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ok i like this guy Ben. And he is mine and my friends ex boyfriend. Well he tells my friend he likes me and thinks im hot. Sometimes he says he is going to ask me out that day. But of course he never does. I realli like him (again) but i dunno if i should make the first move cuz if he is realli not into me im gonna feel stupid. I he shy? Wut should I do?
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Hes not shy HEs just a guy guys are usually more nervous of us then we are of them JUst talk to him it will be alot easier ask him is He going to ask u out or not K lol bye
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you should make the 1st move because wuts the worst thing that can happen i mean the world isnt going to end or anything.But if he does like u go for him!i hope i helped good luck!
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The best thing to do is be proactive. You don't have to actually ask him out if that makes you feel weird and too forward (although there's no reason why it should!), but you can try being playful and flirty with him, and see how he reacts. If your behaviour indicates you're interested, he's more likely to ask you out, as he probably harbours the same sort of fears of rejection as you do. Good luck!
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Hang him in effigy (That means hang a dummy made up to look like him, in case you weren't educated) from a tree. Then show him the dummy and set it on fire in front of him. Then ask him if he will have sex with you. He's bound to say yes, unless he's a total homo.
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The best thing for you to do would be to talk to him, tell him how you feel, and if you've heard of people that he likes you then he most likely does, when you hear about him saying he's going to ask you out that day then he probably keeps chickening out, so talk to him, make the first move, tell him what you've heard, and im sure when you do he'll come around and ask you :-) Good Luck!
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Hey..he wouldnt tell his friends that hes gonna ask you out just for the hell of it..lol. He obviously has some feelings for you and I think hes afraid of rejection as well. Hes just shy...I know you dont want to make the first move , but why not? If you dont, he might not either because he doesnt want to feel stupid either. Its not like your asking some random guy who you hardly know if he likes you...ur askin a guy who is likely to like you back. You dont have to go up to him and say..." i like u ..do u like me"
- ask him on AIM if you have it
-get a friend to hook you up
-get one of his friends to talk to him and say..."u know..she told me she likes u..so go for it"
Hope i helped and good luck!
-melissa :)
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