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Me And My Best Friends Are At An All Out War.
I have a boyfriend. Me and him have this notebook that we pass back and forth and when anyone askes to see it we always so no. Well, my friends went off on me saying that i was a fake friend, and then she claims that she tells me everything when she tells me nothing at all, well, then she gets all of my other friends mad at me and keeps pretnding like she's innocent, but she's far from it. I have a really REALLY big secret that i could tell everyonethat could really hurt her. I don't Know if I am better off without her as a friend, or not, or if i should tell her big secret. Please Help Me!
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u cant sink 2 her level u telling her secret will only cause more drama make her feel guilty by juz not saying nothing let it go if she brought plle against u den she aint worth your time
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No, you shouldn't tell if its going to hurt her. Friendships are about having someone to confide in, and you should definetly talk to her and find some common ground.
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Don't tell her secret. That would make you a nasty bitch.
Since she IS a nasty bitch, don't be her friend anymore. Then she has no right to demand you tell her anything at all.
Life is unpleasant with one bitch around, but it's totally unbearable with two of them. Be the mature one and just let it all go.
(Also, passing a private notebook back and forth, although cute, is asking for trouble when other people can see you doing it. Keep it more private, don't talk about it and avoid these sort of problems.)
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Dear War,
Well first of all DO NOT tell her secret what if she had a big secret of yours, even if the situation was reversed do you think it would be okay for her to tell your secret. Probably not. If she did this to you then you are better off without her as a friend. Find some other friends that are more understanding about this "note book". Explain to some of your kinder friends what happened, if they are your REAL friends they will forgive you...
Sincerely Maggie Maclean
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Well first off. dont hurt her. Just because shes willing to be that low doesnt mean you have to. And maybe you should just tell her that maybe shes the fake friend not you.
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