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ok lets see if i can get this right lol...
-does he like me or does he like herr???
---is it me or is it her...or am i really her?
(sry i know this is long)
ok ..im 14/f and one of my best friends is 14/m..he doesnt go to my school...although lives in the district and i seem him here and there...hes been askin me how to ask a girl out..and i kept telling him to be himself..he just wont listen to me on that part advice...
he kepts telling me to put myself in that position..
- i said "no"
- he said "well its not hard 4 u ur a girl"
- i said "its hard 4 us as well..bc we have to turn down guys we dont like"..
i dk how to tell just to be himself..bc he doesnt want to listen to listen when he knows its true...
and he a few days ago he asked me "how do i ask a girl out and not get turned down??"..and im like idk its not something predictable...
-he goes to a private school..and i go to public school..so i have no clue who this girl is..if i did ..i would have asked her if she liked him..but i dk ....so im pointless at this point...-thx
P.S. i asked him way be4 that.."what would you say if i said i liked you" and he said "i dunno" and said well what would your 1st response be if i said i did and he said "u do?" and i said oooo..then he said something or w/e and i said you scare me sometimes and he didnt say anything for 2 mins and i said..."do you care that you do sometimes" and he said "yea"..and i said "how much?" and he said "______________________________________________________________________________"
and i said "ooohh"..then later on the other night on-line what this girls name is and
he said "marissa"
--- when we got into an little argument over what is harder being a girl or being a guy...and he said we have it easier..and when i said "no we dont bc we have to turn down guys who ask us out, i had to do it 5 times" and he said "w/ whoooo?"..like if he was affaird i was taken or something..ahh it drives me insane..-thx again
- i think i already hinted that i liked him...im just not suree if he is affaird to ask me out bc i said i rejected 5 guys- (link)
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well wen it's just yo guys talk to him about it! he might be shy! so u should make the first move! tell him how you feel! and than ask him who the girl is that he likes and if it's u just ask him if he will go out with u! if i were u i wouldn't wait! becuz i liked this one kid n i was soo scared to ask him n i blew it! now i dn't see him as much as i use to cuz we stoped talking! so just ask him! cuz if u really like him u wont wanna miss out! cuz if u wait som1 else might ask him!
*hope i helped
xox-ashlyn
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My best friend is in Florida and as a result I started dating her cuz. (previous letter i wrote). Now i am soooooooo mad at him. Did i ask him out b/c i missed my friend to much or did i really mean it. Can u help me figure this out? (link)
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i'm not sure...at the dance wen u said u guys were gunna dance u seemed soo happy! BUT every one misses steff! i can't wait till she gets her butt bakk here! haha if i were u i wouldn't go out with som1 who is goin to hate/be mean to ur friends!!! he wasn't even talking to u at lunch! thats suck a sucky b/f!! lol i'm sry! but he should at least talk to u N PAY ATTENTION TO U!!! he didnt' even nodise u were mad! and that tells me that he's not ready for a g.f! he's needs work! lol becuz if i had a b.f that was mean to my friends n wouldn't pay attention to me i'd be like get ur scrubby ass outta here! n wen he's with his friends he should still talk to u! just becuz his friends r there that doesnt meen he cant talk to u! that tottal bull shit! lol so i'm not sure wat to do! maybe u really did mean it..but now that u see that he cant take time to talk to u wen his friends r with maybe thats tellin u to find som1 else! tori i kno u can do much MUCH better! u dont need to take that shit.. i kno u can find some one thats NOT gunna be a jerk! ur so pritty! u can get any 1!!!
*hope i helped..right bakk
xoxo-ashlyn
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I like this kid but the problem is i am going out with sum1 else and he is a total jerk to my friends. The kid i like is soooo out of my league and i am sooo afraid that if my bf finds out i like him, he will go and tell his cuz(who is my best friend) and then his whole family will no! and that will make me look like a jerk... wut do i do? (link)
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brake up with him! dont take that shit from no guy! haha 1 he shouldn't be nasty to friends..remember..friends be4 guys! becuz if u loose a guy..theres plenty more! but u will never have great friends like u do now! haha and who's the other guy u like? hmmm.....i think i kno him! is it my friends m*k*? haha well write bakk n tell me!
xoxo-ashlyn
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i have friends and sometimes i feel like they dont need me... i dont know why... i cant tell them about it because then they would obviously say that its not true. i have a bestest friend but shes not in the U.S. so i cant see her veryday and hang with her. please help me... (link)
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get some new friends!! keep the old ones but get some new ones to! or just take ur 2cd bestest friend to the side n talk to them! just tell them how u feel! if they were really ur friend they would understand!!
*hope i helped! write bakk if u need n e thang else!
xoxo-ashlyn
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my brother smokes pot and well he is 21 and he has done drugs since about 5th grade and i know he does it but he wont just come out and say it his friend is so stupid he got high of a air can while me and my little sister were ther in the room right next to them and my brother made up that he might have just had a cesure should i tell him that i know he does drugs and i think it is stupid or just keep quiet and not get involved please help i am worried about him
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hey! if i were u would just wait till it's just u to and talk to him about it! becuz if u just let it go he can get in a lot of trouble or get hurt! u do stupid stuff wen ur high and stuff....so yeah..def..i would talk to him! i kno some one who did it and i talked to him about it and she stoped! and tell him how u feel about it!
* hope i helped!!!
xox -ashlyn! *P.S. i hope he's ok!
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hi.. i am the one who asked you what to do about that boy who my friends didn't like.... remember me??? well everything worked out and now we are going out and stuff like that. i just want to say "thank-you". i always asked like random people that i knew for advice but now i know that i can just ask you! Thank you!!!! (link)
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ur welcomse sweetie!! hehe
xoxo-ashlyn
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How do i put my advice colum in my aim profile? (link)
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wen ur in ur profile go to link and than put the link in the link in the first box and than put wat ever u want in the 2cd box..like my advice colum or somthing like that!
xoxo-ashlyn
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For those of you who use PictureTrail is it free? (link)
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yes! i have it..but for free you only get like a mounth free than u have to pay for it
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Hey i was really good friends with these two girls ever since i got wit this guy they say i ignore them when they are rlly ignoring me now they dont talk to me at all what can i do to become good friends with them again (link)
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Just call one of them and be like yo i wanna hang out with u guys one night...and just ask them why you's stoped talking...if there ur best friends they should exsept ur boyfriend! they shouldn't let a guy get between u guys!
*hope i helped....
xoxo-ash
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Im going to a new school this year, and its my freshman year. The school that i'm goin to has a freshman building so it wont be as hard by bein picked on by older kids, but im still scared. i went to a private school for quite a while and now im not sure what to expect! And me and my best friend were both going to leave our private school and go the same public shcool , but at the last minute --7 or 8 days. her mom changed her mind and now shes not goin there any more with me so im really scared! Can you give me any advice to help out or anything? ive never really had problems fitting in but im not sure if i will. Thanx a bunch!! (link)
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Its gunna be scarry..but just walk up to some one and be like hi my name is...and just ask them how they like the school..and if there in ur classes just ask them if they could so u around like were all the classes are!
*hope i helped..
xoxo-ashlyn
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i really like this one guy..... but i don't know if he likes me. My friends don't like him because he is not in a our little group. How do i know if he likes me????? i want him to know that i like him... but i am afraid to tell him myself in person.... what should i do?
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Hey! just walk up to him and talk to him!becuz if u just stay back and look at him you might miss out on him!!!so just walk up to him and tell him your name..and just start talking about somthing.. like from school or somthing! anything!
n be like i was just wondering if you would want to hang out with me some time..and from there just get to kno him better and then tell him!!
*Hope i helped! write bakk fi u need n e more help!!
xoxo-ashlyn!!
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whats a good/fast way to get rid of a lil fat i have only on my belly? and how do i do crunches? thanks a lot. (link)
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run! for crunches lay on your back..and bend ur knee's and have some one hold down ur feet or just slide them under a couch..and just cross ur arms and put ur hands by ur shoulders and go up to ur knee's..it's hard to explane..but thats it..
*xoxo-ashlyn
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i havnt had a boyfriend for like a year and i dont know whats wrong with me i dont really like anyone i mean some guys are real cute but i want a boyfriend what do i do? (link)
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fairs!! lol go to a fair close to were you live and and if you see any guys you think you would like go up and talk to him!! or in school! just go up and be like hi my name is...and than just start talking!
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i have been friends with this guy for like a year now well since last summer and we stoped talkin after i moved but now that i have moved back we started talkin more now and we r starting to hang out together alot more and i am starting to like him he is one of my first love...(ex boyfriends) friends what should i do should i tell him or keep it on the dL cuz i am scared he will freak out and it will mess up or friend ship but then agian i am scared that if i don't tell him then i will neva have a chance wit him..... plz help me what should i do... (link)
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wen it's just you to hanging out just tell him! he shouldn't freak out! and wen your done telling him just say maybe if he wants to u want to start dating him again!
hpoe i helped! plz rate me!
love,ashlyn
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Ive been with my boyfriend for about 3 years and when i entered middle school everyone started making fun of me because my boyfriend is a different race. He means alot to me but i am soo tired of all the laughs and jokes i get from a lot of people. What should i do??
Sincerely,
I really love him.. but just annoyed (link)
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just ignore them! and just act like it doesn't bother u! becuz if they see that there annoying you with that they won't stop! so just keep walking and don't even look at them! just act like you don't even hear them! and they might stop!
*hope i helped! plz rate me! thanx*
xoxo-ashlyn!
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OK, so I have a boyfriend and we've been going out for about 7 months. The thing is.. Ive never met him b4. He lives in the same state and everything. But we live like an hour away from each other :(. I mean we could probably meet some how but i dunno. we hardly ever talk too. I havent talked to him in 2 weeks, partially because i was away but he still hasn't called either. He knows im home. I jus wanna kno if I should stick with the relationship or just be friends. I love him with all my heart. I am just really confused right now :(. Please Help! (link)
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hey..if he kno's ur home he should at least call you to see how your doing!!! and since he's your boyfriend he should at least come and see you! it's only an hour!! but it's really up to you if you want to keep him or not! but i think you should just be friends!
*i hope i helped! plx rate me!
xoxo-ashlyn
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One of my best friends isn't going back to school because her dad is taking custody of her and lately she hasn't been talking to me. I don't know if I should call her or let her call me.But the problem is My other best friend is going on vacation in oct. so I'm gunna be a loner. What should I do? Should I call her? (link)
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yes! i think you should call her! becuz if she's ur best friend i don't think you would want to loose that relationship! so yes you should call her! and since your other friend is goin on vacation just make some new friends to! but still keep the same ones you have!
*hope i helped plz rate me!
xoxo-ashlyn
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iight theres this guy that i meet saterday! he is awesome! i mean i can be my complete self around him! and me and him both have a thing fro each other...and i mean i do like him and he is going to ask me out the next time we see each other...but i'm jst scared that it's going to be awhile before we see each other! and i kind of don't want to wait!?? but then i do cuz i don't want to rush things!? wat should i do? (link)
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well just call him up! and tell him you want to hang out with him! and wen he ask's you say yes! but them just tell him that you don't wanna rush things right away!
hope i helped...plz rate me!
xoxo-ashlyn
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ok i know this has been asked a billion times already but oh well.
i am perfectly comfortable with how i look except for my stomache. it could be skinnier. i go back to school in about 3 weeks and i want to know some good workout ideas to get my stomache firmer by then.
if you have any ideas at all that you know will work, write back!!! (link)
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the best thing to do is run! haha run every day...and then wen u get bakk do some crunches if your up to it! u should loose ur stomache!!!
*hope i helped! plz rate me!
xoxo-ashlyn
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okay i knoe alot of ppl are havin sex and all and i used to want ta have sex really bad but i was talkin to my friend and she really explained to me that its a really good idea to wait for mariage. so thats me new plan. but c i talked to alot of guys about having sex... and now i dont knoe how to turn them down..?? i mean will they think im dumb if i say i wanna wait till marriage??
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No way! if your not ready or you just want to wait till marriage then thats what you tell them! your, ur own person! don't let any guy tell you what your ready for or not! and if they really care and love you than they will wait to!
*hope i helped! please rate me!
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