Hi, Im Callie, and im considered the Go-to-Girl. I might not give perfect advice, But i do try my best. Im really bad at spelling, so please, bare with me threw it. I love to read and write. Poems most of the time. Sometimes songs. I play select soccer and im pretty darn good. I love to laugh and have fun. But belivie it or not, Alot of people consider me emo. And thats mostly because i like black, piercings. But i dont see how that makes me emo. But who cares. I cant say i have a perfect easy life. But i wouldnt trade it for the world. Even tho im good at giveing advice, I need advice. Alot. Because i Question many things that most people wouldnt think twice about. Also i know alot of useless information. And i Still have NO idea how i know it. haha. So if you need advice, Ill try my hardest to give you what you need.
Hope i have help, Hope i will help you in some way. And if you have a Question you want to ask, but dont want alot of people to see, You can email me on one of my email accounts. You can email me on Soccer_cheka_11@yahoo.com, or Lost_in_the_music@ymail.com. I check both almost everyday.
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okay, so this one night me and my friends were driving around and we were talking about how supposedly the end of the world is coming in teh next 10 yesrs. well i am very caring and a scared persona nd when i get so scared about something i freak out! how can i forget about this 'end of the world' stuff forgot so i wont ever remember it and i can live my life like i use dto all free caring having fun but enjoying life? (link)
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Im the same way. i love life soooooo much. and i like to enjoy it. so when you start talking about it and you want to forget it, read a book or watch tv. get on youtube/myspace/bebo/facebook and talk to people. or play games. do something so different from what you were talking about.
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are witches real??
or even magic? (link)
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Well theres really no proof that they arent real.
and i kinda think that magic real.
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i'm a froob
what should i do (link)
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Well since your new, you should go to the Grand exchange first and talk to the people there. Then you should start training on giant rats. And explore Runescape some more. Then when you get to be about level 30+ you should start going to clan wars. For cooking and fishing. you should start that early because those help you make money. (and you need alot of that) For mineing and smithing its the same thing. You will need that for makeing money. But when you get to level 10 you should start doing the quests. but when you First start, do the cooking one and other ones that arent hard. For help with the quests go to Runehq.com. I play runescape so i know all bout this stuff.
Hope i helped.
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I'm 15 so i guess I'm not in "love" but I have really strong feelings for this guy whos a bit of a bad boy.
Hes ll months younger than me and the little brother of one of my best friends. I thought he was gross and not worth my time for the past 3 years that I've known him until now because I've gotten to know him. Hes white. I'm black. I have straight As and am about to skip a grade. Hes failed once or twice and is still in the 8th grade [im in the llth].
I'm a virgin and have never touched a drug or drink in my life. He isnt a virgin and used to have a habit of being under the influence. He seems to be quitting and has treated me better than any other guy I've dated or liked and he doesnt try to push anything on me like sex or drugs or anything.
Hes actually looking to me to help him stop. Both of us have strong feelings for each other. Should I be with him or am I wasting my time with this bad boy? (link)
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Well if you think hes worth your time then your not wasteing it. and i know how you feel. Im mixed and i git pretty good grades and im dateing a guy that isnt all that good. but i like him and he likes me and hes yonger. So if you like him and he likes you. Everything else doesnt matter because hes straighing up.
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ill be 15 in a week and im with this guy and im kinda prude. i dont really no how to not be prude like i just feel akward soometimes when he like feels me up and stuff. and his friend asked me today why i went to his house last nite and no one was there and we didnt do n e thing then he called me prude. i feel so akward now. and idk what he ment by doing nothing but we couldnt have sex or n e thing cuz im on my period but he doesnt no that. ahhhhh this suckss. i would appricate some advicee =] (link)
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well first off its not bad to be prude. it just means that you dont want to be doing nasty things like that. Second if you feel akward tell him. because if you keep letting him do it then its giveing him the wrong idea that you might want to do anymore.
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if i constantly think bout growing up, that rarely i like to go out anymore, and im 5'9 and 135 and still want to look like heidi klum, and im always stressed it may because i have been getting acne but i eat good so why am i breaking out?! someone help.. (link)
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You dont have a problem. You are a normal person. when you stress over trying to look good then you brake out. so if you quit stressing so much you brake out less often
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Ok so I do love my girlfriend, I know it will sound weird given the title of my question, but I do love her. She's my best friend and we've been together 15 months, I see her almost everyday and when I don't see her I miss her. We do loads together, we have dinner together almost every evening, go out socialising and have a really good time. However, since my 18th birthday I've found myself more and ore attracted to one of her friends. To be honest I've fancied her since before I even first met my girlfriend and recently we've been spending more time together, hanging out, going to pubs etc. and now we work together. I feel horrible for liking her the way I do. I have a massive thing against cheating in relationships and yet whenever I'm with her I never even think about my girlfriend. My girlfriend have had troubles in the past, she cheated on me and there's always been a worry she could do it again. I know she wouldn't and trust her, but I have an over active imagination. Anyway i'm really starting to like this other girl. She's cute (really hot), she's funny and we get on. She split up from her bf recently and she's talking about getting back with him which kinda pisses me off. Basically I don't know what to do. I love my gf but find that we're starting to grow a litte bit apart and i feel awful for liking another girl. anyone help Thanks. (link)
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well first off what ever you do. dont cheat. but if you like this other girl then maybe you should ask your girlfriend for a brake or a little space. nothing big but you just need time to figure things out. and then you would have time to think things threw without anyone to interupt. it will help alot. because i know its hard and you will feel bad but you will feel worse if something happens between you and this girl.
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I am an 18 yr old girl w/ a bf who i have been dating on & off for about a year now. He asked me back out recently & i really didnt want to say yes but felt obligated to. so we're currently dating. recently, another guy has started to show interest in me. we hung out a few times recently & he actually kissed me. i feel awful because i dont think the guy knows about my bf & i know my bf doesnt know about the guy [they go to different schools] i know i need to make a choice but i dont know what to do... i have more fun with the other guy, but i know my bf is the better 'boyfriend' in the sitatuion. im so stuck! (link)
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Well im younger than you so i bet it would be harder. but i have been where you are. (kinda) but what i can say is go out with the one that makes you feel good. the one that makes you happy. If the other guy makes you happy then thats the one you should go with. because you cant say he isnt the "best boyfriend" because you havent went out with him...yet. sometimes guys treat girls that are friend and Girlfriend differently. if you get what im saying. guys will treat the girlfriend differently. but with your boyfriend, dont go out with him because you feel obilgated. thats not helping anyone. not even him. but really its up to you.
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I'm really sorry this is long but its a kinda long story and i gave an example. Ahh. okay so there is this guy and i really like him a LOT. he is 3 years older than me and is my best friends older brother. they don't get along at all so i talk to each of them without the other knowing. the thing is i really like her bro now. i talk to him on the internet all the time and text him every once in a while but then when it comes to talking to him face to face i'm an idiot. Like tonight i was at this thing for the school. He was there too and there were a lot of people.. i was alone and he was coming over to talk to me but i had no idea what to say. he was with his friends and gave me the nod and then i attempted to talk to him later when i was with my friends too.. but i seriously do not know what to say. i go blank. my cousins always tell him that i have a crush on him but when he asks me about it i say that their lying.. nobody knows that i like him.. i feel like i can't tell anyone. what do i do? (link)
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well first off, r u willing to risk the friendship over something that might not work? second do what u think is right. next time he asks you if you like him just tell him the truth. theres no need to lie about it. no one has to know you like him but him. and for all you know he likes you to. and for the talking thing just forget you like him. try to forget bout the butterflys in your tummy. when you talk to him dont talk about anything that would take alot of thinking or you might not know what to say.
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I really hate reading all of these questions on advicenators, but I'm stuck here, and I have no clue whats going on!
So this guy, my close friends ex, and I have been friends for like a year. Before they went out, him and I would talk online everyday. (we went to different schools, we go to the same school now)
So I sort of like him when we first met, and now I really like him. Problem is, I don't know if he feels the same way.
Now about two months ago, I got really mad at him for being a jerk to one of my friends a few years back. My current friends don't talk to him, and they don't particularly care for him either. Prior to this, he had told me he liked me. But he didn't come out and say it, he would just keep asking me "who i was into". One of my friends actually told him I liked him.
But now him and I talk online a lot, we made up and are close friends again. Heres where I need your help, I can't tell if he likes me still, or not. He says the sweetest things to me, like you're beautiful and you are amazing. He also keeps asking me "who i am into".
I don't want to tell him I like him...but I do.. So I'm stuck here.
Can anyone help? I'm sorry its long and annoying to read these. Thanks
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well to me it sounds like he likes you. because most of the time guys ask what kind of guy your into to see if you say anything that might match them. because its a way of seeing if you like them without coming out and saying it. alot of guys do this when they arent sure of things. so why dont you just tell him you like him.
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Everyone in my french class seems to think my teacher's daughter likes me. Im starting to think so too... One day, a week or so ago, she sat by me in class when she used to sit on the other side of the room, but one day she decided to sit next to ME. Not any one else in the class, cause there was plenty of seats to sit in, but ME.
she is pretty good looking, but im not the greatest looking guy in the world. But i think it would be awkward dating my teachers daughter.. Should i feel this way? if not, then why do i?
Help? (link)
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Well first off, i dont think it matters if its a teachers daughter. because if you like her you like her.and if she likes you then there isnt a problem. second, maybe she does like you but shes not sure if you like her. why dont you talk to her and maybe get to know her before you go and listen to the "he said, she said" because that could also just ruin any chances you have with her now or any other time.
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I sorta like this guy...I think. I mean I'm confused there is this other guys that I was crushing on before and I told my best friend I don't like him anymore but she still won't believe me. But the guy that this would be the 5th time I would like him (crazy) I mean I guess I really never stopped, I thought I did. But anyways thats not what I needed help on. There is a slight chance that he might like me. But we are going to a camp on Monday and it ends on Friday. So I might be on the same bus as him so any advice on how to talk to him. I hardly do. And when I did if would be something quick. But I need something to just start talking to him. And its pretty hard because I don't go to the same school as him, but we go to the same church so I usually see him twice a week and now there is a week at camp so yeah. I saw him today and said something but that was it. I wish I could talk to him easily and have it not be like way off. So anything I can talk about? (link)
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Well first off, when you talk to him, make sure you talk to him as if he was someone youv been friends with for a long time. kinda like forget that you like him. trust me it will make it Alot easyer. Second if you dont see him everyday that might even be better because that means you to dont have to worrie about "cramping" eachothers space. u dont have to worrie about you and him being joined at the hip. plus you can still hang out outside of school. and that also makes it easyer. now about talking to him. just talk to him as you would any other guy friend. dont worrie about saying the wrong thing. because if you want him to like you, you want him to like you for who you are. not what your trying to be.
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Ok so there is this guy that likes me and i kind of like him and he wants to hang out this weekend. My friends also wanna hang out with me. I want to hang out with all of them but my friends would just talk to me and pull me away from him.Cause they are not friends with him and won't really talk to him. So where is a place we all could hang out as friends? but not the movies. Also what are some fun things we could do and talk about? (link)
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Well maybe you could go ice skateing or sometimes me and my friends just like to go walk around the places we live. like go to a near-by food place.
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I have a boyfriend. Me and him have this notebook that we pass back and forth and when anyone askes to see it we always so no. Well, my friends went off on me saying that i was a fake friend, and then she claims that she tells me everything when she tells me nothing at all, well, then she gets all of my other friends mad at me and keeps pretnding like she's innocent, but she's far from it. I have a really REALLY big secret that i could tell everyonethat could really hurt her. I don't Know if I am better off without her as a friend, or not, or if i should tell her big secret. Please Help Me! (link)
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Well first off. dont hurt her. Just because shes willing to be that low doesnt mean you have to. And maybe you should just tell her that maybe shes the fake friend not you.
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17/f.
ive been really good friends with this guy for a couple years. he's always liked me and i liked him a while ago. one night he completely flipped out and thought a lot of things happened which didnt. it was kinda hard for me cause i liked him and everything. well i guess he is a schizophrenic. its been almost a year since that happened and he's on medication and he seems better. im beginning to like him again, and that isnt really a problem, cause i know he likes me too. i just dont want him to flip out on me again, what should i do? (link)
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follow your heart. If you say hes doing better and hes on medication then go for it. Plus if he flips out again then at least he knows your there for him.
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I Have Bad Luck With Guy's
AM I EVER GOING TO FIND A BOY FRIEND?
like everyone say's dont look he will come to you
but umm HELLO i'm not looking and he is no were to
be found it's like there is no one out there for
me; i dont wanna be single forever.. =|
any advice to help me with this one please do (link)
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Maybe you should just forget the old saying that you should wait for him to come to you. Maybe you need to be the one to make some of the moves. You be the one to go and find him. Maybe on your way of looking for him he will find you.
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Alright here is the deal....my best friend and i have bin like fooling around and stuff....and he tells me he cares alot about me every time we're together...but sometimes he goes like 4 days without trying to contact me....is that ok? and secondly...i want to take this a step further and actually date him so how would i tell him and should i tell him? (link)
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Well first off are you sure you want to risk your friendship on something that might not work? Becasue chances are if it ends badly and you both get hurt then the friendship is pretty much over or its going to be very weird. and second if he gos a few days without calling maybe he just wants to make sure that you know that he gives you space. Maybe he doesnt want to make it seem like you two have to be joined at the hip.
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