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My name is Marissa im 13. Girl. Wanna no more im me :]
Website: http://www.myspace.com/do_not_let_go
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Location: BOSTON
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Age: 13
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okay, the guy i really like just asked me out. yay. but the down side is hes punk. and im prep. i kno i kno it shouldnt matter. but if i go out with him i kno pplz are gonna look at me different, think im different and treat me different. i cant stand it. i really like this guy help me, should i or shouldnt i go out with him??? (link)
If you are reely worrying so much about what PEOPLE think and not what YOU think you reelly dun deserve him


my bf and me have been going out for 2 weeks now. and it just weird. he has already told me that he loves me and everything. i can't stand that and when i told him not to say that, he got kinda upset. so then he told his friend that i said i love you first, and then his friend wants me and him to break up with him. and today when i wrote him a letter about it i was kinda mad. and during the passing period he came right up to me in the big lunch room and started yelling at me infront of god and everybody. i walked away trying not to cry, but when i walked into 3rd period i was balling. he told me later that i started it. and that he is tired of my prissy attitude. what do i do? what would you do? would you stay with him? should i dump him? i like him a lot (link)
You should definetly fart in his face


I am going to a dance tonight. I really want to ask this boy I like. Should I ask him? What should I say? I don't want to ask him around his friends because they are really insenstive and they are jerks. Any ideas? I need help ASAP. Thanks. I will rate. (link)
Lol sorry about that answer. Call him and ask him if he is a nice guy he won't care what his friends think :)


Ok I know that this is really long, and I'm sorry, but if you can please answer that would be soo cool. Ok so I have liked this guy who is kind of a dork for about a year and a half. I haven't told any1 except 1 friend because its really embarrassing. This guy's name is Jamie. Jamie thinks he's really popular but he's really not popular at all and most people think that he's really annoying. He used to like me last year for a while and a lot of people still think that he does but he tells everybody that he likes this girl named Jillian who is PeRfEcT and I mean it she is pretty, nice, funny, athletic and most guys do like her. The problem is he is leaving to go to Hong Kong to stay! I'm not sure if I should tell him that I like him or not because he is the type that would go around telling everybody. I was thinking that I could tell him at the end of his last day but then if he likes me it would suck....If u guys can help me that would be so cool! i rate really well! (link)
souunds like rfr. do what travis did tell him


there's this guy that's 16 that i've liked for awhile i'm only 15 and everything but i'm not sure if something is there. when him and i first started talking we hit it off great but there was another guy in my life that i had been seeing. well he said he didn't want to wait around for me and i told him that i didn't want him to so i didn't hurt him or anything along those lines. well he's told me plenty of times that he's fallig in love with me more and more every time we talk, well when i realized that i had fallen for him he was interested in this other girl and he said that he wanted to see what was btween them which hurt me because i was ready to start something with him. well now it seems like he's running back to me wanting to start something and i'm not sure on what i should do. i like him but i dont know if he's worth my time anymore because i've waited just as long as he's had to wait, and all we seem to do is get into stupid fights and we don't talk as much. what should i do? should i try it or should i move on and just be friends?

thanks
bbyg543 (link)
Let Juliet spread the love ('*\../*'). U are sooooooo lucky. He is wanting you. go to him. He wasnt to go otu with u. u8 want to go out with him. its a dream cum tru for u. WHEN U WISH UPON A STARRRRRRRRRRRRRR MAKES NO DIF FREENCE HOO U RRRRRRRR ANY YOUR HEART DESIRES CAN UMMMMMMM UF SJFK TRUUUUUUUU


okay .. well there is this kid and hes in my geometry class..that's how i met him and i'm a freshmen and he's a sophmore - well we sit next to each other in class and as the days went on we began to talk to each other and he always will take my pens/pencils/purse/book/notebook and not give it back . or if i'm doing work hell scribble all over my paper - after a while he started tlking to me in the halls ramming me in walls er lockers in a playful way - well, i think that i like him and i don't know if he does or how i can find out .. like it seems like it does and a couple people said they tihnk he does .. but i dunno if it's jst his personality .. so i wanna know how i can find out .. please help *i'll rate *

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Let Juliet spread the love ('*\../*'). Ask a firend to ask him if he likes any one and if he says u then ask him out. YOU CAN DO IT. i no u can XD


Well the other night was my 1st night of basketball practice, and i think i made a good but bad impression cause i hit one of my teamates right in the face with a basketball. i said sry like 5 times but i still think she doesnt like me. What should i do to make a good impression? (link)
OMG I WAS THERE I NO U!!!!!!


usual story, im a freshman in high school, girl i like, she is a friend, i really like her, we went out before, but she broke it up, i like her and she likes me, just as pathetic as this is, ive never made out with a girl, hell the only time ive ever gone out with one was with her, i really do like her, just i admit, i dont know how to kiss, and i dont want to go out with her again, being afraid to kiss, so far, i can probably go out with like 5 other girls, one is hotter than her and everything, just i dont know, i like her alot. any ideas on what to do? because ive been in this situation for a LONG time, ever since about 3 weeks before school started, please anone answer because this sitiation really SUCKS (link)
Let Juliett spread the love (*'\../'*). one thing to do. GO RITE UP TO HER AND KISS HER!


ok there's this boy a whole grade younger than me but i like him. and we talk online and sometimes we get into fights but we always end up forgiving eachother by the end of the night lol. but one time i went up to him in school (he was with his friends) and i asked him a question and he said "hey dork (even though im head cheerleader) do i know you?" i was so hurt that i left and everybody started laughing! then later that night he IMed me and said sorry and i said "2 bad u made me feel like crap so apology not accepted" and i blocked him.. was i right 2 do that? or should i give him one more chance? (link)
Let Juliett spread the love (*'\../'*). This boy is stupid! where does this dork get off telling the head cheerleader she is a dork! You could be with any one. If you reely i meen reely like him then talk to him and tell him 1 more chance. its not like he farted and embarasses u this is big


okay there is this girl named Tessie and she is supposedly one of my best friends! well everytime I try to plan something with tessie she always says that she can't do and always seems to have an excuse! what should i do? is she really my friend? she seems to think we are but i don't believe that she is telling me the truth!! i think she is using me What is ur opinion on this?? (link)
Let Juliett spread the love (*'\../'*). OK there are 2 possibilitys. One she is starting not to like you, y i don't no. You should have a convorsation with her. Another possibiliy is thats something reely is wrong. you reely need to sit down and talk.


Hey I've got this faker stealing my pictures and pretending to be me, and its really getting on my nerves. How do I go about telling her about it without lashing out too much? (link)
Let Juliett spread the love (*'\../'*). Omg same thing happened to me. Tell her to stop. You have every right to lash. Thats against the law. If you know her tell her is she doesn't s top u will tell the cops to scare her lol. Hope i helped =D


14/f here, freshman in high school if that helps.

This requires a lot of explanation, so it'll be pretty long- sorry.

I have been going out with a guy, let's call him Bob, since October 18th. I first met Bob in sixth grade Art class, however he was really dorky and being the prep I was, I ignored him. In seventh grade I didn't see him or think about him at all. In eigth grade he was in my health class. I noted he was there and looked vaguely familiar, but didn't think much of him. This year, I saw him again at the Aloha Dance, and he looks much better, basically average. I danced with him and we agreed to meet up again sometime, then the dance ended and we went our seperate ways. Me & my friends were hanging out after school at the library one day when my friend asked who the guy was staring at me. I turned around and there he was! I said hi but that was it. This happened several times over the course of the week. Finally two weeks before the Homecoming Dance he asked me to go with him, and I said yes. I was so thrilled to be asked, I didn't really think about whether I liked him or not. He picked me up for Homecoming with the traditional wristlet, photos, etc. etc. then we went to dinner, and it was pretty quiet. The homecoming dance was fine except for the fact that he insisted on spending all our time with HIS friends- a few times I sneaked off to the "bathroom" just to hang out with mine. Also, he insisted on dancing VERY close. Finally at the end of the night he asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes, once again so happy to be asked I wasn't thinking. That was October 16th and I'm still dating him. There are several problems though.

First off, I DON"T LIKE HIM!!! Not at all. As a friend, yes, but no romantic interest.

Also, he's superpossesive- I never get to spend time with my friends at brunch or lunch. He insists on kissing me in front of my friends, which embarasses them. It just really annoys me.

Third, he's too serious about our relationship- he's told me he loved him (i just smiled), and is talking about PROM! (I'm a freshman, as is he.)

I know I should break up with him, but he's just too nice. Many people have told me I go too far when I try to be kind, and this is the best example. I really don't want to hurt him!

-tinkerbell_7141 (link)
Let Juliett spread the love (*'\../'*). Well I know this will be hard. Obviously u need to tell him. Maybe set him up on a few dates- with people who like him of course. Hopelly he accepts your honesty. Be brave!


There's this guy that I'm going out with, and he likes me alot, and I like him too. However, I know this girl who is not really my friend but sits at our table at lunch, and she isn't very pretty. Anyways, this girl and my boyfriend have a class together, and my friend told me later that the girl was flirting with my boy! She would ask him in a fakishly sweet voice if she could borrow something or other, etc. She also says hi to him whenever she sees him. My boyfriend doesn't like her at all and always ignores her whenever he can. What can I do to stop her from flirting with my guy? (link)
Let Juliet spread the love (*'\../'*). This gurl obviously needs a hint. Just sit and talk with her and your boy. She needs to hear it straight up. Don't worry she knows u r his "girl" and she has no consideration for ur feelings. E-mail or im me if u need meh help.


As a post-election project. My teacher wants each of us to write and give an oral report about which party we support and why.
I am a communist, and communists tend to be frowned upon and I wouldn't feel right not doing it because I'm afraid of what other people would think.
So, should I do it on communism, or just pretend to be a republican? (link)
Let Juliet spread the love (*'\../'*). Listen girl go with communism. Show them what a communism babe can do! If any kids bother you then they arew just boring old farts. I am different too i am communism too. I did a report and nobody bothered me. Even though we r different in belifs we are same in real features. E-mail or im me if you need help!


There is this guy I'm going out with, and theres also this girl that is kind of my friend, though I find her annoying sometimes. Anyways, before we were going out, my friends all dared me to go hug the guy, because everyone knew he liked me. Hugging is no big deal to me, so I did. The other girl went up to me and told me never to hug him again. I asked her why, and she said, "Just don't." So I just shrugged and went away. Some time after that, he asked me out, and the day after we went to a museum on a field trip. My boyfriend bought me a necklace and it was very pretty. I didn't want to make him think I didn't like him, so I pretty much wore it every day. After a week, the girl told me never to wear the necklace again. I asked her why, and she said "Because it bothers me." I got kind of pissed but stayed under control and kept wearing the necklace. The girl obviously likes my man, or she's just jealous that she doesn't have one. How can I tell her that I don't want her butting in all the time? I don't want to cause any fights.

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Let Juliet spread the love (*'\../'*). Ok this gurl needs some love. It seams like she has been admiring this guy for a long time. Maybe you her and your boy should sit and talk. Maybe you can take her on some of your dates. Make her feel comfortable just trying not to get tooo comfortable. E-mail me or im me if you need more help.


me and my dad...dont get along...at all..he takes the simplest things i say..so serious..and all wrong...for instance..the other day we were trying to decide wut to do for lunch...we all decided on something but then he jus had to change his mind. when they asked me i said 'i dont care can we jus go some place cuz im really hungry' his response 'well i dont like your attitude!!' my mom tries to calm him down but his final desicion is 'well i just wont eat then!!' he gets so mad at me for the stupidest things like that..and my mom steps in and tries to resolve it but he ends up mad at the both of us..and when he gets mad..he cusses...last year i went to a school..on the bad side of town(it was a magnet skool..for higher students..but all the peeple hoo lived around there went ther too) so i heard so much language i got sick of it....so one day when he was mad..i asked him not to cuz i hear enough of it everyday..well now..he still cusses..acts like that talk never happened..and he's my sunday skool teacher! and everyone thinks i live the perfect life when its horrible..my dad keeps telling me over and over how we may not have enough money for christmas this year...ive told my mom that i hate when he talks about stuff like that..i guess he thinks im to 'mature'..last sunday..we talked about 'controlling our anger' and he wuz like 'u decide to get angry' well he decides that a whole bunch! i just want to stop the fighting..and my mom and i have sat and cried after some fights..and i want to stop bringing my mom into these fights..i want to stop the fighting..but im not sure how..oh any by the way..im only 12 (link)
Let Juliet spread the love (*'\../'*). well it seams your dad is troubled. Maybe you should go to him and be like you need a counsler, adf if you feel scared ask your mom. As appart from this school I think you should try to get a scholorship to a new school. E-mail or im me in you need any more help




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