Hey! My name is Kathleen. I am overrall a spontanious person. I love to talk, an all my life my friends and family come up to me an ask random things about how they can make there life better. So I feel that it is only right for me to help others to. Only if you all choose to except me. I am willing to talk about anything. I mean it, I am honest. I wont tell you a lie, I feel as you should all know the truth. I hope everyone decides to welcome me in. Thanks!
E-mail: neelhtak_1989@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Milo, Maine
Age: 16
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Member Since: April 3, 2006
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im so confused.. a while ago i found out the guy i liked, liked my best friend. now i dont like him as much but i still do a little bit. but now im confused because i dont no if he still likes her but he is always hanging around me and talking to me and today when i was working in school he came up and just started showing me what he was working on.. do you think he likes me now? and if he does what should i do? (link)
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He might, an if you like him. Just flirt around.
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whats a good idea on how to loose wieght?
i have no access to the gym and i dont want to go run outside. Is there anyway of looing wieght insdie myt house?
PLEASE AND THANKS!!! (link)
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Do yoga, it's fun. Gains muscle, loses weight, gains balance.
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I Am Sixteen, Female. I Feel Like My Best Friend And I Are Growing Apart. She Doesn't Seem Like She Likes Talking To Me Sometimes. And Sometimes We Don't Know What To Talk About. How Can I Bring Us Back Closer? I Will Rate Fives For Good Answers. Thank You So Much! (link)
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Sleep Over! Catch yourself back up. An maybe tell her that you feel that you are growing apart and want to become closer.
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What are some things you can talk about with your friend? Just conversation starters that normal people would talk about. Nothing like the weather, something that 15 year old girls would talk about. I will rate for good answers! Thanks In Advance! (link)
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BOYS! lol had to, lol You could talk about your crushes, things to do for fun.
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i have been with my boyfriend for 8 months. everyone has always hated my bf. because he is black. i have dealed wit it. but saturday i went wit my cousin to see my bf (just like everyweekend) and he brought his best friend with him. i got attracted to him. my bf noticed it to but i always denny it. anyways me and him kept talkin and on the way home he started talkin about my currennt bf and how i should leave him and all this stuff. i listened to it but couldnt leave my bf i have a lot of feelings for him. he is my first boyfriend who i have loved so much and he was my first kiss, first make out, first everythin in a realtionship. idk if i should leave him or not. i will admit he has raised his voice at me but apologized. my cousins friend likes me a lot he always tells me he loves me and puts a whole bunch of comments on my myspace about how cares about me. (my bf doesnt noe about any of them. he thinks my cousins best friend is my cousin.) lost and confused can someone give me some advice. (link)
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Well ask yourself, what makes the other guy so special to leave someone that you have shared so much with, an love?
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I'm 16/female and the guy im talking about is 16. He has always been there for me and i think that i love him. I've known him since grade 8 and now we are in grade 11. He has a girlfriend that he tells me he's going to dump. Every time i see this guy he is with a different girl. He knows every girl and every girl i talk to likes him. But, i don't think that he likes them in that way. But then he tells me he likes me and that he always has. He tells me that he can't resist the urge to make out with me. meanwhile he has a girlfriend. So, what should i do about this guy that i love because there are so many other girls in his life. Even if we start dating he will still be all over his other friends that are girls. I'm desperate, i love him and he doesn't know, and i cant tell him either. Please help i need to know if this guy is playing me and these other girls or are his feeling are real for me. (link)
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Well maybe he does "like" you, or just has to have a "girl". Maybe he has a fear of being alone. Just be careful because if he is always with another girl, you might watch to watch he doesn't get with you an then just up and leaves you.
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i like this man but i can't tell if he likes me back help!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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You could straight out ask him, or flirt with him. See if he flirts back and shows intrest!
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okay so i have one of my friends on buddy alert. So whenever she comes on it plays a song. I was wondering how can i get that song to play a little bit longer because it only plays the first 3 sec. of the song. Is there any way that i can make the song play longer? Thanks!!!
Ashley.. (link)
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I don't think you can make it play longer because it is only an alert, just saying that your friend is online
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i just started going out with a kid form elementery school (now where 8th grade) but i haven't like really talked to him since 6th grade, my friend hucked us up. the only tyme we see each other is on the way home(we go to different school) from the bus stop.Anyways i'm kinda shy what should i do? what should we talk about? i want him to love beindg around me? ~Please Help!!!!!!~ (link)
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Well get his number, call each other. Make arrangements to hang out. An just talk about life, or just do something that intrests the both of you.
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ok. i like these 2 guys from school. one i have gone out with for 9 months, and the other one i have been going out with for a week. (right now i am going out wiht him)but i still like the other guy a lot!!! this guy right now is way too touchy, and the other guy is preverted.When i go out with the one i really like, my best friend thinks he is a loser! so i really need advice! What should I do??? (link)
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My opinion ditch them both, or either talk to the one you have now. An tell him to back off a little and that you need your space. But being with someone that is perverted isn't great. You could end up doing things you don't want to do, just be careful. An I know she may be your friend but isn't her buisness who you date. But she is also trying to look out for what is best.
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I need a short poem/story for my child developement class but i cannot find one anywhere! any ideas on where on its? I reading the poem and making my own kinda draw and tell story out of it so i want a cute little poem that has to do with family love (mainly mom) because It has to go along with our them franklin says i love you (and mothers day as well)
any suggestions? (also its going to be read to 4 year olds so it must be easy to understand on not that long!) (link)
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How about:
Oh I love my mommy,
She keeps me safe a warm.
she's always there when I need her,
even when there's a storm.
She hugs and squeezes me tight,
an tells me not to worry everything will be alright.
When she kisses me goodnight,
an barely makes it to the light
I tell her I love her an she makes everything alright.
I kinda just made it up, it might help it might not. But I tried at least.
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Ok, theres this boy I know, and have known for like, ever, and he has started picking on me here latley. My Grandma says he likes me, but I dont think so. He is cute and all, but I dont if I like him. I think of him more as a friend also, so, why do you think he is acting that way, and what do I say? I kinda like him, I just have a hard time thinking of him as a BOYFRIEND and not a FRIEND. Please help me out! (link)
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Well way been when when some little boy pushed you over in the sandbox it meant he liked you. An your grandmother may be right he might have a slight crush on him. Trying picking on him back a little enough to ya know see how he likes an an almost like flirting a little. Then maybe you end up likeing him a little more than a friend.
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okay here it goes.. when i was 11, i meet this boy... lets call him bob, and he was sorta a jackass to me, so then we went on for about 5 years not talking to eachother. but we did see each other around the town, we didnt even say hi to eachother, so then i move from the town i was living in with my dad, and attend another skool, on my second day of my new skool i see him again, and then me and him started talking and i figured out that he really changed in those 5 years,but i found out he has a girlfrand, so i flirt with him and write him letters explaining how much i like him, then i invited him over to my house, and he makes out with me, and he cheated on his gf twice be4 breaking up with her.. he exclaimes hes sorry for how hes treated me and that he fell in love with me.. so 5 months later hwere dating and he asks to marry me... my problem is i love him but i dont kno if im ready for the commitment yet.. (link)
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Tell him that, tell him that you love him. But your not sure that you want to make that much of a commitment. But don't tell him it's out of the question. Just say not right now, an explain yourself a little.
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I am a 30 year old, married woman with 3 kids. My husband is very great to me and other than the usual bickering & disagreements, we don't have any major problems in our relationship. MY problem is...I keep developing crushes on other men! Whenever I start talking to an attractive guy for a period of time, either from work, my husbands friends or my friends' husbands, I start to "feel" something for them! I just don't understand why I am so prone to doing this. Any input would be greatly appriciated. (link)
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I know this is going to sound werid from a 16 year old but I do the same thing. I know your thinking that I am young and that is what happens. But no, everyone and every relationship is different it is not wrong to develope crushes on others. As long as you don't act on them while you are married. It makes you feel all giddy inside when you meet someone new and kind of exciting. It makes you want to explore. But you just have to relize that you are single anymore.
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ok i just wrote a preivious question yesturday askin wat i should do aobut my boyfriend n today we like got in the "moment" and we had sex and weve been only dating for awhile and then like 2 hours after it happened i finally got the nerve to call him and break up with him because i dont have feelings for him like sum one should if there in a relationship, now i feel like a whore like i just slept with him n now i broke up with him.. wat r people gonna think wat are my friends gonna think... that shouldnt matter but it does to me n i just dont kno wat to do its all just so confusing i just dunno wat to do i cant even talk to my ex now cuz of wat just haoppened he probably thinks its cuz we had bad se(it wasnt) oh if i just uused him and this is all running througfh my head n i just dunno wat to do or think will sum 1 please please help me!!
thanx (link)
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That does not make you a trashy whore. You thought you had feelings for someone. That is not a crime. You did something that just proved to you that your feelings weren't as strong as you might have thought they were. Your friends will learn to except that.
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i definitley have that triceps jiggle going on..im pretty thin all over, but ive got the jiggle going on...any advice on how to seriuosly firm up without weights? (link)
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Yoga! It's fun, an it works. Builds muscle in your arms, back, legs. An makes you have better balance.
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this is random, but what do the pedals on pipe organs do? i play piano, but i was just wondering. (link)
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It changes the pitch
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The other night I had sex. My period left about 8 hours before I had sex that night. All of a sudden in the middle of me and my boyfriend doing it, I started bleeding. It was weird thought because we stopped having sex and the next morning, nothing was on the tampon. Did I bleed because I had my period or could I have just been sensitive down there? (link)
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Sometimes after you just got done your period you spot a little. No biggy
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My boyfriend and I have been together for two years now and I'm having a few issues with the choices he's making. Now, I need really mature people to answer this. I have always not really liked certain type of guys such as with piercings and tattoos and mohawks and stuff. I fully understand that not ALL of those people are bad. But I have been brought up in a really good family with morals and I want a guy who doesn't look like that. My boyfriend has told me that he is wanting to get a few tattoos and it will be happening very soon. I'm really upset about this, I feel like it's going to change him because he's been changing a lot lately. He's going downhill and I've confronted him with these feelings and he got totally defensive and told me to stop acting like his mom. I admit that I did put my foot down and say that I'm not dealing with it when he told me, but then I tried to keep saying that I'm really worried because tattoos are permanant decisions!
Like I said, I need someone with morals to answer this. I don't want a speech stating that I should just accept him, I do accept him, but tattos are a decision, it doesn't define who he is.
I will rate and let you know what I think of your advice.
Thank you so much in advance (link)
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I am not going to say except him, because if you grew up not wanting to be around that kind of stuff and if he cares about you enough he wouldn't do that because he knows you don't like it. So in a way he is going against an kind of pushing your luck.
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I did alot of exercises yesterday.. I mean alot.. and my legs are like sore! I fell going up the stairs cause they were so sore today at school.. they are still sore to i have ball practice everyday and i also have gym how could I get my legs from not being sore? (link)
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Icy hot works,:-)
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