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I kinda cused out my aunt . . .
Well a year ago my dad came back from Mexico and I was very thrilled but one thing that did tick me off was that my aunt would ask me when he was coming back and would always ask me about him . And after he came back I called and texted her to tell her he was here and she didn't even care . ! She didn't even call him or texted him . And he's been back for about a year, about 2 months ago she had called me asking me why I hadn't called her or vistited her and all this stupid stuff and I had told her "Who is the adult here ? Who is/was suppose to keep contact with her brother and family, me or you ?" and she got upset and asked me if he had a phone or if I was able to pass him the phone for her to talk to him and I told her off, yes I lied and said no he doesn't have a phoone ! Was I wrong for protecting my dad and family from this lady that supposably cared for us . ? ! And her side of the family would and still are asking him for money, and favores and honestly I want nothing to do with her but am I wrong for yelling at her and wanting nothing to do with her or what . ? !
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It seems to me that this is between your aunt and your dad. You should butt out.
You're welcome to your personal feelings about her, though. But just don't get in the middle of that drama, okay? Your dad is a big boy and can handle his business himself.
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well shes most likely grew up with him.. what if your dad wants to talk to her? even though you thought she didnt care , maybe she actually did and showed it in an odd way... watch out because it might be a better way to call them and apologize and give the number.. im pretty sure your dad is matured enough to understand the matter.. but talk to thim about the money and favors.. I know you probabaly do that a lot with them , but you need to tell your father this and to tell her off not you but your dad.. because its not right.. you have your own life and they have their own you cant they cant rely on you and your dad and your family.. if you dont want anything to do with her then honestly dont talk to her just apoligze... your dad will contact her because its her brother.. maybe something was going on and she couldnt deal with it , its fine
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yes , in a way ! she is your elder & a related elder so you had no right to go off & yell at her! but on another note, i completely understand where you are coming from , it just should have been handled a little different and more calmly. also, you cant make the decision for him. the right thing would have been to notify him & let him make the decision for himself ! hope ihelped.
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