him and sound like im his friend but not sound like i like him?
Maybe it wasn't meant to be. It's not that big a deal, there are 6 billion other fish in the sea.
So i've been talkin to this guy for a month. We have pretty much talked everyday. Well we like each other but are still friends. Whenever we talk now though, it kinda seems boring. So what can i do to make our conversations more exciting?
Well... maybe he's not very interesting. Or maybe you should talk about more provocative subjects now. Actually, if you started out talking about the racy stuff, then you probably have run out of things to say... talk about movies. There's LOTS of movies, so it'll be a while before you run out of THOSE to talk about.
ok, well i like my brothers friend.. lets call him... BOB, ok well BOB likes me too and we always talk and hang out and we've kissed and he sometimes gets all playful touchy but just like flirting and stuff and i wanna go out with him but hes afraid my brother will get insanely pissed off at him.. I talked to my brother and he was like "whatever.. hes cool so i dont care" so i was like, sweet. Well i dont wanna ask this guy out cus i just dont, im not scared or nething but i wanna talk to him about "us" but i dont know how.. i dont think this is making sense.. BUT ANYWAYS i dont know how to talk to him about it.. its reatrded cus i can usually go up to a guy and tell him i think hes hot or that i like him and stuff and they would be like "sweet" or something BUT i CANT with BOB... What would you do if you were in my situation?... I rate high..
15/F
Oh, well.. Bob sounds like an alright sort. Just be honest with him- you're interested, but you want to know where he stands before you really make any moves. If he acts like a jackass, that's the end of BOB! Seriously, if he doesn't respect you during this possibly important conversation, he's not worth the bottom of your shoe.
Okay I am 13/f and I have never kissed a boy before. Well my boyfriend and I were playing Truth or Dare online and I dared him to kiss me. He said he would but he would have to do it between two of the buildings at school so we don't get a PDA refferal. This is not what I am asking advice on. I am nervous to kiss him because like I said I have never kissed a boy before. I need to know like what to do, how to do it, how to keep myself from being nervous and stuff like that thanx.~*Never Been Kissed*~p.s.I rate, good.
Hahah... I think you should make the kiss mean something a little more than an online dare that is carried out behind your school, but you can make it goofy and fun, too. He's stupid if he expects anything spectacular, but it's not like you need a handbook. Just do what comes naturally.
i have a huge problem!!! im like 5 feet but i weigh like 140 pounds! im not fat or anything, its really mostly muscle but i could loose weight... plz write back!!!
It doesn't sound like a HUGE problem. I say, do more situps, crunches, and side-bends. Trim down your waist so that your figure looks better, but don't worry about your boobs or butt. Millions of guys love it when a girl has some substance to her.
...so I'm really hoping you're a girl, I just kind of assumed that! Heheh. Sorry if the case is otherwise.
Hey, I'm a female of 14 years old. My boyfriend dumped me 2 and a half months ago. I love him more then any thing and I just can't get over him. My best friend likes him too and says she likes him just as much as I do... which is hard to believe because she just recently started REALLY hanging out with him. He seems like he likes her too, but I've asked him countless times and every time he's said no. What I'm getting at is if he does like her and if he does decide to ask her out, what do I do? I love him more then any thing and to see them together and happy would kill me. I know I should be happy for them if they do decide to take it to the next level but I don't think thats possible. What do I do? How do I go along with this? How can I get over him? Thank you in advance!!
Well, they're both being inconsiderate brats. You don't actually HAVE to take this shit from him OR your so-called best friend. However, you're also too young to be so hung up over him. In a year, you won't even feel remotely interested in the guy, no matter how you feel right now. Find a friend who ISN'T a backstabber and go with her on a Spa Day.
Ok theres this boy and we hooked up BUT now hes like I like this other girl better then u HOW do I get over him?
Well, he's obviously a piece of trash manslut, and the next time he opens his mouth you better let him know. Then you need to treat yourself to a spa day. Spa days work wonders.
This is a REALLY stupid question but, do you know those iPod commercials where the silouette of people are dancing around...well anyway, there is this one song that they have been doin latley and it sounds really cool, BUT I DONT KNOW THE NAME!! its a kinda rock song and its really fast. Does anyone know this song??? Thanks, ill rate.
OMG! I wish I knew. I love that song too. I'm sorry that I'm not more useful, but I thought I was the only one!
my boyfriend and i have been having troubles. He's a great guy, dont get me wrong, and i love him... but we have been together a long time and the cracks are starting to show. To top it off there is another guy i am interested in, and it has been heating up slowly for a while now with him. I am really attracted to him. I dont know whether to risk it and get with the new guy, or stay with what i know...what do i do?
Hm... well, it looks like it's time to move on. You're not tied down to this guy, and "staying with what you know" is a close relative of "STAAAGNAAATIOOOON". You're not married, so go ahead and date the other guy. If it doesn't work out, oh well, it simply wasn't the right person. Dating people is a reflection of who YOU are, so what would being too timid to try something new and possibly rewarding say about YOU?
tell me your experience piercing ur own ear cartilage! please! thanx!
Oh no! Don't do it, melissaaaaaaa!!
Seriously. If you're going to mangle part of your body that way, which will hurt like a bitch every time you sleep on your side, let a professional do it! Letting a professional do it means it won't get infected, crooked, OR hideous. Plus if you do it wrong, you'll have a bitch of a time getting it re-done the right way.
ok this gurl likes me and i like her yadda yadda yadda...but she says taht she doenst know if she can take it the next step because i dont go to church regularly...if i did, then she said she would take our relationship further...but i hardly ever go to church...and i usually work on sundays...wat should i do?
...well, obviously, religion means a lot to her... and it doesn't to you. Even if it's not a huge problem between you guys now, it will be later. You should date someone who's about as religious as you are, so that it's never a reason to fight.
how can ur masterbate with a pellow?
...Just remember, you have to sleep on that pillow. EVERYONE WILL SEE YOUR DIRTY PILLOWS!!*
*get that reference!
I was listening to that white stripe song fel in love with a girl and noticed that it had the same lyrics as the Joss Stone song Fell in love with a boy...What happend there? is fell in love with a boy/girl an old folk song or something? does anyone know anything about that?? ill rate. Thanks.
No.. Joss Stone is stupid, and covered the song by the white stripes. And she is stupid. LORD I hate that voice of her's!
there is this boy who b sweatin me..everywhere i go he follow..but he is a nice friend.but sometimes he just get annoying. How can i tell him to back off..but without hurting his feeling?
He's sweating on you!? Oh my god! That's disgusting! Tell him to take a freakin' cold shower and start wearing deodorant! And run away from him when you see him coming!
ok I'm a rocker . And I usually wear all the dark eyeliner and eyeshadow . But , I have really light brown honey-colored eyes . What should I do for makeup ? I have black hair , light brown/hazel eyes , and I'm pale with some freckles . And my hair is short , layered , and flippy . I don't want to look like the old way anymore . I want to look better and change my appearance .
Ally
Rocker? Do you mean punkish goth? Or are you a rocker like Courtney Love (aka kinderwhore drunken mess)?
I was under the impression that "rockers" did only what they felt like because it was what they liked.. Just go to Hot Topic and do what everybody else does... ...again...
Theres this girl i really like thats in my class. The problem is my best friend likes her a lot too. He works with her so we both see each other a lot. I dont want to lose my best friend but i think she likes me more than she likes him. What should i do?
Who do you care about more?
If it's your best friend, then you need to talk to him about it and the best option would be for neither of you to date her. Dating her will guarantee tension and eventually, resentment.
If it's the girl, you're a heartless bastard who obviously doesn't care about your friend. Do what thou wilt.