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Is breaking up over the phone okay? Or should I make an effort to do it in person? (link)
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Yes, it is impersonal.
In person would be better.
And please, when you do it, do it gently.
~**~KaladaLeigh~**~
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14/f
In the morning I wake up at 6 o clock so I can catch my bus, but the thing is, no one in my family wakes up till' like 7:30 so when I get up they are all sleeping. Whenever I walk around adn stuff because no one else is awake it makes me really annoyed and just want to sleep. Does anyone have any ideas that will keep me awake when my family is sleeping?
Besides coffee. (link)
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Hmm..... BESIDES coffee???? ARE YOU CRAZY?
Just kidding. But coffe helps because it has caffeine in it... find something with caffeine or aLoT of sugar (chocolate has both) or you can listen to upbeat music (in headphones if you don't want your family to wake up) and also, EXERCISE!
Running gets your heart pumping and your eyes opening.
Also it helps burn calories from all that sugar you used to wake yourself up (what is wrong with you?) LOL.
~**~KaladaLeigh~**~
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Me and my friend want to start a "band" so there would be two singers. I was wondering if anyone has any songs that have two singers in them. We already have a couple of Aly and AJ songs. But we would like some more. If you have any ideas please help.
I rate 5's for good answers. (link)
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Well, I think Aly&AJ songs are perfectly good songs to sing (I like them all, personally) and I agree with "Our Lips Are Sealed" by Hilary and Haylie Duff.... also by them is "The Siamese Cat Song" on Disneymania (1 I think)
But, yes you should also write your own songs.
And there is a girl band that I really like but has 3 girls (1 barely sings though) called BarlowGirl... they're good.
And there is a band that has 2 girl singers but also some guys that mostly play music but depending on the song, they sing too... it's called Superchic[k]
Maybe Jump5...
Also, I knwo of MaryMary but I personally hate their music... LOL.
Ummmm...... I can't think of anything else.
But if you guys plan on trying to get a record deal and being famous, you would definitely have to write some of your won songs because ones by other people are copyrighted and you would have to get their permission to sing them professionally.
But just as a fun bonding thing or school fundraiser or whatever, other peoples' songs are good.
~**~KaladaLeigh~**~
(Oh, and I forgot to say, please let me know the name of your band if you two get discovered and get famous.... I wanna hear your sounds!! ;-) )
um, I also want to be a famous singer, but since I don't play an instrument, I have a ways to go....
I've written several of my own songs, and if you want to see them (maybe I'll let you use them) just ask me in my column
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Im a 15/f, 16 in april.
okay for some reason i think its really odd to date a guy whos like 17. but then id love to date a guys whos turning 15. i know usually everyone wants to date guys who are older and taller then them but i mean i think its kinda gross well not gorss but just weird if i would date a guy whos like 2 years older then me or 2 years younger. is there something wrong with my brain or is that just my personality towards guys i like? (link)
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No. Nothing is wrong with you... I also don't like to date older guys.
It's just a different taste than """everyone else"""
(note the stressed Quotations!!!)
~**~KaladaLeigh~**~
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I am a Christian and I believe in God... I love God. It's just that more and more I feel I'm drifting away from my Lord. Sometimes I'll pray and promise God I will pray more and talk to him more, but I either forget to and rarely but sometimes I will say in my head, "I need to pray," but then I don't(purposely).
Does anyone have any ideas on how to get closer to God, or ways to strengthen my relationship with the Lord? I don't want to be this way... but when it comes to praying...I just don't. Any ideas? Express your feelings! Thank you so much! (link)
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Well, praying is a BIIIIIIIIIIIIIG part of talking to and walking with God but also, read your Bible... it helps us become closer to Him.
(need more details, just ask me from my column)
Believin' in Him together and forever,
~**~Kalada Leigh~**~
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Im a christian.
But i feel like, i need to do something to make my prayers heard. Or something its really hard to explain, i almost feel like i have no connect with god.
How do i become a "better" christian?
i suppose thats what im asking.
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First off, God always hears your prayers and yes He may take awhile to answer and it may not be the answer you want, but He always answer.
and, it depends on what you mean.
if my "better" you mean Holier, then know that no one is perfect except God and everyone makes mistakes.... but that's why God sent His son Jesus to die for our sins so we will be forgiven and we don't have to be perfect.
if by "better" you mean knowing more about God, then the best ways to be "better" are:
1) Pray.
2) Read the Bible
3) Go to church (be amongst other believers)
Wishes,
Believin' in Him together and forever,
~**~Kalada Leigh~**~
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What do the numbers after a person's name mean in the bible?
ex- Mark 16:16 (link)
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Mark is one of the books of the Bible.
the first 16 means the chapter (you'll see a big-ish 16 in the middle of text........... after 15 of course) and teh second 16 means the verse... that will be the smaller 16 in the middle of text.
So in the 16th chapter of Mark, verse 16 will be what you are looking for.
Believin' in Him together and forever,
~**~Kalada Leigh~**~
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I am racially Jewish.
As far as my faith goes? I'm not quite sure. I was raised thinking Jesus is the true Messiah, not not worshiping him, per say. My father's side of the family has a lot of Jewish traditions woven in with Catholic ones.
I think Christians worship Jesus INSTEAD of God, and I don't think that's right.
I DO NOT want to be a Jew for Jesus. I'm sorry, I'm not praying in a highschool gym. Its not going to happen. I've prayed in both churches and synagogues, because I just say, "Hey, its the same God, right?"
But the way of worshiping Him is quite different. I have no idea who I am, where I fit, or where I should go to pray. (link)
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Jesus is God because Jesus is God's only Begotten Son.
God sent Jesus to come down on earth to be born, to live, and to die for our sins. Then he rose again.
It doesn't matter between God and Jesus as long as you believe that Jesus died on teh cross for our sins, no one can repay Him, and the only way to get to Heaven is through Him.
Let's pray.
"God, I believe in You and I believe You sent your Son Jesus down to die for my sins. God, I know I am a sinner and I'm in need of a Saviour. Please, Jesus come into my heart and help me walk in this world with You. Amen."
That's it.
Believin' in Him together forever,
~**~Kalada Leigh~**~
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We don't need religion. Hear me out. If Jesus were to come down from Hevan and say "I am the son of God" and showed us all of is water to wine stuff, scientist could test it and then Christianity would become a science and all other religions would be be proven wrong and therefore not be religions.
That was my little prologue, here is my question Is it possible that our societies have reached a point in which we can admit there is no need for religion and have good morals without a book or God(s) to tell us what they are? (link)
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You are absolutely right.
You don't need a religion, you don't need to go to church, you don't need to try to be a saint.
Want to know why?
NONE OS THAT WORKS!
What people need is a relationship with Jesus because that is the only way to get to Heaven.
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okay so my hair is kinda long just like 3 inched below my shoulders but than it never grows any longer and i want it to be really long like lindsay lohan long. Is there any way without extensions that will make my hair grow long or faster so by next school year i will have amazing hair. i rate xoxo (link)
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Umm no sorry, no shampoos or hair creams make your hair longer.... if you get it trimmed, then split ends won't be an issue and your hair should grow faster.
but usually it takes people a coupel of years to grow long.
~**~Kalada Leigh~**~
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I am very pale because I am almost 100% french. In france it is beautiful to be pale but in the U.S.A it seems as though pale is not as beautiful. I would really like to be able to wear skirts and not be afraid that everyone is thinking my legs are ugly and that im to pale.
What can I do to make my legs look not so bad in skirts? (link)
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Wear tights that are darker than your skin color.
I would NOT advise you get a tan.... of ANY type!!!!!
And, if people make fun of you, just be like, Who cares.
~**~Kalada Leigh~**~
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Last night, I went out clubbing with my best friend and some other people, including a guy friend of mine, I'll call him "Brian". Brian has always told me that he's bisexual and I'm cool with that and we get along great. He's always treated me like one of the guys, but last night, he got pretty drunk and he started touching me inappropriately. It wasn't anything particularly sexual, just holding my hand and putting his hands on my waist, but I was really confused. I'm not attracted to him or anything, but it's got me really confused. It was just the alcohol talking wasn't it? My best friend also said he held her hand as well. (link)
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His "bisexual" thing might be a lie to make girls believe that they don't have to be afraid of him doing anything to/with them.
He's probably just a player, out looking for sex.
Stay away unless you want to get hurt, is my advice.
♥
~**~Kalada Leigh~**~
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ok I have a boyfriend and everything. but I want to get my 2 best guy friends something for valentines day. because they're sad and loney cause they dont have girlfriends, and i just want to get them something so they feel special. my question is, i just want to get them something small, something nice, that says i care. I STILL WANT SOMETHING WITH THE THEME OF VALENTINES DAY, but nothing with hearts or anything that would make my boyfriend jealous. any ideas? (link)
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I agree with a funny card.
But I was definitely thinking some chocolates (In a regular box, if you wish)
and a big smiley face or something really nice.
~**~Kalada Leigh~**~
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hey i'm a guy and have a girlfriend, i love her and everything. i was wondering...i havn't asked her yet, but would it be a bad thing if i sent valentines day cards to my friends that are girls? some of them i'm really good friends with and i wouldn't want to do it if it offended my girlfriend or let her think the wrong idea. should i just ask her about it, or am i over-analyzing things? i am getting my girlfriend a gift, but would it be wrong to send a few cards to my friends as well? what do you think, thanks in advance. (link)
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First, make sure you'd only be sending the cards to your girl friends as Just Friends.
Then, make sure you ask your gf about it, telling her that you really love her but you have some friends that are girls too and don't want them to feel left out. And if she doesn't feel OK with you sending Valentine's to these ladies, respect her if you wanna keep her.
Wishes,
~**~Kalada Leigh~**~
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My friend doesn't live in the same city as me--in fact, it's quite far from where I live. I barely see her anymore. We hardly ever get to talk to her on the phone or online. Lately, I've been missing her a lot. I'm not sure if she still even considers me her "friend." Sometimes I wonder if she still cares about me, because she never picks up her cell when I call... Is there anything I could do?
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Keep on trying to call her and if you do reach her, tell her that you feel as if she's been ignoring you lately and that's making you sad and you wish she could be around a little bit more.
If you get her voicemail, leave a message saying you "really really really wanna talk about something important"
Hope This Helps!
~**~Kalada Leigh~**~
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i dont know whats up with me but lately i have been really sad i dont know why i want it to stop but everytime i think back on stuff i get really sad and the school year is coming to a end and none of my friends are goin to be together and also i get a attitude for w.e my mom or dad tells me to i hate being sad for no reason how can i stop being sad (link)
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You might be depressed.
Try cheering yourself up by always being around people, laughing, and doing all the things you like to do. Also tell your friends and/or parents so they can spend more time with you.
If nothing helps, tell your parents or a trusted adult that you are depressed.
They will help...
Best Wishes!
~**~Kalada Leigh~**~
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My best friend recently cut his wrists and was waiting to die. He's at the hospital, he's okay, and he knows what he did is stupid. This is some serious matter to drop on someone, so I was wondering how to lighten my mood. I'd appreciate any advice that will calm and level myself before I talk to him. (link)
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Think of how glad you are that he made it.
And buy gifts for you and him for having to go through with that.
All The Best!
~**~Kalada Leigh~**~
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alright well me and my friend got into some trouble at the mall cause she convinced me to steal a shirt and i did and got caught and they asked her if she had anything and she did but she lied and said no then they asked her if she had anything to do with me and she lied and said no so i got into trouble for her. and ever since then which was on Tuesday - last week, we have been fighting but like i made this modeling thing and we were talking about it and i kinda miss being friends with her. but i promised my mom and my friends not to be friends with her because she got me into trouble. i need help. i dont know whether to not fight with her and have people dissapointed in me or to just give up on her.. ahh please help =[ (link)
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Okay, I know you miss her, but think about it..... she convinced you to break the law and then ditched you.... is that what a REAL friend does???
My advice is to stay true to your promise and not be friends with her but find someone who can be a true friend.
Best Wishes!
~**~Kalada Leigh~**~
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Is there anything I can find around the house to make my hands softer, besides soap? (link)
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Lotion.
Soap dries out and so does hand sanitizer.
Try to put lotion on your hands everytime after you wash.... even if you use Waterproof Lotion.
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