Hey every one I'm Megan and I'm 16.I like to just hang, relax, and of course go shopping! Like any other teenager I have to put up with alot of drama and what not so I can relate to just about every one. I figured I'd start an advice column i guess because I like giving out advice!
E-mail: m_marie88@yahoo.com
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my bf and me have been going out for 2 weeks now. and it just weird. he has already told me that he loves me and everything. i can't stand that and when i told him not to say that, he got kinda upset. so then he told his friend that i said i love you first, and then his friend wants me and him to break up with him. and today when i wrote him a letter about it i was kinda mad. and during the passing period he came right up to me in the big lunch room and started yelling at me infront of god and everybody. i walked away trying not to cry, but when i walked into 3rd period i was balling. he told me later that i started it. and that he is tired of my prissy attitude. what do i do? what would you do? would you stay with him? should i dump him? i like him a lot (link)
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Whoa two weeks and he's already saying I love you?? Well if he really cares for you I think you should give him anotehr shot. But is he's going to embarass you infront of everyone then thats just not right. And its immature for him to tell you that "you started it". Maybe you should sit him down tell him how you feel and see if he understands where your coming from. If he just starts a fight with you then kick him to the curb and get your self another boyfriend!
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Lets just say you are a 13 year old boy. It is christmas time and your girlfriend has no idea on what to get you. She doesn't want to get CDs and definatly not cologne and she isn't too good with doing personal things like photo albumns. What is she to do? What should she get him? (link)
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Well I'd say get him something that he's into. Like if he's into video games get him that new Grand Theft Auto game. If he's into cars get him those little model cars you can put body kits and stuff on them. You could always try clothes if you can't find anything else. Or you could get him little joke toys from Spencers or something. I have a 13 year old brother and he's really into cars and video games so you could always try that.
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have you ever been in love and had somebody tell you that your to young to be in love? well i have and even if i am young im in love. My exboyfriend and I were best friends. He told me everything and I told him everything. We started going out and I knew that he still liked his exgirlfriend. Well we got into an arguement and broke up. the next day i found out that he went to the movies with her that same day and well i got mad and started yellin at him telling him he should just go ahead and go out with her. well he took my advice but he knew i didnt mean it. now him and her have been going out for atleast 3 weeks now and all i can do is cry. He is the love of my life and I feel like dieing all the time. Its like my world was tookin away from me. His girlfriend is moving in 2 weeks and they might stay together but they dont know. I just dont know what to do. I love him and he says he loves me back and he will always love me and that he just likes her but what i dont understand is how he could love me and like her but go out with her and not me. Please tell me what to do because im so confused and i feel like if this keeps up im gonna have to do something i dont want to do.. (link)
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Try not to dwell on this all the time. All its going to do is stress you and and trust me you really don't want that. Have you tried telling him how much you care for him? If not, do it! And if he's going to blow you off for his ex-girlfriend then hunny he isn't worth your time. I know how hard it is to get over some one you love but time heels all wounds. Maybe he's just with this skank becuase he wants to piss you off. Have you tried just going out with your friends and finding some one new? You should try you never know you might meet some one that will take your breath away!
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i am having a birthday party so0o0on wat r good pary ideas? i am turning 14 (link)
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You can get these party books you should get one it has a bunch of theme and stuff in them. Or if you have a community center near you rent it out for the night and get a DJ and have a bunch of people over and dance around. Or just go out to the movies and pickup some hot studs!! lol Have fun!
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You know that little piece of skin between you anus anus and your vagina? Well it burns when I urinate and it started bleeding. What should I do?!
*Scared* (link)
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You know what I know a person whose had that recently and it was like a brush burn from having ruff toilet paper. Or you might have some kind of infection. I'd go to the doctor if it doesn't clear up within the next couple days.
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Okay!Well since christmas is coming up I really want to get my best friend a really good gift for christmas. He is an amazing guy and we have been best friends for well over a year now. We have gotten really close and I have fallin in love with him. I dont want to just get him something cheap and ugly. I want to get him something that he will remember and really like.I have never really gotten a guy a gift for xmas. I honestly have no clue what to get him. I want him to really love his gift. What should I get him? (link)
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Lets see a present that a guy would remember...well you can always wear a dominatrics outfit for him lol JUST KIDDING! You could always get him a nice outfit or if hes into football you can get him footballs tickets for maybe him and a friend. It depends on what type of person he is, if he's into skating get him a skateboard or some ramps, if he's into video games you could always get him that Halo 2 game or that new Vice City game (I heard that's a real popular gift) But yeah i hope I helped.
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okay, the guy i really like just asked me out. yay. but the down side is hes punk. and im prep. i kno i kno it shouldnt matter. but if i go out with him i kno pplz are gonna look at me different, think im different and treat me different. i cant stand it. i really like this guy help me, should i or shouldnt i go out with him??? (link)
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First off who cares what other people think about you. Ask long as your happy being with him that's all that matters. And hey this guy might be the one so don't let him go just people of some silly people. And hey if poeple do look at your differently then maybe it's because there jelious of what you have with him. So say yes if you haven't already lol!!
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im so paranoid and self consicous about me and my boyfriend. i kno he loves me and we are verrry close to eachother and weve been together for a while but even if he says something like ill call you at 7 and he calls at 8...i get sooo upset for that hour i wait..ill be like oh hes late he doesnt love me or watever i dont know i always do this...whats wrong with me? i KNOW he loves me but i get soo hurt and think bad things if he doesnt call when he said he would or something!! its so weird...help (link)
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You need to chill out about this or else you'll scare him away. My one friend used to be like that with her EX boyfriend. He got sick of not being trusted. If he hasn't done anything like cheat on you then you shouldn't worry about it. Talk to him and tell him that some things bother you like him not calling you on time but he is a guy and we all know guys have no sense of time lol but good luck
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has anyone ever had lazor hair treatment to rid of your body hair?? If so any information on the results, if it hurt, etc, would be great. thanks :) (link)
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My friends dad had that done on his face. It was really red for about 3 days and he complained about it burning and stinging a little bit. But other then that it should be fine.
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Does anyone know how to get black ink off White shirts? (link)
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Put shout or stain stick on on the stain then bleach your shirt. Wash it regularly though or your shirt will smell funny lol trust me I'd know im one of the messiest people out there.
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okay... im a girl and 14 and i really like this guy & he liked me too and we went to homecoming and everything was going great... after homecoming, he said that he likes me too and that he wants to go out with me ((but he didnt technically ask me out yet)) so then a few days later we went to this party & he wasnt there... & the whole time i was thinkn about this other guy and kissing him and what not... but then we went to a school nearby at around 10 ish & lit off fireworks... that was a long story but the cops came & "gatherd" all of us "kids" to go back to the house the party was at. and the guy was just walking around looking for his cat & the cops told him to go back to the party too. okay so then we were all watching a movie & the OTHER guy that i was thinkn i wann'd to kiss and i were sitting on the chair and we started making out and what not... right in front of the other guy that i hella like that liked me too. & well.. needless to say.. he doesnt think things will work out with us.. he said he still likes me a lot.. but after that he couldnt EVER go out with me cause i hurt him so much. i kno i made a huge mistake expecially cause he means soooo much to me.. but what should i do cause i really want things to b right with us again.. a lot of time has passed and we r just now starting to BaReLy talk again... please help me out
xO-sara (link)
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Tell him you were just caught up in the moment. Im not saying what you did was right becuase i mean i was sort of ignorant but hey girls will be girls and everyone has done this. But just tell him that you have so many feelings for him and that you really like him and care for him ALOT and that it was just a moment kinda thing. If he still has feelings for you then maybe things will turn out for the better. Hopefully everything turns out ok for you lemme no how everything went when you tell him everything!! Good Luck
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ok so here it goes tomarrow, friday people were planning a birthday party for this girl catherine and everyone was talking about it since monday well everyone but like 4 people in our grade was invited i was one of the four. Well today at brunch carla a senior, asked me and another girl to go on friday . well i wanted to go until i thought about it and since its a new school for me i wasnt sure if other people wanted me to go since they didnt ask me to go until the a day before(today). so should i go or not i dont want people to be like who invited HER and i have no other people to go/hangout with but i want to go casue carla asked me and she is really nice for asking me
what do i do ? (link)
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Deff. go! It's a great way to make new friends. And if some ones going to make a big deal out of it just remember there not worth your time AT ALL and just avoid them b/c there probably just going to start drama. But yes you should go and have fun!
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Hey all, well, on Saturday, im gonna get my cartilage pierced! (Like at the upper ear, where actress Raven-Symone has it). And i was wondering, if all of all of you that have one could tell me about the pain, how 2 make it go good and keep my mind off of it, and healing processes?!?!?! Im getting it down with a gun if it helps any.... (link)
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I had mine done before and when you get it done its honestly not that bad just keep thinking how good it will look after wards. Make sure you clean it daily or it will get infected. I had to take mine out b/c i got a big bubblish type of thing on the back of my ear but i think it was b/c of the type of earing i had b/c I cleaned it every morning evening and before i went to bed. But I think yours should look pretty good!
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My friends and I have been in this fight for like a long time. And we havn't really gotton over it. And its not just any kind of group. Its the popular group and we ALL know how that is. There are rumors flying everywhere and I want to be nice to them because most of them arn't really mad at me. Only if I hang out with my friend who 'was' in that group. I have done everything! Anyone have any suggestions without being rude to any of my friends? Or is it just totally HOPELESS
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Well we all know how people can be. If some one is going to make up rumors about you then they aren't really worth your time. Try not to dwell on it and what ever there pist off about they'll get over. Try to talk to them abo utit and see how it goes. And still try to keep in touch with the ones that you like and like you back. B/c there the ones that are your true friends. Good Luck
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I'm a 13/M and I am having this problem with a girl that i just can't solve by myself. She's a 13/F and i cant stop thinking about her. You see the thing is that I've liked her for over a year and i've been tryin to wait and let her and her bf break up but they've been goin out for a long time and i just cant wait anymore. I love her to death and we talk everyday and we are great friends but i cant stop thinkin about her. The more we talk the more and more i like her. Please give me some advice on what i should do. I can't live without her. (link)
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She must be a really lucky girl to have some one care about her the way you do. But you can't expect her to break up with her boyfriend if she really loves him. The most you can do right now is be there for her when ever she needs you and to be her best friend. Does she know you like her all like this? Because some girls get kind of scared when they find out some one likes them ALOT and the last thing you want to do is scare her away. I think for now all you can do is just be there. Maybe later on in the future things will turn out for the better. Good Luck
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ok ok.. this has nothing to do with "cooking" but my friend has a hearing thing like he cant hear completely outta his ear so like... when i said that noones perfect and i have a prob. myself and i cant fix it and my eyes wont ever b as good as anyone elses or even his he got all mad cuz i was being to caring so i said i'd stop then he kept wanting me to care and told me to stop lying about me not caring.. what do i do? (link)
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Some people have trusting issues and think that poeple are out to make fun of them. In this case i think he is just scared b/c maybe your the first person to actually care. It's hard to tell if some one is just saying they care b/c they feel bad or b/c they actually do care. Just let him know that you really care about him and his feelings and that no one is perfect.
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MY BEST FRIEND has turned into a real jerk. Me and him loved each other and he just turned me away. He tried to kill himself and that really got me worked up and i guess i said a few things i sholdn't have but i miss him and he's sending me these e-mails that r insulting me and saying he's glas i'm out of his life. What should i do? (link)
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When some one trys to kill themself the best thing you can do is be there for him. I can understand why youd say something you shouldnt of but you should always be there for him. Talk to him about it to his face. And he most still care about you if he's going to go out of his way to e-mail you. Theres nothing that you can really do about it untill you confront him about all this. Good Luck
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I had a friend named Cherry since I was in kindergarten. About a year ago my cat died and she said "Oh well, now you can get a new one." (I was very close to this cat) Well, my mom said that no one close to her had ever died and she didn't understand but I didn't listen. About fou months later I caught her talking about me bahind my back saying I needed to go one a diet. I admit that I guess I do but it was still hurtful. My friend Guari tried to stick up for me by calling Cherry a prep and saying some bad things about her. Then I got mad when she insultes Guari and we got into a big fight and I stopped talking to her for almost a year now because 1. She was a prep and Guari convinced me all preps are evil (not true) 2. She was rude about my cat (she didnt understand) and 3. she talked about me behind my back (we all do it)
Now I want to apologize but I dont know if I can or should and I know after all those bad names we called each otehr and that big fight that lasted almost a month Guari will be mad and Im not good at admitting I was wrong. What should I do? (about apologizing and if I do about Gauri's reaction) I RATE! (link)
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Having a friend since kindergareden obviously is something special and i think all 3 of you's should sit down and talk. Yeah her talking about you behind your back was wrong but maybe she didnt say ne thing and it was all hear say stuff. And about your cat she didnt understadn where you were coming from and if she did i doubt she'd react like that if you guys were goof friends. I think everyone owes every one an apology not just you. Good luck though
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dear advice giver,
I am 13 years old and I do not like my body. I am young for my grade and I am considered rather small in my grade. But what bothers me the most is that I have no breats. I can't even fit into a size A yet. All my friends have breasts but I am as flat as a cardboard. Consider this, I am a size 34 in sports bras but not the size A to go with it. My mom is a 34B and she says that she grew at a slow rate. Please help.
-sign, flat as a wall (link)
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I think just about every one has a flaw or two with there body. There are certian foods you can eat to increase your breast size. Drinking alot of water is a myth is doesnt work. Alot of girls have this problem though so your not the only one. You can go to a store and buy one of those padded push up bras to make yourself look bigger. Look on the plus side when your older your boobs wont be mearly s saggy as most the big breasted girls out there!!
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Hello Megan.. I have a boyfriend of about 7 years now and we have not had sex (kinda). Oh belive me i want to soo bad but the thing is he has quite a small penis, we have tryed several times but i cant feel a thing and i dont know how to tell him. I cant even tell when it goes it so i have to guess and then fake and orgasim. I hear there are some penis enlargers that I can get for him but you see I just dont know what to say. PLEASE HELP!
-unpleasured (link)
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Dear Unpleasured,
Oh my...lol Just get him one and tell him its a joke and then when yous have sex tell himto get it out and expirement with it. Then if he does and you like it tell him u thought it was incredible and tell him he should use it more often and see what he has to say about it hopefully he'll think your just being kinky lol But try that and if it doesnt work then tell me and ill do some research on it for you. Good Luck!
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