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Hey My Nick name is Kiki and i really like giving advice so when i found this site i was like hecka excited.

I live in the US and i have alot of fun here but i would like to visit other places of the world.

i don't know wat else to say so yea...

Anyways holl@!
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okay i'm 14/female
sorry for the length of this.

i always wondered why i can't get a boyfriend. all the guys i like either have gf's already, or don't like me like that but we're still friends.
i'm in high school with over a thousand kids you'd think someone would like you.

i'm 5'1 and have brown eyes and brown hair with a purpleish red in it. i'm skinny, but average, and i think i have a really good personality, and i make good grades in school, but i'm not a nerd. i just haven't figured out why guys don't like me gf wise. why won't they ask me out or even like me?

any suggestions would be great. just drop off any questions you have about my personality to me. that way i can get better advice on what the deal is with me. and what i need help with.

thanx in advance :) (link)
YAY!

guess what i have this quote thingy you should read:


Girls are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree. The boys don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they just get the rotten apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy. So the apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing. They just have to wait for the right boy to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree.


i mean i think they might be intimidated you know cuz you have a great personality and all!


i've never had sex... so i don't know why i'm freaking out. but i'm fifteen and terrified that some random sperm may have seeped into me or something, though that's not very likely, i'm just PARANOID. plus, i had a cold, and now my body aches and im freezing, but i think i just have a virus. i'm just scared because i didn't get my period this month. and as nasty as it sounds, i'm sure my brother is having sex with his girlfriend, and i masturbate with my hands, so. terrified. i've been having my period for a little over two years, and it's not really regular. i miss a month sometimes, or for instance it will come on the 22nd of june, skip a month, come on the 5th of july, come the 19th of august. who knows. but i'm totally freaking out. sorry, sorry, sorry for seeming so immature. but mostly i need reassurance that this isn't possible... i haven't been throwing up or anything. just. ugh. help? (link)
yeha well i know this girl a virgin and everything she hadn't had her period for a year then after a year went by it came back i think it's just hormaones.

If you wanna be really sure go to your doctor and see they have some stuff like secretive and all ya know.

-KikiJ


hey my name is ellen and my son justin who is 19 years old and he is teaching sunday school at church,but I just found out he he and his girlfriend tessa had unprotected sex about a month ago and there was a big hickey on his neck what should I do?

I want to help me so so bad but when I confronted him about he got mad at me and now he won't speak to please help me help my son thankyou iam really worried. (link)
Okay

well never do that when and if he is ready he will confront to you.

but by you doing it first BIG mistake he needs privacy and you should let him have that

i'm sure your son is a great guy but you need to let some things go.

-KikiJ


i've liked this girl for a week now and i can definitly tell that if we went out it'd be a long lasting/fun relationship. i am 15/m and i was wondering any like cute ways to get a girls attention. (link)
OMG i love this question!

Okay!

cute gestures:
open doors for her all that gentelman stuff (old but it works)

Compliments:
tell her she looks nice pretty all that stuff

BE CONFIDENT:
Yes confident act cool laugh at your mistakes BUT B you!

Presents:
give her a rose not a note and up front it's always better that way (don't torture the girl now)But build your confidence if you don't have any then do this at the end.

Hope i helped!

-KikiJ




heyy i have a long distance relationship with my bf and im 13 n hes 16....we talk on msn n thts about it....but i really like him n he really likes me..its just tht im not shure if i shud keep this relationship because it's long distance and they next time we see eachother will probably be in 3 years..so shud i keep this or move on? (link)
Gurl this might sound a little harsh but move on.
he's not worth it he's 16 and he has a lot more on his mind than msn if you know what i mean.

be friends but i don't think you should take it any farther or you might get hurt.

-KikiJ


if i put my straightner on a higher temperature, will my hair stay straighter for longer? because it straightens fast so im not sure if itll make it straighter longer (link)
No.

from my experience it won't stay straighter longer it'll just get way too hot and give you split ends.

-KikiJ


My dad says that I'm too skinny and need to put on about 10 pounds. I'm 5"1.5, and I'm 86 pounds.

I'm almost literally skin and bone. If I put on weight, where would the weight go? Is there any way to control where it goes, so it doesn't all go to my belly or my thighs? (link)
Well no i mean you since your so light it's good because your weight will even out all over your body so don't worry about your butt bein too big or anything.




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