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E-mail: smithy000@hotmail.com
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Location: Victoria, Australia
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Age: 17
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Member Since: September 14, 2004
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I really like this guy I met him the first day of school when him and all his friends came up to me to tell me I was hott and he was just standing there so I talked to him its been 13 days since we met but I feel like its been more then that anywayz Today we were hugging alot and holding hands I was hugging him when someone said AWW u guys are so cute U should go out So i said ok I will then he said NO she doesnt want to SO everyone was like u just missed a big huge chance to ask her out then all of a sudden hes like I have a girlfriend I cant WHy didnt he tell me sooner and what should I do about this? (link)
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If he was getting that close then he most likely has feelings for you, but if he really does have a girlfriend then he loves her to much to ruin what they have just yet. Back off for a little while, tell him how you feel, and ask if you have any chance. If he asks for a bit of time then give it to him, he won't keep you waiting to long. He most likely didnt tell you about his girlfriend because of feelings he may have for you, guys are just like that, you just need to be a little patient with us lol. Good Luck, hope it all works out for the best :-)
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I was off and on with my ex boyfriend several times. The last time we broke up, a couple days ago, I dumped him. He was playing little games with me, I didn't fully trust him and I just kept getting hurt. He's the only boy I was ever truly in love with and I still love him. The way he makes me feel is unbelieveable and so many things about him I fell in love with. We still talk and I know he still has feelings for me. Do you think a relationship like ours will ever survive if we go out again? I could never let him go and I love him more than words could say. (link)
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If your relationship is off and on, then it most likely means that neither of you are ready for each other. Give it a break for a while, go out with other people, and then if after a period you think your ready again, then try it, but these things are never predictable, so don't go in with high hopes. There's plenty of other great guys out there that'll you'll fall in lvoe with. Good Luck :-)
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okay, ive had my guy best friend for like a year now, and he recently just got a gf, theyve been goin out now for like 4 months, he loves her, she loves him, etcetc...he usta REALLII like me ALOT in the past..even when he was with his gf, we tell eachother EVERYTHING, he even told me how he felt about me...then i didnt wanna fuck nething up for them so i backed off so he would kinda stop having these feelings for me...now everything is back to normal i think...we just like gradually started talking again and we are like how we usta be...this was acouple months ago, but the thing is, i THINK that im starting to have tiny feelings for him starting to form..ahh i dunno whut to do cause i think im kinda jealous now?? i have no idea how im feeling..i dunno whut to do/think..id appreciate if u helped, thanks =] (link)
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If you think your starting to get feelings for him, tell him, he had the courtesy to tell you how you felt, perhaps you should return the favor, depending on how he feels he may back off like you did, but he may not, its a risk, but a risk worth taking. Im sure your feeling confused and your worried that telling him with stuff things up for him and his girlfriend, but he mustn't like her all that much if he had feelings for you while they were going out. My advice is to tell him. Good Luck :-)
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all my life i had never had a boyfriend and i thought it was me but 3 days ago my brother finally confessed. he told me that he told all the boys i like not to go out with me, its a rule not to go out with my sister. hes 17 and i'm 13. y does my brother want to........... y did my brother ruin my life? (link)
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He isn't ruining your life, all he's doing is looking out for his little sister. You are after all only 13, you've got plenty of time to date guys, but if your brother has confessed up to you now, it probably means that he thinks your old enough now, so he'll most likely lighten up. Hope you get a boy soon, Good Luck :-)!
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Hey!!
I know what an ipod is, sorta I think its like a small little device thing with songs you can download and I really want one so how much are they? How do you download the songs? Are the songs for free or do you have to buy them? How many songs can you download? Sorry for so0 many questions **I Rate 5's for everyone!** (link)
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Ipods can be a little pricey, depending on your budget, though they are quite worth it. How many songs they hold depends on the Gig size you get (the more gig, the more expensive), theres mini-ipod which is 4gig, then the others are 20 30 or 40gig. A 20gig ipod could probably on around 10,000 songs, 4gig about 2000, so they hold a fair few lol. Downloading songs is illegal though, but using a program such as Ares or Kazaa (I suggest Ares, look for it in a search engine) can get you any song you want for free...illegaly, but what the cops dont know won't hurt them...you'll be fine downloading music for free. I suggest getting a 4gig mini-ipod, theres more then enough room on that. :-) hope i helped.
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I've liked this guy for over a year now. He's an awesome friend, but once you do one thing that makes him mad, he's really rude! I've been told COUNTLESS times to get over him, but I just can't!! He means the world to me... and I just want to show him that without scaring him off or anything. We went out like a year ago for a while, and he was great, but I made the mistake of breaking up with him. I want to go back out with him, and I don't want to get over him. I'm not looking for an answer to get over him!!! I just need help on what to say to him! (link)
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Yeah, basically be direct, tell him how you feel, and that it was a mistake that you broke up with him, say something like you were stupid and such, but dont worry about when he gets mad, everyone is like that, some people more then others, but im sure someone like yourself would be able to stop him from going to far, so you may be good for him. Just walk up to him and talk to him, tell him everything, and im sure it'll turn out for the best :-) Good Luck!
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ok i like this guy Ben. And he is mine and my friends ex boyfriend. Well he tells my friend he likes me and thinks im hot. Sometimes he says he is going to ask me out that day. But of course he never does. I realli like him (again) but i dunno if i should make the first move cuz if he is realli not into me im gonna feel stupid. I he shy? Wut should I do? (link)
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The best thing for you to do would be to talk to him, tell him how you feel, and if you've heard of people that he likes you then he most likely does, when you hear about him saying he's going to ask you out that day then he probably keeps chickening out, so talk to him, make the first move, tell him what you've heard, and im sure when you do he'll come around and ask you :-) Good Luck!
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I'm dating this guy who's 20 and he's also black. My family doesn't really approve of interratial relationships and his family feels the same way but, I can't control how I feel for him, when I'm with him, nothing else matters and I hate being away from him. He's absolutely wonderful and I love him.. but, my family and his keep telling me I can do better and they're telling me that he's lying about a lot. I'm so confused on what to do. Whether I can do better or not, he makes me happy. How can you do any better if the feeling you get when your with someone is utterly amazing? * I don't want to believe that he's lying to me about anything and when I confront him about something he say that he isn't lying and I believe him. I'm not sure who to believe anymore though, I have a really good feeling about him but, I'm still scared and I worry and wonder about what's going on. * Any advice? - Thanks. (link)
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From what it seems, if his family and your family don't agree with the relationship, then there isn't much you can do about that, the way families feel about relationships are usually due to numerous things, but they do get use to it. If you believe him deep down that he's not lying then he most likely isn't, his family may just be making up things because of how they feel. The best thing for you would be to stay with him, explain to your family and his that your in this relationship because of how you feel and racial circumstances do not concern you. It's a new world, your families are still stuck in the old, so bring them into the new. If he's what makes you happy, then he is best for you...no one else. Good Luck! :-)
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I'm new this year at a school and I thought it would be so easy to make friends, and it has been thanks to basketball. But during school, the most people ever say to me is like...Hi! and then when basketball practice comes around they're all crazy. I'm a VERY talkative person, but going to the same school for all my life (except this year) I know what it's like to have a new girl and instantly not like them because they're not as tight with your friends or whatever. I'm saying I need to sharpen my social skills, but asking questions like, "So...what do you like to do?" isn't a question I'd normally ask. It's odd asking questions like what's ur fav color and stuff....so i need help... (link)
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Although most have said about asking questions about classes and such, I personally would avoid talking about school. Starting a conversation about school may give the impression your a bit of a nerd. Try talking about things such as guys, clothes, up-coming events and such, share some interests and they'll share them with you. Things such as fav colours and stuff will just come naturally later on, start with the more important things. A simple "Hey, hows it going?" starts a conversation, go beyond just "hey". If you need some good convo starters just try a search engine or something on the net. Good Luck!
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what do guys lookin gurls?? Because I can't seem to get a boyfriend, i mean im really pretty and skiny plus athletic but I cant seem to get a guy whats wrong with me?? do u boys know? (link)
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Well, i AM a guy, and I know what guys want from being one and also talking to others. All girls think guys are all about the looks, we only care about a chick being hot, but this isnt true. We all do have our different choices, and im definate there are plenty of guys for you. If you dont find urself getting any guys, prehaps try lightening up a little bit, or don't be as shy, start talking to guys, a little flirting can go along way. Good Luck :)
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i was wondering if me and my bestfriend should go out. we liked eachother befour but we didnt know we liked eachother.Are friendship is unstopable.mybe it could work out as boyfriend and girl friend.could it? (link)
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Well, when turning a great friendship into the bf/gf situation, then there's always risks. It's rather going to work out or it's not, you just need to figure out if its worth it, because going out may ruin things if you break up, but it might be THE relationship and last for ages, and staying friends is hard after a break up, but it is possible, trust me, one of my best frends i went out with for over 6 months and we had a nasty break-up, but we're besties now. So it's a hard choice, but I'd say if you like each other enough, then try it....Good Luck!
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okay my lil sis want to kno the answer to this question . . .okay my sis is 14 and she likes this kidd that is 15 but turning 16 in cecember is that okay to go wout with him becuz he likes he bac but see my sis used to do pot and smoke cigg and drink cuz she hung out with the wrong ppl and she hung out with me which i did them all i mean she quit smoking and all but the guys she likes does all that stuff and she said she will go bac to all of it i mean we dont ahve a mom or a dad at all and i woundlnt care cuz i do all of that shit should she go out with him they really like each other
please answer the questions please dont say that is wrong that u do all that stuff and shit just please answer the question
thanxs i rate
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I would say it's alright to go out with each other, she knows the consequences of getting wound up in the shit again, and you never know, maybe she'll have a positive effect on him and he'll stop, if he likes her enough just asking would change him. Hope it all goes weel, good luck! :-)
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There this girl that i like she a senior and im a sophmore but im 16 gona be 17 she 17 gona be 18 we use to be friends when we were little. As time passed i didn't talk to her for awhile and now im best friends with her brothers now i have a crush on her.I've never been the type of guy to be shy to talk to a girl. but with her its different i don't want to sound dum and i don't know if she would even want to talk to me. I really like her tho. Every time i see her i just go crazy. I need some advice on how to break the ice?? (link)
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Dude...you really need to talk to her. You can't expect her to come and talk to you, cause you could be waiting a very long while. Just walk up to her when shes alone, and talk to her, like you said you use to be friends so im sure she'll talk to you, just need to get the confidence and your set. Good Luck!
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hey everyone--
i really wanna play the guitar. Accoustic. Can anyone who's experienced tell me if its hard or not? thanks for all the help xoxo (link)
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I myself have recently begun playing guitar...about 4 months now. I found that it was easier then I thought. I have taught myself, so i had no aid of a teacher, and I still found it pretty easy. Tabs are by far the easiest to learn and the best site i have found is www.mxtabs.net Good Luck!
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im running for student concil and the teacher and the head teacher of student concil choose should i just b a "teachers pet" so i can win? (link)
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By all means don't be a teachers pet, but don't try to look like a hero. You can make the teacher happy with you without becoming a teachers pet, just keep the class in with you and you'll be fine. Play your cards right and who know's what you'll end up as.
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ok here is the deal my cuzin jen was going out with this kid named jim and jim's parents r rlly rlly strict like hes never even whent 2 dairy queen ne ways she dumped him n he would call me all the time and i started liking him but he wouldnt ask me out because he thought it would weird sense me n jen r cuz's ok in early june my friend mimi was over n we were bored so she says lets call jim and i said i dont wanna its 2 late his parents might yell at me so she called n said hi is jim there n his mom says well im on the other line who is this n mimi says o nvm bye and hangs up later mimi goes home n i get a call back n its jim n he sounded sad so im like i didnt call mimi did n he says 2 his mom she didnt call mimi did n his mom comes on the fone and starts yelling at me saynig u didnt call my house n i say no that was my friend but she left n she asked 4 mimi's number and i gave it 2 her and she says well mim shouldnt hav called my house if shes just gonnna say nvm . then later mimi calls and she says guess who called me n i say jim's mom i no she called me 2 sry but i gave her ur numba i panicked wut did she say 2 u n mimi says she asked if i called her house n i said i didnt .... so mim was mad at me for a lil bit n then i didnt talk 2 jim sense then recently at school he talked 2 me but hasent sense then i rlly wanna talk 2 him but i dont no wut 2 say it feels kinda awkward i need some help (link)
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Talk to Jim, just about anything, walk up to him and say Hey and take the conversation wherever it goes. After a little while say your sorry about the phone call thing, your best to say sorry to his mum aswell eventually.
About going out with him, if you still like him and he likes you then by all means go out with him, your cousin broke up with him, he didnt break up with her, so obviously she doesnt like him that way anymore. So talk to him, say sorry to him and his mum, and go for him if u really want to. dont forget to talk to mimi to.
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I wanted to find some good love quotes and stuff and wanted to know if anyone could help me out. thanx a bunch! and i will rate you. (link)
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The best love quotes are the ones you make up yourself...but if u dont have the time or the energy check out this site, hopefully its got some good ones for you, plus some quotes non-related to love.
www.coolsig.com
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My friend who i really care about cuts his wrists. I went to his house and he did it right in front of me. I felt so sick. I asked him to spot and he just keeps saying he cant but he will try. But he keeps doing it. And i dont know what to say or do. He said that i cant tell anyone and if i tell his parents and they try to send him somewhere he will run away. I dont know what to do. Help!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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I hav dealt with situations like this myself, in all truth your better off not telling anyone becos things do become worse, and the risks rise, but you as a person and friend can help. Start talking to him more, tell him how bad it is, and constantly remind him about the people who love him in his life, make sure you do this with a smile too...its a hell of alot more effetive, and mean what you say to. keep doing this and eventually he'll grow out of it, we all go through these times. (A Kiss on the forehead after you talk makes anyone feel more comfortable and what you say will sink in more, try it, im sure when you look at him afterwards he'll have a smile on his face)
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ok I'm a rocker . And I usually wear all the dark eyeliner and eyeshadow . But , I have really light brown honey-colored eyes . What should I do for makeup ? I have black hair , light brown/hazel eyes , and I'm pale with some freckles . And my hair is short , layered , and flippy . I don't want to look like the old way anymore . I want to look better and change my appearance .
Ally (link)
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If your planning on losing your old appearance, then your trying to lose the whole rocker look. Best thing to do would be to drop the eyeshadow, use a eyeliner that isnt so dark, and change your hair colour. Seeing though you eyes are a light brown/hazel, best thing would be a chocolate brown with blonde streaks, keep it layered and flippy but grow it just past your shoulders. You'll be looking better in no time.
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okay, well i have a friend that has known for a REALLY long time that i have liked this certain boy..i am CRAZY about him...well she is "talking" to a boy we'll call him "tzp" and this boy that i like asked her out...and NOW shes askin me who she should choose...even though she KNOWS and has KNOWN for 3 years that i like him! UGH it makes me so mad...WHAT SHOULD I DO?! (link)
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Im sorry to say this, but you need to realise that he isn't interested in you, he's asked your friend out, and I know it must make you angry, but she is you friend, and you should be happy for her, but make her make her own choice on this, don't decide for her. 3 years is a very long time to like someone, especially if they aren't feeling the same way back, so my advice is to forget about this boy however possible, and move onto some other boy, because theres alot more great ones out there.
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