Aloha, guys. I am here to help anybody that needs some help, lol. My name's Caydee. It's prounounced like Katie. My cousin thought of the spelling. I hope I can help you guys out and if you wanna know some stuff about me, read on!
Favorites:
Color: Purple
Show(s): That 70's show, Full House, Saturday Night Live
Movie(s): 50 first dates, Ferris Bueller's Day Off
Store: Maurices
Game: Guess Who and SORRY!
Computer Game: The Sims
Musical: Les Miserables, West Side Story, Little Shop Of Horrors
Band: Rainy Day Ollie
Book: Any Princess Diaries book
Author: Joan Bauer and Meg Cabot
Okay, well now that you know some stuff about me, ask away because I am here to help everyone out.
E-mail: stars_n_bars17@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Wisconsin
Occupation: Student
Age: 13
AIM: Save Ferris7717
Member Since: January 2, 2005
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Last Update: June 20, 2005
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i just bought certain dri last night and i put it on and my armpits started tinglinng and itching and first but then they stopped... is this normal/ok?
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Yeah, that happens with certain dri. I don't like that brand because it did it to me too. I switched to Lady Speed Stick, but yeah. So thats about it! It happenes with that deoderant. Hope I helped!
-Caydee
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Okay, so I eat good, I have gym class every day so I exercise5 times a week for and hour and a half, yet i'm still pretty fat. I mean I'm not obese. I'm about 150, but I'm 5'8. Al my friends are really skinny though so in comparison to them i'm huge. I don't want to hurt myself with an eating disorder or anything and I don't have time to exercise anymore, but what can I do? (link)
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You sound like you're keeping control to me. Maybe try giving up junk food for a month and then reward yourself with a candy bar or night out with your pals. Something like that. I'm glad that you don't want to have an eating disorder, but I think you sound perfectly fine. I think sometimes that I can be kinda pudgy too but then I think about how I eat and exercise and stuff and it all seems okay. But like I said, you sound really healthy and I don't think you should worry about your weight. Maybe if you try what I suggested before you might be happier with your weight. I hope I helped you out at least a bit.
-Caydee
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I got my ears pierced at Claires 8 weeks ago. My left ear lobe started hurting and bleeding a teeny bit and shedding skin from the back when i changed into my second pair of sensitive earrings. What's wrong with my ear?? Is it infected?? It's a teeny bit red withthat white thingy and when you squeeze it it hurts a teeny bit. What should I do? I RATE 5'S (link)
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When i got my third piercing on my ear, I changed the earings (I cleaned my twice a day and twisted them twice a day too) and my ear bled too. It wasn't that bad or anything. My mom told me it was pretty normal and to just not touch it and clean it and just make sure its okay. So I think you're fine! Hope I helped ya!
-Caydee
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what is a bikini wax. and im a girl. am i supposed to shave the hair off.. down there?
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Well you don't have to shave your pubic area if you don't want to; a bikini wax is where you get your bikini line waxed. The bikini line is where your underwear is under, lol, its a bit hard to explain. It's up to you and I hope I helped.
-Caydee
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hey! i wanna get my cartilage pierced. i know that straight guys are supposed to get their ears done on the left side. are straight girls supposed to get it on the left side too? thanks! (link)
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It shouldn't matter! If you know that you're straight, you're straight! It's up to you and you shouldn't care about that kinda crap because it's pretty stupid if you ask me. So do what you want to do!
-Caydee
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is it normal to have ur pierod for only a day?? (link)
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Of course it is. I know some girls whos periods last 6 days, 3 days, 2 days, and some even one. Your period can last for however long. Nothing to worry about-you're safe!
-Caydee
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okay- i have been getting cramps, and i have that "discharge" stuff.. am i getting my period?? (link)
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Sounds like it! Nothing to worry about though, just put on a pad or a tampon and you'll be fine.
-Caydee
PS: I'd reccomend a pad for your first time...Tampons might hurt
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i have a boyfriend.. we'll call him R. R and i have been dating for 7 months. The first 5 months were great! He's been starting to hit me, he kicked me, and I fell and I had a bump on my head last week. Last night he tried suffocating me. I've also been told about him flirting with about 5 other girls at school. 2 of them are some of my best friends. Oh, by the way, I'm only a freshman in high school. He's a sophomore. But anyway, I'm so sick of hearing about him doing other stuff with girls. He told me if i ever broke up with him, he'd ruin my life. What am I supposed to do? I am scared of him, but he'll do crap to ruin my life (believe me, he's done it to many.. trashed reps.. everyone hates that person, etc.) but what can i do? please help! i'm scared (link)
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Oh my god! Tell somebody! You have to do it now before he hurts you even worse. He's doing something illegal and you have got to tell your parents and get his parents and possibly even the police involved. You'll be okay if you tell somebody but if you don't the abuse will go on and it'll be so bad. I really hope that things get better for you.
-Caydee
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Hey! Im looking into seeing broadway shows, i love watching them and i was wondering if anyone had some they'd like to recomend!?
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WICKED! I don't know if you mean broadway shows going on now or not, but i totally reccomend that you see Wicked or at least read the book. Sorry! I feel bad that I don't know whether you're talking about ones going on now or not, but I really don't know because I don't live in New York, but I hope I helped you out.
-Caydee
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I'm really scared. I will soon have to have 2 teeth pulled! I was wondering how much it hurts, can you feel them actually pulling the teeth out, and how long it takes for it to stop hurting after you get them pulled. Please help! I'm really scared!!! I rate 5's by the way. (link)
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Well, I had four teeth pulled at once and I'm soon getting three at once too. Unfortuate, huh? Anways they gave me a shot that stung for a few seconds and then it was fine. They just yanked out the teeth and the last one hurt because it didn't want to come out, I don't know why, lol. But I ate soft foods for a couple of days. It was a little hard to start eating hard things, but once I started, I couldn't stop. You might want to sleep with a towel over your pillow in case you bleed at night which can happen but it's not serious or anything. Your gums will probably be sore for like 3 or four days but thats about it! I hope I helped you out and good luck!
-Caydee
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Hi, I am 13 going on 14 and i weigh about 106 lbs. give or take two. Is that fat? Bc i really feel fat and i feel like there is nothbing i can do.
What are some ways to lose like 10 lbs but staying healthy!
Ill rate high!
PLease Help!!!
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No way! You're not fat and you seem to be just the right weight. I'm your age too and I weigh 100. I promise, you're fine. And if you really want to lose weight or eat healthy, buy healthy cereal and fruits and veggies. I don't know if you participate in Lent but you could try to give up sweets. Just an idea though. You're not fat and I hope I helped!
-Caydee
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I was wondering if anyone has seen the movie meet the fockers? because me and my friend want to go to it but we dont know if its worth paying for thanks (link)
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You should defintely go! Its hilarious! I saw it and you'll love it, i know i did!
-Caydee
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where can i get love icons im not talking exactly v-days or antyhing but a good icon site for aim (link)
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www.buddyputty.com-It rocks and I get all my icons there!
-Caydee
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I've figured out that i am bi...but i am a christian..and i realize how wrong it is...and i hate myself for it...im trying to change myself.....but its hard for me to completely stop liking guys....but its so wrong...in the bible it says that doing stuff with another guy is an abomination..and they should be destroyed..that scares me..so i am trying to fight it off..i have a gf...and she's helping me thru it too...but my ? is...is it really wrong to be bi?.. (link)
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Hey, don't beat yourself up about being bi. Its not that big of a deal, I promise. You are you, nothing or nobody has the power to change that. I promise, nothing is wrong with being bi or gay. Your girlfriend's there for you and so are we...so we promise, nothing's wrong with being bi and you shouldn't change yourself because something said to. You are YOU.
-Caydee
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I'm a chick.. I always stay with my best friend when she is home alone.. latly she has been asking me to experiment with her.. we have made out/french kissed.. you know, nothing "down there".. but she asked me if I ever wanted to experiment "dowthere" so we did.. just fingering.. but now she wants to emo.. what the fuck do I do?!?! (link)
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Well, if you don't wanna do that kinda stuff with her, tell her the truth! You could say that you don't feel comfortable doing that sort of thing and you'd rather just forget about experimenting and be friends like the old times (you don't exactly have to use that phrase, lol). You'd want to be told the truth, and so does your friend, so tell her and good luck! Hope I helped...
-Caydee
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My dog just died today and I'm soooo sad! =( She didn't suffer, thank god, but I just can't get over it. She was the greatest dog, and I love her so much. What can I do to feel better?
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Oh, I know exactly how you feel. To tell you the truth, there isn't a way to ease the pain you feel. But you can look at pictures of her and think of fun times and try to distract yourself. Read, go on the computer, listen to music, take a nap, make a scrapbook (of her or you or work on yours if you already have one). I'm so sorry, if you need anybody to talk to you, gimme a message in the inbox or IM me. *Caydeepie*
~*Caydee*~
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15/f I get really chapped lips, but they don't crack or anything, they just get sore and red and sometimes itchy. They flake too. So anyway, I've tried loads of different chapsticks and stuff, even blisteze which is a really good medical thing to use. It's really annoying me cuz I can't wear lip gloss or anything, plus they itch and I get red bits around my lips too. Does anybody know what's up with them? (link)
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First, this could mean that you are dehydrated, so bring on the water! Drink water a lot and keep wearing blistex and buy Aquaphor and put it on your lips after you put on blistex. You can probably get aquaphor at the store. Hope I helped ya!
~*Caydee*~
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hey caydee,
well i got these two best friends of mine and i've known the one since bout the fourth grade about and the other the fifth grade well now my friend from both grades wheni met them are becoming realy close and even though i've known one of them longer she said she can talk to the other one more then me in a way cuz i dont know i feel very left out like they are hiding something from me ya know? so what should i do? thanks
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Dear Sad and depressed,
I think I know who you are. If this is who I think it is, this is what I have to say: We're not hiding anything from you...and I want to talk to you privately, so please IM me, because the last time my friends did this (and it was you know who (M), it caused problems.
If this isn't who I think it is, you NEED to talk to your friends while they are both together. Tell them what you told me. Tell them the way you feel and that you want to not feel like this anymore. Talking always helps. After all, they may just be planning a huge surprise, lol. But please talk them and tell me how it goes!
~*Caydee*~
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I don't know what to do for my friends 13th birthday(dont worry im 14) any ideas? she wants me to throw her one (link)
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You should totally throw her party! Invite all of her friends and boys if you want too. Have fun games to do like Twister and Limbo and stuff like that...You can even search online for fun games...Have out a bunch of snacks and chips and candy. And get her a cute cake (You can try to get a celebrity picture on it or cartoon character), and be sure to get ice cream! Hope All goes well!
~*Caydee*~
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what are some really good recipes like desserts? that are good for teenagers to cook and easy for us to make. we need to make alot of things for this lil party deal (link)
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M&M cookies, chocolate chip cookies, brownies with frosting or powdered sugar, ice cream sandwiches-just get those choclate graham crackers, put whipped cream on one of them and then put the other cracker on top and freeze em-, Jell-O? LOL, it's fast and it only takes like 8 hours to freeze. You can go the the store and buy stuff like oreos or little debbie snacks..you know? Good luck, and if you keep asking questions like this, I'm gonna be soooo hungry!
~*Caydee*~
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