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I don't know what to do, can you help?
I'm dating this guy who's 20 and he's also black. My family doesn't really approve of interratial relationships and his family feels the same way but, I can't control how I feel for him, when I'm with him, nothing else matters and I hate being away from him. He's absolutely wonderful and I love him.. but, my family and his keep telling me I can do better and they're telling me that he's lying about a lot. I'm so confused on what to do. Whether I can do better or not, he makes me happy. How can you do any better if the feeling you get when your with someone is utterly amazing? * I don't want to believe that he's lying to me about anything and when I confront him about something he say that he isn't lying and I believe him. I'm not sure who to believe anymore though, I have a really good feeling about him but, I'm still scared and I worry and wonder about what's going on. * Any advice? - Thanks.
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From what it seems, if his family and your family don't agree with the relationship, then there isn't much you can do about that, the way families feel about relationships are usually due to numerous things, but they do get use to it. If you believe him deep down that he's not lying then he most likely isn't, his family may just be making up things because of how they feel. The best thing for you would be to stay with him, explain to your family and his that your in this relationship because of how you feel and racial circumstances do not concern you. It's a new world, your families are still stuck in the old, so bring them into the new. If he's what makes you happy, then he is best for you...no one else. Good Luck! :-)
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