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Friend Fued
My friends and I have been in this fight for like a long time. And we havn't really gotton over it. And its not just any kind of group. Its the popular group and we ALL know how that is. There are rumors flying everywhere and I want to be nice to them because most of them arn't really mad at me. Only if I hang out with my friend who 'was' in that group. I have done everything! Anyone have any suggestions without being rude to any of my friends? Or is it just totally HOPELESS
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Ah, that's the worst. Really, there's nothing you can do. I feel sooo hopeless when things like that happen. The only thing you can do is tell your friends who are "in' the group so to speak, that you're going to be friends with everyone. Eventually it'll blow over, once the rumors stop and everyone calms down over it. Just TRY to not get in the middle, and if you're already it in, I'm really sorry. The only thing you can do is talk it out. That's it. And that's horrible advice I know because that would be the obvious choice, but what more coudl you do? You could try to get them to "meet" up accidently, but that might end up getting them pissed off @ you. Which wouldn't be any good. YOU just keep being friends with everyone, don't get trapped in the "If you're friends with her, we're not friends anymore," game. Good luck, I hope it blows over soon.
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Well we all know how people can be. If some one is going to make up rumors about you then they aren't really worth your time. Try not to dwell on it and what ever there pist off about they'll get over. Try to talk to them abo utit and see how it goes. And still try to keep in touch with the ones that you like and like you back. B/c there the ones that are your true friends. Good Luck
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