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Ok, so there is this guy that I had a crush on but then I lost interest. He is moving to Canada in two days, I think I like him but I'm not sure. I thought he liked me back but now I don't think he does anymore. I think about him all the time and I imagine him telling me he likes me and that he'll miss me, but my heart doesn't skip a beat when I see him like it used to. Do I like him, should I tell him? Fast answers would be appreciated as he is leaving in a day.
13/f (link)
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Dont tell him you like him because it seems like other said before you dont like him anymore.. you lost interest and your heart doesnt skipa beat when you see him like you use to .. you moved on but your scared of letting him go and just let him do his thing , there will be other better guys out there for you.. give it time trust me it will be fine and a lot better...
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when i was in middle school i was in love with this guy who said he didnt feel the same way although secretly he did he it was a small school i knew everyone and he was popular me not so much because of who my friends were but i loved him for four years and maybe more i just finished 12th grade and i still think about him sometimes and i havent seen him or talked to him since 8th grade i dont know how to get him outta of my head im with an amazing guy for 2 years now and i feel guilty when i think about him then guy i loved was mean to me but i dont know how to forget and let go any ideas (link)
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yes he crosses your mind so what? things happen and by the time he will have to be out of your mind like you said your with an amazing guy a lot better then him... 4 years went by and there was no talking really between you too.. so now you have this new guy that for sure cares and loves you and I think you shouldnot even be asking this question , focus on him more and less on other guys .. its hard but if you really do love him and like him you should really be able to put this guy aside.. only time can heal it.. unfortunatley but it will and it will.. you just need to stop thinking about it like you are when you write this...just let him go force him into the back of your mind and he will soon dissappear delete him off anything you have too.. non connections and it will soon eb gone
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i and my boy friend has dated for 3 and half years and nown we are planing to get married next year but my question is this... early last year i found out that he is having a problem with his sperm, the doctor said he dosent have sperm cell in his sperm. he hasent told me this for the first time even till this moment i found out when he disclosed his email password to me in his sent massage, he sent a prayer reqiuest conferming it (may be forgot to delet it). i really love him and would love to marry him he is may source of happiness i have waited all this years for him to tell me this but he havent why didnt he want to tell me? i want to ask him about it but how do i ask him? please some one should help me out. 22f (link)
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first of all.. what I learned.. no one can make you happy.. they only walk with you to make it happy... so its fine I mean if you guys want to get married you guys can keep trying to have children there are so many different ways the doctors can try , but it will cost money.. if the worst comes to worst.. adopt if you want , so he didnt want to tell you because he was most likely afraid that you wont want to be with him anymore.. also because like the other person said he may be embarrassed and not know what to do... so what I would say is say it and mean it say that you seen the e-mail and you have nothing to be ashamed about that you are there for him 100% and ask him why he kept it from you and when you are talking tot him about this sit him down and focus on his eyes you will be able to tell and ask him calmy..
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15/m i'm in high school and i want to know what girls like in a guy. like what kind of traits, and also, how do i start a conversation with a girl i like. please help! :) (link)
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What girls like in a guy.... guys that have manners and chilvary... guys who open doors for girls , randomly buy flowers for them , tell them they look amazing and mean it , tell them your REAL emotions and be a man and dont be a jerk.
The traits would be kind , funny , relaxing , someone who is themselves.. doesnt act like anyone else , pays attention to their girlfriend , someone who has a future..
How to start a conversation with someone you like... depending on where you guys are talk about what or something around the place.. so at school for example.. so hows your day going , what classes do you have ,do you like them , any projects, are you struggling , do you need help if she does then help her , OH another thing.. when you say yes you will help her dont say it BUT ACTUALLY DO IT! :) show your actions , also , just smile at her , or wave and say how are you , hows your day , and etc.
good luck
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13/f and I have a bestfriend.She really likes this guy,but she doesn't know if he has a girlfriend already.She's also said that she's not ready to ask him yet either.So she asked me to ask him,but I have no idea how to ask him. (link)
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Well first of all.. FIND out if he has a girlfriend because if he does his girlfriend can get mad and problems will happen so please be careful about that... well shes not ready to ask him? so if he says yes how is she going to have a relationship with him if she cant even ask him out herself? she needs to be the one asking.. if your the one asking for your bestfriend.. your friend will look like a scardy cat and a chicken because she couldnt ask herself.. how could they even have a relationship if she cant ask herself and face him? I personally dont think you should ask him yet.. first you need to find out if there is a girlfriend invovled.. if not.. then get your friend to SHE has to be the one doing it..
how does it sound if you say '' My bestfriend wants to ask you out'' that sounds really bad.. and like the other person said they might think YOU like him which will cause problems between you him and your bestfirned and none want that
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Well a year ago my dad came back from Mexico and I was very thrilled but one thing that did tick me off was that my aunt would ask me when he was coming back and would always ask me about him . And after he came back I called and texted her to tell her he was here and she didn't even care . ! She didn't even call him or texted him . And he's been back for about a year, about 2 months ago she had called me asking me why I hadn't called her or vistited her and all this stupid stuff and I had told her "Who is the adult here ? Who is/was suppose to keep contact with her brother and family, me or you ?" and she got upset and asked me if he had a phone or if I was able to pass him the phone for her to talk to him and I told her off, yes I lied and said no he doesn't have a phoone ! Was I wrong for protecting my dad and family from this lady that supposably cared for us . ? ! And her side of the family would and still are asking him for money, and favores and honestly I want nothing to do with her but am I wrong for yelling at her and wanting nothing to do with her or what . ? ! (link)
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well shes most likely grew up with him.. what if your dad wants to talk to her? even though you thought she didnt care , maybe she actually did and showed it in an odd way... watch out because it might be a better way to call them and apologize and give the number.. im pretty sure your dad is matured enough to understand the matter.. but talk to thim about the money and favors.. I know you probabaly do that a lot with them , but you need to tell your father this and to tell her off not you but your dad.. because its not right.. you have your own life and they have their own you cant they cant rely on you and your dad and your family.. if you dont want anything to do with her then honestly dont talk to her just apoligze... your dad will contact her because its her brother.. maybe something was going on and she couldnt deal with it , its fine
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this guy at school i like asked me out. but i am not sure if he is kidding or not. should i say yes? (link)
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well.. was he laughing when he asked you out or a smirk on his face? like the other person said he might have you cut off guard.. so be careful.. well you know what say Yes and just got for it.. say yes and smile , if he makes a joke out of it.. you know hes an asswhole.. and he is NOT worth your time whatsoever so dont worry about it , the truth will come out girl , jsut got for it :D
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hey i am a girl and i am gonna b in the 8 grade in 3 weeks and i want to b a prep really bad nt becus i wanna popular or somebody else no i just have always wanted to be one bt never knew how so if u cn help thxs. no rude comments! (link)
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preppy definatley a cheerleader and a energetic and happy girl and a really ''girly girl'' , be yourself to be honest.. but if you really want.. to be a prep where very girly colors like yellow , pink ,purple, blue, orange , red , definatly no black or brown.. also where fashion styles. when I think of prep I think of those stores like hollister , abrocombie and fitch , baby phat , tna , american eagle and etc , those are places most people go to if they are preppy , also always be smiley and wear make up and look good and be very girly they always say things like ''oh my gosh.... NO WAY! really?! aw how cute!''
this might help... look at the way she is dressed
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9ryFkGEPIS4
they wear delicate but matching always matching things
good luck
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this guy I like and my friend are going downtown tomorrow. I'm so nervous. HELP! (link)
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What? the guy you like and your friend are going just them two? well what about you? you really like this guy? your scared something might happen... well look at it this way.. so what if your friend is going downtown with him tomorow.. all you can do is see where it goes... look at it this way... this guy you like.. he will choose who HE wants.. not the girl choosing the guy... if the guy has feelings for any one of you or none trust me he will show it... maybe there just going out you know hanging out ... even if something happens.. if the guy likes her he will go for her.. if not then he wont.. its really the guys choice... he will pick who he likes... dont worry dont focus so much on it if he likes you trust me he wont hurt you.. he wont hurt you in anyway if he likes you , and he will go with you somewhere.. all you can do is wait and occupy yourself with a movie or talking to others or giving advice or the gym or going out with different friends or you can go downtown too if your that nervous... but dont be a stalker lol.
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Can you get your cherry popped by a guy fingering you? (link)
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Trust me.. this is really bad what im going to tell you , but when I got raped.. first he stuck his fingers up me SOO far in forcefully with almost his whole hand he popped my cherry and I had huge bleeding happening.. so with a guy fingering you its possible..but he has to have this fingers up VERY deep inside you to pop it and trust me it will hurt and burn.
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I am about to be a freshman in college and I am thinking about doing pre vet since I might want to go to vet school. I have always been interested in the veterinarian career and love biology/animals. However, I HATE chemistry! When I took chemistry a few years ago in high school I could hardly stand it! For some reason it was extremely difficult for me and I couldn't even find it interesting enough to study. It was one of my worst subjects in high school. The pre vet plan at my college includes a lot of chemistry, of course...general chemistry, biochem, organic chemistry. I am wondering if I should continue to pursue this career since I dislike the subject so much. I think that if I put forth enough effort to study (probably TONS AND TONS of studying..) I could do well in the classes, but should I even try vet school since I not only hate chemistry, but it's already proven to be one of my worst subjects? (link)
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If you really want anything , you should still go for it , I mean if you really really like this is your dream like if you really want to do this then do it ... I mean get a tutor and you will be fine, trust me the more you are studying it the less you will be so IRRITATED about it because you will be so use to it right... its like that movie ''blondie'' where she studied so hard she didnt want to but she did and she ended up becoming a lawyer... it shows you need to motivate yourself , you have to do it then you do it... dont just say oh no I HATE and DREAD this course.. there will always be courses like that , just because some.. get over it and do it and you will be a vet... trust me so what if theres a lot of studying its worth it.. it will make your life a lot easier later on it will pay off.. study now and trust me you will make lots of money and you will do what you love...
when I use to work at a banquet hall.. there was a veternary school graduates there was so many of them and they were so happy they got through all the courses hated and love and now they celebrated how they can become vets.. you should go for it!
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So I have a problem.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year now (our anniversary is monday) and I absolutely love him! We had a rocky past but everything is going great now. Our past was rocky because I caused some trouble by still being in contact with my ex, and my boyfriend found out and thats when things got worse. But I fixed them and no longer in contact with any exs. However, a few days ago I found out that he's still facebook friends with his ex. I know nothing is going on between them because the last time he spoke of her was the beginning of our relationship and I trust him and know he wouldn't cheat on me. But I can't stop thinking that he has some kind of connection with his ex, even if it is just facebook friends. I don't know why but it just bothers me so much. I haven't been able to stop thinking about it for the past few days. And i've noticed that whenever I do think about it, I get a sickening stomach ache feeling. It makes me a little upset that he's still facebook friends with her. I'm not facebook friends with any of my exes.
In fact, one time I had some pictures of me and my ex (it was prom pictures) and my boyfriend got jealous/mad and was uncomfortable with the pictures. It gave him bad memories of our past. So I was kind enough to delete those pictures because I knew he felt uncomfortable with them. Now i'm uncomfortable with something (him still being facebook friends with his ex) but i really don't know what to do.
I feel like this is so juvenille and childish... to get uncomfortable that he's facebook friends with his ex. Am I making this a big deal when its not? Should I talk to him about it? Another thing you should know is that my boyfriend can get angry very easily. Like I said earlier- our 1 year anniversary is coming up on monday. I'm scared that if I bring this problem up, he might get angry because its so juvenille and then our 1 year anniversary would be terrible because he would be mad at me. So i'm not sure if I should mention it or not because I guess it is a little childish problem but it still bothers me.
And another thing, if I didn't talk to him about this, I think it would really get on my nerves. I'm not the one to "forget" about something like this.. I think it would haunt me and especially on our anniversary, I wouldn't get as pleasant feelings. I guess i'm just scared to bring it up because I fear that he will get angry because its such an immature problem. I don't know what to do :( I love him and don't want him to get mad at me over something like this. But still it irritates me that he is facebook friends with her. (link)
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Dont worry about it... not childish at all .. its just simple logic... you guys are going out and its you two that matter none of your past... he got angry at you and jealous for pictures and keeping in contact with YOUR exes... STAND YOUR GROUND.. tell him straight off the bat... I deleted my exes and I dont talk to them or have any pictures of them because you mean the most to me.. so now its really bothering me (if its bothering you and hes a good boyfriend he will understand you because no good boyfriend wants their girlfriend to be bothered by anything) so then you tell him you want him to do the same to delete his ex off his facebook and everywhere else like you have.. so then he wont have to get angry again due to your exes and all.. if he respects you he wont get mad and he will just delete it... plus its your anniversery and if he cares about it he will do it in honor of your guys anniversery so that you guys wont have any problems and no stress involved.
He would be acting very childish if he got angry over it.. its fine , plus do it asap , like today!!!
good luck :)
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19/f
So i'm kind of with this guy and he always tells me he loves me. I've been in love before and i know the feeling and I know that I don't love him, therefore i refuse to say it back. When he says it I usually just say "you don't really love me don't say that" or "that makes me kinda uncomfortable" but he usually just says "im sorry i can't help the way i feel." I mean he's a nice guy and everything but I'm 100% sure I'm not in love with him, and he has liked me for 2 years and has been trying to be with me ever since. I just don't know what to do anymore, it freaks me out. (link)
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The only thing you can do is tell him straight up.. tell him you dont have any feelings for him and the fact your not ''sure'' if you have feelings for him means you dont really love him at all... maybe you just ''like'' him, I would really consider you sitting down with him and telling him what you told us. There is no need for him to think you love him or like him... plus he should get that through his head because you said dont say that and its uncomfortable... hes not respecting you if you say dont say that and its uncomfortable... he should keep it to himself...wow.. 2 years he must really love you ... tell him it freaks you out and he will probabaly stop if he loves you ... trust me he will think again and not freak you out... you need to tell him yourself... it freaks you out and hes a great guy .but.... your not sure if you have feelings for him.. unfortunatley it sucks right? but tell him straight out tell him and get if off your chest as soon as possible... it will make you feel better.
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What are 3 things you wanted as a kid but never got? (link)
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1.Barbie huge castle
2.Stick on sparkly tattoos
3.A good friend
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Hi I am a female, 17.
My boyfriend is 19.
We both work I work days and his schedule is all over the place. He works usually 7 to 1 or 7 to 5 but somedays he'll work 7 to 7. I work 7 to five.
I don't have a phone it has been broken for nearly a month. I text him on my breaks from my friends phone since she works at my work too. He replies maybe half the time. I ask him usually when I will see him again. Well he usually says he's tired from work and sometimes he's already busy. Well whenever I can't get a hold of him and I know he is off work I just go to his house and surprise him. He never seems to mind and we usually end up falling asleep. Well whenever I want to do something big I ask him at least a week in advanced. I asked him to go camping with our friends and I and he said he had work so I didn't mind. He told me we'd plan another trip but when I asked him about it he said we weren't going to. And every year my friends and I go to California during Christmas break for 5 days and I invited him. My best friend is dating his best friend so I thought it would be fun for us four to go. I asked him and he said he couldn't get work off when it's several months away. Well I told him I am tired of us sitting around at his house and never doing anything and how I want to go out every now and then. He said he is socially uncomfortable. I told him not to keep making up excuses and how I just want us to do exciting things now and then. Of course he never replied so I told him to think about it and that I adored him. He always complains about me not having a phone to talk to him but when I do text him he never replies, and he never ever replies when I ask to hang out. I told him I wanted him to meet my family and he refuses, and I told him we're not going to have sex again until he at least meets my nieces and nephews since they are only here for the summer and I won't see them again until next summer. When I told him that he said he wasn't even going to kiss me, and now when I sleepover he won't kiss me or even touch me unless I get really upset and roll to the other end of the bed. I just don't get him lately. When we first got together he always wanted to do things and hang out and he seemed very interested. I see him maybe 2 times a week. We've been dating three months.
Is this because of his schedule or me being upset with him. How do I get him to become more interested in me. (link)
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Wow.. same problem here... to me what it seems with no replies.. I bet they see it ,but they don't bother replying.. it seems hes just tired and it seems like hes bored.. but he doesnt it seems like hes taking you for granted.. be careful.. you know what I learned.. if he wants to he will talk to you.. dont wait on him.. let HIM do the waiting... just because you guys work doesn't mean you cant text and / or call.. PLUS! you know what it seems like they are interested and then they get disinterested.. guys are hard.. they get bored of what they have..they automatically want something they cant have.. my advice coming from the same problem... fack it.. leave it up to him..you put effort in I put effort in now its THEIR turn(underline their) your too good for him.. and if another guy takes his spot he better hurry up your a great girl no reason why he should do that..
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hi, boyfriend of 9 months says we're a couple. what does he exactly mean? thanks. (link)
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You guys are together..relationship...more then friends..boyfriend and girlfriend... lovebirds!
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I need help losing weight. I weigh more than what I want to be, but I don't know how to motivate myself to be able to want to exercise. I eat so many carbs, and not many healthy foods in a day. Please help me. How do I motivate myself? (link)
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I have told many people this... you like music right?well zumba! go to your store to buy the game or go to local gym.. if you put effort in dang you can loose 1,000 calories in a class! its a cardio dance class its SO awesome please try it out!!
also..
-drink PLENTY OF WATER
-EXERCISE daily!
-tone DOWN the junkfood if you eat any
-DONT GO ON ANY DIETS(MOST CAUSE MORE PROBLEMS IN THE END THEN WORK)
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My dad has been taking codeine for around 2-3 years. He first took it when he broke his collarbone and his doctor continues to prescribe it for him. I've read about people getting addicted to prescription medication and I'm just wondering if it's possible for my dad to have become addicted to the codeine? (link)
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I agree with the others... please watch out... the doctor should not keep feeding him this.. it will not help him whatsoever.. 2-3 years.. I think he is addicted to it.. why would someone be giving it to him for so long? it does not seem right at all... watch out before it gets worse.
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18/f
I will try to be straightforward here. Mine and my boyfriend's relationship has been on the rocks for a while. I seem to put a lot of effort into it, and he barely does. Friend, girlfriend, or whatnot... He treats me differently from other people. He seems to get annoyed of me, but yet I make him happy. He seems to put his stress out on me and doesn't notice it and gets annoyed at every little thing I do.
He's the oldest out of 5 siblings, raised by traditional parents who expect him to set a good example to his siblings, heavily depended on his family, works full time to save money for his tuition since he's transferring over to a university and is moving out of the house, not just that he's planning to be a surgeon so he's focused on school.
Recently, I asked about how he felt since he seemed to be very distant from me. He said that he's been busy with work. And that he does still love me, but just not as much. So we have this scale that we use a "like" and a "love" scale that we usually say, just to see where we stand about our feelings for each other. Both the like and love scale is scaled from 1 - 10 each and are basically connected to each other. He said his love scale was at 1, and his like scale was at 3. Which is really bad. He said that lately he's only been thinking about is medicine and studying.
I notice that whenever he senses that I'm moving on, he gets a bit worried but his mind is still set on school. Others think he's taking me for granted because he knows that I would always be there waiting for him.
So my questions are, what should I do at this point? How does that work out when he says that he likes me a little, but also loves me a bit as well? Do you think that he actually does love me he just doesn't notice it because he's so stressed out and he think I'm always going to be here so he doesn't really think about it? (link)
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well.. you can is wait.. and LET HIM COME TO YOU! not you sitting there waiting for HIM and waiting to be there for him,LET HIM DO THE WORK FOR ONCE!
likes a little but loves me a bit as well? hmmm thats a really odd answer... its not a good one either.. be careful thats like saying yeah I like her a bit.. love her a bit... dont be foolish this guy doesnt know and hes confused... hes drained out and if he was really in love with you he wouldnt be saying a ''bit''...
okay..just because a guy is stressed with work and school and family.. does not mean to go and ignore you and say he doesnt think about you.. obviously he is putting things in front of you and forgetting about you.. plus your his girlfriend he should be going to you for help on what to do... I find it dumb that he puts you on the line.. to me it feels like a vibe of you being a backup...
be careful with this guy.. he doesn't seem the best
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how to make her happy if i shout at her
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DONT EVER SHOUT AT HER! never ever.. thats rude.. she shouldnt be hearing you shout at her.. please talk to her calmly... buy her some flowers and tell her your sorry.. remeber words aren't everything , include actions buy her flowers..
tell her you wont do that again and mean it.
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