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whats up with guys
I'm 16/female and the guy im talking about is 16. He has always been there for me and i think that i love him. I've known him since grade 8 and now we are in grade 11. He has a girlfriend that he tells me he's going to dump. Every time i see this guy he is with a different girl. He knows every girl and every girl i talk to likes him. But, i don't think that he likes them in that way. But then he tells me he likes me and that he always has. He tells me that he can't resist the urge to make out with me. meanwhile he has a girlfriend. So, what should i do about this guy that i love because there are so many other girls in his life. Even if we start dating he will still be all over his other friends that are girls. I'm desperate, i love him and he doesn't know, and i cant tell him either. Please help i need to know if this guy is playing me and these other girls or are his feeling are real for me.
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I know you care a lot about him so this will be hard to hear. He isn't worth wasting your time on.
Suppose for a second that you were his girlfriend. Do you really think you could trust him to be faithful, based on his actions with you and the way he is always going after other women?
I know he's enticing and men like this do tend to have a sort of arrogant, confident charm and although they are bad for us, we can't help but fall for them. That being said, you shouldn't give your heart to someone who's liable to throw it on the floor and stomp on it when an opportunity for another girl comes along. Perhaps that's a little unfair, he may be faithful....but based on what you have said, the only outcome I can imagine is that you will get hurt.
So try to take your mind off him and get out and meet some new guys. Preferably guys who you know will treat you with the respect and dignity that you deserve because you can do a LOT better than a guy who is happy to treat women the way he seems to.
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All the other girls that like him are probably thinking the same thing as you. THIS GUY IS A PLAYER. He likes girls, and that's a main part of life, but he is doing it way too much. I don't think you going out with him would be a good experience. What if he is saying that he wants to make out with other girls too? Ask your friends that like him and ask them if he has said anything like that to them
♥ Kendall
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I don't think dating him would be the right choice. If he's really that into you, he wouldn't be dating other girls and he would ask you out. He's apparently had a lot of experience with that so it wouldn't be hard for him. You said that you were desperate. When you are desperate you are much more prone to making poor relationship choices. It sounds like all this guy wants is a physical relationship with no commitment. Whether you love him or not, if you go out with him right now, he's just going to break your heart. Wait a few years and see if he matures any. That gives you time to explore some of your other options too. There's no need to feel desperate. You've got lots of time, you're only 16. Try not to pay so much attention to the people around you. How many of their relationships do you think will really last? Maybe one, probably none. I hope that everything works out for you and good luck.
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Well maybe he does "like" you, or just has to have a "girl". Maybe he has a fear of being alone. Just be careful because if he is always with another girl, you might watch to watch he doesn't get with you an then just up and leaves you.
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