ok so its like this, i like alot of guys. but none of them are really the same. well i have a boyfriend and he seems cool but now this other guy said to me that he was next in line to go out with me. and it makes me wonder if guys really thinks that i go by a line up. it makes me feel as though guys think that i just use then when really i just dont know what i want in a guy.
i am someone who likes alot of different things. and sometimes i like to think about stuff. I love to talk but other times i wish people would just leave me alone. i love to read but i love to just go to the mall and be free of whatever i was thinking about. i play soccer but i am also in tech. club. so as you can see it is hard for me to find a guy that is more than just 10% like me. And then i went out with a guy and when i broke up with him it broke my heart because he said i brake his. it just mkaes me feel bad to brake up with guys but if i have to i have to.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? kiran answered Saturday March 1 2008, 5:54 pm: It would be hard but think about the things you would want in a guy. Like how you want him to treat you. And if you are into shy guys or bad boys. Stuff like that. None of the guys that you are gonna like are all the same. And of course none of them are gonna be just like you. So just think about it and just don't go out with a guy that asks you out. You should see what you like in guys, if they are funny, sweet and all that stuff. But you probably aren't going to find a guy that fits your needs but you might find someone close. By the way you can be open to other boys too. I hope everything works out for you. [ kiran's advice column | Ask kiran A Question ]
MaggieMaclean answered Friday February 29 2008, 5:55 pm: Dear guys,
If a guy says something like that and asks you out after you do break up with your current boyfriend flat out say "I'm not interested in someone who doesn't respect me". Then others guy will eventually learn that you respect yourself enough to know you don't use people. If you have such a diverse personality be friends with guys first to see if there is any chemistry, or if you have more then 10% in common. Well I hope this will help you.
Sincerely Maggie Maclean [ MaggieMaclean's advice column | Ask MaggieMaclean A Question ]
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