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i dont know if this goes here but w/e now this is embrrasing to ask ok so is it normal or abnormal to have one mipple bigger then the other one? i mean like one is bigger then the other so is there any thing i can do to make them the same size besides any type of surgery???? please help me i feelakward asking this but w/e (link)
i think this is normal. its just like the question people ask is it normal for one boob to be bigger than the other. It is because they grow differently.& it might be because one of your boobs is bigger but i dont think you have anything to worry about.


ok so i'm in a long distance relationship and he has not seen a pic of me but i wanted to wait cause i am a little overweight how can i loose some weight fast??? cause i really like him but i dont really think i'm pretty at all is it normal to feel this way is it just self conciousness?? how can i feel better about it??? please help me
what do i do?? (link)
You should never get down on yourself. To boost your confidence you can write down all things you like about yourself. and this guy should like you for who you are not what you look like. But if you wanted to loose a few pounds you could drink lots of water, do crunches, go running, work tapes, eat fruits, and stay away from unhealthy greesy foods. oh and yes its normal how your feeling all girls feel that way.


ok so alot of people my age have had there first kiss and alot more but i have not actualy had a real bf is this normal i mean i am just really nervous around guys when it comes to that stuff cause i am just scared i will do something wrong or something and i am in this long distance relationship but i kinda lied to him about what "base" i've gotten to like 1st base 2nd base 3rd base and so on now i told him the farthest i have ever gotten was making out but i have never even kissed a guy or been kissed what do i do should i try to get a guy out here to like me and try to get experience before me n my long distance bf meet???i mean i know he is not some 30 year old rapist cause he is friends with my sister cause they met in 4th gradeso please any advice will help please help me i need help?? (link)
well, your first kiss will come when its supose to. and you shouldnt compare yourself to other peoples dateing style.But kissing is easy just relax yourself and go slow. and about being nervous around guys justbe yourself.


What are the best condoms out there?

Ones that feel like you have nothing on?

Thanx (link)
trogan ultra thin.
but usaully the condoms thayt feel like nothings there are thin so they rip easly so be careful


so i broke up with my bf lastnight because when we first started dating he had these magazines and i told him i didnt like him having them so he "threw them away" he said he did that to prove he would do anything for me and that he doesnt like looking at anyone but me. well lastnight we went to his room and the pile of magazines were back again. so 1. he lied to me 2.im not the only one he likes to look at and 3. i cant trust him. was this a good reason for dumping him or was i just being stupid? (link)
its stupid, all guys look at porn. I think he diserves a second chance


Hi,

I recently bought some clothes from the Hollister at my mall. I am a 17 year old boy and think the clothes are nice.

When I got home and showed my 13 year old brother the clothes I got (a polo and a sweatshirt) he started screaming at me and said that only posers and gays were Hollister.

I know quite a few people don't like Hollister and quite a few people do.

I am wondering what people think of boys who wear Hollister? (link)
my boyfriend wheres hollister.. =)
its not for pozers its like prepish cloths thats all


ok whats the difference between making out and french kissing?...i always thought they were the same thing...thanks (link)
they are the same thing


ok im 14/female and i have a boy friend who i love, but in the past i have been cheeted on alot and one of the prople who my boys friends cheeted onmy with was my best friends sister, whome i dispize at the moment, because she is flirting with my boy friend sooo much and it hurts and every thing cuz she was my friend and every thing, ok but like a yesterday my boy friends gave her one of his shirts, a really nice one that costed him like 50 dolloars and when i asked him about it he said it was no big deal and that he just didnt want it any more, and since i love him i decided fine w/e ill belive him, but i know that him givin that gurl a shirt makes her feel like he is interested, and now my boyfriednd told his sister is i cant trust him and if i keep on askin stuff like if in cheeting on him he will break up with me and i just really love him but i dontknow i just have trust issues cuz i never had a really good relation ship with anyone, so my question is basicly what would you do if you were in my shoes?? i talked to my best friends sister abou it and thay didnt help, plus she made me feel like i was being stupid and that i should trust her and it made me feel bad, and i dont wanna keep asking my boy friend stuff anf have him get mad at me... so what should i do??

signed, confused in love (link)
well try and trust him, but i kno my boyfriend wouldnt give a girl his shirt.So maybe thats a sighn but its good to ask questions so keep asking them and if he gets a,md just say its because i care. Try to be less attachted to him. If he does cheat hes not worth it & dumb him. But if he doesnt then you know he cares, it may be hard but just stay with him untill somethgns happens


Everytime I get a boyfriend I blow it. I hate drama but I always seem to start it. Like my boyfriend of a month I started a fight and told him I don't want to kiss him. He thought I didn't love him so we broke up. I really wanted to kiss him but I'm always starting drama. And now my new boyfriend he said I gotta go "love you" and I didn't say anything back. I really do love him but I don't know why I LIKE making people mad at me. And it ALWAYS leads to a break up. I get boys so pissed off. What can I do so I start acting mature and not start fights with my boyfriends and stop always making them mad? (link)
i would think about ur boyfriends feeligns before you say anythign. treat them how you want to be treated


funny thing happened, i was at a con. in the dealers room and this guy came up and started to hit on me, and than when he found out that i had a girlfriend it was aquwered, but he is nice and very cute soo i gave him me number and i hope we can hang out... funny thing is when eh started ti hit on me my heart started to race, i'm soo confused, i never had anyone hit on my before, it was very nice, and i could tell that he really liked me, i don't know what to do, you know, i have been wiht my girlfriend for 2 years now, but it's like well you know how she is, not romatci and all that other shit...i just don't know what to do, i love my girlfriend, but when i talked to him, i get a more intesn felling than i do when i'm with my girlfriend, yes i'm bi and so is she, can anyone help, it seems i have feeling for him and her and both are strong, but i have had some problems with her, but i'm her first boyfriend soo it's not all her fult, she does not know what to do. so like i said should i stay with her or go after him, though sometime when i'm with my girlfrined, i don't know if i'm with her just to make her happy and at the cost of my own happyness, anyone please help


p.s. see my other question to better under stand what i have been thoug when i'm with her (link)
some advice, dont leave the one you love for the one you like, you might regret it


Why when a 17 year old says she has fallen for a older guy ( over 20 ). People say go for it or wait till your 18?

But if a older Guy ( over 20 ) Said i fallen for a 17 year old everyone says grow up & date someone your own age? (link)
honeslty i dont know but my opoin is you can love at any age, because age is just a number.


This guy who just moved, we had a thing for eachother. But never really got into having a relationship because we knew he was going to move. He calls me every night, and the other night he was visiting fmaily and got on a computer and messaged me on myspace. He wassaying that he likes me alot, and everytime on the phone he goes and trys to talk to me about it we get wrapped up in other stuff but he's been wondering how my feelings are towards him. Like, he knows that I like him, but I guess he's not sure how much. & then he asked if there as anyhting that I was disappinted in him for doing or not doing while he was still here. Which I'm not sure why he'd evne think that but there's not. I went to message him back, but it dind't send so I had to re-write it today because that's when I realized he didn't get it and now he doesn't have access to the computer. We're going to be talking tonight.. and I can't just ignore what he messaged me about but I have a feeling it's kind of going to be weird to talk about. And I like him alot but I just don't get the point of tlaking about our feelings for eachother when nothings ging to happen. It can't. I am going to visit him next week, but he doesn't live close. The next time I'll probably see him is next summer when he comes back here.. but lets say it is something we end up talking about, like our feelings. How do I go about saying it, with out the awkwardness. I don't even know what to say. "Yeah I like you alot, you didn't disapponint me, nothings ever going to go on between us because you live forever away from me" Ah, if this makes any sence please help. (link)
i know how you feel, but you should still tell him your feelings because you cant predict the furture so you will never know if something can happen or not.And you should bring the conversation up by asking him about the message and then tell him how you feel.


So I like this girl and me and her have talked about likeing eachother but she has never flat out told me yes or no. So should I just take a leap and tell her I like her, or should I just ask how she would feel about me and her getting toghter and if she likes me . Any advice would be appreacited... (link)
You should tell her, because she might be to shy and waiting for the guy to make the first move.If she doesnt feel the same way then move on but i i think she does, and by you telling her how you feel she'll open up to you and you guys could make something of it. hope i helped


when you skip class.. where do you usually go and what do you usually do? (link)
Umm well in my school i go to the highschool bathrooms because there bigger, so i would suggest go to the bathrooms and hangout in there or you could always walk around school but i need a pass to be in the hall so i forge one but be careful. and sometimes me and my friends just hangout finish late homwork, gossip, talk on cell phones, and stuff distroe bathrooms, =) i would suggest that you skip either your first class or your last class, but make it worth your while


hi!! i moved from another country to america about 10 years ago and i never really had a boyfriend because my parents were against it since im a european girl and "i dont know nothiing" anyways i finally got a bf and weve been together for a year and my parents actaully accept him...and im 18 by the way...our realtionship is great accept im scared to tell him that my parents dont have the best jobs in the world ..to me its embarressing ive been hiding it for a long time from my friends too...my mother cleans but thats normal for foreign women..and my father does like waxing and stuff and they both work at night so its great in my case ;)...but how do i tell him??? help me..i dont want him to be unattracted to me...and they get paid a lot though.. (link)
i know how you feel my mom is a bartender and it was hard for me to tell people, because i didnt want them to think bad of me.But then i realized its not bad, and she makes good money. and if someone likes me its not because of my parents job so jsut boost your convidence and if he does say something mean, you can just rub it in his face that they probally make more money =).


what does the school do if they found out that you skipped a class or something?? (link)
i always skip its fun but scary and im not encourageing u to do it because i dont want you to get introuble, But at my school, sometimes you get detention and sometimes you get in school but its not that bad as long as you make it worth it.


hi, yea ok let me tell you how one of my best friends so and so is hooking up with sombody i really like...and its not like she doesnt know it, she does no how i feel about him and hes keeps like making out with him infront of me and everything....and it hurts me SO much. i really dont no what to say to her. She keeps saying, "o yea jus tell me anything and ill do wat i can to stop it." so yea what should i do?

haven (link)
wow you dont need her as a friend, if she was your real friend she wouldnt do that to you. She a backstabber i would suggest you stop being friends with her now before you get hurt even more.


Sorry, it's long but please read anyways!

Okay, so in 8th grade, I met some of the best friends I've ever had, and in was in 7th that I met my very bestest friend in the world wide world. Basically, 8th grade was like the year we knew who we were friends with and we loved each other and were crazy and it just felt like one big party. (drama included) Not trying to brag or anything, but I had ALOT of friends. I could go to like 5 different groups of friends and fit in perfectly.

The problem? I'm going into high school next year and everyone has said that you will loose alot of your friends from middle school. This is almost definitely going to happen especialy because we are like all really different. I really want us all to stay friends. It's almost as if I can't imagine life without my friends. I know I'll make new friends and everything but does anybody have any suggestions of how I can stay in touch will them and not loose them completely?

By the way, I am pretty busy after school with cross country and horseback riding and stuff.

Oh and please do not say "if they are your true friends, you wil find a way" because I just want suggestions. Thanks! (link)
well in 6th grade n 7th grade i had tons of friends and then i lost basically all of them, not because we lost touched but just because when you get older you realize everyone of your friends arent true to you and you dont need them, and you will realize this as you get older.


i like a girl and she cant make out good how can i help her out with out herting her feelings? (link)
You should just go slow with the kiss or even somethign sexy like whisper in her ear and say here go like this and show her with your lips. Hope i helped


okay so i met this kid chris. well me & chris became close & he told people that he thought something would happen between us. like get together or something. so then i go over chris's house with my friend ashley & they start talking and stuff. now he is all into her after one time meeting her. he said that same thing about something would happen between them. well ashley knows how much i like him but yet is still going along and likes him back but lies to be about it. well he kept saying he wanted her. well tonight he calls me and asks me to go over his house. well i still really like him & i want to go over i just dont know how to deal with the situation. what do i say to them? this kid is a major player so i know he doesnt mean it to either of us but ashley really believes him but i really like him. eek. help? (link)
Its ok to be friends with him but i wouldnt get into a relationship with him. And i would warn your friend to. Hes not worth either of your guy's time i dont want anyone to get hurt.




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