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ok im going to a new school monday how do i make freinds? like i dont want to sit alone @ lunch or sit by the rong person. iv decided that guys are more easy to make freinds with than girl i mean some girls are really nice but you have to addmit guys are easier to make freinds with what if they think im a slut then if i try to make freinds with the guys? help!!!!

hey, i have moved 5 times in my life, i know exactly how you feel. the best way to fit in is not by trying to make them like you by being someone else, but being yourself, that way they HAVE to like you. Go ahead and tell the jokes, or whatever you like to do, make peolpe know that that is who you are and thats that. Also, im not sure how old you are, but thats a good way to avoid drugs too... another thing, they wont consider you a slut, unless you try to make them like you by drooping, or showing your body. just be yourself, its hard to ignore when someone is theirself for one big reason- not very many people are theirselves, they always try to be cool, or be in, i cant stress it enough B-E Y-O-U-R-S-E-L-F! good luck at your new school!

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We've all seen a million questions on "HOW CAN I TONE MY BODY?"

Well, I'm wondering how to just well, make your abs more.. defined and a little bit flatter. I already know about Tone Teen and Seventeen Workouts so please don't suggest that, thanks.

well, this all depends on how dedicated you are. If you are really dedicated, then do all the differant crunches, i will explain all of those in a second, if your not dedicated, then im sorry but this will not help you a bit (if you need things to push you, put up posters and quotes about working out, then you will think about it more and it will become routine) ok, the following crunches and how to do them:
Regular crunch- go up about half way and stop for a second then come down
1,2 crunch- cross your legs and put them in the air, put your right elbow to your left knee and vice-versa for the other, the way you would count would be "1,2, 1, 1,2, 2, 1,2, 3..."
held 1,2- it is the same thing as the 1,2 crunch, except this crunch is for double the time, everytime your elbow ouches your knee, you hold for a good second, then go to the other and hold for a good second.
Leg-Lifts- lay on your back (make sure you have a clock or a timer) and bring your feet up 6 inches (AT MOST!) off the ground, then time yourself, as soon as it really hurts, drop your feet for a few seconds then start again, this time trying to beat your other time. that should help in toning your abs!

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I can never eat breakfast- one because I'm a bit lazy because I'm tired and two because I'm not a big fan of it, but I know it's unhealthy not to eat it and I know you can gain weight from not eating it because then you pig out at lunch and the rest of the day. Any suggestions [besides fruit] and please note that I'm on a tight scheduale and don't have alot of time to eat or prepare it [no cereal suggestions, please]

i know exactly what your going through, i have the tightest schedule of anyone i know, and im the laziest person i know once i actually get out of bed. I have found (especally at sams but other places too) that there are like sausage, pancakes, eggs, ALL KINDS OF STUFF that you put in the microwave and heat up in a matter of maybe 45 seconds at most. another plus, is they are very delicious!

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any good april fools tricks??
hehe..
i rate 5's
thanks in advance

you know what i love doing! you know that spray thingey by the sink? put a rubber-band around the thing that you squeeze to make the water come out... whoever wants to wash their hands next will get pretty wet....
hehehe

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I'm a song-writer, guitarist, and vocalist in a Christian band, and I want some help getting subject matter for some songs, we really need something new and I'm running out of any good ideas. Anybody got anything that would be worth singing about in a southern-rock/acoustic style of music?

+_=_RoadkillSalad_=_+

im not any good at playing any instraments, but i do write songs... my suggestions to you are the following; songs about songs about working out- pushing yourself to the limits, love and romance, and anything that seems small in your life, but you couldnt do without, (a very dumb example....) but water, the purity of it, the cleansing of it, you can write about somthing small and make it seem big
now i have a question for you, i love rock, i wanted to know if you could maybe put as an aditional information.... what is your band name? i would like to listen to you guys, you sound pretty good

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I was wondering a few things about steroids.

- First, I'm not taking them for sports or anything, I have bad asthma and I have to take them to control my attacks.

1. What are the risks.
2. Do they make you eritible/angry all the time
3. Do they make your muscles large

I'm a girl so I wouldn't want my muscles to be the size of a man's!

i have asthma too... i have taken them... there are 2 differant types of steroids; the type you are taking are for the medical purpose, the other one is an injection, the one you have, i may be wrong, but do you have the pills that you have like 7 to take the first day, 6 the next and so on? well if you do, then there is nothing that will change about you. If you are worried about the eritible/angry, then the only reason you would be is because of worrying... dont there is nothing to worry about, it will help, it has me. I am a guy and i worked out when i was takin them and they will not make you super strong (i kinda wished they would have though, lol) and besides even if they did, then you would have to work out, they dont just grow on their own. I hope ive helped, and again, dont worry about it

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omg! theres this really weird b0i i know named adam. hes like so full of himself. his head is as big as the carebear he got me. (ugh) whatever shall i do? signed *Annie...Yeah Ana had something to do with it...

the thing i would say is... he is probably kidding, i know someone like that, and he only does it not cause he has a big head, but cause people laugh at him, and since i know adam is your boyfriend, you should talk to him, tell him to stop having such a big head, and if he loves you as much as i do my girlfriend (which is more than life itslelf) he'll stop if it makes you happy! i hope ive helped, luv ya!

signed-
BiG hEaD

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ok.. well mayy 22nd is this crossfade concert that REALLY want to go to. im 13 (f) lol and my mom wont let me go because of the place that its in. its called toads place its in new haven connecticut (kinda ghetto but not really} and i need to convince her to let me go, because she doesnt understand how much that i really want to, their my fav band and blah blah blah.. so what im asking is how can i convince her to let me go? thanks for the help! ashley

i would suggest borrowing either her cell phone, or someone else's and telling her that you will have one so you can contact her if anything happens, or even if you have a cell phone, tell her that you will be able to reach her at the first sign of trouble, also you can take a friend or someone close to you. that way atleast she thinks that you are atleast a little safer... good luck, and if you go, i hope you have fun!

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I am not overweight, but I have a problem in that my thighs and ass are quite flabby and I would like to tone up. I feel very self-concious in swim suits so I would like some exercises to tone up or help lose weight ready for the summer.
Suggestions not involving cosmetic surgery would help!
14/f

run everyday, push yourself, im a guy, and i run/walk, every chance i get, my thighs are really hard, so im guessing it works, another thing so you dont feel alone when you run, is bring a cd player and hook up headphones, or run with someone else, just get out and do a lot of things, when your sitting at home and getting tired, that is esepecally when you need to get out and move...

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I live in Georgia and around where I live the gas prices have gone up so much in only a few week. The cheapest I have seen near me is $2.06 and thats if I go out of my way to get it. The gas station closest is like $2.10. I am in school and don't have a job, I am looking but it's hard to find a part time job. Does anyone know when the gas prices should start to go down or if they are going to go up...?
Thanks

im really sorry to report, but i have some contacts, and i have heard that gas prices (in ohio where i live its like 1.68-1.89 now) and here, it will go up to about 2.50 over the summer consistantly, meaning the differance would be yours will be around 2.90, 3 dollars! like i said, im really sorry to hear about that, but with the refinary blowing up in texas (which made 3% of our oil) and everything, my only advice to you is get a job, i know you said you are looking, but i suggest maybe a fast food resturaunt, or maybe someone you know can help you out, i hope it helps!

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Im sorry to say that most of the time , when I sleep I dream about killing people or I die in my dreams, me and my grilfriend are really worried about this, does anyone have and advice for me?

you cannot control what you dream, its your mind, it thinks what it wants, i know your not a little kid, but maybe its because of the movies you see, also, dreams do not always tell the future, they dont always even express your views, but they do tell you how your mind is thinking. You need to keep these dreams in mind, the setting, who it was, if you see any of these things as the same as your dream, steer clear IMMEDIATLY!

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Hey guys, I was just wondering if there was anyone that had AOL on here that could help me with something. I want to delete my homepage if I can, but I'm not sure how. The one I have now is the first one I have ever made, and I really don't want it on my profile anymore! If anyone can,please help me! I would really appreciate it. Thank you so much! :-)

when you go into aol open up your profile (if you dont remember how read this: Directory, then in the top right corner it should say "My Profile" then you click on that, that is when your profle should come up) down on the bottom left hand corner it says "include a link to Hometown page..." click the little check box for that and it shoudl go away, that is how you get it out of your profile, unfortunatly, i do not think that you can actually delete it

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Hi,
My school doesn't do work experience but I need to do a two week work experience placement to get onto the childcare course I would like to study. So, I'm trying to organise it myself and writing letters to all the nurseries in my area asking if they can help me.

My questions are:
*Do you think they would prefer handwritten or typed letters? (My handwriting is neat)
*What goes after 'yours' when you don't know the name of the person you are writing to?
*I am studying for 21 GCSEs. Do you think I should mention this or would it make me sound like I'm showing off?
*Should I mention any of my GCSEs? For example, I know that I have to gain good qualifications in English to be a Nursery Nurse, so should I mention that I'm studying English?

Oh, and I've been to Connexions, if anyone was going to suggest them to me, and they were absolutely useless, so I'm doing this myself.

Thanks!
xxx

1) i have written many letters in my life, and you know what? handwritten is actually the best, that way they know how you are, hardworking, i mean if you are willing enough to write a handwritten letter, probably multiple times, i would definatly look at you atleast twice...
2) i would also say "thank you for your time" or even just "Thank you" instead of ending it yours, when you end it yours, its like your talking to a friend, in my opinion, ending it with somthing more official will also get you brownie points.
3) bragging? whats bragging? brag-n-Arrogant or boastful speech or manner
boast-n-A source of pride ( i looked these up) my point is, just because you put it in there, its not bragging, and even if it was, look at both the defanitions again.....is pride really a bad thing? not last time i checked, so even if you are "bragging" it is also called "informing" and telling them what hard work you have put into for being what will probably be, and outstanding nurse! Good luck, i hope ive helped!

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im 13 and im male. can anyone tell me some makingout tips. highly rated.

brush your teeth before too dude! also like said before this- go S-L-O-W, absolutly nothing rough, and make sure your breath smells ok, an easy way to check, is put both your hands up to your mouth and act like your going to cough, then make the sound, but all you need to do is breath out, that way when you breath back in, youll smell your breath, if nothing catches your attention, your good to go, have fun!

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im gettin uncertain about a little get together im supposed to have tonight..im afraid my parents will come home early or that they are suspicous. i know a lot of you are going to say cancel it if i feel this way..but if i dont and they come home early is it a good idea to hide the guys in my grandmas summer place and to come clean that 5 girls were over? they would flip if they knew guys were over. any famous lines i can use if i get caught? i dont wanna cancel because im having 10 ppl over and they r lookin foward to it..i am too..i think i can get away with it..right?

all obnoxious / mean , etc ppl will be givin a 1 so dont answer..your not needed

you know what i say? tell everyone that there would be a chance that your parents are comming home early, so you either start it a few minutes earlier (if your planning on having it like an hour after they ((the parents)) leave, and then tell everyone they would need to leave say, a half an hour early... OR if your having it right after your parents go, tell them that there is a chance your parents could come home, or is suspecting somthing....another thing, once they are there, keep an eye on the clock, once its getting pretty close, tell them its time to go, (or atleast tell the guys that) make sure the first thing out is the guys, that would be your first priority once the party is over. And if you get caught, without hiding the guys, what i would say is ((atleast with my parents)) 'they are just a few friends, i had no intentions at all to do anything' (even if you dont intend to do anything, parents dont always listen. one last remark- i hope you dont get caught, and have fun!

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my girlfriend is hard to make convesation with and same here help please

you guys should talk about stupid things first, for example, the type of cell phone both of you have, or what is in your room or on your bed, it is amazing how it will trigger bigger things that you talk about and you two will be just talking up a storm!

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