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a boy asked me out when i'm already going out with someone. What do i do?

well... there are some things to think about here... do you still like your current boy friend? if you do, then forget that other guy, tell him sorry no. if you dont like your current bf then break up with him and try things out with the new guy. and if you are undecided or confused... then you dont need to be with anyone right now, you need to be doing you

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well my bf tried to kiss me but im to nervous to kiss him back and i dont no wut to do so can u plz help me and tell me how to approach him or how should i put my mouth cuz im really clueless

there is no right or wrong way to do it. not being mean but you just have to stop being a pussy and just do it. the more you do it the more comfortable you will feel and the better you will get at it.

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when you are only 14 years old you usually dont understand 'true love' yet but when you can feel like you 'love' this guy and he tells you that he loves you how can you find out if he really means it or if he is just saying it.

the truth is you really cant find out. you just have to either trust it or not trust it. i know that sounds messed up but that is what life is all about, figuring out what paths to take by making decisions or taking risks. and to be quite honest, if you are only 14 you will probably fall in love a million times before you find the right one.

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if u bleed and ur 3months pregent what dus it mean

it means you should og to the doctors because something may be wrong with you or your baby

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Okay, here we go.I am 14 and I really like this boy. And he always flirts with me back and like puts his arm around me and stuff like that. but he flirts with everybody. I mean everybody. So, im not sure if he likes me, is just being friendly, is a natural flirt, or if he just wants to flirt with me. what to do what to do!

ask him if he likes you

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hi my name is myranda i live in north carolina
my friend corrin stole and told me she was going to flirt whith the best boy i ever mrt just cause i like him she called him and told him she liked him and know they go out. i i..love him and i know he likes me but wont show it . last year corrin didnt even like him i cry all the time and she shows it off i hate her so much what do i do?

knock that bitch out! shes a fuckin bitch ass whore and shes not your friend. you shouldnt even be talking to her. and after you fuck her up, lie to the guy and say you know for fact that corrin is playing him and just make up this big story so he can hate her and then ask him out.

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OKay will me and this new boyfriend have been making out but when i kiss him on lips he starts getting red spots around his neck and his face turns out red.. Im scared i might be getting a diseease IM REALLY SCRED so please answer mee back soon!

Thankyou :)

maybe its mono.... go to a doctor to check it out... it may be embarassing but we're talking about your health here

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My husband goes to the gym and comes home with a sore back and wants me to walk on it. I do and he feels so much better but the thing is that he has been coming home and complaining that his chest and ab muscles are tight and I rub them but can't seem to get them loose. He asked me if I would stand on his chest and stomach to try to knead out the knots but I told him I don't want to hurt him but he swears he will be fine. What do you think about this? Should I do it for him? Have you ever heard of or done this before?

i have heard of walking on backs but not chest or stomachs. i really that could be safe. he should go to a doctor.

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i'm 14 years old and 5 1/2 months pregnant my parents are taking me to court because they want me to give MY BABY up for adoption, and i don't want to, my question is what would be some reason's the jugde would just yank my baby right out of my life without giving me a say so????
Thanks for your time.

if you do not have a job and your parents arent willing to support your child financially that could be a reason your baby can be taken away from you because there will be no one to buy all if the things it needs to survive.... so my advice to you is to get a job if you dont have one.

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house hold produts i can use to clear my face of acne

witch hazel or of course good old soap and water....

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Hey, I talked to you a while ago while I was pregnant. You helped me alot! I was just wondering how your baby is doing!! My daughter, Emily Nevaeh is about to be 2 months!! What is your baby's name? :) I just wanted to thank you for helping me out. message me back.. and maybe we can talk sometime! Thanks again

hi. im glad to hear i helped. you. my daughter is doing great. she is 8 months old now. she crawls every where! she is so much fun! her name is Paris Lysette. it was good to hear form you. keep in touch!

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Okay im am 19 and she is 17 ive been seeing this girl for like a month now, and on our last date I asked her to be my girlfriend and she a big hug and kiss and told me "we have to get to know each other better first". After that night shes been teasing me with attention, like one day she'll come firt with me and hold me and the next she'll act like we never even kissed. Why is she playin hard to get when she knows I already like her

because that is what girls do when they know they got you... forget her.... she is playing you and you dont got time for no mind games

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i want a g/f

so go get one

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what do i do? everytime we turn around she is calling him, showing up at his job, asking family members where he is, following him almost every where he goes. she is pregnant but its not his baby but she is accusing him that he is going to make her have a miscarriage if he dont come back to her. she want eat and when she does she trows it back up.she is crazy. he told her to stay away from him but she wont. i am afraid the situation might get violent. what do you thhink i should do? 18/female/alabama

fuck that bitch. either she wants that baby or she dont. it dont matter if shes with the dad or not. and when the baby is born get paternity tests. and if it is his. take that crazy bitch to court and tell the law how she was abusing herself while she was pregnant and take that innocnet child away from her. physco ass bitch....

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how do you get a boy to like you?

wear you underwear on your head! next question.....

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will i get pegenant if my boyfriend ejaculated on me 3 weeks before my period.i don't really know if some of the sperms went into the entrance.am 19 and very anxious to find out.
thank u

umm.... on you? no not if he ejaculated on you.

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do you have to loose your virginty to wear a tampon

no. and who ever told you that shit, tell them lilmia said they are an idiot.

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ok i am in love with this girl who is also my best friend we've been together for 2 and a half years and she knows everything about me, we've spoken about breaking up many times and im scared to get hurt but in a way i wanna go and have fun dating other females i just dont how to let her know and i dont know how to let go, i love her very very much and i dont wanna lose her but im not sure wahts right for me, shes my everything and we even talked about marriage and everything else. she cares about me and she has the best personality. i need help i dont know what to do! by the way i am 15 and she is 16

the feelings you are having are normal. since you are so young in a serious relationship, it is very understanding that you want to have some space now and see what is out there. but trust from experience, if you have something good, and it seems you do. if you do go out and have your fun, then there are chnaces you will lose the good one that you have. so think about it... do you wanna lose what could be the best thing you could ever have while in search of something that may or may not be bettr? the choice is yours.........

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i like this guy and he used to like me but he doesn't anymore...we are both 12 and i'm a girl and he's a boy..i know that it sounds selfish but i really like him...how do i get him to like me again?

you leave him alone. trust me guys, well actually people in general, always realize what they have when they lose it. so give him some speace and he'll come around.

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I have it! I've been useing special shampoo for 3 weeks but it's not helping! Please help!

Try a hot oil treatment or massage cholesterol conditioner into your scalp and sit under a hot hair dryer or use one of those caps that you connect to the hair dryer and stay under it for about 20 mins. The heat makes the conditioner work better and all the dandruff come off your scalp. After your done heating it rinse it out and wait for your hair to dry to check if the dandruff is still there.

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