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ok... im dieing here... im not allowed on AIM and im not allowed to watch tv... ive been on this website like allll day and i can't take it anymore... its raining outside... and i don't no why im not allowed to watch tv or go online.. i was allowed on AIM for 15 minutes and thats it... i didn't do anything wrong... can someone give me ideas on waht to do? i have an annoying 11 year old brother and i don't wanna play with him... i can't even play video gamesss!!

Really bored too, check out this german car commercial SCARY haha but sooo not real
http://www.bobcongdon.net/blog/2004/11/german-car-commercial.html

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ok...so i know this guy named "brownie" lol and he is soooo nice!we talk on the internet 24/ 7 to eachother and we say hi to eachother but it seems like i cant talk to him in person...i get all tonguetied...we go to diff. schools and he is one grade below me!!i also told him on the internet that i liked him...now im super embaressed!!!

OK im gonna be honest.. is the internet seriously like the ONLY place you guys ever communicate??? Seriously, if you really like this guy you might want to start talking somewhere else other than on instant message! ANd dont feel embarrased about telling him that you like him, because if you guys really talk on the computer that long, im sure he likes you too.

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I go to a private school, and my friend did also, but then she went public. i still keep in touch with her and she is still a really great friend. But now i have this other great friend in school with me and i'm not sure wiether to think she is a better friend or not. Should i replace her? is it bad that i do not feel as close to my previous best friend?
-dorinflower55

Ok i go to a private school and my friend goes to a public school. We're still REALLY good friends, we just dont see each other as much! You need someone at skool that can be a really good friend, and it's not really replacing her, because youre still friends with her!! I have some really good friends at my school, and im even better friends with some of them than her and everythings fine. At first i felt bad, but then i got over it and realized that being good friends with someone else isnt gonna hurt our friendship!! ********Hope i helped***************
PINKY MEOW CAT TO THE RESCUE!!!

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Anyone know were/how I can make a *FREE* website on my own..Like I can have links to other pages like one link could be my pictures (but on the same site not linked to a site where they are) and another link could be ramblings..its not exactly a journal but idk exactly what it is either..can someone please help me! I love making sites taht have already been made for me,but I want to make my own! ** I rate high **

Geocities.com!! Sign up free! My friend has one and he loves it! haha here take a look : http://www.geocities.com/ihnen149

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ok im 13 female and i started cutting because family and friend problems and i stopped 4 like 2 weeks and then i got so mad and deprest i cut again and now i want to really bad but i promised myself i wouldnt do it again because im scared someones going to find out about it and send me to a mental home or something beause of it and i have thought about killing myself one or twice but i havent gone threw with it yet but i trie to hide it from my mom and my teachers so i dont wear shorts or anything and i wear a jacket most the time so that no one see the scares but i really need help and i was going to tell someone about it but im to scared so can anyone give me advise because i could really use some right now??? please help

TRUST ME cutting is NOT the answer! Tell someone before you get hurt.. next time u think about cutting yourself DONT! who knows, maybe next time you think about commiting suicide you will, and you won't change your mind. You seriously need to tell someone and get help before something really bad happens( not that what ur doing isnt already bad). Think twice about cutting. Tell someone you think can help you with this right away. Your only 13.... LIVE THE LIFE GOD GAVE YOU!!

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OK ive been to a few sweet 16's this year and everyone has the same thing : music and food for like 3-4 hours. People who arent the dancing queens and are dancing all night..tend to say they are bored, etc. For mine..i def dont want that to happen.

Is it a cool idea to go swimming for 2 hours at the hotel(im having my party there) with my closer friends ..then a half hour later the actual party starts? There are showers and i could bring a hair dryer (its a nice place) so my friends could do my hair so its not sopping wet. Also, there are a ton of pretty cool games i found off the internet which i was figuring would keep everyone happy.

Examples are :

(twister,hula hoop contest,game where two teams and together as a train..everyone has to walk to the finish line in single file while everyone has a bananna they have to get across without using their hands..they have to press it against the backs of the other ppl,

guy belly dancing contest, dancing/singing contest,pinata,limbo, and the human string relay, where there are two teams in a single file line. The first person has a spoon tied to yarn, and they have to put it down their shirt and pants..pass it back..same thing happens,,whoever is done first wins, "Roast" where people get up and tell funny story about guest of honor (me), game where as guests come in..you give them a necklace and tell them if they say any form of "yes" then the person who hears that can take their necklace away..person with most necklaces at the end wins.

for all these games i was thinking spending $50 on prizes for the night and for the winners i would hand out prizes

if you dont like these could you give me an idea on how to keep everyone happy and for my sweet 16 to be different and unique? thanks!! 5's for everyone who isnt rude because i know this is super long..but its really important to me

thank you again! :)

I'm sure your party's gonna be a hit! There's also a game that I played at my friends birthday where you split up in groups of like 5 or something, and each group gets a list of like 10-20 things on it that are all different( like a bobby pin, or a paperclip i dont know) and what you do is see how much of the things on the list u HAVE this isnt a treasure hunt!! like you might have it in your purse or somethin this game is sooo fun and you give them like 5- 10 mins to get together as much stuff as they have, and whoever has the most wins one of your prizes! By the way, what kind of prizes are you planning to give out... pranks, sunglasses, lip gloss i dont no

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Hi right well i went out with my two best friends today called k and m we went to a theme park! and some of the rides were two person seats! m always wanted to go with k she never seems to want to be with me on anything and im confused! my friends mean everything to me and i dont want to have a big argument! how do i sort this problem out becauses it kind of feels like she likes k more even though ive been best friend with them both same amount of time and i like them both the same!
please help rate high! sorry its a bit long

Wow, I had the same problem! I just started to hang- out with my friend Z more often( or in your case m) and she realized what a great person I can really be. hehe NOT BRAGGING lol but just spend more time with her and sooner than soon u will all get along equally. sorry if this didnt make sense but hope it helps im not exactly a professional on advice giving

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