My friend doesn't live in the same city as me--in fact, it's quite far from where I live. I barely see her anymore. We hardly ever get to talk to her on the phone or online. Lately, I've been missing her a lot. I'm not sure if she still even considers me her "friend." Sometimes I wonder if she still cares about me, because she never picks up her cell when I call... Is there anything I could do?
ellamouse9 answered Monday February 13 2006, 5:53 pm: It's always difficult when people move away from each other...but it's not impossible to remain friends - people do it when they move away to University or college all the time! However it sounds like you're doing all the running which just isn't fair. By all means email her or send her a letter but you may have to accept the fact that your friendship might not last the distance - I lost my best friend of 8 years the same way and it really upset me, but somtimes it is inevitable. If the friendship is doomed then it'll fall apart no matter how much effort you make, so if I were you I'd concentrate on making new friends. Hope I helped :S [ ellamouse9's advice column | Ask ellamouse9 A Question ]
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